Sunday Homily, March 9, 2014, 1st Lent, Cycle A

 Readings:

Genesis 2, 7-9, 3, 1-7,   The Lord planted a garden in Eden.

Psalm 62,  Be merciful, O Lord, for we have sinned.

Romans  5,  12-19,  Through one man sin entered the world.

Matthew  4, 1-11,  Jesus was led by the spirit into the desert to be tempted by the devil.

 

Leo

Leo says, "Welcome, Everybody, it is great fun here."


 
Romans observations :

What :  Paul writes this letter to the Roman community before he travels there.  It is one of the most dense and difficult books in the New Testament.  It is the longest letter.  I find about 8-10 lines in the whole letter that touch me.  Usually I dread seeing the letter as one of our readings.  Today is one of those days.

Date: around the year 55

 

Patricia

Likewise, Patricia says, "Come in, Folks, it is delightful here."

 

Genesis observations:

What: a great marvelous book about the origins of us people.  It includes Creation, Adam & Eve, Cain & Abel, Noah & the flood, the tower of Babel, the Patriarchs of the Jewish tribe, Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, and finally Joseph, the favorite son of Jacob, and how Joseph ends up in Egypt, leading to the next book, The Exodus.

Note: the book is folk tale, myth, and fable.  It is not literal.

Date:  guess.  It seems to have been put together from at least 4 oral streams that were combined during the Babylonian Captivity, 555, before Christ. These stories were orally passed down, generation after generation for 900 years. 

Authors:  these people are shrouded ancient history.  Some stories reflect folk tales of other groups of people, like the creation stories of Babylon.

Subject today: the second creation story, the one with the snake & apple tree.  It was from this story that Paul came up with the original sin notion, a notion that Augustine picked up and gave it legs.

 

Buddy

Buddy, the pet dragon.

 

Matthew:  Even today's gospel is mythical. 

Sources: Good News Bible, Bishop John Shelby Spong, Wikipedia

 

Lent, Fully Alive

This first Sunday of Lent I want to talk about how to have a fully alive Lent in light of an event that took place this past Thursday in the lives of Rosemary and me.

Thursday morning about noon our postman, Doug, rang the doorbell.  Rosemary went.  Doug said that across the street and down one house the guy who lived there had not collected his mail in a few days and the garage had been open with the car inside all that same time. 

 

Tori

Tori says, "Whose picture is that?"

 

I had noticed the newspapers piling up near the curb and driveway, but this guy who was really reclusive occasionally let them pile up before he would pick them up.  I had also noticed the garage open a couple of days, but that, too, the guy did occasionally.  From our house I could not see his garage because of a bush. 

I had thought in the past years that this guy has no one that I can see.  He is totally alone.  He has never had a job, did not take great care of his house and property, but always drove a new Jaguar.  Just in the last year I mentioned to Rosemary that the guy actually waved at me from his car on occasion.

 

Cowboy Cole-Leo

Cowboy Cole and Leo, it doesn't get better.

 

So I decided to call the neighborhood police who patrol our large neighborhood. 

Fifteen minutes later I see the police car.  Then I see the fire truck.  “This could be bad,” I mention to Rosemary.  “Go see what is going on.  I have a 1:30 luncheon with Kathey, my sister.” 

 

Ashes & John

Sunday Ashes for Erin, Leo, Cowboy Cole, Mary, and others.

 

Before I can even get into the car and back it out of the drive, she returns to tell me the guy is dead. 

I am stunned.  I feel horrible.  How could I have lived for years across from a reclusive guy, not even know his name, and let him lie dead in his house for who knows how many days?  Moreover, Rosemary & I are the Tulip Lane coordinators for the neighborhood organization.   He is on Camellia, but he is just across from us, we being on the corner.

 

CAthy-John

Cathy and John having too much fun.

 

This all happened the day after Ash Wednesday and I thought to myself, ‘Is this a Lenten invitation to me?’

I’m thinking it is.  I found out the guy was called Gary.  Even his next door neighbors did not know his name.  Our neighborhood coordinator knew it and gave me an emergency number to call, which I did.  We are now in touch with his brother and the brother’s wife, both of whom said they knew this dreaded day would come some day.  They, too, had not had contact with Gary in a bunch of years.

 

Cupcakes

Cupcakes of The Week, John and Dee.

 

What this is saying to me is, in my life and in our community I will not leave any Garys to die alone, if I can help it. 

