Sunday Homily, March 9, 2008, 5th Lent

Readings: Ezekiel 37, 12-14; Psalm 130; Romans 8, 8-11; John 11, 1-45.

Ezekiel: Again we make a big jump, from Samuel & David to the prophet Ezekiel. The time is ca. 580 B.C, the time of the defeat of the Hebrews and the Babylonian captivity.  Ezekiel is warning the people of the calamities that come and ends eventually envisioning a new Jerusalem.

Blair

How Many More Years You Got to Appreciate?

We hear it said all the time that we have around 75 years of life in us.  That means we got 75 Christmases to enjoy, 75 springs and summers, and 75 Thanksgivings.  And that is from the age of Cameron & Reid, Brady & Trey.  Now you kids who are 10 or 15 only have 65 or 60 more birthdays and Easters.  Those of you 50 have only 25 more Christmases.  I have, guess, only 7 more according to the profile. 

Marriage at 25 means 50 years of fun & companionship.  I got married at 65.  Not much time to experience the fun & companionship. 

Over the past 5 weeks I have talked about some secrets to making marriage work.

 

·       Stay away from divorce, but play,

·       don’t expect a perfect marriage, but work for perfect moments,

·       plan fun and date regularly,

·       empty out the back pack of my junk and keep communicating,

·       give with words, listening, and touch & hugs.

Frank

This final discussion is both a summary of the five previous weeks and also a focus on appreciation.  Appreciation for the person who agreed to marry me.  The temptation is to rattle off the Spanish saying, "El amor es Ciego," love is blind.  The response to the temptation is appreciation.  Appreciate the perfect moments, the companionship, and the anniversaries.  Celebrate the appreciation.

We only have a limited number of Christmases & Easters, perfect moments and anniversaries.  Let’s not blow it.  Appreciate each one.

How many more do you have to celebrate?

               

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  • Sunday Homily 7-13-08, 15th, Ordinary Time

    Readings: Isaiah 55, 10-11; Psalm 65; Romans 8, 18-23; Matthew 13, 1-23


    Isaiah: The Great One lived around 750 B.C.  He is one of the 3 Major Prophets along with Jeremiah & Ezekiel, mostly because their works are larger than the 12 Minor Prophets.  Like all prophets he  condemned the behavior of the people, promised punishment from Yahweh, and foretold that a better day was coming after the punishment.


    Isaiah has some of the most beautiful passages, many of which are seen as foretelling the coming of the Savior.  His readings are used all through the Advent & Christmas readings, as well as in Lent. 


    Note, however, that there is evidence from different writing styles and length of time that three authors at least make up the book of Isaiah.


    Both the Isaiah reading and Psalm 65 are beautiful.


    Froebes


    What Kind of Soil Am I? 


    One day when I was a little kid, so little I was not in school yet, I was playing in the driveway beside our house.  We had a driveway that ran from the street, along side the left side or east side of the house, all the way to the back where the two car wooden garage was.  We had no fence along that side of our back yard and the neighbor’s house had no fence. 


    At some point in my play the lady who worked for the neighbors came to the back door.  I did not like this lady.  Actually, she had a small apartment attached to their garage where she lived when she was not working in the house. 


    I do not know what it was that got me off on her.  Certainly she was not friendly, nor warm & fuzzy with this little boy.  So, out of the blue, I say to her standing there in the doorway, “You are a big, fat elephant.” 


    Maybe I ran.  I don’t know.  But, I give that lady credit.  She marched right over to our house and told my mother.  And my mother went ballistic.  I got a spanking. Which certainly did not make me more fond of that lady.


    As a result of this event, plus numerous other little behaviors that were unacceptable, I entered adolescence with the thought that I was a pretty bad kid.  My soil was rocky and I was probably on the express train to hell.  Which definitely played a role in my decision to enter the Jesuits and become a priest.  Save my lost soul before it was too late. 


    I talk about this because it connects me with the parable of the sower, one of the many so called agricultural parables found in Matthew.  In the parable, Jesus says we got four chances to get the message and with three of them we don’t get it.  Not good odds.  I go along with this and suggest that the path, the rocks, and the thorns symbolize three ways we sabotage our process of getting the message. 


