Sunday Homily, November 23, 2014, Christ the King

Readings:

 Ezekiel, 34, 11-12, 15-17, As a shepherd tends his flock when he finds himself among his scattered sheep, so will I tend my sheep. 

 Psalm 23,   The Lord is my shepherd, there is nothing I shall want. (good one)

1 Corinthians 15, 20-26, 28,  Christ has been raised.

Matthew 25, 31-46,  He will place the sheep on his right and the goats on his left.

 

Emma 1

Emma says, "Hi, Everybody, Welcome in."

 

Ezekiel  observations and reminders:

I've mentioned how Ezekiel is one of the Big 3 Prophets, #3 after Isaiah & Jeremiah, 48 chapters vs 66 in Isaiah.  I also mentioned how he lived smack dab in the middle of one of the two or three biggest tragedies of the Jewish people, the Babylonian captivity, say 555 before Christ.  He was there.

In American history we can look back and identify special presidential leaders, Washington, Lincoln, Roosevelt.  They came forward in crisis times. 

Ezekiel was this type of leader in Jewish history.  He saw what had happened to other Jews of the northern province of Israel (Jerusalem is in the southern province of Judah) after they had been carted off as slaves after a defeat by the Assyrians (Syria still).  They intermarried and simply disappeared in the DNA of the middle east.

Ezekiel is in Babylon and is determined that his community would not lose its identity.  He did three things to help maintain the spirit of the community: he emphasized  1. observance of the Sabbath, 2. kosher diet, and 3. male circumcision.

 

Harper 1

Harper says, "Cupcake of The Week time yet?"

 

Eventually after ca. 50 years the community still was a cohesive unit and it returned to rebuild Jerusalem, at least the second or third generation.  The Jews are one of the few peoples to be defeated and scattered, and still return to their original homeland.  They remained there until the Romans defeated them in 70 C.E., returning when?  1948, after the Holocaust.

Today's reading comes to us from an Ezekiel captive in Babylon, and has Ezekiel promising the people a return, a brighter day after the captivity.  He uses the figure of speech, I will.  But I is Yahweh. 

Note on both Ezekiel, Psalm 23, and Matthew: There are two consoling readings this morning, Ezekiel and Psalm 23, The Lord is my Shepherd, there is nothing I shall want.  

At the very end of Ezekiel’s consoling passage and in Matthew there is talk of the sheep and goats.  Beware of taking this literally.  This is either/or spirituality.  Guess what: we are all goats.  I see heaven full of both sheep and goats.  And I can’t find any evidence of hell.

 

Leo

Guess who. How about Leo?

 

 Thanksgiving History: Everyone knows about the first Thanksgiving in 1602 with the Pilgrims and the Indians eating together, the Mayflower, and Plymouth Rock.  

When did our Thanksgiving begin?  Our ancestors have celebrated end of harvest feasts of gratitude for centuries.  Lincoln first focused on a national feast; FDR established the national holiday in 1941. 

 

 

Leo & Shonda 2

Leo and his mom, Shonda.

 

Thanksgiving

This morning I would like to talk about Thanksgiving and in particular I would like to tell you about my top three blessings of the year.

Rosemary & I have a habit at the end of the year of writing down all our blessings and gifts of the year.  We usually begin tagging them at Thanksgiving.  And since she is in Princeton, NJ, for her niece’s wedding, I get to say things about her I would not admit if she were here. 

Looking back over the year I have a ton of blessings, but in particular I have three I would like to mention.

 

Zoe & Friend

Zoe & friend.

 

Guess what number One is.  Yep, Rosemary.  I know, and Rosemary reminds me frequently, yes, I married up.  But this marriage  with Rosemary is one of the 3 biggest blessings of my whole life.  10 years in East Africa and my Jesuit career are the other 2. 

You people should have told me how good it can be.  I know, for sure,  all of you gave Rosemary about a year before she had enough of the old geezer bachelor.  However, because of living in community my 40 odd years as a Jesuit I really never was a bachelor.  I loved living in a community with other guys, like in a fraternity.   But it does not come close to life with Rosemary.  And this May we celebrate 10 years. 

 

 

Buddy & hats

Buddy at the hat making shop.

