Sunday Homily, January 3, 2016, Epiphany

 

Readings:

Isaiah  60, 1-6, Rise up in splendor, Jerusalem,  Your light has come.

Psalm 72,  Lord, every nation on earth will adore you.

Ephesians  3, 2-6, The Gentiles are coheirs.

Matthew 2, 1-12, Magi from the east arrived.

 

Emma 1

Emma says, "Hi, Everybody, Welcome in."

 

Isaiah, a review 

Here is another of those passages which make me love Isaiah so much.  I have mentioned this before.  He is my favorite.  

Today we have Isaiah III talking to the Jews who have returned to Jerusalem from the Babylonian Captivity, about 555 years before Christ.  It helps to picture the mood of these people. 

 

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"Hi, Folks, Welcome in, they are going to win today," says Cole, our Cowboy fan.   Sorry, Cole.  It has been a tough year.

 

Are you a Cowboy Fan?  How do you feel at about this year?  Multiply this by 10 and you have how the Jewish people felt after 50 years of slavery and  their town destroyed like New Orleans or parts of NY & NJ. 

When he says Jerusalem or Zion, he is talking to these beaten down people.  Later centuries church leaders began to make these words have two meanings, the city and us Christians.  Jerusalem, then, applies to us.

Sources: Good News Bible, The New Interpreter’s Bible

 

 

Gen 5

Does the Lord not shine on this little girl?

 

Upon you the Lord shines, because of 3 Magi

This morning I would like to propose that we have Magi in our lives and because of them the Lord shines on us, like it says in Isaiah.  

I want to limit the selection to 3, like the guys in Matthew’s story.  This was a bit difficult, because I see lots of Magi in my life.  Magi for me are the wise ones, the good ones, the compassionate ones.  I could start right here with you people in the community.  I could easily mention Rosemary. 

 

Gen 6

Ugh Oh, She has learned how to motor, like crawl.  Beware, Everybody.

 

However, I chose 3 guys who are not quite as present in my life, but are wise, good, and compassionate.  Here they are. 

The first guy is Harold.  I don’t even know his last name.  I do know that he is going to be 90 shortly.  I see him most mornings, Monday through Friday.  He is in the shower change room when I come into the J (Jewish Community Center) ca. 5:30 to do spin class. 

 

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So, the questions is, 'Where is she going?  To help with the singing (see podiums) or to help with the Mass?"  Tune in next week for the answer.

 

He is quiet and understated.  Despite working out 5 days a week, he is pretty plump.  What he is, is friendly and congenial.  He knows Rosemary & I go dancing Monday nights.  He always asks if we are going and Tuesday he asks how dancing was. 

The second person is my old coach & Scout Master from Christ the King, Frank Hart.  Frank is 90.  Notice how these 90 year olds are getting my attention.  Rosemary & I visit Frank every Sunday after we leave Sigler.  He lives in a house with about 8 other elderly people, all of them women except Frank.   The house is on Northhaven near Hillcrest.

 

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Emma and Zoe solving our world problems.

 

If I get to Frank before their lunch at 1:00, I usually find him in bed and asleep.  He has his clothes on.  He just sleeps a lot.  I wake him up and  despite his memory not being too good, he certainly remembers us and makes a big deal out of us coming by. 

Frank was one of the more significant persons in my life as a grade school kid.  He helped me get over being home sick when I went to Boy Scout camp, a story I've told here more than once. 

 

Buddy

 Hi, Buddy, are you a frog today?

 

While Frank touched me when I was in grade school, the third guy touched me when he was in grade school and I was at Jesuit.  His mother came by one day with her son and basically said, “Help!”  This is Michael, about whom you have heard me talk before.

 

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After doing a zillion Masses together at St. Marks in the cafetorium, an old friend, David has joined us in Sigler.  Welcome David!

 

Last Saturday he came by to visit Rosemary & me.  He has his gorgeous wife, Lydia, and now two neat kids, Barrett and Abby.  Michael is in the Air Force and I think the last time we met was in Aviano, Italy, when Beth & Rob were with us.  He flies these little F-16 jets.  

 

 

Gerwers

 

Genevieve, See these cool kids.  Someday you will grow up to be as marvelous as they.  The Gerwers.