    • First, I suggest the path symbolized a lack of gratitude. We take for granted all the blessings and beauty that make up our life and, in fact, often feel entitled. Our time is so limited that we never reflect.
    • Second, the rocks symbolize our middle class obsession with stuff, toys, things. We have to have the latest thing, the biggest, the best.
    • Thirdly, the thorns may symbolize the fact that I hear the wrong message. I pick up that I am bad, like I learned when I was a little kid.

    What is really devious about these three, is that they are reciprocal.  They interact among themselves. Here is what I mean.


    Say, I have the self image that I am bad.  If I am already bad, why make an effort.  Certainly, I don’t incline toward gratitude.  I do incline, however, toward toys & stuff.  The toys are medication for my disappointment in myself.  If I have enough toys, I think that others will think I am hot stuff. 


    I was into toys as a teen.  No doubt.  One of the best things that happened was when I joined the Jesuits, I let go of it all.  I had no possessions to impress others with.  None of us in my class had possessions.  We were just guys. 


    The reason this is pathetic is that while I am ungrateful and obsessed with toys because of my lack of self acceptance, I never achieve The Peace, which is where the rich soil is that yields a hundred fold of peace.  I don’t get the message.  The message is I’m okay.


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    How do I break this cycle?  I think I can intervene anywhere along the process.  I can focus on gratitude, I can detach from stuff & toys, and I can work on self acceptance.  Maybe all at the same time.  That is getting the message.


    The beauty about all this is that ultimately, wherever I am, I am okay.  I am accepted.  I am not riding the express train to hell.  Jesus presents us with ultimate demands, and ultimate acceptance.


    What is the challenge to you?  How do you get The Message?


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  • Sunday Homily, February 7, 2016, 5th Ordinary Time, C

    Readings:

    Isaiah  6, 1-8,   “Here I am,” I said, “send me.” The call of Isaiah.

    Psalm 138,  In the sight of the angels I will sing your praises, Lord.

     1 Corinthians 15, 1 – 11,   I am the least of the apostles.

    Luke 5, 1-11,   The big catch of fish.

     

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    Says Kevin, "Welcome in, Everybody, we are ready."

     

    Observations:   Isaiah (I) 

    This is The Great One.  The Prophet.  My favorite.  In general, this work has three parts put together by three different people.  It is time dependent: before, during, and after the, you guessed it, the Babylonian Captivity.  Keep 555 before Christ in mind as an easy date.  You can guess that this is Isaiah I, being chapter 6 (of 66 chapters)

    Last week we heard the story of the prophet Jeremiah’s call by Yahweh.  This week we have Isaiah’s call. 

     

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    Harper, too, says, "Hi, Folks, Welcome in."

     

    Psalm 138

    Want to hear something beautiful?  Listen to today’s psalm.  Another of my favorites. Thanks, thanks, and more thanks.

    1 Corinthians 15

    In last week’s Corinthians’ reading Paul described his vision of love.  Today he continues talking to the people of his church in Corinth, focusing on how he was called by God.

    So, today we have a theme of call & gratitude.  Even the gospel has a sub-theme of call.  Pretty neat.

     

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     Candle Lighters of The Week, Cole and Leo.

     

    Have a Happy Lent?

    This morning, Folks, I want to talk about how to have a happy Lent, a Lent positive spiritually-psychologically and even physically.  

    I got a story to exemplify my ideas. 

    Last Friday morning at our 6:00 A.M. spin class at the Jewish Community Center, I had the opportunity to celebrate the birthday of our trainer, a girl in her thirties named Jennifer.  She did not know this was coming.

     

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    She had told me the date of her birthday when I asked her a couple of weeks before if she was going to give me a birthday gift the week of the 26th.  I asked for the theme of Rocky, my favorite work out music.  At the same time she said yes to Rocky, she said her birthday was the 5th.  I tucked it away.