 

My third blessing of the year is my splendid summer filled with fun events.  It started, as usual, with our 5 Boro bike tour of NY with the McGinn family reunion.  The next big one was the bike ride across Iowa with Bill Hammond and about 15 thousand others.  This event is like 8 days of 4th of July, all the little towns overflowing with spirit and hospitality.  I just try to slow the clock down and absorb it all.

Then comes the Hotter ‘N Hell Hundred bike ride the last Saturday of August, out of Wichita Falls.  This takes preparation and planning on how to survive.  Finishing that event produces such a spirit high in me.

 

 

Victoria

Victoria looking for a Thanksgiving hat.

 

Then in September came our 8 night back pack trip in Yosemite, my favorite National Park among all the ones I have seen.  This was as fun as ever, the campfires, the meals, the views, the quickie bath in the cold river or stream after a sweaty hike, and the exhilaration of climbing into my tent and and into my down sleeping bag on a near freezing night at about 10 thousand feet.

Finally there was the Viking River cruise on the Danube with Rosemary.  I love riding trains.  But, listening to the water swish by our cabin window beat the train by a mile.  And more beauty.

Can summer get better than this?

 

 

Stffed animal give away

The Great Stuffed Animal swap.

 

And the final blessing, number two, this marvelous community, you people.  When I departed to get married, I never expected to be doing this, especially 10 years later.  I thought it was over.  You people are a treasure in my life and I will continue to celebrate with you like this until I get called to the heavenly homestead.  You are so much fun and make my life so rich.  Thank you.

And your Blessings of The Year? 

 

 

Stuffed animal give away 2

Thanksgiving for Stuffed Animals.

 

 

Similar Posts

  • Sunday Homily, February 2, 2014, Presentation, Cycle A

    Readings:

    Malachi  3, 1-4,  Yes, he is coming, says the Lord.

    Psalm 24,  Who is this kind of glory?  It is the Lord.

    Hebrews,  2, 14-18,  That he might be a merciful and faithful high priest.

    Luke  2, 22-40, Mary and Joseph took Jesus up to the temple to present him to the Lord.

     

    Zoe

    Zoe says, "Welcome, Everybody."

    Homily by Mike

    Helen Roberta Marina Lazio was the woman that my Father married. What do I remember most about my mother? She loved to pray. She said the whole rosary every day of the last 25 years of her life.  The Joyful Mysteries were her favorites for they fit well with her prayer to Mary. 

    Recall that the Hail Mary begins with words from the angel Gabriel [Hail Mary full of grace; the Lord is with you] at the Annunciation event and are followed by Elisabeth’s greeting to Mary at the beginning of the Visitation [Blessed are you among women; and blessed is the fruit of your womb]. 

     

    Leo-John

    Leo & John saying, "Come in, it's fun here."

     

    The first two chapters of the Luke gospel give us the Joyful Mysteries: the Annunciation, the Visitation, the Birth of Our Lord, the Presentation, and the Finding of the boy Jesus in the Temple. Today’s Feast of the Presentation happens to be the fourth Joyful Mystery. 

    To help us understand more fully today’s feast, let us take a short journey within the two chapters. It begins with the story about Zechariah and Elizabeth.  They are both Levites and he is also a priest. They are righteous before God and keep all the commandments of the Law; however she is barren. 

     

    Mike

    Mike talking about the Presentation.

     

    They represent Judaism that is not bearing fruit, they pray for its fulfillment and God hears their prayer. Their son will be John the Baptist, the messenger of our first reading.  Gabriel is now sent to Mary to announce that she will give birth to a Messiah king, and she comes to realize that the fruit she will bear fulfills the yearning and expectation of his coming given within the Law, the Prophets and the Psalms. 

     

    Offertory

    Offertory, Joe, Jimmy, Doug, Mike and Cliff, a rough crew.

     

    Gabriel tells Mary that her elderly cousin Elizabeth is not longer barren, and immediately she sets off to visit her.  Elizabeth greets Mary with the words, ‘Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb.’  Elizabeth and Zechariah know that Mary is to give birth to the Messiah, and they reveal the role of John the Baptist to prepare the people for his coming.   Now, recall the words of Christ, the Good Shepherd to Peter at the end of the John gospel. Three times he says, ‘Feed my Lambs.’

