Sunday Homily, November 24, 2019, Christ the King

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Sez Shonda, "Welcome in, Everybody."

 

Readings:

2 Samuel 5, 1-3, David anointed king of Israel 

Psalm 122,  Let us go rejoicing to the house of the Lord

Colossians 1, 12-20,  Let us give thanks to the Father.

Luke 23, 35-43,  This is the king of the Jews.  

 

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Likewise say Connie & John, "Come on  in, Folks"

 

Homily by John Cade

Every Sunday we “do” the Mass. ‘Eucharist’ is the Greek word for “giving thanks”. Following the theme Stack and Mike and I set for these three weeks, I will share my gratitude for four of the many blessings I received this year.

 

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Welcome Home, Gil.  It has been a long recuperation and it is delightful to see you.

 

On Jan. 1 Lambrini retired. We are grateful together for her having this good job for 21 years, achieving many career goals, and, in the process, earning the respect of her coworkers. Of course, even a good job includes work stress—like its duties and demands and sometimes its environment. And you know, if your partner is stressed, you are stressed. Retirement is when we both get to say goodbye to those stresses, and catch up on our bucket list.

 

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Thanks, Sophia, for lighting our candles.

 

In terms of health, Lambrini had severe A-fib symptoms; they were debilitating. A blessing I shared with her was her ablation surgery that reduced the worst of her A-fib symptoms, Alleluia! On my personal health blessings: I had an echocardiogram and a stress test this summer, after which my cardiologist said, “See you next year!”—always what we want to hear. My Urologist said the same just this past week.

 

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Happy Thanksgiving, Brent.  This $1000 check is for the Souls Harbor enterprise.  I only wish it could be our $2000.

 

Another blessing was celebrating with Lambrini our 25th wedding anniversary. It’s not just all these years together; it’s also deepening our devotion and gratitude for each other and working to better accept our differences.  Speaking of weddings, I was blessed getting to preside over the wedding of a young couple. Doing weddings is a gift; they are such happy occasions, intimate and full of promise and fun.

 

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Bill, even with chemo treatment, you still challenge our community to do more, like the Love for Kids Picnic coming up this month.  Thanks.

 

Finally a big blessing, this year and every year, is being part of this community. An example of what a blessing this community is was how this community stood with Rich and Carol as they ‘walked their walk’ right in our midst. We got to see their steadfast loyalty and courage.

 

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Says Marilyn, " Sign up for the Juliets Christmas luncheon coming up soon."

 

I give thanks for the loving support this community provides. We all experience losses. My gratitude is for the way this community helps me and all of us feel safe enough to share them, and courageous enough to accept them, and get on to the next step of our journey.

How will you remember and give thanks for the blessings of this year, individually and together?

 

 

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Communion for All.

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     Readings:  

     Proverbs, 9, 1-6, Wisdom had built her house

     Psalm 34, Taste & See the Goodnesss of the Lord (2nd week)

     Ephesians, Giving thanks always and for everything

     John, 6, 51-58,  I am the living bread that came down from heaven.

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    Proverbs:

    What are they: a collection of moral & religious teachings in the form of pithy sayings.  For example: "Better to eat a dry crust of bread with peace of mind than to have a banquet in a house full of trouble" (17, 1); "Being cheerful always keeps you healthy" (17, 22).

    Some a bit tough: "Don't hesitate to discipline a child.  A good beating won't kill him" (23, 12).

    Some amusing: "A nagging wife is like water going drip-drip-drip" (27, 15); "Better to live on the roof than to share the house with a nagging wife" (25, 24). 

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    Author: Maybe Solomon is behind chapters 1-29.  Most likely a compilation.

    Date: Ca. 300 BCE is considered a possibility with material coming from as far back as 900, during the time of Solomon.

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    Celeste arriving

    Our Selection: Wisdom is personified and she is preparing a feast or banquet to which the simple people are invited.

    Sources: Religious Information Service & Wikipedia

     

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    One year ago married, Katie Urbanczyk & Sean Baker

    Taste & See the Goodness of the Lord, part 2

    Our story this morning takes place some days ago at White Rock Lake.  It is early morning, sunrise.  Rosemary & I have been riding our bikes down the White Rock Creek Trail from Royal Lane. 

    We cross Northwest Hwy. and begin circling the lake in a clockwise direction.  I get ahead of her & we plan on meeting at the far end of the lake, the south end, at a boat house for skinny boats used by college and high school crews. 

