Sunday Homily, October 20, 2013, 29th Ordinary Time C

 

Mike 10-20-13

Mike helping us with the persistent widow.

Readings: 

Exodus 17, 8-13  Joshua mowed down Amalek and his people with the edge of the sword.

Psalm 121,  Our help is from the Lord, who made heaven and earth.

2 Timothy 3, 14-4, 2,  Remain faithful to what you have learned.

Luke 18, 1-8, Because this widow keeps bothering me I shall deliver a just decision for her.  

 

Grace 10-20-13

Grace enters, sans bike.

 

Introduction to Exodus:

 Recall that the Book
of Genesis ends with the Israelites still in Egypt.  When the Book of Exodus begins, a new Pharaoh
ordered that all newly born Hebrew males were to be thrown into the Nile River
to die, for he feared the sheer number of the Israelites. The Egyptian men
would continue to take their young women and use them as slaves, the older
would die, and the Israelites would vanish from the face of the
earth—genocide.  


Cole 10-20-13

Cole ready to take off.

The inspired writers tell us that God had something else in
mind.  He used Moses, who had been hidden
at birth, to have Pharaoh change his mind and set the Israelites free.  The ensuing journey of the Israelites to
receive the Law, a covenant with God, and finally their own land is presented
in the rest of the first five books of the Bible.

 

That journey would take forty
years.   Our First Reading from the Book
of Exodus is from the first month of that journey.  

The reading from Second Timothy is also part
of today’s theme of having faith in God.

 

Georgie 10-20-13

Georgie ready for service.

 

Homily

 Jesus presented a
parable to his disciples to teach them to pray always. Widows, along with the
orphans, are the poorest of the poor.  The
widow who had been ripped off in our gospel was from apparently a very small
village.   The judge is her worst
nightmare!  He does not respect God or
neighbor. He’s unwilling to even listen to her.

 However, we are told
that she doesn’t lose heart.   Why?  Because Jesus’ words have taught her that
women do have rights and power, and that ‘one with God is a majority.’  In faith she perseveres; and her prayer is
answered.  


Cupcake A 10-20-13

Cupcakes of The Week to Bill and CC (on opposite edges of the age spectrum).

 

I visualize her using a walking stick as she comes to the
gate of the village where this judge arrogantly resides for business.  Each day she stands a little closer to him as
she speaks; and each day, to the judge, the size and appearance of her walking
stick becomes a little larger and more ominous. 
Finally, standing very close to him one day, he decides that he will
deliver her a just decision so that she will not strike him! 


Cupcake B 10-20-13

Harper accepting Cathy's Cupcake of the Week.

Jesus states that his Father will bring justice to those who
put their faith in him.  But today’s
parable story ends with the question, ‘When the Son of Man comes in his glory
will he find faith on earth. 


Offertory 10-20-13

Offertory, Brent and Meredith.

The answer was given by the poor widow of the parable.  His faithful bride, who prays without ceasing,
who listens to, and obeys his words, will be waiting for him when he comes in
glory.


Harper 10-20-13

Harper happy with that Cupcake.

Today, as always, we have come together to be united in
prayer. We have come to pray without ceasing, and in everything give thanks,
for that is God’s will for us in Christ Jesus.’  


Robyn-Brian 10-20-13

Robyn and Brian .

 

This Liturgy is the Prayer of the People of God, and it
joins us at this moment with people celebrating it all over this world as we
ask the Spirit to come upon us through the Gospel and the Bread about to be
blessed and broken. 


Leo W 10-20-13

Mr. Leo, the photogenic.

 

We are Christ’s body
especially when we join our hands and raise them toward God in prayer with the
words that Christ taught us
to bring about his kingdom by forgiving others,
like the unjust judge, as we have been forgiven.

 

Ro 10-20-13

Rosemary with her blessing.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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    Subject today: better times will come.  I am expanding today’s passage, because it is so good.