 

Michael touches me because he overcame a number of blocks to, first, get into Jesuit, and then to have a great career at Tech after failing to get into A & M.  

 

Vines

Remember our old friendly venue, Vines?  With the Nativity drama and 300 folks, we will return to reminisce maybe twice a year.

 

What are the gifts they give me?  Wisdom, goodness, and compassion.  

Who are the 3 magi in your life & what gifts do they give you?

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    With the exception of John, in Jennings, LA to visit his sister, the whole gang is back, yeah.

     

    Readings:

    Genesis  18, 1-10,  Sarah will have a son (at 90!)

    Psalm 15,  He who does justice will live in the presence of the Lord

    Colossians 1, 24-28,  I rejoice in my sufferings for your sake.

    Luke 10, 38-42, "Lord, do you not care that my sister…

     

     

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    A great sister act.

     

    Observation on Genesis:

    I would laugh at the editor who selected this passage about Abraham and Sarah, his wife.  He leaves out the punch line, a most relevant fact coloring this passage.  Namely, Sarah is 90 and Abraham 100.  Why was this not mentioned?

    Genesis, by the way is the first book of the bible and a fun read, especially if you can appreciate it as fable & not factual history.  Don't go looking for the Ark, like you read about periodically.

     

     

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    Buddy  reading the Summer Blessing of the Candles.

     

    Observation on Paul writing to the Colossians:

    This version of Paul makes me want to pull out the violins and weep for the poor man.  Which, I guess, is the intention Paul is working with.  A poor me presentation.  The goal: get the readers to get up off their behind and get to work, like Paul is doing.

     

     

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    Shonda & Ben, The Best, minus David riding RAGBRAI with Dana, his daughter.

     

    Ragbrai Spirit : People are Good

    It’s Ragbrai (Register’s Annual Great Bike Ride Across Iowa)  week, Folks.  At this moment bikers (including David & Dana) are arriving at Council Bluffs on the MO River prepared to set out this morning, heading ultimately next Saturday to Keokuk, where Mike &  Judy grew up on the MS River.  I should be there.

     

     

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    What kind of trouble are these 4 up to??

     

    Along the way the bikers will walk (too crowded to ride) through achingly beautiful little towns with glorious Victorian houses, tree lined streets, delightful town parks, and welcoming people.  Plus a gazillion vendors. 

    Let me give you two vignettes that reflect the spirit of Ragbrai. 

    One early afternoon I am riding over some medium level hills.  They were a work out.  At one point starting to climb I run up behind a tricycle, one wheel in front of two & a bench.  Seated on the bench was an elderly guy and a young woman.  The woman is pumping them up the hill. 

    I think to myself, This hill is going to really discourage that woman.  So I ride to the top, drop my bike, and run back down to find two other young guys with the same idea .  We all three joined in and pushed that woman and her father right up to the top.

     

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    Cody, I have not seen Ben in a couple of summer months and when he came in this morning I did not recognize him.  He's grown a foot.

     

     

    I hopped on my bike and as I went down the hill I realized another hill was coming up.  To this day I can only hope other people stopped to push that lady & her dad up what turned out to be a series of serious hills.  I would expect they did help.

    I have already mentioned here that my most favorite vendor was the home made pie & ice cream stop, always on the right hand shoulder, always in the afternoon (at least for me).  I mentioned how once when I forgot my money, Hanc, a good kid I would see every year, he served me anyway.

    On another occasion I was in line at the pie selections tables when a lady behind me realized she did not have enough.  Naturally I staked her and told her to forget it. 

     

     

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    And the same with your pretty daughter Olivia.  She has so grown up this Summer.

     

    A day or two later I am sitting on a park bench in a beautiful park.  I am looking at a band stand, the bikers’ road, and a gorgeous river.   Behind me is the whole rest of the park with bikers everywhere.   Everybody is just enjoying the beauty.

    Suddenly a tap on my shoulder.  The lady from the Amish pie & ice cream stand hands me the money I loaned or really gave her.  She said thanks and disappeared in the throng of people lying around.   To say the least I was stunned and touched, and reminded again of how good people are. 