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    Our Habitat House, with siding

    Somewhere along the path, Rosemary passes an elderly guy.  99% of the time both of us yell, “Passing on your left,” as we approach people.  This particular time Rosemary does not say anything.  Mistake.

    The guy yells at her, “Why don’t you warn people when you are going by?” 

    Rosemary responds, “Because you got those big ear phones on.”

    To which he yells, “I can still hear.”

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    Monica the window framing expert

    Sounded to me like a little road rage on the bike path.

    I confess that I have been in that guy’s place.  I am usually passing people & saying, “On your left.”  I am so fast!

    Occasionally some young guy in his designer, color coordinated outfit will zoom by me without a word.  This sometimes startles me despite my little rear view mirror on my helmet.  And I get annoyed.   So I say something like that man, or “Speak up.”

    But every time I said something, I felt yucky.  Why?

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    Grace on clean up duty

    Because I was no longer tasting the beauty of this jewel of a lake because I was emotionally hooked.

    Also because I was no longer seeing the goodness of all the people walking, running, and riding around the lake with me.

    Ultimately, I was not peaceful, which is one big reason why I am out there in the first place.

    I talked about this with Rosemary and I decided I would not say anything anymore.  Let people be.  Surrender to the reality.  Accept.  And I have.  Mostly. 

    The result. 

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    Catherine Adcock at Habitat with her brother…

    I consciously taste and see the beauty of the lake each morning we ride.  In fact, so as to counter my obsessive approach to speed and to take time to smell the flowers along the way, Rosemary & I stop at the bridges on both the north & south ends of the lake and just contemplate for 2-3 minutes. 

    I also appreciate the people, saying good morning to people I am passing.  Bit by bit, some of the people I see regularly respond, bikers, walkers, and even joggers.   

    Finally, I feel peaceful. 

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    Rosemary saw the same man again and this time warned him.  As she rode by he said, “Thanks for speaking.  You are one of about 5% of the bikers who warn people.”  Does not sound like he is more peaceful.

    Do you have any road rage moments on your bike ride through the day that eliminate tasting & seeing the goodness?  What are you doing about it? 

                                                                                       

  • Sunday Homily, May 18, 08, Trinity Sunday

    Readings: Exodus 34, 4-9; Psalm, Daniel 3, 52-55; 2 Corinthians 13, 11-13; John 3, 16-18.

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    The Trinity: First proclaimed as a dogma in 350, Council of Nice, France.  Church leaders were influenced by 1) reflecting back on biblical passages that identified God sources, e.g., Jesus & Holy Spirit; 2) Babylonian, Egyptian, and Greek philosophy (e.g., Plato) which believed in a plurality of gods and an afterlife.

    Exodus: The second book of the O.T. & the Hebrew Torah (1st 5 books).  Basically the story of Moses leading the Hebrews out of Egypt, where they had gone because of drought generations earlier.  Today’s metaphorical passage tells of how Moses got a second set of the 10 Commandments after he broke the first set in anger at the people.  The people are in the desert.  We will read all the first 9 verses.

    Already Condemned?

    Last week a good friend of mine called up and said, "Stack, are all non-Catholics going to hell?"  Seems like she had been talking with a friend of hers about an acquaintance who was not Catholic.  The person said that all people who do not believe in Jesus are condemned.  Catholics hold that all who are not Catholic are condemned.  Right?

    My friend who has been a lifelong Catholic said that she had heard this a long time ago, but did not think anyone really believed it anymore. 

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    First, the Bible.  We have an example in John’s passage today of the danger of taking one line or event literally.  If you take the Bible literally you parents have the justification to kill your son or daughter who is disobedient.  Slavery should still exist.  You should pluck out your eye if it is a source of temptation to you.  With that we would all be blind from adolescence.  This, along with much more like it, is in our Bible.

    So much of the Old Testament is legend, but legend intended to convey the writer’s moral lesson.  Like today’s story of Moses & the 10 Commandments.  Legend.  Moses supposedly lived at least 300 years before the events recounted here were written down.  300 years of oral passing on.   Could you write a history of, say, the Revolutionary War or even the Civil War?

    The lesson is: don’t take literally every sentence in the Bible. 

