Christmas Eve Mass & Homily, December 24, 2016

Readings:

Isaiah 9, 1-6,  The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light.

 Psalm 96,  Today is born our Savior, Christ the Lord.

 Titus 2, 11-14,  The grace of God has appeared.

 Luke 2, 1-14,   In those days a decree went out from Caesar Augustus.

 

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Christmas Eve, 2016, Welcome.

 

Isaiah observations:

What:  This is again Isaiah I (one of three).  Isaiah 1 criticizes the people for their sinful ways and forecasts doom, which will come in the form of the Babylonian Captivity.

When: Isaiah was warning the people ahead of the Captivity, ca. 555 before Christ.  It was during the Captivity when the book of three authors was put together.

Today's selection: One of the all time beautiful passages promising light to people who have walked (or lived) in darkness.  

All of today's readings are consoling and dear.

 

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Cody with his kids Ben and Olivia.

 

A Christmas Story

Despite the fact that I have told this story previously, I like it so much and it is so relevant, I would like to repeat it.  

I remember my first Christmas adventure with Grandma. I was just a kid. I remember tearing across town on my bike to visit her on the day my big sister dropped the bomb: "There is no Santa Claus," she jeered. "Even dummies know that.”

 

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Jennifer and her beautiful little one say, "Merry Christmas."

 

My  Grandma was not the gushy kind, never had been. I fled to her that day because I knew she would be straight up with me. I knew Grandma always told the truth, and I knew that the truth always went down a whole lot easier when swallowed with one of her "world-famous" cinnamon buns. I knew they were world-famous, because Grandma said so. It had to be true.

Grandma was home, and the buns were still warm. Between bites, I told her everything. She was ready for me. "No Santa Claus?" she snorted…."Ridiculous! Don't believe it. That rumor has been going around for years, and it makes me mad, plain mad!! Now, put on your coat, and let's go." 

 

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The Beautiful Claire and her beautiful daughter, Chloe.

 

"Go? Go where, Grandma?" I asked. I hadn't even finished my second world- famous cinnamon bun. "Where" turned out to be Kerby's General Store, the one store in town that had a little bit of just about everything. As we walked through its doors, Grandma handed me ten dollars. That was a bundle in those days. "Take this money," she said, "and buy something for someone who needs it. I'll wait for you in the car." Then she turned and walked out of Kerby's. 

 

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Carrie and Paul with her granddaughter, her daughter and husband.

 

I was only eight years old. I'd often gone shopping with my mother, but never had I shopped for anything all by myself. The store seemed big and crowded, full of people scrambling to finish their Christmas shopping.

For a few moments I just stood there, confused, clutching that ten-dollar bill, wondering what to buy, and whom on earth to buy it for. I thought of everybody I knew: my family, my friends, my neighbors, the kids at school, the people who went to my church. 

 

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Hi to the Great Gerwer Clan.

 

 

I was just about thought out, when I suddenly thought of Bobby Decker. He was a kid with bad breath and messy hair, and he sat right behind me in Mrs. Pollock's grade-two class. Bobby Decker didn't have a coat. I knew that because he never went out to recess during the winter.

His mother always wrote a note, telling the teacher that he had a cough, but all we kids knew that Bobby Decker didn't have a cough; he didn't have a good coat. I fingered the ten-dollar bill with growing excitement. I would buy Bobby Decker a coat! 

 

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Sir Charlie helping his grandson light up the candles.
 

 

I settled on a red corduroy one that had a hood to it. It looked real warm, and he would like that.

"Is this a Christmas present for someone?" the lady behind the counter asked kindly, as I laid my ten dollars down. "Yes, ma'am," I replied shyly. "It's for Bobby." 

 

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The Nativity Scene.

 

The nice lady smiled at me as I told her about how Bobby really needed a good winter coat. I didn't get any change, but she put the coat in a bag, smiled again, and wished me a Merry Christmas.

That evening, Grandma helped me wrap the coat (a little tag fell out of the coat, and Grandma tucked it in her Bible) in Christmas paper and ribbons and wrote, "To Bobby, From Santa Claus" on it.

 

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The music team of Shonda, Ray, and David with a special welcome back to Wendy.

 

 

Grandma said that Santa always insisted on secrecy. Then she drove me over to Bobby Decker's house, explaining as we went that I was now and forever officially, one of Santa's helpers.