    This year I will not join the 20 to 30 thousand riders doing the 500 more or less miles.  The people spirit stays with me.

     

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    Today' Communion team, Cheryl, Patricia, Mike, & Claire.

  • Sunday Homily, August 30, 22nd Ordinary Time

    Readings:

     Deuteronomy 4, 1-2, 6-8, The commandments to Moses

    Psalm 15,    The one who does justice will live in the presence of the Lord.

    James 1, 17-18, 21-22, 27,  Every perfect gift is from above.

    Mark 7, 1-8, 14-15, 21-23,  All these evils come from within.

     

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                            Zoe says, "Welcome in, Everybody."

     

    Observations on Deuteronomy

    What is it about: Moses is addressing the people just before they are to enter into the Promised Land, the land of the Canaanites.  They have escaped from Egypt and have been wandering around in the desert for about 40 years.  Moses is dying and knows he will not go into Canaan.

    The theme of the staged talk is that God has saved and blessed his beloved people.  To help them live better he has given them the 10 commandments and a whole bunch of other laws.  This is a book on the laws.

     

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                 Buddy says, "Last day here?  Dunno, I like it here."

     

    This is the 5th book of the original bible and the fifth of the Big 5, Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers, & Deuteronomy

    Authors:  Inferring from the work, it is obvious that the judges and teachers of the people compiled the material.

    Time composed: as with so much else, after the Babylonian Captivity, around 500 before Christ.

     

    Tori

                   "Hi, Tori, Want to see how you like Sigler?"

     

    Observations on James

    1.   We have James for 5 Sundays
    2.   James was not an apostle, but head of the community after Jesus.    He gets stoned in 62.

     Sources: The New Interpreter’s Bible Study; The Good News Bible

            3.    Ever hear the story of Santiago de Compostella?    There is a large, ancient basilica in the Spanish province of Galicia, which, even up to today, has been a pilgrimage site for centuries, one of the big 3 sites in the world.  The other 2? Jerusalem & Rome.

    The tale?  Briefly.  

     

     

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            Genevieve says, "Well, it is all new to me.  Let's try it."

     

    The Apostle James supposedly went from Jerusalem to the North West province of Galicia in Spain to convert the people.  He baptized with a sea shell which is his symbol on the pilgrimage route.

    He went back to Jerusalem, was killed, and buried.  The angels transported his body to Galicia and buried it there.

    One day a little shepherd boy was in the fields and a light shone from heaven on a spot.  A voice told him to tell the bishop to dig there for St. James' bones.  He did, the bishop dug up the bones, and he built a chapel over the site.  

     

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            Leo says, "I like this place and I'll have fun at Sigler, too."

     

    This was about the year 700, just after the time the Moors had crossed into Spain from Africa and swept all the way up into France.  From this time until 1492 when Queen Isabella finally kicked them back to Africa, the Moors lived a lifestyle and culture that was far superior to Spain and Europe in those times.

    Meanwhile, James became the patron of the effort to remove the Moor. He was called the Matamoros, killer of the moors.

    Over the years the chapel gave way to bigger and bigger until this large basilica was built.  It was a great economic boon, because thousands of pilgrims came.  Cures were apparently taking place.

     

    John Retiring

               After 32 years working at TI, John is retiring.  Give that                       man a cupcake.

     

    The basilica is famous for its huge thurible, which is swung at the end of most Masses from side to side in the apse, not the nave.  This was supposedly to lessen the aroma of the unwashed pilgrims who were allowed to shelter in the balconies around the basilica.

    Rosemary & I & even Mary Ellen have visited Santiago de Compostella. Moreover, a former Jesuit classmate of mine from Washington State is this day making the pilgrimage which goes from Europe, like from Paris, over the Pyrenees, and along the northern part of Spain to Galicia.

     

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                Harper says, "What is that man talking about now?" 

     

    Grateful Reminiscing

    Seeing that this morning we are doing our last regular Mass in our old home, I would like to do a little grateful reminiscing.  This started out pretty simple, then it got overwhelming, and finally I have narrowed it down to 4 main points.

