Sunday Homily 6-21-09, 12th Ordinary Time
Readings: Job 38, 1-11; Psalm 107, Give Thanks to the Lord, his Love is Everlasting; 2 Corinthians 5, 14-17; Mark 4, 35-41
Today: You see the story in the papers about Jake Fleming? 20 year old UCLA student & tennis player, in town to visit best friend at SMU, part of group going to a concert at Fair Park, after the concert another group of white kids argue & one kid sucker punches Jake, he falls & hits his head on the street, is in an induced coma now because of bleeding inside his skull. This kid bad? He was planning on teaching little kids tennis during the summer. Why do bad things happen? Why suffering? This is why the story of Job got put together.
The Story: Job is a good man, pious, married, affluent, 7 boys, 3 girls, obeys the Lord & his laws. Satan makes a bet with Yahweh: you take away Job's goodies, he will curse you. "Deal," says Yahweh.
Shortly after that, one day servants come to tell Job: 1. rustlers have taken his cattle & killed his servants; 2. lightning has killed his sheep & shepherds; 3. more rustlers took his camels & killed their caretakers; 4. a storm has killed his 10 kids. Job does not curse. In fact, he makes the famous statement: "Naked I entered the world, naked I leave. Blessed be the name of the Lord."
Satan then proposes another bet with Yahweh: let me afflict him bodily, he will curse you. "Deal," says Yahweh. Job is struck with leprosy and is expelled to the trash heap outside the town. Job does not curse Yahweh, but he does say, "God, put a curse on the day I was born."
Then Job's wife and three friends all attack him, basically telling him to just die, because he is obviously a bad man. Job says, "No, I've done nothing wrong." Eventually he is rewarded by Yahweh, lives 140 more years and has 7 more sons and 3 daughters, plus more wealth.
How many questions do you have? How does a person's badness or goodness effect the bad things in his life? Bad things don't happen to good folks? That is the main proposition of Job, they do. How about Yahweh making bets with Satan? What about a Satan?
Author: not Moses. A compilation of sources.
Structure: a central poetic section with a prose entry and a prose exit. Perhaps the happy ending was also added. Again, a parable, a fable, a myth, not history.
Date: the present form was probably put together after the famous Babylonian Exile, i.e., ca. 550 BCE.
Our Selection: after Job complains, Yahweh responds rather critically, saying, "Who do you think you are," and, "Do you forget who I am?"
Sources: Fr. William Most on line, Good News Bible, Wikipedia
All Pro Dad
Being dads' day I have one story about my dad and 3 ideas about how to be an all pro dad.
I do not know how we all survive adolescence, folks. When I was a bratty teen-ager, my dad knew that anything he would say I would discount. One of my best friends was pretty much the same way, my friend Pete, who was at the wedding, the FBI guy.
So my dad and Pete's dad made an arrangement where the four of us went out to eat at a restaurant once in a while. I would talk with his dad while Pete would talk with my dad.
I admired his dad because he had worked in the FBI and was an exec at the local Chance Vought Air Plane company. I still remember him telling me, "You can't fight city hall, John." I guess I was, at school and in the neighborhood.
Suggestion 1: take the kid out for the special meal, just the two of you or with his/her pal & dad. How often? Maybe seasonally. Then ask normal questions, how you doing, how is school, how is life at home? What do you like best, your best friend? Listen & converse.
Suggestion 2: family meal, ideally 6-7 days a week, at least 3-4. Again, ask normal questions, listen & converse.
Suggestion 3: be a fun person by creating fun things to do, go camping, go to the beach, go canoing (down the Trinity), do a late night Baskin Robbins trip, bike (around White Rock or the Dallas & Plano trails), cook (like my dad used to make a cake every Saturday afternoon & he saved the bowls for me to lick clean).
So, how are you going to be an all pro dad? All Pro Person?
Source (which I edited considerably): All Pro Dad (a helpful weekly service for dads), http://www.allprodad.com/playbook/viewarticle.php?art=5
AUDIO: http://mysite.verizon.net/reso7rjy/sitebuildercontent/sitebuilderfiles/2009-06-21.mp3
Picture 1: Dads Tony & Jerry, plus other suspects
Picture 2: Dads Mike, Tom, & Ray
Picture 3: Dads Charlie, Ray, & Tom
Picture 4: Julie & Doug at 23 years