     

    Tori-Gil

    Time to wake up, Tori, with her grandfather, Gil.

     

    Lambs in the Gospel are those who have heard the words of the Good Shepherd and follow him.  So, we are now presented in the Luke gospel shepherds who are watching over their flock, lambs, when angels make them aware that the Christ child will be found in a feeding trough, a manger, wrapped in stripes of cloth, a shroud.

    The shepherds are to perceive the Christ child as the Suffering Servant and Lamb of God of the Good News. The Word and the Bread blessed and broken are food for the lambs. The feast of the birth of Christ [Christ Mass is the Christ Liturgy] is a feast of the liturgy the Word and the liturgy of the Eucharist: food for the soul.

     

    Buddy

    Buddy looking for that Cupcake of The Week.

     

    The Christ child [the Word and Sacred Meal that fulfilled the written expectation of the Law, Prophets and Psalms] in the feeding trough, the Church, is now intimately understood by Simeon in the temple when he says Isaiah’s words, ‘My eyes perceive the salvation which God has prepared for the nations, a light to enlighten the gentiles and the glory of your people Israel.’  

     

    Cole-Diane

    Cowboy Cole and Diane ready to get inside out of the cold.

     

     In that same way we are to manifest the Word and the Bread blessed and broken in our lives, to become the Body of Christ in the world!  Liturgically we put on Christ to become the Light of the World when we are baptized in the Holy Spirit, receive a baptismal robe, and a candle lit from the Easter candle.  

    Remember the song, ‘This little light of mine…’ Recall the Matthew verses of a baptismal liturgy: "You are the Light of the World. A city built on a hilltop cannot be hidden, and no one lights a lamp to put it under a bushel, they put it on the lampstand, where it gives light to all who are in the house.  In that same way, let your light shine before men so that seeing your good works they too may give glory your Father who in heaven.

     

    Brent

    Brent, the Soul's Harbor director, receiving $2000 from our community.


              

     

     

  • Sunday Homily, August 17, 2014, 20th Ordinary Time

    Readings:

    Isaiah  56, 1-7,  I will bring them to my holy mountain.

     Psalm 67,   Oh, God, Let all the nations praise you.

    Romans1, 13-15, 29-32  I am speaking to you Gentiles.

    Matthew  15, 21-28,  It is not right to take the food of the children and throw it to the dogs.

     

    Kevin

    Kevin says, "Hi, Everybody, Welcome."

    Isaiah 56 observations:

    As soon as you see Isaiah, chapter 56, you know some things, if you are into the study of the Bible and especially  of Isaiah, my favorite.

    1.  Isaiah 56 is Isaiah 3, chapter 56-66, the end of the book of Isaiah.
    2.  Isaiah 3 is put together after the Babylonian Captivity, that is, around 555 before Christ.
    3.  The Israelites have returned to Jerusalem, a totally destroyed, depressed city.
    4. Therefore, it is plausible to expect Isaiah 3 to be trying to lift up the spirits of the people.  This he does, consoling the people with promises of a better time.   Note: the better days are conditional on good behavior.  Ever think of how our whole redemption story is conditional? Not much unconditional love.   In other words, if you want my love and favor, behave.

    Matthew:

    I think I will pass on commenting on this gospel.  I don't like it.  I only partially understand the culture Matthew was dealing with in the story.  And most of the commentaries simply try to explain away how harsh the story is. 

    Georgie

    And Georgie says, "Come in, Folks, We are just starting."

     

    Them I will bring to my holy mountain

    Of all the lines in the readings this morning, the line that touches me the most talks about bringing the people to the holy mountain.  I am touched for two reasons.

    First, you know how much I love to go camping in the mountains, and especially the mountains of Yosemite and the Sierras.  In fact, on the 2nd of September about 8 of us are headed to Kings Canyon, one of two parks just south of Yosemite, to do our annual 10 day back packing trip.

    Secondly, the mountain is a metaphor for the state of peace. 

    I would like to suggest two observations about going to the mountain of peace.

    First, we get there easier and with greater happiness with others.

    Secondly, sometimes the mountain is not what we expect or remember from a previous visit.

     

    Cathy & Harper 2

    Cathy and Harper, also, say, "Welcome in, Folks."

