Sunday Homily, May 26, 2013, Trinity, C

Readings:

Proverbs 8, 22-31,  When the Lord established the heavens I was there.

Psalm 8,  O Lord, our God, how wonderful your name in all the earth.

Romans 5, 1-5,  We have peace with God.

John 16, 12-15,  I have much more to tell you.

 

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And now to begin….

 

Observations on Proverbs

What : basically a collection of moral and religious teachings.  Pretty boring.  Some amusing like—

“The lord hates people who use dishonest scales. 11, 1

If you don’t punish your son, you don’t love him. 13, 24

Better to eat a dry crust of bread with peace of mind than to have a
banquet in a house full of trouble.  17, 1

Children naturally do silly things, but a good beating will teach them.
22, 15

And my favorite….

Better to live on the roof than share the house with a nagging wife. 25, 24

Author: 
Who knows.  Not Solomon, as was thought for a long time.

 

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Olivia and Amelia with their grandparents, Sandra and Chuck.

 

A Trinity

Last Friday Rosemary & I made one of our usual morning bike trips around White Rock Lake.  We come down the White Rock Creek Trail from the north and proceed south, clockwise along East Lawther Drive by the Arboretum, to the dam, where we take a vista stop. 


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Buddy and Torri.

 

The bike path running along the south shore of the lake and Garland Road is pretty high over the lake and the dam.  There is an observation deck extending out over the lake and dam, which is about 20 feet above the lake and the spillway.  We are looking north across the whole expanse of the lake at this observation point.


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Zoe and Emma with her sling from breaking her collarbone falling out of bed.

 

Friday when I rode up and stopped just ahead of Rosemary, there was a
young dad with his one or two year old little boy.  Dad had a trailer for the boy and he towed the trailer with his bike.

When I arrived the little blond haired boy with about two teeth was
being held by his dad against the black wrought iron railing.  The boy was throwing little sticks into the lake and watching them go over the spillway. 
He was squealing with delight and when I applauded he was more
joyful.  We talked a bit and I was enchanted.  


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Cupcake of The Week for Emma to welcome her back after a bad week.

 

I want to talk this morning about the marvelous Psalm 8 we have just read. It is talking about us and God’s work in us when it says,

You have made people a little less than the angels,

And crowned them with glory and honor.

You have given them rule over the works of your hands.

I looked at the nice dad and his delightful son and thought to myself, ‘What beauty.”


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Cupcake of The Week to Harper for being so pretty and bringing her grandmother, Cathy.

 

The psalm writer also talks about the work of His Fingers.  Another striking image.  I saw the work that Friday, also, in the beauty simply in the rich tones of green as we rode along the path in the woods.

Then he talks about the heavens and says,

When I behold
your heavens, the work of your fingers,

the moon and the stars which you set in place.

Have you ever done this?  Lie down on the ground on your back and look up at the sky? 

 

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Volunteers to help with communion.

 

I do this when we are backpacking in the mountains and I find it
terrific. Whatever the sky is doing, clear blue, partly cloudy, or windy, it is
sensational.  I come away feeling
humbled, awe-struck, and blessed to be here. 

 Why I never do it except in the mountains, who knows.  Every year I
intend to.


Toy World 5-26-13

Toy World with Emma, Zoe, Buddy, and Torri.

 

 Take a look at that marvelous Psalm 8.   When is the next time you will look at the sky?  When look at the colors of nature.  When look at a child, like the kids running around here,  and say to yourself, 'What beauty!'?


Butterlies 5-26-13

The Butterlies, Jim, James (being strangled) Denise, and Kara.

 

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    Readings: Acts 8, 5-17; Psalm 66; 1 Peter 3, 15-18; John 14, 15-21.

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    Conditional or Unconditional Love?

    On the west coast there is a writer named David Sheff who wrote a book about his son Nic.  The book is called Beautiful Boy.  In turn, Nic wrote a book about his own experience of growing up, a book called Tweak.

    When Nic was 11 years old he got totally drunk for the first time.  During his four years in high school, he continued down this path, drinking, smoking pot, and experimenting with drugs.  On graduation Nic entered the world of methamphetamines and he plunged toward the bottom.  Tweak refers to the condition of a person on meth, totally strung out.

    David tells in his book how for 2, maybe 3 years he refused to accept that his beautiful son was a drug addict.  On numerous occasions, after Nic had been gone for weeks on end, David would get Nic into a rehab program.  Nic would rehab for a month or two, come out and stay clean and sober for three or four days, then disappear into his meth world for another stretch. 

    Nic got so desperate he would break into his dad’s house and into his dad’s friends’ houses to steal money or items to sell.  At a really low point he stole $8 from his little brother Jasper.  All this helped him to feel lower than dirt, but he was obsessed about his addiction.

    During the first two years, David worried constantly and would welcome Nic home whenever he showed up or called for help.  Only slowly with the help of counseling, consulting, and Al Anon did he begin to believe in the tough love concept.  He told Nic he could not help him with money & bed, only get him into rehab. 