    So, just before she started cranking us up at 6:00, Friday, I got off of my bike and addressed the 20 or so other bikers saying that is was Jennifer’s birthday.  We sang and then I gave her a gift with a ribbon Rosemary had added.  The gift?  A Cliff bar.  I figured she might beat me if I gave her a cupcake.  She eats healthy and it shows.

     

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    Ugh, Oh, Folks, that girl is loose.

     

    At the same time the kid that mans the entrance desk walks in with a big piece of poster paper and tapes it on the glass wall.  It said ‘Happy Birthday, Jennifer.’  I had told him about it being her birthday and never expected such a positive response. 

    Jennifer was obviously touched.  I became the teacher’s pet with hopes of future preferential treatment.   A dream.

     

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    Ugh, Oh, again, Gen, You are hanging out with dangerous people, that is, Leo and Zoe. 

     

    Back to Lent.

    I have mentioned before how I have a gloomy reaction to Lent mostly because of my early Jesuit experience with extra penance.   Like, we had chains we wore on our thighs a couple of times a week and we had little whips which we used to scourge our backs a couple of evenings a week before we went to bed in our cubicles.  I think we were sane enough to laugh at most of this.

    So, how do we make Lent this year a positive experience?  I think most of us are into a fine tuning zone, a little here, a little there.

     

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    Jennifer and Kennedy, baptism time.  Welcome into our world, Kennedy.

     

    So, physically, what needs fine tuning?  Myself, normally I have to watch the big 3, sugar, butter, salt.  I love them all, but they do bad things to me.  My goal: trim off maybe 5  pounds, weight I have gained from Thanksgiving, through Christmas, to my birthday the end of January.

    So, where do you want to fine tune, lose a pound or two, exercise a bit more?

     

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    Hi, Kennedy, Thanks for bringing your mom & dad and your  god parents,  Nick and Stephanie.

     

    Spiritually-psychologically?  I would propose two positives:

    1. Take time to contemplate, appreciate, and give thanks for something.
    2. Make an effort every day to do something positive, like singing happy birthday to Jennifer.  I was lucky to have that opportunity to celebrate her. 

     

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    The Braun family,  Don & Debbie, Kennedy & Jen &  Kyle, Eric, Heather & Mckinley. 

     

    Rosemary & some others of you have suggested we keep a jar, write down on a small piece of paper the positive thing we did that day, and put the paper in the jar.  A one a day vitamin.

    The positive gesture can tie up with the gratitude. 

    Rosemary will say a word about this at the time of The Blessing of The Week.  

    So, how are you going to celebrate a Lent that is happy?

  • Sunday Homily 4-1-12, Palm Sunday

    Readings:   John 12, 12-16 (Story of Jesus entry into Jerusalem); Isaiah 50, 4-7, I gave my back to those who beat me; Psalm 22, My God, My God, why have you abandoned me?; Philippians 2, 6-11, He emptied himself, taking the form of a slave; Mark 14, 15, 1-39, The Passion.

     

    Procession out 4-1-12

    The community processes out of the cafetorium into the hall where the singing begins and Mike & Ryan lead the procession back into the main celebration area

    Because of the extraordinary amount of reading in this celebration, there is no homily.

    Procession in 4-1-12

    The reenactment of the Entry into Jerusalem with palms

     

    Special Note: Holy Thursday & Good Friday Services, the home of Curtis & Mabel, 7:00 P.M.

    Sprinkling 4-1-12

    As each person enters into the cafetorium they and their palms are blessed and cleansed with water

    Candle Lighting 4-1-12

    Emma with the help of her mother, Beth, lights the 6 candles of Lent

     

  • Sunday Homily, April 24, 2016, 5th Easter

    Readings:

    Acts  14, 21-27,  It is  is necessary for us to undergo many hardships to enter the kingdom.

    Psalm 145,  I will praise you name forever, my king and my God, plus the great line (8), The Lord is gracious and merciful, slow to anger and of great kindness. 

    Revelation  21, 1-5, I, John, saw a new heaven and a new earth.