    Three little stories of the week. 

    Probably July of 2004, as usual, I took a group of 8 guys to my favorite hike in Yosemite.  I call it the Matterhorn Canyon trip. On about the 4th day we have to hike over Burro Pass, about 11 K feet.  There are three passes on this trip.  Two are called Burro and this one is in the middle.  Matterhorn Canyon is precisely where we camped out for the night. 

    We get up and go up the canyon and then up switch backs non-stop for a few hours. It is hard on everyone.  On this trip it is especially hard on one guy.  He is out of shape and gasping for breath.  I am afraid he is not going to make it.

    So I get to the pass, dump my pack, return down the switch backs, take his pack, and up we go together.  We make it.  Over the pass and below is my most favorite campsite in the whole world.  We set off and get there, too.

    Leo

    Guess who: Our Defender, Leo.

    Sitting around the fire that evening, I had a strong sense of accomplishment, contentment, and peace.  I was able to help someone to the top who might not have made it otherwise. This is on top of the fact that I am in heaven.

    The second story takes place on the same favorite hike, Matterhorn Canyon, but in 2009.  This time guess who is having the rough time, not because of being out of shape.  The hips are shot.

    That year I could go up, but just walking was rough and going down was really rough.  I had to borrow two ski poles.  Rose Banzhaf loaned me the poles and walked with me.  Mike Moran helped me get across streams and watched out for me.

    The last morning after an 8 mile hike out, everyone has already been at the little restaurant at the trail head and I am just hobbling along, Rose sticking with me.  At about a mile out, I surrender and Rose calls for help from a car.  Tom & Daniel Fleming come to the rescue.  I will always remember the sight of Daniel coming toward me to take my backpack.

    Cowboy Cole

    Cowboy Cole ready.

    I had made it to the peace of the mountain.  I just needed help to get down.  Still peaceful.  Then, the decision was easy.  I got new hips within 5 months.  And last year we visited my favorite Matterhorn Canyon for the first time.  Talk about gratitude and peace.

    The third little story comes from the Matterhorn trip last year.  I was longing to return to that favorite campsite after coming over Burro Pass.  We got there and I am saying, “This can’t be it.”  The campsite, which I have used perhaps 6 times, was a wreck, trees all knocked down, the stream following a different course.  It was the campsite.  60 mile an hour straight line winds had passed through and seemed to hit just that spot especially hard.

    Victoria and dad

    Victoria (Tori) and her dad, Randolph.

    We camped there even though I was bummed.  I could see the places where I could remember some of our people camping in previous years.  But it was a mess. 

    We spent a whole day there and with time I discovered that across the creek was a really nice level campsite.  That will be for next time.

    Two thoughts. 

    It is so nice to climb the mountain of peace with company, and even to come down.

    The mountain may not be what I expected.  But peace can still be found by searching around.

    Where is your mountain and who are your companions on the climb?

    Zoe 2

    Who is that pretty girl with the pink ribbon and pig tails? Zoe!

     

     

     

  • Sunday Homily, October 13, 2013, 28th Ordinary Time C

    Readings: 

    2 Kings 5, 14-17,  Naaman went down and plunged into the Jordan seven times.

    Psalm 98,  The Lord has revealed to the nations his saving power.

    2 Timothy 2, 8-13,  The word of God is not chained.

     Luke 17, 11-19  Where are the other 9?

     

    Emma 10-13-13

    Emma and Beth arriving.

     

    2 Kings observations:

    Time of the events: 900 B.C.

    Time when written: 550 B.C., during the Babylonian captivity.

    Subject of 1 Kings: This book continues the history of the kings
    taking up with the death of King David and continuing through the story of
    David & Bathsheba's son Solomon.  He builds the famous Temple of Solomon.  After his death the
    nation divides into the northern & southern states, Israel in the north, Judah
    in the south (including Jerusalem;
    remember by the "J's").

     

    Kevin 10-13-13

    Kevin arriving ready to work.

    Subject of 2 Kings: This book continues the history of the decline
    of the two states until Nebuchadnezzar of Babylon defeats the people. 