    During one long clean & sober period it looked like Nic had turned a corner.  He even gave Jasper $8 and wrote him a touching apology.  Shortly after that, he disappeared again. 

    I watched David mature in this book.  Though a loving father, in the beginning he was a poor parent and self indulgent.  As Nic spirals downward, David continues to love.  But he matures and his love matures.  Which brings me to a subject I’ve been hearing about & reflecting upon, conditional vs unconditional loving.  The Gospel brings up the idea.  Did David ever love Nic with unconditional love?   How would I see it?  What would be the signs?

    Three comments about conditional & unconditional love:

    1.  Have you ever noticed how the Bible is full of conditional love statements?  Look at today’s Gospel.  "If you love me, you will keep my commandments."  "Whoever has my commandments and observes them is the one who loves me."  Also, John 15, 10 & 14.  "If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love."  "You are my friends, if you do what I command you."  Sounds very conditional and parental. 

    In other places there is talk about the sheep and the goats and the unquenchable flames.  The Old Testament is one long story of a jealous Yahweh.  Many tragedies befell the Hebrews because they did not show enough honor to Yahweh.

    2.  Does Jesus show us the face of an unconditionally loving God? In his words? What we hear today is pretty conditional.  What about his actions? 

    What if God is an unconditionally loving God, or an unconditionally accepting God?

    3.  How do I become unconditionally loving?  Do I want to?  As a parent?   Two observations:

         a.  Is unconditional love made up of unconditional acceptance?  I think so. Tough.  Is there a distinction between accepting the person and accepting the actions, e.g., addiction and abuse?  I think so.  It is how tough love comes into play.

         b.  Is unconditional acceptance of another influenced by unconditional acceptance of myself ? I think so.  David had a hard time with guilt.  He felt guilt, I think appropriately.  He was told the 3 C’s: you did not cause it, you cannot control it, and you cannot cure it.  Nonsense.  I see regularly and believe in the miracle of cure, cure of the spirit, cure of the heart.  And I can accept that I cause harm to other people.

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    In summary, I would suggest that we become more spiritually whole the more we love unconditionally.

    Whom do you love unconditionally? 

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  • Sunday Homily, April 5, 2015, Easter, B

     

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    Our Dear Chloe says, "Happy Easter, Everybody."

     

     

    Readings:

    Acts 10,  34, 37-43  You know what has happened all over Judea.

    Psalm 18,    This is the day the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad.

    1 Corinthians 5, 6-8,   A little yeast leavens all the dough.

     John  20, 11-18,  Mary Magdalene

     

    Charlotte

    Charlotte, too, Chloe's sister, says, "Welcome, Everybody, and Happy Easter."

     

    Acts observations:

    This book with 28 chapters basically tells the story of what happened to and in the Christian community after Jesus died.  

     

     

    Kevin

    Keven, also, says, "Welcome in Folks."

     

     

    Resurrection

    Want to know what Resurrection looks like?  Let me give you a couple of pictures. 

    As you heard me mention at the beginning of our celebration this morning, I went to the Circle R Ranch in Flower Mound Saturday morning for a picnic titled, For the Love of the Kids.  There are two of these picnics a year.  One takes place around Thanksgiving when busloads of kids come for a picnic with horse rides, hay rides, bounce houses, face painting, dancing on a stage, and visits from Superman, Batman, Santa, and others.  It is enormous, a couple of thousand kids.

     

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    Zoe lighting the Easter Candle with the help of her sister, Georgie.

     

    In April the picnic is for handicapped kids.  They come with their families, maybe a hundred or more yesterday.  It is wheelchair friendly.  I have my favorite job.  I stand at the entrance, usually with Beth, and welcome everybody.  I am always touched by something special, some resurrection moment.

    So here I am yesterday registering an hour before the kids arrive.  I walk into the big pavilion and unexpectedly the first resurrection moment hits me.  You will never guess what it is.  It is The Community.  I’ve already seen Kevin, Kerry, and Joe at the registration desk.  But when I enter the pavilion I see brown shirts of Bona Responds everywhere.  The first Resurrection moment.  I was so proud to be part of this community.

     

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    Just take a guess. Yep, our beloved Gerwer gang at 7, believe it or not.

     

    Later, Beth, I, and another lady named Lindi are at the welcome lane into the pavilion.  Families are starting to come in, many pushing wheel chairs, but all with kids handicapped in some way.  Along comes a family with a little blond girl about 5 or 6.  I am saying hello and welcome to everyone.  The little girl comes right over to me and holds up her arms.  I gulp, pick her up, and hold her.  I did not want to ever let her go.  Another Resurrection moment.

    A little later a Hispanic mother comes up pushing her son in a wheel chair.  We chat and I look closely at the boy, who is about 12 years old and very nice. What I see is that he has a white sweat shirt that says “Jesuit.” 

     

     

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    Some of The Community Team at the Circle R Ranch Love for the Kids picnic, Saturday.

     

     Well, of course, that starts a conversation, while I hold the boy’s left hand in my left hand.  I’m on his left.  He is tuned in but not speaking, just watching me sort of fondly.  Finally, I reach over with my right hand and caress his soft cheek.  He gives me the most beatific, gentle smile that I was almost in tears as we parted.  A third Resurrection moment. 

