Sunday Homily, April 26, 4th 2015, Easter, B

Readings:

Acts 4,  8-12,  In his name this man stands before you healed.

Psalm 118,    The stone rejected by the builders has become the corner stone.

1 John 3, 1-2,   See what love the Father has bestowed on us.

 John  10, 11-18,  I am the good shepherd.

 

Genevieve

Genevieve says, "Hi, Everybody, Welcome. Nice to see you for the first time."


 

Acts reminders:

Author: Luke, the same who wrote the gospel.  He was an educated, urbane Jew.

Date: the years 75-80 

Subject: This is a travel log, detailing the spread of Christianity from Jerusalem to Rome and the Mediterranean in between.

Today: Peter is talking to the elders and leaders of the people, aiming to convince them about Jesus.

 

Genevieve welcome

Genevieve welcomes the Whole Community, and, in turn, the Whole Community welcomes Genevieve.

 

The Good Shepherd

I would like to talk this morning about the good shepherd.  Two proposals.  

First, we have shepherds all around us.

Secondly, the good shepherd has three characteristics.

  1. The shepherd gathers people.
  2. The people the shepherd gathers are richer and happier because of being called.
  3. The shepherd, likewise, is richer and happier because of inviting all these people. 

 

 

More 2 weeks

Vivian says, "In two more weeks I will get to say hi to everybody, too."  Hey,  is there something in the water around here?

 

Four examples.

I mentioned that this past weekend Rosemary & I attended both a Jesuit class reunion and an alumni reunion of 50 years at Spring Hill College in Mobile.  The shepherd who called us together and made all the arrangements was my classmate and good friend, Bill Dowie.  To me this was extraordinary because the last time we all met two years ago, over twenty of us, Bill was still mourning the love of his life, whom he had cared for the last years of her life.

Not only did he gather those who could make it somewhat at the last moment, but he shared with us that he was introduced to someone with whom he sees a special relationship developing.  Rosemary & I were most touched, doubly so by the charming woman he brought.

I left that reunion richer and happier.

 

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The Spring Hill Jesuit reunion group on the Fairhope pier, eastern shore, Mobile Bay.   Bill is third from left, Keqi is first on the left. Others, (l-r), Jim Raymond, Rosemary, an Old Geezer, Carl Castille, and Jack Podsiadlo. Joe Reardon taking the picture.

 

The second shepherd is in our very midst.  This guy invites with open arms and open heart guys who have hit bottom.  We, too, have accepted his invitation to nurture these men by our help with Souls Harbor, of which he is the director, a 24/7 job. 

Brent, Thanks for being a good shepherd for over 60 men and a shepherd for me and the community.

 

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Our class in '65 in front of Assumption Hall.

 

The third shepherd, every Thursday at least, loads up 16 meals.  With her friend, Barbara, they deliver Meals on Wheels to homebound men and women, whites and a rainbow of races.

Rosemary and Barbara gather their people by bringing meals to their door.  The people are richer and happier because of their visit, as I am by their example.

 

 

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Over 100 of us Jesuits lived in Assumption Hall, Spring Hill College, Mobile in the 60's. After expecting that the building would be finally designated as a historical monument, how deflating to find the building demolished and in its hallowed place two student residences. No appreciation for old age!

 

Finally, there is a lady in our neighborhood named Patty Cody.  She is our neighborhood shepherd.  She organized the neighborhood association.  She has set up a security patrol for us, and a neighborhood communication network.  You can find your lost dog or cat and you can put on line a picture of a lost dog you find in your yard.  All this, plus other conveniences.  But her biggest bringing together takes place on July 4, when everyone is invited to a neighborhood parade, a picnic at the playground of a grade school, and a time when we see each other, maybe the first time since last July 4.

Rosemary & I are the refreshment Czars and each year I come home richer and happier with what Patty has helped us celebrate.

 

 

Tori

Guess what, Victoria. You were once little, too, just like Genevieve.