    First, remember the first time we celebrated Mass here, Thanksgiving weekend 10 years ago?  I can remember it clearly.  It had been about 5 months since I had seen most of you and certainly all those people who poured in that Sunday.  I was at the entrance greeting everybody with tears rolling down my cheeks.

     

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                                   Leo the Candle Lighter.

     

    There used to be a middle aisle here.  Remember?  That Sunday I walked down the aisle, turned around, and then could not say anything for probably half an hour. 

    That was one of the special events in this room and one of the special events in my life.

    Secondly, three special events. 

    1.  Christmas Eve celebrations with the little kids presenting the nativity.  Remember some of those days when we had a whole bunch of baby Jesus, both boys & girls?

     

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                     Offertory, John & Jean, Louis, Judy & Mike

     

        Connected with that is the way the community has welcomed the kids     each Sunday, and the babies, like Genevieve and last week, Vivian.      Those kids give me so much spirit to my life.

    1. Another special event was Fred’s memorial.  One of our best buddies. 
    2. Then there is our music, with Ray and Shonda pulling it all together.   I get so high on what we sing I can dance all week.
    3. After all this, thirdly, I have been touched by three special people who give me life, Mike, John, and Tony O’Donovan.

     

     

     

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                               The Best, Shonda, Bethany, & Ray.

     

    I remember that it was at Sigler one Sunday when his son Paul brought Mike to the community. 

    Without John & his open spirit, I would really feel tied down.  You two help keep the community together.

    With regard to Tony, do you realize that we would have been in a bind if he had not stepped forward before I was out some months with my new hips?

    The final event I am grateful for is you folks, you people.  I am both touched that you keep coming back, week after week, and because of your presence I begin the week on a high, full of joy and sacred memories. 

    Thanks for the 10 years of marvelous memories.

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                 Genevieve says, "Wake me up, please, when he is finished                   talking. 

  • Sunday Homily, April 27, 2014, 2nd Easter, Cycle A

    Readings:

    Acts 2, 42-47,  Awe came upon everyone.

    Psalm 118,  Give thanks to the Lord for he is good, his love is everylasting.

    1 Peter  1, 3-9,  Although you have not seen him, you love him.

    John  20, 19-31,  Unless I see the marks of the nails.

     

    Leo & smile

    Leo says, "Welcome, Everybody."

     

    Observations on Acts:

    What : The second half of Luke’s work, the first part being his gospel.  Acts starts after the Resurrection.  We will read Acts all through May and read the last selection June 1, then June 7, Pentecost.  The work focuses on the spread of the early church with special attention given to Peter and Paul and their conflicts over who was to be a Christian, and Jewish laws, like circumcision.  The conversion of Paul is described.

    Who: Luke, an educated and civilized Jew who wrote in Greek.

    Date:  around the year 65, or about 30 years after Jesus’ death.

     

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    Tori also says, Hi, Everybody, Come in."

     

    Our Selection: Luke describes and idyllic community, not a real community.  This was utopia, a vision Plato had of the perfect community.  It reminds me of advertisements Rosemary & I get for idyllic retirement communities, beautiful elderly people, smiling, hiking, enjoying excellent meals in charming dining rooms, all in perfect harmony.   Look at the struggles Peter & Paul had with each other’s view of Christianity and you get a view of today’s Christianity.

    1 Peter observations:

    Peter is writing to the first Christians in what is today Turkey and, get this, Syria.  He is encouraging them in their struggles.

    Sources: Jerusalem Bible, Wikipedia

     

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    Harper lights the candle with her grandmother's help, Cathy.

     

     The Doubting Thomas Syndrome

    This morning I would like to talk about the Doubting Thomas Syndrome.  The syndrome is usually dealt with like a sickness.  The medication and remedy, ‘Don’t doubt, just believe.’  I have heard this since I was a kid in Christ the King school.

    The problem with this, of course, is that the remedy is really an invitation to hat check my God given, marvelous intelligence at the door.  A don’t think dictum.  Let me offer an example of how this can put you in an unpleasant mind set. 

     

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    Harper, the candle lighter.

     

    You all know that I have been studying French since I was recuperating from my two new hips in 2010.  You also know that Rosemary & I just returned a week ago from 11 days in France.   I am sure you have also heard and believe probably the common opinion that French are all snobby and rude.  Here is what I saw on one occasion.