Grandma parked down the street from Bobby's house, and she and I crept noiselessly and hid in the bushes by his front walk. Then Grandma gave me a nudge. "All right, Santa Claus," she whispered, "get going."

 

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John reading the second half of the Eucharistic prayer.

 

I took a deep breath, dashed for his front door, threw the present down on his step, pounded his door and flew back to the safety of the bushes and Grandma.

Together we waited breathlessly in the darkness for the front door to open. Finally it did, and there stood Bobby. 

 

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The Team, Georgie, Kevin, Mike, and John

 

Sixty years haven't dimmed the thrill of those moments spent shivering, beside my Grandma, in Bobby Decker's bushes. That night, I realized that those awful rumors about Santa Claus were just what Grandma said they were — ridiculous. Santa was alive and well, and Grandma and I were the proof.

I still have Grandma’s Bible with the coat tag still tucked inside: $19.95.”

 

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    I have a Pentecost story for you this morning.  I am considering Pentecost to be a time when we get hit by a new or special spirit. 

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    Last Saturday we started building the 73rd Habitat house, many of which are in the Douglas subdivision of East Plano. 

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     We all gathered about 7:30, probably 30 or more people.  It was fun to see our community team and to see other people from previous  builds. 

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    There were two men, a rich man who had everything, large flocks and every convenience.  The second man, a neighbor had nothing more than a little lamb which he had bought.  The man loved the lamb and even slept with it.

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    David was accepted by Yahweh and Bathsheba, although she loses her first child with David, goes on to have another son, who is considered the ancestor of Jesus.

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    Some teachers distinguished between "heavy" and "light" commandments.  The "Ten" are examples of the heavies.  An example of a light commandment is in Deut. 22, 6-7, which stipulates that a person who finds a bird's nest with a mother sitting on eggs or with young may take the young but must let the mother go.  The reason for observing all these commandments: "That it may go well with you, and that you may live long."  (Deut. 5, 16; 22, 7)

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    I think, ‘Is he alive, does he need help?  He is in a bizarre spot, tons of Saturday evening traffic, out of sight tucked into the parking nook, and looking like a homeless person, old, gray pants and t-shirt.’  He also has a sunburn high water mark on his left arm, a sign he is outside a lot.

    ‘Should I go check on him?  What if he pulls a gun or knife and kills me?’  I feel like the Pharisee in the parable of the Good Samaritan.  So I call 911.  At least something.  The lady says the police will swing by right away.

    I walk away a bit, not toward the corner, but toward the drug store so I can see him.   I’m curious.  I stop and wait.  I wait maybe 15-20 minutes, hoping to see the cops check on the guy.

     

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    Finally I say to myself, ‘Stop being such a wimp.  Go check on him.  The cops are taking too much time.  I’ve worked with lots of guys like this.   He won’t hurt me.  I’m bigger and in better shape anyway.’

    So I walk over to him, look down, and say, “How you doing, man?”  It wakes him and he looks at me with light blue eyes which are like out of focus.  He wonders where he is.  This young man is on something.  That is obvious. 

    The first thing he says is, “Thanks for checking on me.”  Does that ever touch me.  We talk a bit and finally he asks me if I have a cigarette.  I said I don’t smoke, but I wished I had a cigarette, if that was all he wanted for a little pleasure. 

     

    The Team

    The Team.

    I admit that if he wanted money for food, I would have walked him right over to McDonnell’s on the opposite corner.  I also admit that I did not want spend the evening carrying him down to The Bridge, if he asked me for a place to stay.  And I certainly knew Rosemary would toss me out if I brought him home.  He did neither.

    So I asked him if he was okay and he said yes.  I walked away again toward Dougherty’s drug store.  I looked back one time and he was still just sitting there on the cement looking around and looking at the people driving up to use the ATM machine, which probably made them nervous.

     

     

    Bethany & Ray

    Bethany and Ray.

     

    The guy is in my spirit right now.  I wonder.  How did he get to where he is?  Where is he?  When did he get addicted?  Does he love himself, enough to love his neighbors?  Can he say, ‘I’m okay and you are okay.’

    What do you need to do to say, ‘I’m okay and you are okay,’ if you can’t say it this morning?