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    This morning I would like to talk about how Jesus is said to describe how the farmer’s seed is scattered on four different types of ground, the path, the rocks, the thorns, and the fertile.  Where did your seed fall?  Where did my seed fall?  I’m sure a lot of volunteers would be happy to let me know where my seed fell.

    If you are a sinful gambler poker player you would look at this explanation and notice the bad odds, one out of four.  I would propose, however, that we all landed on fertile soil.  Let me offer some examples. 

    I’ve shared this example once before, so you might remember it, but probably not. 

     

    John

    Cupcake of The Week to John on his birthday.

     

    When I was a little kid about 5 years old, I was playing in the driveway of our house in University Park.  There were no fences and the drive went from the street, through the space between our house and the neighbor’s, and to the back up against the alley. 

    The neighbor was Sam Berger, who owned a hat store in downtown Dallas.  He was Jewish and lived next to us all during the Holocaust.  I was oblivious to it all.  He & his wife had a big black lady who not only worked in the house, but lived in the back in an apartment attached to the garage, the servant quarters.  This black lady was not nice to me.

     

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      John 1

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    Readings:  

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     1 Kings, 19, 4-8, Get up and eat, else the journey will be too long for you.

     Psalm 34, Taste and see the Goodness of rhe Lord

    Ephesians 4, 30-5, 2, Be imitators of God and live in love.

    John 6, 24-35, I am the bread of life. 

    Beginning 8-12-12

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    Leo 8-12-12

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    I could not see Rosemary & Aviana, but I know Rosemary well enough.  She can cope & would be okay. 

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    Lying on that floor in the middle of a crowd in the middle of the night, I considered chucking the remainder of our trip.  So much of what we had was soaked.

    Cath 8-12-12

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    Thirdly, taste & see the goodness of the Lord.  I love this line and what it calls me to.   I could savor the goodness some at the time.  But I had a list later with Rosemary. 

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    The cooler temperatures and the needed rain, which produced a glorious day.

    The evacuation so peacefully accepted by so many, and especially the Lutheran Church, which was so gracious.

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    Folks, we take bunches of trips in our lives.  We taste & see the goodness of the Lord every day.  Occasionally we have an adventure like Marshalltown.   At the time of the adventure and even more so later, we really taste & see the Goodness.

    What happened the last time you really tasted and really saw the Goodness?

     

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    I would suggest that we, too, are challenged to present ourselves to others with our special gifts.  What are the gifts? 

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    For the Altar Bread, Ray & Claire Occhipinti

    For Serving, Carmen & Ashley

    For the Altar & donuts, Margie Dugan & Jackie Ritter

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    For ushering & all sorts of jobs, Cliff Wright

    For the music, Ray & Shonda, Roy, Hue, Rick & Jackie

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    The Church for the Feast of the Holy Family is generous in offering us several readings to choose from.  I have selected for our First ReadingFirst Samuel 1:20-22, 24-28, and the Letter to the Colossians 3: 12-17 as our Second Reading, the Gospel is from Luke 2: 41-52.

     

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    Zoe 12-27-09

     

    Picture 1:  Tony Begins the Mass of the Holy Family

     

    Picture 2:  Vivian Miller's baptism

     

    Picture 3:  Vivian's family

     

    Picture 4:  The Beautiful Zoe

     

    : Great clip on the Nativity Drama (if pressing the arrow does not start the video, move the red dot)
     

     

     

  • Sunday Homily, October 28, 2012, 30th Ordinary Time B

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    Jeremiah  31, 7-9,   Shout with joy.

    Psalm 126,   The Lord has done great things for us, we are filled with joy.

    Hebrews 5, 1-6,   Every high priest is taken from among men and made their representative before God.

    Mark 10, 46-52,  Bartimaeus, a blind man, sat by the road begging. 

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    Who:  one of the Big 3 Prophets, 52 chapters, the “broken hearted prophet,” because he hated being so unpopular and having to condemn so much. 