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    So do we pick and choose the lines we like in the Bible?  Yes, I think so, using common sense and our experience.  Otherwise we are like dumb sheep.  Finally, putting together our experience of living and identifying lines in Scripture that we find helpful, we put together our own personal image of our God.  Is that God gracious & merciful, patient & loving, or condemning?  For me it is definitely the former.

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    What do you think?  Is God condemning people?  Or is our God gracious & merciful, patient & loving?

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  • Sunday Homily, June 14, 2015, 11th Ordinary Time, B

    Readings:

    Ezekiel  17,  22-24.  Nope, actually a change this Sunday to 1 Corinthians 13.  Bet you cannot guess which great passage this it.

    Psalm 92,    Lord, it is good to give thanks to you.

    2 Corinthians 5, 6-10,   We are always courageous.

    Mark  4, 26-34,  On its own accord, the land yields fruit.

     

    Wedding

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    Love is patient, Love is kind, Love is accepting

    This morning I would like to talk about some things that struck me about the wedding we performed last week in Mechanicsburg, PA.  As I’ve mentioned, the wedding was between two women.

    About 14 years ago I performed the wedding of Beth to a neat guy named Doug, a stocky Greek.  They had only been married 6 months when Doug died of a heart attack.  Beth is Rosemary’s niece, the daughter of Joe & Claire, who live in Hilton Head, where Rosemary & I love to go for Thanksgiving. 

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                       The 3 Sisters, Rosemary, Patty, and Claire.
     

    Beth decided to stay in the house she and Doug owned and stay in her job.  During the next few years she got involved with a very open United Church of Christ.  Sarah played the organ.  They got together and developed a warm friendship.  Eventually this lead to their marriage last Saturday. 

    I don’t know how you all feel about same sex marriages.  I personally would have loved to sit down with Beth and have her tell me how it all came about, first marrying a guy, now marrying her best friend.  Whatever, I did not have the chance.  However, I am convinced from all my years of experience with gay people as a priest and a psychotherapist that no gay person really chooses this path.  I have worked with so many who agonized over coming out.  It involves hatred and abuse, even from family members.

     

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    Cupcake of The Week to Georgie for the do.  "I may tease you, Georgie, about the do, but I admire your spirit of exploration. Keep it up.  Keep dancing.  And keep swimming

     

    The first thing that struck me at the wedding.  Did you recognize the 1 Corinthians passage?  I confess that after performing so many weddings where I heard the passage read, I eventually was put off by it.  Until a few years ago.  I suddenly realized it is helpful for me to be reminded of what love really is. 

    At the wedding I heard Beth’s sister read the passage with such feeling and tears that I and lots more of the 200 more or less people there, we were all in tears.  Kristine herself took 30 minutes because she was in tears.   I was so touched and so struck.

      The Team

                                                          What a team.

     

    The second thing that struck me was the cordiality and warmth of the present pastor, John, and the previous interim pastor, Karin.  I thanked them and told them how I sensed a kinship of spirit among us. 

    Karin was the one who suggested we go bare footed as a sign of respect for the sanctuary where we were performing the wedding.   It was a first for me.  Should I do the same here?

      Zoe-Buddy

                      Zoe & Buddy say, "Hey, don't forget about us."

     

    The final thing that struck me was the whole hearted acceptance of Beth on the part of, not only her parents, but all the McGinn Clan.  Rosemary had 3 brothers and two sisters.  One brother died a few years ago.  All these siblings have kids and all of them were there, most of them with their kids.  Their support was total. 

    Kristine’s reading about love being patient & kind, the pastors John & Karin, and the total McGinn family acceptance of Beth.  A powerful, moving weekend. 

    Where are you on the whole phenomenon of same sex marriages?

     

     

  • Reminder for Sunday, February 2, 2020, Presentation

     

    Special Thanks edition for Sunday's celebration and birthday brunch.

     

    Community 2

     

    A colorful community for a colorful room at Legacy

     

     

    Welcome this Sunday: Catholic Mass with coffee & juice, and pastries, some bought, some home-made. 

    Time: 9:30; Celebrate with the Community  & John Cade, Mike Carrell,  &  Stack  

    Place: Legacy Charter School,  601 Accent Drive, Plano, TX 75075

     

    Brunch 1

     

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    We have heard that people discover that the Blog has stopped coming.  Typepad tends to drop people for no reason.  So if this happens to you, just sign up again by going to www.johnstackministries.com

     

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    Psalm 24.  Who is this king of glory?  It is the Lord.