    Rosemary and I are in a small market, like a small supermarket about the size of one of our convenience stores, but bigger and more like our supermarkets.   I get about 6 bananas and Rosemary gets some things for her evening snack.  It is about 5 P.M., so a number shoppers are wandering around.

     

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    Cupcakes of the Week for David, Denni, John, Jerry and, coming on the run, Cliff.

     

    Once we have everything we want and have wandered the store enough, we get into the checkout line.  A young girl is there checking out, very polite and cordial.  I chat her up in French.  The items are scanned just like here until she gets to my six bananas. 

    She holds them up, looks them over, and indicates something on the bananas.   Turns out it is not something on the bananas, but something missing, the cost, which should have been calculated back in the little produce department.

     

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    This is all going on in French, of which I suddenly can’t remember squat.  There is a line now of about 3-4 others behind us.  I get the idea finally, but I don’t know where the scale is to calculate the price. I can see us holding up the line for ten minutes while I wander the produce department.

    Suddenly, the professional looking French man behind us says in English he knows what to do and would be happy to solve the problem in a minute.  Which he does and we check out.  We depart with wishes to have a nice visit from people around us.   Nobody was impatient.

     

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    Emma coming in from the rain.

    I was most touched and thought, ‘So much for the word around that all French are snobby and rude.’   Certainly these folks were just the contrary.

    This exemplifies in a small way how beliefs can be one hundred and eighty degrees off.  We will never know the truth if we simply have faith. 

    My Jesuit training pushed us to question, investigate, and to doubt.  The alternative is to hat check my God given, marvelous intelligence at the door.   

     

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    Offertory procession, Nina & Kerry, Carol & Richard.

     

    Got no doubts?  Robots & drones have no doubts.  They just do what they are told by someone else.

    Got some good, healthy doubts?  How do you handle them?

     

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  • Sunday Homily, May 14, 2017, 5th Easter

    Readings:

    Acts of the Apostles  6, 1-7, Select from among you 7 reputable men.

    Psalm 33,  Lord, Let your mercy be upon us as we place our trust in you.

    1 Peter 2, 4-9, You are a chosen race.

     John 14, 15-21,  If you love me you will keep my commandments.

     

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    "Hi, Everybody," says Zoe, "And Happy Mother's Day."
     

     

    Mother's Day History:

    1905-08: Anna Jarvis of West Virginia began this celebration for her mother, Ann, who cared for wounded Civil War soldiers of both sides.  She campaigned to make it a national day and in 

    1914:  Woodrow Wilson made it national.

    The spelling: always singular, according to Anna. 

    Hallmark Cards: Anna hated them because she felt you know what.  

     

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    "From me, too," says Tori, "Happy Mother's Day."

     

    It’s Mother’s Day !

    In honor of it being Mother’s Day I want to tell two stories about my mom.  One story is about a compliment she gave me and the second is about a trip we made together.

    The first story took place around ’89 or ’90.  I had already returned from East Africa and had already put in a year in a Hispanic church the Jesuits ran in downtown Houston.   I was now living at the high school community. 

     

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    Welcome home, Dawson, from first year at Ole Miss.

     

    It was early afternoon.  We were on westbound LBJ heading toward what used to be called the Deadman Hospital at Webb Chapel.  The name has been changed.  Mom was going to the hospital to have some minor surgery, and would stay overnight.

    As we drove along she reached out her left hand, patted me on the leg, and said, “I’m proud of you.” 

     

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    I may be wrong, but I don’t remember my mom ever doing that before.  You got to remember that she had always been bummed about me joining the Jesuits and she had never spoken to a Jesuit for about 7 years after I had gone to East Africa. 

    She thought I had been sent despite my insistence that I had simply accepted an invitation. 

     

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    Our Candle Lighter of The Week, Leo.

     

     

     

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    Offertory time with Warren, Barb, and Bill.

     

    I was already probably 50 years old at the time mom complimented me.  I had been around a bit.  That compliment really touched me.

    The second story took place on one of my home visits from East Africa.  Mom got her two sisters to join her and invited me to drive them around Ireland one Fall on my return to East Africa. 