    Subject of our chapter 5 (read it all, it is delightful): one of
    the leaders of the Syrian-Babylonian army goes to visit the prophet of the day,
    Elisha.  Naaman, the general, has leprosy.  Note the twist of the
    story at the end.  Thanks is a theme of this selection and it sets the
    stage for Luke's story about gratitude.  Three characters: Naaman, his little slave girl, and Elisha.

     


    Ready 10-13-13

    The Team, ready.

    Gratitude

     

    This morning I would like to talk about the theme coming from Luke’s
    story and the neat little story about Naaman, the general with leprosy.  Specifically, gratitude. 

    To put together a story, I looked back over the week for special gifts,
    events I am grateful for.  I thought of
    our ROMEO lunch Friday, of my 2 French sessions, and the fact that my nice skin
    doctor, Sara Scott, gave me a pass. 



    Freddie & John 10-13-13

    Freddie with his granddad, John.

    Despite how grateful I am for these events, two others really stood out.

     

    Friday night Rosemary and I were privileged to be part of a special
    celebration.  It was the marriage of
    Kristin Urbanczyk and her fiance’ Josh 
    Eddings.  You all know that I take
    delight in celebrating weddings and get to do quite a lot, especially now that
    I am not officially Catholic.


    Zoe 10-13-13

    Zoe.

    As precious as all of them are, it is a unique jewel of an event when I
    get to celebrate the wedding of a person whom I have known since
    childhood.   Kristin I have known for maybe 18-20
    years.  She used to throw water balloons at
    me when she was a supposedly nice little girl.

     

    Folks, it does not get better than last night for me. 


    Torri 10-13-13

    Torri and her granddad, Gil.

    Thursday morning before this event took place, Rosemary and I went for one
    of our early morning bike rides down to and around The Lake, our beloved White
    Rock.  At one point we are riding south
    on the path at the edge of the lake and along East Lather Drive.  We have just passed in front of the
    Arboretum.

     

    As we approach the bridge just before Garland Road, the tarmac path curves
    left then right and is wet from earlier sprinklers.  I am about 30 years ahead of Rosemary.  I go up on the bridge and for some reason I
    look back.


    Rich 10-13-13

    Rich with his birthday Cupcake.

     

    What I see scares me to death. 
    Rosemary is sitting on the path, her bike down, and people are running
    to her side.  I turn around and race  back. 
    She has slid out on the wet tarmac. 
    She has hit the back of her head on the path but not broken her
    helmet.  She says she is okay and will
    walk on to the boat house over near the dam. 
    I race back to the car, return, and tell her I really would like for her
    to call our M.D. right there in the car.

    Later he checks her out and says nothing is wrong.  Just bruises and sore ribs. 

    Folks, I am so grateful and cannot give thanks enough.


    Celeste 10-13-13

    Celeste with her birthday Cupcake.

     A few observations.

     

    First.  The temptation is to think I am one of the
    nine who did not return to thank Jesus. Yes probably & No, also.   I would suggest
    again: we are both.  Lots of times we forget to thank.  Lots of times
    we thank. 

    Second.  There could be symbolism in the nine and
    one.  Perhaps I am nine tenths ungrateful and one tenth grateful.  Is this a pretty normal proportion? A lot of times, however, I am not so much ungrateful
    as just insensitive, totally unaware.  Perhaps the lepers who did not
    return just figured they were lucky and went on their way.  The other guy
    realized he had been given a gift by that stranger and wanted to respond.

    Jesus tells him his faith has saved him.  I would
    suggest that his gratitude transformed him.


    Kristin-John 10-13-13

    Kristin and Josh with their honeymoon Cupcake.

    Third.  How is it possible to rearrange the
    percentages?  Practice.  Practice make perfect. Rosemary & I have a favorite little practice that we do
    every night.  I've mentioned it before. We ask each other what were the blessings
    of the day.  I recommend this. I even recommend it for sitting alone,
    while savoring the first coffee in the morning, driving or riding the DART to
    work & back, getting ready to go to school.  Simple question: what
    were my blessings today, yesterday, or this week?

     

    You may start now: what were your three biggest blessings
    this week?

     

    Connie & John 10-13-13

    Connie and John coming ready to video and shoot pix.
  • Sunday Homily, May 8, 2016, 7th Easter & Mothers’ Day

    Readings:                          

    Acts  7,  55-60,  They threw Stephen out of the city, and began to stone him.