    Hebrews 2, 14-18,  He was able to help.

    Luke 2, 22-40, The Presentation

     

    Cake 1

     

    Thanks, Jackie, for The Best Cake.

     

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    Please let me know who will be joining us. Looking forward to celebrating Valentines Day.  Per the owner, reservations are required.

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  • Christmas Eve Homily, December 24th, 2015

    Readings:

    Isaiah  9, 1-6,  The people who have walked in darkness have seen a great light.

    Psalm 96,    Today is born our Savior, Christ the Lord.

    Titus 2, 11-14, The Grace of God has appeared.

    Luke,  2,  1-14,  In those days a decree went out from Caesar August.  The Nativity narrative.

     

    Nora as Jesus

    Merry Christmas, Nora, your first one.  How was it being Jesus in the Nativity Play? 

     

    Isaiah: author, date, subject, today’s selection–

       Author: This is probably my most favorite book in the Old Testament.  Isaiah is one of the Big Three OT prophets along with Jeremiah & Ezekiel.  This is because of the size of the work, 66 chapters, but even more so because Isaiah is so beautiful and influential in the Christian story. 

    There are really three Isaiahs, chapters 1-39, 40-55, & 56-66.  How do we know?  Simple.  Different styles of writing, different vocabularies, different slants to the message, references to places.

     

    Offertory

    Merry Christmas to all you Quinns and thanks for  bringing up the Offertory.

     

       Date: 1 Isaiah, our selection is put together ca. 700 before Christ.  2  Isaiah, ca. 500 before Christ; 3 Isaiah, ca. 400 before Christ.

       Subject: As always, there have been predictions of doom & destruction because of the badness of the people. 

    Today’s selection: This passage, however, is the flip of this.  Listen for words like rejoicing, making merry, joy, peace, a God-hero Child is born.

    Source:  Good News Bible, Bishop John Shelby Spong

     

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     The littlest Quinn, Vivienne.

     

    Christmas Eve Homily

    This afternoon I would like to tell you a Christmas story.  It is about a kid and his grandmother at Christmas.  

    I remember my first Christmas adventure with Grandma. I was just a kid.
    I remember tearing across town on my bike to visit her on the day my big sister dropped the bomb: "There is no Santa Claus," she jeered. "Even dummies know that!"

     

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     J.J. and The Smile.

     

    My Grandma was not the gushy kind, never had been. I fled to her that day because I knew she would be straight up with me. I knew Grandma always told the truth, and I knew that the truth always went down a whole lot easier when swallowed with one of her "world-famous" cinnamon buns. I knew they were world-famous, because Grandma said so. It had to be true.

    Grandma was home, and the buns were still warm. Between bites, I told her everything. She was ready for me. "No Santa Claus?" she snorted…."Ridiculous! Don't believe it. That rumor has been going around for years, and it makes me mad, plain mad!! Now, put on your coat, and let's go."

     

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    And Merry Christmas to you, too, Charlotte.

    "Go? Go where, Grandma?" I asked. I hadn't even finished my second world-famous cinnamon bun. "Where" turned out to be Kerby's General Store, the one store in town that had a little bit of just about everything. As we walked through its doors, Grandma handed me ten dollars. That was a bundle in those days. "Take this money," she said, "and buy something for someone who needs it. I'll wait for you in the car." Then she turned and walked out of Kerby's.

     

    Angels

    Our Angels.

    I was only eight years old. I'd often gone shopping with my mother, but never had I shopped for anything all by myself. The store seemed big and crowded, full of people scrambling to finish their Christmas shopping.

    For a few moments I just stood there, confused, clutching that ten-dollar bill, wondering what to buy, and who on earth to buy it for.

    I thought of everybody I knew: my family, my friends, my neighbors, the kids at school, the people who went to my church.

     

     

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     The Best, Wendy, Shonda, & Ray.

    I was just about thought out, when I suddenly thought of Bobby Decker. He was a kid with bad breath and messy hair, and he sat right behind me in Mrs. Pollock's grade-two class. Bobby Decker didn't have a coat. I knew that because he never went out to recess during the winter.

    His mother always wrote a note, telling the teacher that he had a cough, but all we kids knew that Bobby Decker didn't have a cough; he didn't have a good coat. I fingered the ten-dollar bill with growing excitement. I would buy Bobby Decker a coat!