 

Let me add an extra and a special Good Shepherd, Genevieve.  Does she not call us all together?  Do we not feel richer and happier just be in her marvelous presence.  And from my vantage point, I think she, too, is richer and happier because we are all responding to her.

 

 

Harper 2

Harper is pretending to be sleeping through another masterpiece homily.

 

Good shepherds are all around us.  

Who is a good shepherd in your life and for whom are you a good shepherd?

 

Boston

Cupcake of The Week to Paul and Carrie for acing the Boston Marathon last week.

 

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    Readings:    

    Deuteronomy  6, 2-6,   You shall love the Lord

    Psalm 18,   I love you, Lord, my strength.

    1 John 3, 1-3,   See what love the Father has bestowed on us. (this is from the All Saints readings, p. 75)

    Mark 12, 28-34,  Which is the first of all the commandments.

     

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       Intro: 3 feasts—

                          All Saints: (or All Hallowes) those who have achieved the beatific vision according to Catholic Church, based on miracles.

                        All Souls: those who have not achieved the beatific vision and are considered paying for their sins in purgatory.

                        Hallowe’en: the vigil of All Hallowes, a Celtic-Irish harvest, end of summer celebration. 

       History in 2 parts: the Western Catholic Church & the Eastern Catholic Church

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                         The West: 4 significant dates, 300, 600, 700, & 800

        Year 300: during this century the early Christians, reeling from persecution, celebrated the feast of All Martyrs.  This is really the foundation of the feast. Year 600: a Pope Boniface dedicated the Pantheon in Rome to Mary & All Martyrs.  May 13 was the celebration because it was also an ancient pagan day of celebration.

      Year 700:  a Pope Gregory set up in St. Peter’s Basilica a side chapel dedicated to All Saints.

       Year 800: Dec. 25, Charlemagne is crowned Emperor by Pope on the red stone in St. Peter’s.  Charlemagne, an advocate of All Saints, established it on Nov. 1, coupling it with a Harvest Feast. 

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    Caliope receiving the sacrament of the sick blessing

                        The East:

       Year 900, the Byzantine Emperor Leo the Wise had a beloved, devout wife, Theophano.  She died & Leo built a church which he intended to dedicate to her.  The religious authorities said no, so he dedicated it to All Saints, assuming his wife to be among the saints.

      Note:  later, three big events happen:

              a.  Crusade #4, on its way to fight the Muslims in the Holy Land, captures and wrecks Constantinople, ca. 1200.  J.P. II apologizes for this in 2004. 

              b.  Ottoman Turks or Muslims capture Constantinople, 1450 and rename it Istanbul.  It is Muslim to today.

              c.  Post 1540, Rome condemns Eastern Catholic church as schismatic over theological disputes, i.e., the nature of Jesus.

     Sources: Practicing Catholic by James Carroll, Catholic Encyclopedia on line, Wikipedia.

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    Emma

     The Most Difficult Commandment

    Today we have the greatest commandment or the first commandment.  I want to talk about the hardest commandment.

    Rosemary has a passion for these British dramas on PBS.  One of her favorites comes on tonight at 7:00, Call the Midwife.  The story takes place ca. 1950 in London on the East Side, a rough ghetto of good people trying to make a penny.  In particular it is about midwives who serve the women.  The group has been set up by some nuns, Anglican, in fact, and they invite help from other trained women.

    Leo 11-4-12

    Leo

    There is the kind nun, the tough on the outside nun, the young pretty girl shocked by so much drama she is seeing for the first time, and there is Chummy. 

    Chummy is a warm and tender midwife with no self confidence.  She acts clumsy and insecure.  She is not from anything like the East Side, rather from a wealthy, cold family where she received little love.  In fact, she spent most of her life in boarding schools.  How she came to work as a midwife in the East Side nobody has said.

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    Turns out Chummy has attracted the interest of the nice local police man and they have developed a special relationship.  She meets his parents and all goes well.  He wants to meet her mother.  Ugh, oh.