    Psalm 97,  The Lord is king, the most high over all the earth

    Revelation 22, 12-14, 16-17, 20,    I, John, heard a voice.

    John 17, 20-26,  I pray that they all may be one.

     

    Sorry no homily today.

  • Sunday Homily 7-19-09, 16th Ordinary Time

    Readings:  Jeremiah 23, 1-6; Psalm 23, The Lord is My Shepherd; there is nothing I shall want; Ephesians 2, 13-18; Mark 6, 30-34     

    Masss7-19-09

    Jeremiah:

    Author & Who: Jeremiah is called "the broken hearted prophet," because he felt compelled to say woe to the leaders & shepherds of the state of Judah.  He predicted tragedy for the people because of their unfaithful ways.  Because he predicted such catastrophe, the leaders & even the people hated him.  He hated his his prophet job and his unpopularity.

    Jeremiah is considered #2 of the big 3 prophets, along with Isaiah, #1, and Ezekiel, #3.  They are considered the major prophets because of the size of their works, e.g., Jeremiah has 52 chapters.

    Baruch, Jeremiah's secretary & scribe, is considered the person who wrote down & edited the Book of Jeremiah. 

    Time: ca. 625-575, i.e. before the famous Babylonian Captivity and during part of it, which took place starting around 585 BCE.

    Setting & Story: Catastrophe is coming in the person of Nebuchadnezzar of Babylon (near Baghdad, Iraq, of all places).  He has defeated the Assyrians who had destroyed the northern Jewish state of Israel (ca. 720 BCE) and is now looking at Judah, the southern state with Jerusalem the capitol.   The 10 tribes of the north were carted away and disappeared into the Middle East gene pool.  Intermarriage and lost culture. 

    Jeremiah sees what is coming, predicts devastation, and blames it on the leaders & shepherds of the people of this southern state of Judah.  It happens as he foretold, and Jeremiah ends up going to Egypt, where he dies.  He also predicts the return of the people to Judah and the rebuilding of Jerusalem.

    Interesting Side Note: can you guess when the Genesis story of creation in 7 days was composed?  Biblical research reveals that the creation story was put together during the Captivity, i.e. ca. 575.

    Why?  The priests & prophets (e.g., Ezekiel) of the Jews in captivity determined that the people would not be assimilated into the local gene pool as their cousins in the northern kingdom had done when made to live with the Assyrians.  They decided they would establish customs & religious practices that would make the Jews so different they would not intermarry.  Three special laws were established: 1.  male circumcision; 2. dietary laws and laws about not touching menstruating women; and 3. the Sabbath.

    The priests put together the 7 day creation story to suggest that Yahweh approved of their Sabbath law.  They had Yahweh rest on the 7th day to bolster their demand that all Jews take a day off every 7 days.  Before the Babylonian Captivity there was no legislated Sabbath and no myth of Yahweh creating the world in 7 days with the 7th being a day of rest.  So, now you know when the story was created & by whom, the priests, and why, to keep the Jews united vs the Babylonians.  It worked, even down to today.

    Our Selection: Jeremiah is saying woe to the leaders & shepherds of the Jews of Judah.  He is also consoling them that a better day will come when they will have good leaders and they won't have to fear and tremble.

    Sources: Bishop Spong, The Sins on Scripture; Wikipedia

    Choir 7-19-09

    Shepherding

    Every Friday morning since before 1990 I have had an appointment with a little lady about 4'11' named Elizabeth.  She is 93 this year. 

    In the beginning she used to take the bus to Jesuit for our meetings.  In fact, one fall Friday morning she was walking along the main first floor hall, the bell rang for the end of class, the guys poured out, and one big kid, number 55 in his football jersey, knocked her down.  Uninjured and flattered by the attention of all the boys, she wended her way to the back of the property where my office was.

    Some of you have met her because you have helped me move her from a second floor to a first floor apartment, then from that apartment to a condo she bought.  Npw she lives in the 3 Fountains retirement home a little off of Park Lane, east of Central and Northpark Mall.  She has always been a independent, bohemian lady with a literary bent.  She wrote a novel 80.