    John 13, 31-33, 34-35,  My sheep hear my voice, I know them, and they follow me.   

     

    Leo & John

    Leo and his best buddy, John, say, "Hi, Everybody, Come in."

     

    Acts, a couple of observations:

    1. Remember the three rings of Acts, Jerusalem, Palestine, the World (Mediterranean & Rome)?   Since we are at Chapter 28 of 28, you can guess in what ring we are today, yes, the World.  Paul and Barnabas are in the region of Greece.
    2. The author, the same as the Gospel of Luke.
    3. The date again, before 70

     

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    Genevieve and her best Mommy also say, "Hi, Everybody."

     

    Love one another

    As you may remember, one of my most favorite lines in all the Bible is the first line in the first stanza of our Psalm 145 this morning, The Lord is gracious and merciful, never gets angry, and is abounding in love.   I read this and I add to it Jesus saying that, This is how they will know you, that you love one another. 

    Is this real?   

     

    Jan & Cindy

    Jan & Cindy have communion ready.  Choose wine or grape juice.

     

    What is real is what I heard on the radio yesterday morning, really bad stuff.   Turns out that some professional bike riders were discovered to have developed motor enhanced bikes.  A small motor was inserted into the diagonal bar of the bike.  It was discovered in a race in Italy.

    Now I know why these guys race past me at White Rock Lake.   Anybody know of anyone with a motor enhanced bike?  

    More seriously, I look around and check out the news.  I read that towns all dear to me have been bombed by some really angry people, Paris, Brussels, Jerusalem.   People doing this think they are making the world a better place. 

     

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    Here at home we have what to me is a horrible political campaign going on.   

    In our Catholic Church there is no shortage of hatred of fellow Catholics who disagree with policies or don’t conform to certain norms.   You all know that there are various Catholics who hate me for what I am doing.

    Pope Francis is getting push back from Catholics who don’t approve of his ways and his message.  Francis took three refugee families into the Vatican and he got ridiculed.  His economic ideas are certainly meeting with hostility. 

     

     

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    So, they will know us by our love for one another?  The Lord is abounding in love?   

    Is this just silly religious talk?  In my book, no, not completely. 

    We have the examples of hate, which I would propose are often the result of hurt.  But we also have examples of love, respect, and care. 

     

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    Hue, our great sound man. 

     

    Francis’ welcome of the 3 refugee families is for me an example.  The two picnics for The Love of Kids, another example.  We have been helping at those two picnics for years.  And there are hundreds of other people who contribute their time and even resources to help these under privileged and handicapped kids.

    Look at Jim Maher who comes down here from St. Bonaventure with some students to help with the cleanup of the areas in Dallas that were his by the tornadoes.   They spend a week of their spring break here and they have been doing this for years.

     

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    Doug LeBlanc, Grace’s husband, together with other employees at Ericson, they all gathered on more than one occasion to help a fellow employee whose home had been wrecked by either a tornado or that hail. 

    Did you read in the Dallas Morning News about the North Carolina judge who felt he had to sentence a vet with bad PTSD for repeatedly getting drunk.  He gave him 24 hours and then the judge spent the night in the cell with him.   Said he did not want to leave him alone with the PTSD. 

     

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    May I play that guitar, Daddy?  I think I can do it.

     

     

    One final example of a person who inspired me by his grace in failure.  Jordon Spieth went from top of the leader board at the Masters to second.  He had a colossal melt down on the last day.  Nevertheless, he graciously congratulated the winner and helped present him with the winner’s sport coat.

    This encourages me to know that there is lots of gracious caring in our world. 

    Where do you see God showing his abundance of love?

  • Christmas Eve Mass & Homily, December 24, 2016

    Readings:

    Isaiah 9, 1-6,  The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light.

     Psalm 96,  Today is born our Savior, Christ the Lord.

     Titus 2, 11-14,  The grace of God has appeared.

     Luke 2, 1-14,   In those days a decree went out from Caesar Augustus.

     

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    Christmas Eve, 2016, Welcome.