    And that’s where we are tonight.  Rosemary tells me that she read or saw in one of her sneak previews on line that Chummy was turning herself in for some infraction and that she was talking about being a nun.  Which leads me to think her relationship with the police man ran aground.  Because her cold, class conscious mother did not approve?

    Sorry, I don’t know what happens.  I can tell you in the blog or you can tune in tonight.   Channel 13, 7:00.

    Rosemary says, “So why the story??”  Because this exemplifies the way I have approached the Great Commandment forever. 

    Cole 11-4-12

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     There are really 3 commands here, love God, love my neighbor, and love my neighbor as I love myself.  What is the hardest?  For me the third, loving myself.

    We get messed up & even ruined as kids in two ways: abuse & neglect.  A kid messed up this way can be messed up for life. We see it all the time, like in the news.  Angry, violent adults and angry, violent kids.

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    And Chummys.   People without self confidence and courage to risk.  People afraid.  People neglected as children, Chummy. 

    I don’t know the outcome, but I can conjecture that Chummy will be afraid to confront her mother and marry the policeman.  Yes, I’ve been sucked into watching this program.  The moral, ethical, and psychological dilemmas are riveting. 

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    We are called to love ourselves. 

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  • Sunday Homily, 5-25-08

    Readings: Deuteronomy 8, 2-16; Psalm 147; 1 Corinthians 10, 16-17; John 6, 51-58.

    Deuteronomy: The fifth & last book of the Torah.  The scene: Moses & the Hebrews are in the desert just outside the promised land, the land of the Canaanites, whom they are going to kick out and kill.  Moses is reviewing their journey from Egypt.

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    The belief that Yahweh punishes and corrects us is not so common today as Moses suggests to the people.  We will read the whole section to get the sense more clearly.

    The Banquet

    A while back somebody asked me what was the best meal we had in Italy.  It took me a nano second to remember.  It took place the afternoon we arrived in Venice. 

    We had just gotten off the train from spending two days with Chebino & Lydia in Pordenone & Aviano.  In fact, if I had eaten the two evenings with Michael I might have considered these meals some of the best, because when Michael walks into these 2 favorite places, the owner comes out and everyone greets him.  He gets all this affection because he is so friendly & outgoing. 

    Consequently, everything was cordial & delightful & we received the best of everything.  My only problem was that I don't eat after about 4:00, to eliminate acid reflux without having to take pills.  So I just enjoyed the event and a glass of red wine.

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    In Venice, however, it was early afternoon when we walked out of the train station and onto the famous Grand Canal, leaving one world and entering one of my most favorite dream worlds.  We descended the broad stairs, turned left at the canal, and walked up one of the main pedestrian walkways of the Cannaregio suburb.  At a small fork in the walkway we went left, crossed a couple of small canals on up & down bridges, took a right across the last canal, and arrived at our convent. 

    After we had been received with all sorts of hospitality and settled, I asked the portress Magda to recommend a good, reasonable cafe.  "Turn right out the door," she says, "cross the bridge to the left, and at the next canal go right and look for the tables on the edge of the canal.  The place is called Ristorante Diana on Fontamenta della Misericordia.  Ask for Omer."

    When we get there, the guy is all friendly and we take a window seat inside because the sun is on the fondamenta tables.  I tell him we come with Magda's recommendation.  "What is good today?"  He recommends this and that, and we begin with a seafood salad, pasta, have two varieties of fish he said were caught that day, some dessert, and finish off with Samabuca, my first ever, and some small glasses of lemon liquor. 

    Folks, we must have been there three hours, a bit beyond my usual finishing hour even though we had begun about 3:00.  It was the best.  Until I asked for the check.  I had never asked Omer just how much each course was costing, trusting in Magda and in Omer.  We paid over $75 per person for that meal, probably the most expensive I've ever had in my whole life.