    The church she always attended after her conversion and until she could not get around was Holy Trinity in the Oak Lawn area. This was where she lived most of her life.  While she was at Holy Trinity she met a couple in their 50's who used to bring her home after Mass. 

    As Elizabeth got older the couple got more involved.  Really involved in a helpful way.  The husband, who seems familiar with real estate, found the condo that she bought, then found the retirement home for her, doing all the paper work.  He is selling the condo for her right now.  At first I though there was some kind of swindle taking place, because they were almost too good.  They were real, however. 

    The wife continues to visit Elizabeth about once a week, taking her to the doctor and pharmacy, using a lot of her time.  This is depite the fact that Elizabeth can often be less than gracious.  I do not know how many times I have been sumarily kicked out and told not to return.  Elizabeth admits that she often treats the lady harshly.

    This couple has been a life saver not only to Elizabeth, but also to me.  I did not know how I was going to help Elizabeth deal with her growing inability to get around.  She had said often she would never go into one of those old folks homes.  She had told me she wanted to die in her condo.  The couple somehow helped her over this obstacle.  What they did, I think, is they just took her to a couple of places they had checked out.

    I talk about this couple today because they exemplify something I think the gospel is trying to convey, the meaning of being a shepherd, a care taker. 

    Ekes & Witteks 7-19-09

    Jesus does two things in the episode that I think are marvelous.  First, he shows care for his comrades.  These guys had been out sharing the message, had returned to share their adventures, and they were tired.  People were all around.  Jesus suggests that they all go away to a quiet place and rest.  This is shepherding or care taking one's closest, one's family, one's team. 

    They get into a boat and cross some water, obviously the Sea or Lake of Galillee, one of the beautiful places of the world, a heart shaped body 21 miles in length & only 7 miles across.  Many of you could swim it.  The second marvelous thing Jesus does is take compassion on the people who have anticipated where he was going and got there first.  He changes his plans and tends to them.

    This is our challenge.  The couple who care take Elizabeth is an example of what Jesus is showing us. 

    Whom do you shepherd or care take?

    AUDIO:  http://mysite.verizon.net/reso7rjy/sitebuildercontent/sitebuilderfiles/2009-07-19.mp3

    Picture 1:  Mass with Sabrina & Ruth

    Picture 2:  Choir, Wendy, Shonda, Ray, & Celeste

    Picture 3:  Ekes & Wittiks–Bobby & Debby, Barb W., Mabel, Marlene, Cindy, Curtis, & Warren W. 

  • Sunday Homily, July 24, 2016, 17th Sunday Ordinary Time

    Readings:

    Genesis  18,  20-32,  The story of Sodom & Gomorrah.

    Psalm 138,  Lord, on the day I called for help, you answered me.

    Colossians 2, 12-14,     He has forgiven us all our transgressions.

    Luke 11, 1-13,  Ask and you will receive.

    IMG_1826

     
    Kevin, John, and Buddy


                                               

    Book of Genesis, Ch 18 

    — Probably written during the Babylonian captivity (6th century BCE) to help solidify Jewish people in their identity as the people of God. 

     

    Letter of Paul to church in Colossae: Ch 2 

    — Colossae was a small community in Asia Minor, east of Ephesus.  This letter is written during Paul’s first imprisonment in Rome. 

     

    Gospel of Luke: Ch 11

    It’s in the letter to the Colossians that we learn Luke was a physician, the only mention of that fact.  Luke was probably Greek and the only non-Jewish writer in the New Testament, and accounts for almost a third of the New Testament (with Gospel and then Acts). This Gospel probably written between 80-100 AD, 3 or more generations after Jesus.  It was still being edited after 100 AD.   

         

    CIMG5372

     
    Mike and Carol

     


                                                                            

    Homily on 17th Sunday in Ordinary Time – July 24, 2016

    Each week of the year the Church selects readings from Scripture to teach us about God, to feed us with words that give life and comfort and challenge, and that remind us that we are one with God and one with each other. 

    Today we learn again about God as merciful, as generous, as giving of the Spirit. 

    These teachings about God’s goodness and mercy and generosity were tested for my family a couple of weeks ago when our friend Alex Folz died suddenly in his sleep at age 48.  Alex’ wife Leslie, her grown children Sarah, Mary, Liz and Peter, Alex’ parents Libby and Gene, his 3 sisters, Ali, Amy and Annie, Lambrini and her Mom, Kalliopi, and myself, and so many friends, work mates and acquaintances have been in shock and grief over his passing so suddenly from our lives. 