     

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    Communion helpers, Mike, Geri, Claire, Beth, and Rob.

     

    We met in London, which is a story for another homily.  We went to Dublin and leased a little red, two door car.  We drove counter clockwise through County Cavin, where they looked in graveyards for our ancestors, through Northern Ireland, and through the northwest until we arrived at Shannon Airport.

    They were like three teen aged girls, laughing, and telling stories about their early day.  Thanks to the smallness of Ireland, we were able to make good progress even though we would usually not be ready to depart in the morning until 10:00 or 10:30.  By 11:30 they wanted to stop for tea.

     

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    Buddies, Zoe & Harper.

     

    12:30 or 1:00 lunch.  3:30 for tea and pastries.  Finally, by 5:30 I had to start looking for a place to stay & eat.  And this was a process.  I had to check it out.  Then my mom checked it.  If she gave the okay, in everyone went to eat dinner and laugh themselves silly until 11:00 or 12:00 midnight.

    It was one of the fun trips of my life and I was most touched that mom had invited me to be their driver.

     

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    Buddies, Mike & Rosemary.

     

    The power of a mother to give life through a simple compliment. 

    How has your mother given you life?

  • Sunday Homily March 24, 2013, Palm Sunday

    Procession Begins 3-24-13

    Procession begins and takes shape in the cafetorium.



    Readings:

    Luke 19, 28-40, Jesus enters Jerusalem (for the procession)

    Isaiah 50, 4-7, I gave my back to those who beat me (one of the Suffering Servant songs)

    Psalm 22,  My God, My God, why have you abandoned me. 

    Philippians 2, 6-11,  He emptied himself, taking the form of a slave.

    Luke 22, 14-23, 56  The Passion

    Note: No homily this Sunday because of the volume of readings.

    Video:  Entrance Procession for Palm Sunday.  Curtis consented to play the role of Jesus entering Jerusalem.  (2 minutes)

     

     

    Entrance 3-24-13

    Entrance just starting up.
    Curtis 3-24-13

    Curtis playing the role of Jesus entering Jerusalem. Most touching.

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    Palms ready, Claire with Kayla and CC.

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    Hue enters.

  • Christmas Eve Homily, December 24th, 2015

    Readings:

    Isaiah  9, 1-6,  The people who have walked in darkness have seen a great light.

    Psalm 96,    Today is born our Savior, Christ the Lord.

    Titus 2, 11-14, The Grace of God has appeared.

    Luke,  2,  1-14,  In those days a decree went out from Caesar August.  The Nativity narrative.

     

    Nora as Jesus

    Merry Christmas, Nora, your first one.  How was it being Jesus in the Nativity Play? 

     

    Isaiah: author, date, subject, today’s selection–

       Author: This is probably my most favorite book in the Old Testament.  Isaiah is one of the Big Three OT prophets along with Jeremiah & Ezekiel.  This is because of the size of the work, 66 chapters, but even more so because Isaiah is so beautiful and influential in the Christian story. 

    There are really three Isaiahs, chapters 1-39, 40-55, & 56-66.  How do we know?  Simple.  Different styles of writing, different vocabularies, different slants to the message, references to places.

     

    Offertory

    Merry Christmas to all you Quinns and thanks for  bringing up the Offertory.

     

       Date: 1 Isaiah, our selection is put together ca. 700 before Christ.  2  Isaiah, ca. 500 before Christ; 3 Isaiah, ca. 400 before Christ.

       Subject: As always, there have been predictions of doom & destruction because of the badness of the people. 

    Today’s selection: This passage, however, is the flip of this.  Listen for words like rejoicing, making merry, joy, peace, a God-hero Child is born.

    Source:  Good News Bible, Bishop John Shelby Spong

     

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     The littlest Quinn, Vivienne.

     

    Christmas Eve Homily

    This afternoon I would like to tell you a Christmas story.  It is about a kid and his grandmother at Christmas.  

    I remember my first Christmas adventure with Grandma. I was just a kid.
    I remember tearing across town on my bike to visit her on the day my big sister dropped the bomb: "There is no Santa Claus," she jeered. "Even dummies know that!"