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    I talk about this today for three reasons:

    • It is Memorial Day & time for picnics, special meals, & banquets.
    • We are celebrating the Eucharist today.
    • The Eucharist is basically a banquet and cannot be appreciated for what it really is unless we throw a banquet occasionally.

    I think a banquet involves three elements for it to come off, place, intention, & time.

    • The place can be almost anywhere as long as it has some special quality, grandmother's dining room, a campfire in Yosemite, a Fondamenta della Misericordia in Venice, a Saturday afternoon on a patio, or a Sunday evening around a swimming pool. Even an El Fenix or a Chili's
    • When I say intention, I mean somebody has to set it up, say, "Welcome, let's do it." Set a date, a place, and a time. Chebino sees his fly buddy and family in a restaurant and invites them all for dinner the next night.
    • Time is probably the most important. It cannot take place in less than an hour, I would suggest. Two or three would be better & best. Trouble with some restaurants like Chili's is you get a bill dumped on your table just as you take the last few bites of the main course. In Italy you may sit there the whole afternoon and they still won't bring a bill until you ask for it. Taking time at the banquet is the exact opposite of fast food or eating while driving.

    Never enjoy a long meal and you are missing one of the joys of life, and the Eucharist certainly can't be appreciated.

    If we did not have a Eucharist ritual, I think I would invent one.  The Eucharist attempts to take a banquet or special meal and put it into a context where we place ourselves into contact with the God of the Universe.  It is based on knowing how to banquet.

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  • Sunday Homily June 9, 2013, 10th Ordinary Time C

    Readings:

    1 Kings  17, 17-24,  The life breath returned to the body of the child.

    Psalm 30,  I will praise you, Lord, for you have rescued me.

    Galatians 1, 11-19,  The gospel preached by me is not of human origin.

    Luke 9, 11-17,  Young man, I tell you, arise.

     

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    Emma with her arm back in a sling. She was getting a bit sporting before the collar bone had completely healed.

     Observations on the readings: 

     

    1 Kings 17:17-24

    The young man’s mother recognizes that the word of the Lord
    truly comes from Elijah’s mouth.  He
    breaths forth life into her son in this parable.

    Second reading: Galatians 1:11-19

    Our Gospel is the proclamation of good news, where good news, is a noun. Paul is preaching good news that came to him
    through a revelation of Jesus Christ, where preaching
    good news
    is a verb.  The Gospel
    hadn’t been written, yet.


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    Gospel:  Luke 7:11-17

     

    Paul uses the word ‘flesh’ at least 100 times in his
    letters, once in our short reading from Galatians. 

     I want
    you to understand a verse from John’s gospel. 
    ‘What is born of flesh is flesh; what is born of Spirit is spirit.  To be born only of flesh means that when a
    decision needs to be made that person relies only on his mind…and the mind
    seeks to have the flesh satisfied. 


    Celeste 6-9-13

    Celeste.

     

    Everything
    God created is good; the flesh is good. For example; if you work hard all
    morning your stomach lets your mind know that your body wants some food.  So, if you are home, you use your mind and go
    to the refrigerator to find something to eat. 
    Your mind will seek to satisfy the flesh when you open that door.  Anything is fair game. 


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    But, what is born of Spirit is spirit, where
    the Spirit has a [capital S].  The Spirit
    enhances the flesh!  Instead of a desire
    to satisfy your flesh your desire is to put your spouse first, even if he or
    she is not there. What is born of Spirit is spirit. 

     

    Offertory 6-9-13

    Offertory, Jean, Doug, Cliff, and John.

     

    A great way to hone in on Spirit-living
    begins with, ‘in everything give thanks.’ 
    If you go to the refrigerator only to find it empty, give thanks. Your
    desire to satisfy just the flesh will begin to fade away.  Pick up the list of things on the counter
    that you and your spouse make to replenish the empty refrigerator.  Give thanks when the parking place is further
    away from the store than you had hoped. The exercise will be good. 