     

    Isaiah observations:

    What:  This is again Isaiah I (one of three).  Isaiah 1 criticizes the people for their sinful ways and forecasts doom, which will come in the form of the Babylonian Captivity.

    When: Isaiah was warning the people ahead of the Captivity, ca. 555 before Christ.  It was during the Captivity when the book of three authors was put together.

    Today's selection: One of the all time beautiful passages promising light to people who have walked (or lived) in darkness.  

    All of today's readings are consoling and dear.

     

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    Cody with his kids Ben and Olivia.

     

    A Christmas Story

    Despite the fact that I have told this story previously, I like it so much and it is so relevant, I would like to repeat it.  

    I remember my first Christmas adventure with Grandma. I was just a kid. I remember tearing across town on my bike to visit her on the day my big sister dropped the bomb: "There is no Santa Claus," she jeered. "Even dummies know that.”

     

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    Jennifer and her beautiful little one say, "Merry Christmas."

     

    My  Grandma was not the gushy kind, never had been. I fled to her that day because I knew she would be straight up with me. I knew Grandma always told the truth, and I knew that the truth always went down a whole lot easier when swallowed with one of her "world-famous" cinnamon buns. I knew they were world-famous, because Grandma said so. It had to be true.

    Grandma was home, and the buns were still warm. Between bites, I told her everything. She was ready for me. "No Santa Claus?" she snorted…."Ridiculous! Don't believe it. That rumor has been going around for years, and it makes me mad, plain mad!! Now, put on your coat, and let's go." 

     

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    The Beautiful Claire and her beautiful daughter, Chloe.

     

    "Go? Go where, Grandma?" I asked. I hadn't even finished my second world- famous cinnamon bun. "Where" turned out to be Kerby's General Store, the one store in town that had a little bit of just about everything. As we walked through its doors, Grandma handed me ten dollars. That was a bundle in those days. "Take this money," she said, "and buy something for someone who needs it. I'll wait for you in the car." Then she turned and walked out of Kerby's. 

     

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    Carrie and Paul with her granddaughter, her daughter and husband.

     

    I was only eight years old. I'd often gone shopping with my mother, but never had I shopped for anything all by myself. The store seemed big and crowded, full of people scrambling to finish their Christmas shopping.

    For a few moments I just stood there, confused, clutching that ten-dollar bill, wondering what to buy, and whom on earth to buy it for. I thought of everybody I knew: my family, my friends, my neighbors, the kids at school, the people who went to my church. 

     

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    Hi to the Great Gerwer Clan.

     

     

    I was just about thought out, when I suddenly thought of Bobby Decker. He was a kid with bad breath and messy hair, and he sat right behind me in Mrs. Pollock's grade-two class. Bobby Decker didn't have a coat. I knew that because he never went out to recess during the winter.

    His mother always wrote a note, telling the teacher that he had a cough, but all we kids knew that Bobby Decker didn't have a cough; he didn't have a good coat. I fingered the ten-dollar bill with growing excitement. I would buy Bobby Decker a coat! 

     

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    Sir Charlie helping his grandson light up the candles.
     

     

    I settled on a red corduroy one that had a hood to it. It looked real warm, and he would like that.

    "Is this a Christmas present for someone?" the lady behind the counter asked kindly, as I laid my ten dollars down. "Yes, ma'am," I replied shyly. "It's for Bobby." 

     

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    The Nativity Scene.

     

    The nice lady smiled at me as I told her about how Bobby really needed a good winter coat. I didn't get any change, but she put the coat in a bag, smiled again, and wished me a Merry Christmas.

    That evening, Grandma helped me wrap the coat (a little tag fell out of the coat, and Grandma tucked it in her Bible) in Christmas paper and ribbons and wrote, "To Bobby, From Santa Claus" on it.

     

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    The music team of Shonda, Ray, and David with a special welcome back to Wendy.

     

     

    Grandma said that Santa always insisted on secrecy. Then she drove me over to Bobby Decker's house, explaining as we went that I was now and forever officially, one of Santa's helpers.