     

     

    Meals 2

    Meals on Wheels food pick up.

                                                                                                                                                                                      

    I settled on a red corduroy one that had a hood to it. It looked real warm, and he would like that.

    "Is this a Christmas present for someone?" the lady behind the counter asked kindly, as I laid my ten dollars down. "Yes, ma'am," I replied shyly. "It's for Bobby."

    The nice lady smiled at me, as I told her about how Bobby really needed a good winter coat. I didn't get any change, but she put the coat in a bag, smiled again, and wished me a Merry Christmas.

     

    Meals

     

     A beautiful Christmas morning for delivering Meals on Wheels.

    That evening, Grandma helped me wrap the coat (a little tag fell out of the coat, and Grandma tucked it in her Bible) in Christmas paper and ribbons and wrote, "To Bobby, From Santa Claus" on it.

    Grandma said that Santa always insisted on secrecy. Then she drove me over to Bobby Decker's house, explaining as we went that I was now and forever officially, one of Santa's helpers.

     


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    Our Drivers, Ro & Aviana, ready to go.  This is a big  operation.

     

    Grandma parked down the street from Bobby's house, and she and I crept noiselessly and hid in the bushes by his front walk. Then Grandma gave me a nudge. "All right, Santa Claus," she whispered, "get going."

    I took a deep breath, dashed for his front door, threw the present down on his step, pounded his door and flew back to the safety of the bushes and Grandma.

     

     

    More shepherds

     The Great Shepherds, Jake & Leo.

    Together we waited breathlessly in the darkness for the front door to open. Finally it did, and there stood Bobby.

    Fifty years haven't dimmed the thrill of those moments spent shivering, beside my Grandma, in Bobby Decker's bushes. That night, I realized that those awful rumors about Santa Claus were just what Grandma said they were — ridiculous. Santa was alive and well, and we were on his team.

     

     

    Mike & Geri

     Merry Christmas Rosemary, Mike, and Geri.

    I still have the Bible, with the coat tag tucked inside: $19.95.

    May you always believe in the magic of kindness and caring of Santa Claus!

     

  • Sunday Homily, August 4, 2019, 18th Ordinary Time

     

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    From Jim & John, "Welcome in, Everybody." 

     

    Readings:

    Ecclesiastes, 1,2; 2, 21-23,  Pretty pessimistic.  Author having a bad day?

    Psalm 90, If today you hear his voice, harden not you hearts.  

    Colossians 3, 1-5, 9-11,  Think of what is above, not of what is on earth

    Luke 12, 13-21,  There was a rich man

     

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    So good to have you back, Dee, especially looking so good.

     

    The First reading from Ecclesiastes reminds us that when a person passes he or she can’t take any of their worldly things with them.

    Our Second reading from Paul’s Letter to the Colossians reminds us that greed is idolatry; for it is a love of wealth; rather than a love of God.

     

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    Good Morning, Patricia!

     

    Homily on the Gospel reading:

     

    Here in Chapter 12 of Luke, a nondescript man comes to Jesus seeking a favorable decision regarding some inheritance that he is hoping to receive from his older brother. Jesus used this event to address the crowd with the wisdom to be on guard against all forms of greed.

     

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    Watch out for this crazy guy, Everybody.  I knew him way back when he was a nice little high school, kid.

     

    Following Jesus’ advice the older brother has put their extended family in mind.  He will not allow himself or his younger brother to fail in their responsibility to put their extended family ahead of their desire for possessions.   The older brother had taken a course of action to enhance the harvest from their father’s land.

     

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    Three of the Candle Lighting Team, Zoe, Tori, & Georgie.

     

    Now, there is nothing more in Luke’s chapter 12 about the relationship between the younger man and his older brother; however Luke has no intention of forgetting about them!  Each of the gospels form two complementary stories.   We will encounter the brothers again in a chapter 15! There, the younger son said to his father, “give me the share of the inheritance that would come to me.  The father divided the inheritance between them…and a few days later the younger brother took his inheritance with him to a foreign land where he squandered it on riotous living.

     

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    Mike homilizing on the Luke gospel.

     

    Recall that when the prodigal son came home asking to be forgiven, the story did not end. Is there a story like this in your immediate family? Harden not your hearts.

     

     

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    Married life: carry your cross??