    Harper 6-9-13

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    Someone left a cart in a good parking place.
    Give thanks that someone will find it a good place as soon as you push it
    toward the store doors. 

    Number 2. Affirm
    your spouse for the great things that he or she put on the grocery list.   Affirm the stocker who has just filled up
    the shelf, ‘looks great.’ 


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    3, Be a good
    listener at home, and enjoy looking into your spouse’s eyes and touching his or
    her shoulder or hand. 

    Last of all always
    forgive your spouse; it is in giving that you receive.  Remember, forgiveness is the message of the
    good news of Jesus Christ.  Recall for a
    moment our communal services in Lent and Advent.  You listen, you look into each other’s eyes,
    you ask to be forgiven, you forgive others; you embrace; you affirm; you give
    thanks. 


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    In today’s gospel, a young man
    is seeking forgiveness. The assembly ritually carries him.  He’s not heavy; he’s their brother. The
    assembly mourns along with his mother for all of times that they have not shown
    love.  They are professing their faith with
    him.


    23 A, trash pile

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    In this parable Jesus is there to grant forgiveness to this young
    man.  He will rise to be set free, unbound from whatever had enslaved him.  In faith, through the power of the Holy Spirit
    we can say those words to someone; and we have during Lent and Advent.             

    Is there someone you know who needs
    to be forgiven.   Give thanks that you
    have the time to heal yourself and them this week. 

     

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  • Sunday Homily, December 23, Fourth Sunday, Advent

    Readings: Isaiah 7, 10-14; Psalm 24; Romans, 1, 1-7; Matthew 1, 18-24.

    Isaiah: The great prophetic book.  8 centuries before Christ.  Talking here about the coming of the savior.

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    The Gift of Life

    Last Sunday morning ca. 1:30 A.M., a friend of mine was having insomnia.  She got up without waking her husband.  Got into her car and headed down Belt Line to get a coffee or something at the 7-11 on the corner near Central.  Along the way she lost control of her Expedition, ran into a pole, and then slammed into another.  Parkland Hospital awakened her husband at 3:00 A.M. to inform him that his wife Sally had just died in their emergency room.

    I have known Sally Ann Kidwell Swenholt since the 60’s when she was a little girl and I taught her big brother John Michael at Jesuit, where he was a good basketball player.   She was 48 and married 29 years to her high school boy friend. Her father had been my dentist in Preston Center until he retired and John Michael took over.  She became a dental hygienist and cleaned my teeth every year or so.  Her sister Susanne is a special friend.  I have loved this family and been privileged to walk with them through some great times and some troubled times.  This event has knocked me out.  Why?  And why at this time of year.

    Some observations.

    I can’t answer the why question for myself.  It just happens.  I can live with that mystery.  However, one big lesson stands out for me: life is a gift.  I may blow it off or I may treasure and appreciate it.  Sally Ann did the latter and I hope to follow her example.

    One of the qualities that endeared her to me was that she was a delightful airhead who chattered non-stop.  The Kidwell dental office works very efficiently, on time.  You get your teeth cleaned & X-rayed in 30 minutes.  More attention needed, you make another appointment.  I do not know how she & I ever got through a half hour appointment.  Talk & more talk.  Ever try to tell someone how your sister is or how the Masses are at San Vino with someone cleaning your teeth with a drill mounted brush?  We always had so much to catch up on. 

    As a tribute to her person centered, caring life, as well as the Kidwell family, St. Rita’s was full with a thousand plus people.  People were standing in the back.  Even though I could not concelebrate with Phil Postell, the Jesuit president, I was delighted that I got the idea and then did it: I applauded after Shauna, Sally’s oldest child who also works at the dental office, gave a beautifully amusing & tear filled eulogy to her mom.  In fact, though I fantasized that I might be clapping all alone, people not only jumped right in, but as Shauna came down & hugged her dad, the whole community stood and redoubled their applause.   I was in tears. 

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    We are privileged to celebrate here this morning, we are privileged to celebrate Christmas tomorrow, we are privileged to be alive.

