Sunday Homily 8-24-08, 21st, Ordinary Time
Readings: Isaiah 22, 19-23; Psalm 138 (nice); Romans 11, 33-36; Matthew 16, 13-20.
Isaiah: Just a reminder that the book of Isaiah is one of the big three prophetic books, Jeremiah & Ezekiel being the other two. Three writers of the book can be discerned by their characteristic writing styles.
Bringing Out the Best
When I was a little kid growing up in Christ the King parish I remember being put off by the negativity, the clericalism, and the apparent dislike of me by the formal pastor and the assistant priests. When I went to Jesuit, however, I found that the Jesuits seemed to like me and brought out the best in me.
In today's gospel by Matthew we have the story of Peter being made the head of the new church. How marvelous it would be if that church community had retained the characteristic of bringing the best out in people, instead of focusing on control, punishment, and fear. Two comments about this reading.
First biblical scholars agree that Jesus did not say what is in this little story. Rather, the Matthean community shaped a highly stylized scene that attempted to establish Peter's position as leader of the new community. The writer, because he wants to authenticate Peter creates the scenario where Jesus makes Peter The Man.
Secondly. This past week Rosemary's brother Peter McGinn sent me an article he was publishing about bringing out the best in corporate leadership. I thought, he is talking about what we are trying to do here in this community. And how marvelous it would be if the Catholic church brought out the best in people. He uses the word best as a memnotic, focusing on behavior, emotion, spirit, and thinking in this way.
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Behavior. Build on the person's strengths. Bill Hammond knows that I can't run because of the couple of compressed disks in my back. He knows, however, that I have a modicum strength in biking because I work out daily on an air-dyne bike. He invites me to ride the Hotter 'N Hell, something he did not know I had dreamed about doing for probably about 15 years. Initially I declined, but his confidence in me as well as my dream combined to help me overcome my fear of the risks. Build on a person's strengths.
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Emotions. I remember seeing one of the girls in the Olympic gymnastics blow a dismount. As she walked to the side all the girls on all the teams as well as the coaches hugged and consoled her. Affirmation even in failure.
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Spirit. Mercenary vs. Marine. Part of a team or a community. I was envious Saturday when I would see a large group of riders blow by me en masse. How fun it is to be part of. How I take spirit from the group. I watch the Plano Senior High band practicing while I am filling my tank with water occasionally. One of the fun things about being a Jesuit was imbibing and sharing the spirit.
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Thinking. Establish and share goals. I think of the Boy Scouts. When I was a Scout, we just got together for fun, which was good enough. Few of the guys were challenged to become Eagles. In the past years I have seen troops where the leaders help numerous boys to become Eagle scouts. With help such as that my fun experience in Scouting would also have resulted in me being an Eagle Scout. Thinking is education & training.
Peter McGinn intended this article for corporate and hospital executives. It also has value for church, for community, and for each of us in our dealing with others.
Who has brought out the best in you? In whom are you bringing out the best?
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