     

     

  • Sunday Homily, November 10, 2013, 32nd Ordinary Time C

    Readings: 

    2 Maccabees 7, 1-2, 9-14, 7 brothers with their mother were arrested.

    Psalm 17,  Lord, when your glory appears, my joy will be full

    2 Thessalonians 2, 16-3, 5,  The Lord is faithful.

    Luke  20, 27-38, There were 7 brothers.

     

    Leo 11-10-13

    Leo welcomes you.

     

    2 Maccabees Observatons :

    What :  another reading  from one of those unique dozen extra books.  A history of the Maccabee family.   This is the only time in the 3 year cycle
    this book is used.  Perhaps it is only
    used to support in some way Luke’s gospel about the wife of the 7
    brothers. 

    Date :  around 200 before Christ.

    Subject: In order to
    emphasize how God appreciates faithfulness, the author describes in vivid
    detail the torture and murder of 7 brothers who refused to eat pork.  I wanted to read the whole story, but it is
    too brutal for public reading.  Check it
    out for yourselves.  

     

    Buddy 11-10-13

    Buddy also welcomes you.

     

     What to Die for

    I want to talk this
    morning about an event that took place 24 years ago, November 16, 1989.  This Friday is the date.  I was back in the States about 2 years at
    this time. 

    The event I’m talking
    about happened in the early morning of November 16, on a Jesuit university
    campus, called Universidad Centroamericana, UCA for short.  This is a Jesuit university just like many others
    you know of, U. of San Francisco, St. Louis U. Fordham, Georgetown, Marquette,
    and the Loyolas.  This university is in
    San Salvador, El Salvador. 


    Emma 11-10-13

    Emma with her momma, Beth.

    There were 6 Jesuits
    home that night, plus a housekeeper and her daughter in a rear apartment.  All was quiet.

    Suddenly about 12:00
    there was a great commotion at the door of the residence, lots of yelling and
    banging.  The, Jesuits, thinking the door
    was going to be bashed in,   opened the door and in burst about 40 soldiers
    in camouflage and heavily armed. 


    Zoe 11-10-13

    Zoe and her friend also welcomes you.

    Continuing to yell,
    the soldiers went room to room, busting down doors, smashing windows, storming
    around, and ultimately dragging the 6 Jesuits out into their interior
    patio.  Even the housekeep and her daughter
    were dragged into the patio.   Can you
    imagine the fear?

     

    For an hour the
    storming around and the noise continued. 
    Then, a bit after 1:00, witnesses outside said shots began.  Each of the 6 Jesuits and the two women had
    to lie on the ground on their stomachs. 
    One by one they were shot in the back of the head and left.


    William 11-10-13

    William hanging out with his granddad, Jerry.

    9
    years before this, on March 24, 1980, a similar event had happened in the same
    country, El Salvador.  Archbishop Oscar Romero was shot by a single
    assassin in the middle of his Mass in a chapel at a hospital in San Salvador.

     

    The
    same year three American nuns and a lay woman volunteer were all killed on
    their way to the airport one evening.


    Kara 10-10-13

    Kara looking beautiful.

    I talk about this this
    morning because, first, it still moves me and the anniversary is coming this
    Friday.   Secondly, I talk about it
    in reference to the 7 brothers who died rather than eat pork. 

     

    Question:
    what would you die for? 


    James 11-10-13

    James keeping cool.

    Two
    observations.

     

    First,
    what these Jesuits died for is something really worth dying for.  I can imagine all of us doing this, dying for
    people dear to us.  The people dear to the
    Jesuits were the poor of El Salvador, especially those abused by the military
    dictatorship. 

    Secondly,
    while the 7 brothers showed heroic courage along with their mother, that they
    were going through this because they thought God told them they should not eat
    pork is just sad.  The don’t eat pork law
    did not come from God, but from Jewish elders and priests. 

    At
    the time it may have been a health instruction. 
    But religious people set this instruction up, not God.   Watch
    out.  Religious leaders lay lots of loads
    on people and say that God demands this. 
     Remember the prohibition to eat
    meat on Friday?  You could go to hell for
    this.


    Harper 11-10--13

    "Harper, where did you find that cupcake??"

    I
    would propose that we all die, that is, give our life for something or
    someone.   Teachers give their lives for
    their students.  That is what the Jesuits
    did.  Parents give their lives for their
    kids.  Coaches, like my friend Frank,
    give their lives for their kids. 

     

    For
    whom or what do you give your life?

     

    Georgie 11-10-13

    Georgie, one of our special loves.