I even asked my sister if she would like me to phone her the nights of her days off from work.  She declined, saying she is in touch enough.

So, during this Lent, 2 challenges for me:

  1. Who are the Garys in our community, my neighborhood, or in my life anywhere?  Keep in touch.
  2. No Fear Lent. 

I figure you are not a Gary if you are here. 

Therefore, who are the Gary’s in your life? 

 

Patisserie

Buddy may be yawning, but the Pastry Shoppe is the Best according to Tori and Georgie.


 

 

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     The Isaiah reading this morning has special meaning for me in two ways. 

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    Frank

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    Chloe

    Chloe says, "Happy Easter, Everybody."

     

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    Acts 10, 34, 37-43,   Peter proceeded to speak.

    Psalm 118,  This is the day the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad.

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    Jude

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    Seeing the Lord

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    Charlotte

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    During the singing Leo was playing at the feet of his parents as he often does.  At a point, he gets up and starts walking slowly in front of the table as he often does.  Suddenly, however, he vanishes from sight.  I don’t think I was paying much attention to him. 

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    Christopher

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    Roberts

    The Roberts.

     

    Secondly, Leo is not afraid of The Old Geezer.   Parents have told me since the days of St. Marks, “My kids think you are God.”  I am sure many of you can see the resemblance. 

    I think when I was a little kid I saw the priest as some God figure.  Trouble was, they were all stern and scary.  I would never have done what Leo did, nor anything close to it.  I grew up with fear, ultimately, fear that I was going to hell because I was such a bad kid.

     

    Emma

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    Gerwers

    "Where is that Easter Rabbit, say the Gerwers kids.

     

    I was so touched by her.  As she walked down the aisle with Ron, her dad, she began to cry and cry.  Of course, that got me going.  I saw the Lord last night.

    The third event took place Thursday afternoon.  See this turquoise thumb.  This says, “She made it, the last of 18 chemo treatments, success over ovarian cancer, NED, no evidence detected, Jackie Urbanczyk.”  We had a celebration at her house Thursday after her last treatment. 

    Br. Rabbit

    There that rabbit is.

     

     

    Three times in three days: Leo, Rebecca, Jackie, I saw the Lord. 

     

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    Fifty one

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  • Sunday Homily for November 4, 2018, 26th, Ordinary Time & All Saints

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    "Welcome in" says Georgie.

     

    Readings:  

     Deuteronomy 6, 2-6,  You shall love your God.

     Psalm 18,  I love you Lord, my strength

     Hebrews 7, 23-28,  The law appoints men subject to weakness to be priests.

     Mark 12, 28-34,   Which is the first of all the commandments?

     

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    Jan our special hostess at her welcome to communion table.

     

     

    Deuteronomy observations:

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    2.  The work is organized as a series of addresses given by Moses to the people of Israel in the land of Moab, where they had stopped at the end of the long wilderness journey and were about to enter and occupy the land of the Canaanites.

    3.  The theme of the book is that God has saved and blessed his chosen people, whom he loves.  They are to remember this, and love and obey him.

    4. Joshua is commissioned as the next leader of the people, i.e., God's (Yahweh's) people 

     

     

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    Buddy reads our Blessing of The Candles.

      

    Pittsburgh

    Jerry Rabinowitz, 66, worked as a primary care physician, was deeply active with HIV victims especially when it started, infamous for his bow ties.

    Cecil Rosenthal, 59, and his brother David, 54.  Cecil was outgoing & gregarious while David was more self contained.

    Richard Gottfried, 65 neighborhood dentist, married with a Catholic wife.

     

     

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    While her brother reads The Blessing, Zoe lights our candles.

     

    Irving Youger, 69, when you walked into the synagogue, Irving was the first person who would welcome you and help you find your seat.  He had been a little league coach and a real estate agent.

    Daniel Stein, 71, and retired.

    Joyce Fienberg, 75, a research specialist at the U. of Pittsburgh, petite with huge personality.

     

     

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    The Offertory Team, Marlene, Bill, & Cindy, all Ekes family.

     

     

    Bernice Simon, 84, and her husband Sylvan, 86, considered the sweetest couple who, 62 years ago, wedded in this same synagogue.

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    Judah Samet, 80, Hungarian, was in the parking lot, saw the shooter.  He survived the Nazi holocaust as a child of 6.

     

     

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  • Sunday Homily, June 22, 2014, Corpus Christi

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    Deuteronomy  8, 2-3, 14-16,   He let you be afflicted with hunger, then fed you.