    Baruch, Jeremiah’s scribe seems to be who put down the prophet’s message.   Jeremiah probably died in Egypt.

    When: put together before & during the B.C., Babylonian Captivity, say 575 before Christ  (reminder, Babylon is near present day Bagdad, Iraq).

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    Welcome, Leo

    Interesting Side Note: (another reminder) can you guess when the Genesis story of creation in 7 days was composed?  Biblical research reveals that the creation story was put together during the Captivity, this same time, i.e. ca. 575.

    Why?  The priests & prophets (e.g., Ezekiel) of the Jews in captivity determined that the people would not be assimilated into the local gene pool as their cousins in the northern kingdom had done when made to live with the Assyrians.  They decided they would establish customs & religious practices that would make the Jews so different they would not intermarry.  Three special laws were established: 1.  male circumcision; 2. dietary laws and laws about not touching menstruating women; and 3. the Sabbath.

    The priests put together the 7 day creation story to suggest that Yahweh approved of their Sabbath law.  They had Yahweh rest on the 7th day to bolster their demand that all Jews take a day off every 7 days.  Before the Babylonian Captivity there was no legislated Sabbath and no myth of Yahweh creating the world in 7 days with the 7th being a day of rest.  So, now you know when the story was created & by whom, the priests, and why, to keep the Jews united vs the Babylonians.  It worked, even down to today.

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    Subject: the usual prophet message—condemn, pay, peace.

    Today: Beautiful message of peace and consolation.  It is coming.

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    Leo and Cole

     She Danced through Life

    Rosemary & I had the privilege and the honor Thursday to attend the funeral of another noble woman & friend, like Joan, Colleen Romero. 

    I calculate that Rosemary & I have known Colleen and her husband for ten years.  We certainly knew them for a couple of years before we got married in 05/05/05.   You will never guess how we met them.  Dancing.

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    Zoe receiving her birthday cupcake of the week, 4 years old today, Sunday

     Somewhere along the line, a group of us noticed that Plano Parks provided a whole variety of adult classes, among them dancing.  So Rosemary & I, Gilberto & Bernadette, Beth & Rob , and some others, we all decided, “Let’s go learn to dance.”  And so we met Colleen and Fred.

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    Sophia

    They were our teachers.  They were elegant, charming, and fun.  I danced with Colleen a number of times.  I would ask Fred how I was learning some special dance.  He would laugh.  Then Colleen would guide me to a point where I got it.

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     This is the first thing I see when I remember Colleen.  She danced through life, charming, elegant, smiling, and having fun.  She and Fred were even running dance classes at St. Gabriel parish for adults who had Parkinson’s or coordination problems. 

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    Nikki and Cameron with Sophia with their birthday cupcakes of the week, 12 years old.

    A  second aspect to Colleen I saw recently.  It was a few weeks back when I got a notice that Colleen was not doing well and was in the hospital.   We had not seen her and Fred for months, maybe a year.  She had been struggling with various joint problems for some time, but this was supposed to be serious.

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    Jessica home from Boston

    So, I called her straight up.  She answered.  She sounded groggy and stressed.  In fact, she was experiencing nausea.  So I made it quick, saying I loved her and sent her all my support.  She said this may be her time and that she was okay about it.

    A few more days go by and I get another note saying that the word is this really is it.  This time we get in the car and go visit her at Medical City Plano. 

    I walk in and find her looking and sounding great.  However, she says this is truly her time, that she wants no special treatment, and that she is totally ready.  She was in that acceptance stage we talk about in stages of dying, the stage of peace.  

    Cathy 10-28-12

    Cathy just before receiving blessing for her foot operation

    Colleen was not like Mark’s Bartimaeus today.  She was not blind.  She could see.  She danced her way through life and when her time approached, she accepted it. 

    Like I asked with Joan, how have you been blessed by people like Colleen?