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  • Sunday Homily, October, 6, 2019, 27th Ordinary Time

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    Readings:

    Habakkuk,  1, 2-3, 2,2-4, I cry for help, but you do not listen

    Psalm 95,  If today you hear his voice, harden not your hearts.

    2 Timothy 1, 6-8, 13-14, Stir into flame the gift  of God.

    Luke 17, 5-10,   We are unprofitable servants.

     

     

     

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    Where is the spirit these days?

    I never know from where or why suddenly something or someone will really touch me.

    On floor #1 on board the Viking Sea there is a grouping of 2 small & one larger room with workout equipment.  6 to 7 every morning I used to work out.  Get this, even Rosemary joined me.  Then at 7:00 we would head down to the atrium on the same floor where there is a small bar that serves the best lattes on the ship.

     

     

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    About the third morning out I am working out on a stand up elliptical when I hear the clear and friendly voice of a guy on a treadmill behind me.  It seems like he enjoys talking with everyone. 

    The room has three elliptical & 4 stationary bikes in one line and a second line of maybe 6-7 treadmills, all facing the big windows outside of which the sea is going wild.

     

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    I chat up the guy when he finishes and we are both drying off.  This goes on maybe 4 more days when one morning we all 3 get talking at the water fountain in the corner.  In answer to his question, whatever it was, Rosemary & I share the story of our marriage.  He goes crazy.  I tell him he is welcome to share it with others and he does.

    Maybe 2-3 days later I realize the guy is working out twice a day.  I am impressed and see why he looks to be in such good shape, being in his late 50’ or 60’s.

     

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    We go on for another 2-3 days until we arrive at L’Ance au Meadow in Newfoundland, a fairly recently discovered area where a Viking village existed some hundreds of year ago.  To get from the village where the ship moored to the former Viking village Viking Cruises had to requisition 10 or more buses, school buses no less.

    Lo and behold, at the Viking village we meet up with our new friend and get talking.  It was a delightful sunny day, mild temperature.  We asked him more about his life.  We already knew he was a university professor.

     

     

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    Fred & Martha, So good to see you both in town and with us.

     

     

    Turns out he had to watch both of his parents slowly deteriorate one from Alzheimer's & one from Parkinson's.  Because of this he tries to stay in the best shape possible.  This news really stunned me.  Just that he shared it meant a lot.  No wonder he works out so faithfully, something I certainly appreciate and emulate. 

    When was the last time your spirit was touched?

    (What about Izzi’s baptism last Sunday!)

     

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  • Christmas Eve Mass & Homily, December 24, 2016

    Readings:

    Isaiah 9, 1-6,  The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light.

     Psalm 96,  Today is born our Savior, Christ the Lord.

     Titus 2, 11-14,  The grace of God has appeared.

     Luke 2, 1-14,   In those days a decree went out from Caesar Augustus.

     

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    Christmas Eve, 2016, Welcome.

     

    Isaiah observations:

    What:  This is again Isaiah I (one of three).  Isaiah 1 criticizes the people for their sinful ways and forecasts doom, which will come in the form of the Babylonian Captivity.

    When: Isaiah was warning the people ahead of the Captivity, ca. 555 before Christ.  It was during the Captivity when the book of three authors was put together.

    Today's selection: One of the all time beautiful passages promising light to people who have walked (or lived) in darkness.  

    All of today's readings are consoling and dear.

     

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    A Christmas Story

    Despite the fact that I have told this story previously, I like it so much and it is so relevant, I would like to repeat it.  

    I remember my first Christmas adventure with Grandma. I was just a kid. I remember tearing across town on my bike to visit her on the day my big sister dropped the bomb: "There is no Santa Claus," she jeered. "Even dummies know that.”

     

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    Jennifer and her beautiful little one say, "Merry Christmas."