                                                                                                                                     

     

    CIMG5373

     
    Celeste back from Albania for a couple of weeks

     

    Lambrini met Alex as a co-worker at the Louisiana Department of Revenue 19 years ago.  Lambrini and Alex hit it off and became ‘best buddies’.  Before long Lambrini and me and Kalliopi were treating Alex as part of our family.  For years, several days a week, he would join us for meals.  He helped Kalliopi with her garden, plowing and digging.  He worked at learning enough Greek to be able to communicate with Kalliopi, which she loved about him.  Alex watched over our house and cared for our dog, Coco, whenever we were away.  Coco loved Alex and ran to greet him whenever she saw his car drive up.  We shared tools and vehicles and did all the things good friends and family do with each other.  Alex was a big OU Sooners fan.  He and I watched football games together and he and Mama and I would go eat meat together.

    A few years ago he travelled with us on one of our trips to Greece.  Lambrini has always missed her 2 brothers, George in Greece, and John in Massachusetts who died over 10 years ago.  And Alex became her ‘best buddy’.  It was a rare day they didn’t speak, in person or by phone. 

                                          

    CIMG5396
     
    Zoe, Tori and Grandpa, Gilberto

     

    Alex was very close to his parents and sisters.  He spoke with his parents every day and to his sisters frequently.  He loved his nephews and nieces and talked about them all the time.  Alex had friendships he maintained from his college years at OU in Norman, especially his good friend Shawn.  He had tennis buddies who met weekly to play together.  He joined a singles’ group, and that’s where he met Leslie.  In talking about their families, Alex and Leslie discovered that when they were little, their families had lived close to each other in the same area of Indiana, and some even knew each other.  Leslie’s grown kids showed had real caring for Alex, and were so happy that their mom had found love in her life again.  Alex and Leslie married last July at the Catholic Cathedral downtown.  What a happy day that was. 

    Alex and Leslie were on a trip for Alex’ annual visit with his family for the 4th of July weekend, and then they drove on to Chicago for a few days’ relaxation before Leslie’s daughter’s graduation from grad school that Saturday.  On Thursday Alex did not awaken and I got the call from Leslie.  Lambrini flew up to represent our family at his funeral in Indiana.  

                                                                                                                                           

    CIMG5408
     
    Genevieve, John, and Leo

     

    We are taught and know that God is merciful, and generous and gives us the Spirit of life.  And we are tested when bad things happen to good people.  As the shock of Alex’ passing has gradually become a little softer, we have begun to see who Alex was to us; how he too was merciful and generous and giving of the Spirit to those around him; how his life made our lives better and more full; and much more fun—we laughed loud a lot with Alex.  As we grieve over this loss, we have realized that Alex was a presence of God in our lives.  Remember John Stack’s question to the parents and Godparents whenever he performs a Baptism: when is the last time you saw God?  Alex showed God’s Spirit over and over in a way that stays with me and gives me joy.  It has also been amazing to see his parents, in their grief, show such concern and caring for all of us feeling the loss of Alex.  And Leslie, dealing with her lost dreams and their lost plans for the future; and yet reaching out to give care and love for others who share the pain of loss.  It really helps that we are all in this together and that Alex’ life has left a lasting mark on all who were connected with him. 

                                               

    CIMG5409
     
    The Offertory. John, Karen, Judy, and Dick


                                                                      

     

    We know from the Book of Job that there is no perfect answer for such losses.  For Lambrini and her mom and me it’s been other people who care and just connect with us that has made a difference.  So many family and friends have reached out to us just to be connected at this time.  I want you to know that I have definitely experienced and appreciated your support.  You listened; you didn’t try to define my grief or give it a meaning or take it away; you have showed me you are present to me and you are with me.  You are a part of the mercy and generosity and Spirit of God in my life.  Thank you for that.

    My question today is:  How do you find comfort and the Spirit when you are tested?  And how are you part of that comfort and Spirit for others?

                                                                         

    IMG_1824
     
    The Candle Lighting. Brandon and John