    Grandma parked down the street from Bobby's house, and she and I crept noiselessly and hid in the bushes by his front walk. Then Grandma gave me a nudge. "All right, Santa Claus," she whispered, "get going."

     

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    John reading the second half of the Eucharistic prayer.

     

    I took a deep breath, dashed for his front door, threw the present down on his step, pounded his door and flew back to the safety of the bushes and Grandma.

    Together we waited breathlessly in the darkness for the front door to open. Finally it did, and there stood Bobby. 

     

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    The Team, Georgie, Kevin, Mike, and John

     

    Sixty years haven't dimmed the thrill of those moments spent shivering, beside my Grandma, in Bobby Decker's bushes. That night, I realized that those awful rumors about Santa Claus were just what Grandma said they were — ridiculous. Santa was alive and well, and Grandma and I were the proof.

    I still have Grandma’s Bible with the coat tag still tucked inside: $19.95.”

     

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    And The Angels.

  • Christmas Eve, Thursday, December 24, 2020

    Readings:

    Isaiah 9, 1-6, The People who walked in darkness have seen a great  light

    Psalm, 96, Today is born our Savior, Christ the Lord.

    Titus 2, 11-14,  Beloved, the grace of God has appeared, saving all.

    Luke 2, 1-14, In those days a decree went out from Caesar Augustus…

     

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    Peace 

     

     

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    Serenity

     

    Thanks to the Team

    Music,  Ben & Shonda, 

    Readers, Beth & Rob,  & Buddy, the candle blesser

    Gospel,  Claire Occipinti 

    Homily,   John Stack

    Eucharistic Prayer A & B, Stack & John Cade

    The Magic Zoom makers,   Hue & Mike 

    Final Blessing, Rosemary

    For hosting us at Legacy, Becky

     

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    Alaskan Forest

     

    Please Remember these special people:

    For Paul & Carrie recuperating, plus her ex, Larry;  For Alan Stryker;  For Joe Sullivan;    For Rosemary's great niece, Rylie ;  For Richard's grand daughter, Madeleine; For David Dinsmore's bad shoulder from a biking accident;  For Esparza's new great grandson baby, son of Monique;  For all the medical personnel struggling to treat the tsunami of sick people, in particular, locally, Cindy's staff at Presby, Dallas, and at Frisco Presby, the mother of Harper and Betsy, Kendle, working in labor & delivery, and for Hue & Linda's daughter, Doctor Rosemary Beavers;   For Mary & Dave Hall's g-daughter Allison Keller working at St. Lukes, The Woodlands,   For Loretta's aunt Alicia;  For Sir Charlie & Jan;  Shonda's mom & Cody & Ben & Leo & all of Shonda's dear family;  

     

     

     

     

    Jackie's mom, sister, & friend, Lynn;  For both Jean & Cliff Wright;  For Rick Turner searching for a kidney donor, Type O neg; For Meredith, cancer free;    For John O'Donnell;   For Dee, and for her daughter, Lisa; For John Schanot's continued health;  For Anthony & Sabrina;    For a young man who is suffering from depression;  John Cade's mother in law, Kalliopi Piskiouli and Lambrini, plus John's daughter, Joey, with cancer; for a little 4 month old boy undergoing an operation, from Barbara;  For the students, teachers, and coaches in our public & private schools.

     

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    Community Finances, December 24, 2020

    Expenses: $

    Outreach   $  (often for Souls Harbor, Legacy, etc.)

    Thanks again, Folks, for doing what you can.

     

     

    Rosemary's Blessing:

    Loving Father, Help us remember the birth of Jesus, that we may share in the song of the angels, the gladness of the shepherds, and worship of the wise men.

    Close the door of hate and open the door of love all over the world.

    Let kindness come with every gift and good desires with every greeting.

    Deliver us from evil by the blessing which Christ brings, and teach us to be merry with clear hearts.

    May the Christmas morning make us happy to be thy children, and Christmas evening bring us to our beds with grateful thoughts, forgiving and forgiven, for Jesus’ sake.

    Amen.

    Robert  Louis Stevenson