     

    My  Grandma was not the gushy kind, never had been. I fled to her that day because I knew she would be straight up with me. I knew Grandma always told the truth, and I knew that the truth always went down a whole lot easier when swallowed with one of her "world-famous" cinnamon buns. I knew they were world-famous, because Grandma said so. It had to be true.

    Grandma was home, and the buns were still warm. Between bites, I told her everything. She was ready for me. "No Santa Claus?" she snorted…."Ridiculous! Don't believe it. That rumor has been going around for years, and it makes me mad, plain mad!! Now, put on your coat, and let's go." 

     

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    The Beautiful Claire and her beautiful daughter, Chloe.

     

    "Go? Go where, Grandma?" I asked. I hadn't even finished my second world- famous cinnamon bun. "Where" turned out to be Kerby's General Store, the one store in town that had a little bit of just about everything. As we walked through its doors, Grandma handed me ten dollars. That was a bundle in those days. "Take this money," she said, "and buy something for someone who needs it. I'll wait for you in the car." Then she turned and walked out of Kerby's. 

     

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    Carrie and Paul with her granddaughter, her daughter and husband.

     

    I was only eight years old. I'd often gone shopping with my mother, but never had I shopped for anything all by myself. The store seemed big and crowded, full of people scrambling to finish their Christmas shopping.

    For a few moments I just stood there, confused, clutching that ten-dollar bill, wondering what to buy, and whom on earth to buy it for. I thought of everybody I knew: my family, my friends, my neighbors, the kids at school, the people who went to my church. 

     

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    Hi to the Great Gerwer Clan.

     

     

    I was just about thought out, when I suddenly thought of Bobby Decker. He was a kid with bad breath and messy hair, and he sat right behind me in Mrs. Pollock's grade-two class. Bobby Decker didn't have a coat. I knew that because he never went out to recess during the winter.

    His mother always wrote a note, telling the teacher that he had a cough, but all we kids knew that Bobby Decker didn't have a cough; he didn't have a good coat. I fingered the ten-dollar bill with growing excitement. I would buy Bobby Decker a coat! 

     

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    Sir Charlie helping his grandson light up the candles.
     

     

    I settled on a red corduroy one that had a hood to it. It looked real warm, and he would like that.

    "Is this a Christmas present for someone?" the lady behind the counter asked kindly, as I laid my ten dollars down. "Yes, ma'am," I replied shyly. "It's for Bobby." 

     

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    The Nativity Scene.

     

    The nice lady smiled at me as I told her about how Bobby really needed a good winter coat. I didn't get any change, but she put the coat in a bag, smiled again, and wished me a Merry Christmas.

    That evening, Grandma helped me wrap the coat (a little tag fell out of the coat, and Grandma tucked it in her Bible) in Christmas paper and ribbons and wrote, "To Bobby, From Santa Claus" on it.

     

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    The music team of Shonda, Ray, and David with a special welcome back to Wendy.

     

     

    Grandma said that Santa always insisted on secrecy. Then she drove me over to Bobby Decker's house, explaining as we went that I was now and forever officially, one of Santa's helpers.

    Grandma parked down the street from Bobby's house, and she and I crept noiselessly and hid in the bushes by his front walk. Then Grandma gave me a nudge. "All right, Santa Claus," she whispered, "get going."

     

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    John reading the second half of the Eucharistic prayer.

     

    I took a deep breath, dashed for his front door, threw the present down on his step, pounded his door and flew back to the safety of the bushes and Grandma.

    Together we waited breathlessly in the darkness for the front door to open. Finally it did, and there stood Bobby. 

     

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    The Team, Georgie, Kevin, Mike, and John

     

    Sixty years haven't dimmed the thrill of those moments spent shivering, beside my Grandma, in Bobby Decker's bushes. That night, I realized that those awful rumors about Santa Claus were just what Grandma said they were — ridiculous. Santa was alive and well, and Grandma and I were the proof.

    I still have Grandma’s Bible with the coat tag still tucked inside: $19.95.”

     

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    And The Angels.