     

     

  • Sunday Homily, December 22, 2013, 4th Advent

    Readings: 

    Isaiah 7, 10-14,   The virgin will conceive and bear a son.
     
    Psalm 24,  Let the Lord enter, he is king of glory.

    Romans 1, 1-7,  Grace to you and peace.

    Matthew  1, 18-24, She was found with child through the Holy Spirit.

     

    Georgie 12-22-13

    Georgie arriving ready.

     

     Christmas observations:

    1.  Celebration of Christmas was banned in Boston up until ca. 200 years ago.  The Puritan influence.  They had seen the corruption of Rome and the inquisition.  They feared and hated Rome and Catholics.
    2. Rome had a feast of Saturnalia, which was connected with the Winter Solstice.  It was a feast of the harvest and of light, light returning in the northern hemisphere.  For centuries Roman Catholicism refused to honor the feast, but eventually adopted it as a date for Christ’s birth.
    3. The winter solstice had been celebrated for 10,000 years, back when humans started farming.
    4. Christmas Eve, Kinshasa, Zaire, 1977.  I was in Kinshasa, Zaire (now, The Congo), Christmas, 1977 and attended a Christmas Eve Mass that was marvelous, singing that went on forever and dancing on the part of the African priest in a very colorful set of vestments.  Having a good set of kidneys helps because the celebration goes on  2 ½ hours.  

     

    Emma 12-22-13

    Emma saying, "Welcome, Everybody."

     

    Seen The Spirit Lately?

    Ever get the feeling that the world is just getting worse every year, more wars, more killing, more kids being hurt, everything worse?  Where is the spirit of peace and caring?

    I would like to propose the spirit is here.  Good things are taking place.  Let me give you 4 examples that have just taken place.

     

    Buddy A 12-22-13

    Buddy lighting the 4 Advent Candles.

     

    The first I heard about took place during the ice storm the week after Thanksgiving.  I35 going north through Denton became a parking lot when 18 wheelers got stuck and blocked the highway.  This happened that Friday afternoon and the highway was probably down for the night. 

    The pastor of some church in the area heard about the people on the highway.  He gathered a bunch of his community and out they went to the highway with food, hot drinks, and blankets for those who needed them.  Some people were even invited into people’s homes.

    You folks would do this.

     

    Buddy cupcake 12-22-13

    For all your work with the candles, Buddy, you get a cupcake of the week.

     

    At the same time that afternoon our neighbors called to invite us to lunch on the grill because our electricity was off.  They had a gas grill.  The lady across the street offered to let us stay at her house.  She had electricity.  We were on the second of our two day return drive from Thanksgiving at Rosemary’s sister’s house in Hilton Head.

    Secondly, you remember that I worked in Oklahoma after the tornado.  I heard of a lady who is making special Christmas ornaments for people who have lost all their precious ornaments.  I thought about those people whose houses I helped to clear out and thought what a nice idea.

     

    Aiden 12-22-13

    Aiden arriving with hoodies for Soul's Harbor.

     

    Thirdly, three celebs, two sports stars and one singer.

    Ever hear of Andre Johnson of the Houston Texans, a wide receiver.  For the 7th year in a row he took 12 underprivileged kids on a shopping trip at Kids R Us.  They had 80 seconds, his number, to grab what they wanted.  He even chipped in an Xbox 360 for each kid.  17 thousand bucks.  Sounds like Love for the Kids.

     

    Leo 12-22-13

    Leo baby sitting Claire.

     

    Also, Damien Lillard, 23, a hot new player for Portland.  He took a whole bus load of kids on a shopping trip.

    Then, the singer Beyonce went into a Wal-mart, bought 750 $50 gift cards for everyone that moment in the Wal-Mart. 

     

    Cathy-Connie 12-22-13

    Cathy & Connie accepting Cupcakes of the Week for their birthdays.

     

    Fourth.   Out of bad stuff, good stuff.  A grandmother was caring for 9 young kids somewhere here in Dallas.  She had bought their presents and had them hidden in her apartment.  Yes, you guessed it, they all go stolen.  The story got out and she received more presents than she could ever have afforded. 

    Where are you seeing The Spirit of peace and caring this Christmas?  How are you contributing to it?

     

    Brent cupcake 12-22-13

    Can we trust this guy? Accepting Meredith's cupcake because she is sick.