     

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     J.J. and The Smile.

     

    My Grandma was not the gushy kind, never had been. I fled to her that day because I knew she would be straight up with me. I knew Grandma always told the truth, and I knew that the truth always went down a whole lot easier when swallowed with one of her "world-famous" cinnamon buns. I knew they were world-famous, because Grandma said so. It had to be true.

    Grandma was home, and the buns were still warm. Between bites, I told her everything. She was ready for me. "No Santa Claus?" she snorted…."Ridiculous! Don't believe it. That rumor has been going around for years, and it makes me mad, plain mad!! Now, put on your coat, and let's go."

     

    Angel 3

    And Merry Christmas to you, too, Charlotte.

    "Go? Go where, Grandma?" I asked. I hadn't even finished my second world-famous cinnamon bun. "Where" turned out to be Kerby's General Store, the one store in town that had a little bit of just about everything. As we walked through its doors, Grandma handed me ten dollars. That was a bundle in those days. "Take this money," she said, "and buy something for someone who needs it. I'll wait for you in the car." Then she turned and walked out of Kerby's.

     

    Angels

    Our Angels.

    I was only eight years old. I'd often gone shopping with my mother, but never had I shopped for anything all by myself. The store seemed big and crowded, full of people scrambling to finish their Christmas shopping.

    For a few moments I just stood there, confused, clutching that ten-dollar bill, wondering what to buy, and who on earth to buy it for.

    I thought of everybody I knew: my family, my friends, my neighbors, the kids at school, the people who went to my church.

     

     

    Music 3

     The Best, Wendy, Shonda, & Ray.

    I was just about thought out, when I suddenly thought of Bobby Decker. He was a kid with bad breath and messy hair, and he sat right behind me in Mrs. Pollock's grade-two class. Bobby Decker didn't have a coat. I knew that because he never went out to recess during the winter.

    His mother always wrote a note, telling the teacher that he had a cough, but all we kids knew that Bobby Decker didn't have a cough; he didn't have a good coat. I fingered the ten-dollar bill with growing excitement. I would buy Bobby Decker a coat!

     

     

    Meals 2

    Meals on Wheels food pick up.

                                                                                                                                                                                      

    I settled on a red corduroy one that had a hood to it. It looked real warm, and he would like that.

    "Is this a Christmas present for someone?" the lady behind the counter asked kindly, as I laid my ten dollars down. "Yes, ma'am," I replied shyly. "It's for Bobby."

    The nice lady smiled at me, as I told her about how Bobby really needed a good winter coat. I didn't get any change, but she put the coat in a bag, smiled again, and wished me a Merry Christmas.

     

    Meals

     

     A beautiful Christmas morning for delivering Meals on Wheels.

    That evening, Grandma helped me wrap the coat (a little tag fell out of the coat, and Grandma tucked it in her Bible) in Christmas paper and ribbons and wrote, "To Bobby, From Santa Claus" on it.

    Grandma said that Santa always insisted on secrecy. Then she drove me over to Bobby Decker's house, explaining as we went that I was now and forever officially, one of Santa's helpers.

     


    Meals 3
    Our Drivers, Ro & Aviana, ready to go.  This is a big  operation.

     

    Grandma parked down the street from Bobby's house, and she and I crept noiselessly and hid in the bushes by his front walk. Then Grandma gave me a nudge. "All right, Santa Claus," she whispered, "get going."

    I took a deep breath, dashed for his front door, threw the present down on his step, pounded his door and flew back to the safety of the bushes and Grandma.

     

     

    More shepherds

     The Great Shepherds, Jake & Leo.

    Together we waited breathlessly in the darkness for the front door to open. Finally it did, and there stood Bobby.

    Fifty years haven't dimmed the thrill of those moments spent shivering, beside my Grandma, in Bobby Decker's bushes. That night, I realized that those awful rumors about Santa Claus were just what Grandma said they were — ridiculous. Santa was alive and well, and we were on his team.

     

     

    Mike & Geri

     Merry Christmas Rosemary, Mike, and Geri.

    I still have the Bible, with the coat tag tucked inside: $19.95.

    May you always believe in the magic of kindness and caring of Santa Claus!