    Psalm 147,   Praise the Lord, Jerusalem.

    1 Corinthians 10, 16-17,  We all partake of the one loaf.

    John  6, 51-58,  Whoever eats this bread will live forever.

     

    The Girls

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    Deuteronomy: The fifth & last book of the Torah.  The scene: Moses & the Hebrews are in the desert just outside the promised land, the land of the Canaanites, whom they are going to kick out and kill.  Moses is reviewing their journey from Egypt.

    Date:  first put into some form around 750 before Christ, then put into a more final form, guess when, at the end of the Babylonian Captivity, around 555.

     

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    Jan with her hat of symbols, tree planting, peace, patriotism, friendship, and cupcakes.

     

    Author: not Moses, even though the book is 3 sermons of Moses on the plains of Moab, just at the end of the period of wandering, and just before entering the land of the Caananites, or the Promised Land.  It is really tradition, stories of old times. 

    Our Selection:  Moses is recounting the escape from Egypt and the years in the desert.  

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    Geri-Marilyn

    Geri and Marilyn say, "Hi, Folks, Come in."

    My Guide through the Desert

    We have just read about how Moses guided the Jewish people through the desert.  In honor of two of our most favorite people who are retiring from years in public education, this morning I would like to talk about people who guided us and me through the desert.

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    When I was in maybe 6th grade, I joined the Boy Scouts at Christ the King around January, when I have my birthday.  Some of my classmate joined up in the spring.

     

    Cathy & Harper

    Cathy and especially Harper accepting a special pastry for Cathy's retirement from public education.

     

    First thing I know, along comes summer and we are heading to Texoma for a week of summer camp.  We get there, get our tents, and I overhear some of the 8th grade guys planning to initiate me.  Why me?  Probably because I was bigger than some of my classmates. 

    So suddenly I get sick.  I’m afraid.  I'm home sick.  I want out of there.  These guys were bigger than me and I did not feel safe, no way.  The scout master was a pretty passive guy I did not know well. 

     

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    Rick and Jackie accepting a special pastry for Rick's retirement from public education, Rick's 62nd birthday, Rick and Jackie's 39th anniversary, and for Jackie's marvelous recovery.

     

    We had come in on Sunday.  By Monday night I am back home, and back home really feeling horrible about what I did.  I feel like a chicken, for sure.  I was embarrassed even in front of my parents.

    The next summer comes along.  My dad, who had remained active along with me in the Scout troop, invited me to go with him back to Texoma.  He was going to spend the night as one of the adult overnight supports for the troop.  

    With some trepidation, I decided to go.  We arrived at night and I still remember walking into the tent of my coach and teacher, Frank Hart.  He was sitting on his cot and there was a Coleman lantern buzzing.  He had always supported me.  Always encouraged me. 

     

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    Brian and especially two little mice accepting a Cupcake of the Week for Brian's 63rd.

     

    His welcome that night was a turning point in my young life.  It probably prepared me for the day after high school, when I would walk away from the security of my family, join the Jesuits, and never return, even to Dallas for 7 years.

    My second guide through the desert was one of the Jesuits at the old Jesuit High.  From as early as I can remember I detested clericalism and the piety stuff.  That was all I had seen until Jesuit.  Fr. Jules May was not clerical and not pious. 

    He was our freshman football coach.  As coach he was out there in clothes as crummy as what we wore.  And as coach he got after us like a drill sergeant.  He cussed us.  He yelled at us.  He accepted us ultimately.  I remember my dad was somewhat shocked. I loved him. 

     

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    Buddy, the candle man, lighting up with the help of his mom, MIchelle.

     

    I remember one day we were playing Highland Park on our upper field right next to Oak Lawn across from Holy Trinity.  My best buddy played center for Highland Park and I played center for Jesuit.   At one point in the game we were punting out of our own end zone, a chain link fence between our field and Oak Lawn.  I centered that ball over the kicker’s head, over the fence, and onto Oak Lawn. 

    I was so humiliated and was waiting for Jules May to descend upon me with both feet.  He did not. 

     

    Marsha

    Marsha, one of those from the "crazy corner."

     

    Jules May was one of the reasons I decided to join the Jesuits.

    These two coaches and teachers were guides to me through the desert. Cathy & Rick have guided tons of young people through the desert. 

    Who was your guide?

    Whom are you guiding today?

     

    Zoe hat

    Zoe, as always, the style setter.