    I left Circle R in a zone of greater peace, gratitude, humility, and awe. 

    Your most recent Resurrection moment?

     

    Msgr. Rabbit

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  • Sunday Homily, June 30, 2019, 13th Sunday, Ordinary Time

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    Jan, The Head of Traffic Control, on the job.

     

     

    Readings:

    1 Kings 19, 16 19-21, You shall anoint Elisha.

    Psalm 16,  You are my inheritance, O Lord.

    Galatians 5, 1, 13-18, For freedom Christ set us free.

    Luke 9, 51-62, No one who sets his hand to the plow…

     

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    I say, Pere, remember that pretty red Studebaker….

     

     

     

  • Sunday Homily 3-6-11, 9th Ordinary Time

    Readings: Deuteronomy 11, 18-32; Psalm 31, Lord, be my Rock of Safety; 2 Corinthians 5, 20-6, 2; Matthew 6, 1-6, 16-18. 

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    1.  5th book of the Bible, last book of the Torah.

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     Baptism 3-6-11 

    Is My House Built on Sand?

     Because of Leo’s baptism I want to say just a word about Matthew’s main lesson. 

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     Some years ago my mom & I had a couple of foundation companies give us an estimation on fixing our 1950 pier & beam foundation.  One company said they would not touch the place. 

    Baptism 2, 3-6-11 

     If I put a pen on a certain angle on my computer desk, it will roll right off.  The tile on the outer wall of my bathroom is squishing because the wall is sinking faster than the bathroom.

     I would suggest that we are all built on black clay soil or sand.  Sorry Matthew.  Specifically, we all fail, we have our obsessions & addictions, we have our fears.  We are still accepted!

    Old Geezers 3-6-11 

     If this is not the point of God’s acceptance of us, I do not know what is. 

     This reminds me of Jimmy Johnson’s boast about the Cowboys, “They don’t just talk the talk; they walk the walk.”  This is cute macho talk when you win.  Were the Cowboys this past year just losers?  No, not really. 

    Offertory 3-6-11 
     

     The positive side of the lesson is that we are challenged to be what we used to get drummed into us as young Jesuits, Renaissance Men (or Women).  In other words, I try to be fully alive, physically, intellectually, and psychologically/spiritually healthy & active.  A person of self discipline & moderation.

     Good old Lent arrives Wednesday.  Where is your foundation weak? 

     Picture 1:   Leo welcoming everyone to his baptism

     Picture 2:   Baptism, Teresa & John, Ray & Shonda, and Leo

     Picture 3:   The baptism

     Picture 4:    Old Geezers, Myron Hubble & Bill Poncik

     Picture 5:    Justin & Ashley with the grandparents, Jean & Cliff      


     

  • Sunday Homily, November 19, 2017, 33rd Ordinary Time

     

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    Proverbs 31, 10-13, 19-20, 30-31,   When one finds a worthy wife, her value is far beyond pearls.

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    Mike Kuklenski sharing his experiences in Viet Nam.

     

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    Mike, a ''67 graduate of Jesuit , was awarded two Purple Hearts and a Silver Star for his heroic time as a conscientious objector and corpsman (medic).

     

     

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  • Sunday Homily, February 22, 2015, 1st Lent, Ordinary Time, B

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    Genesis  9, 8-15,  The waters shall never again become a flood to destroy all mortal beings. 

    Psalm 25,    Your ways, O Lord, are love and truth to those who keep your covenant.

    1 Peter 3, 18-22,   Christ suffered for sins once.

     Mark 1, 12-15,   The Spirit drove Jesus out into the desert.

     

    Harper 3

    Says Harper, "Welcome, Everyone, Come in out of the cold and rain."

     

    Genesis:  observations–

    What:  First book of the Bible, starts with creation & ends with the Patriarchs Abraham, Isaac, & Jacob (Israel).

    Author: Not Moses as was thought for centuries before people began to study the work.  At least 3 sources: 

    • a Y (or J) source for the group that addressed God as Yahweh;
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    • and a P group that focused on the priestly class, activities, & customs.

     

    Emma

    And Emma, too, says, "Hi, Everybody, It's warm in here, come in."

     

    Time: compiled and put together from 950 to 500 BCE.

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    Leo 3

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    A Happy Lent

    I want to talk this morning about having a happy Lent.  Why?  Because God created us to be happy. 

    I admit again that this is my least favorite season of the year.  I always look for something positive to do and am never really satisfied with what I come up with.

     

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    Welcome to a happy Lent.

     

    However, this past week I got something good.  During the week Diane McClurg sent me a facebook note that she had something.   Then she sent me another more insistent facebook saying she was waiting.  So I opened it up.  And am I grateful.

    What she had sent was a copy of an article by a woman named Karen Ehman.  Karen Ehman says, ‘For this Lent don’t give something up; take something up.’  She has five ideas that are pretty good.  Here they are.

     

     

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    Cupcake of The Week to Diane for her birthday and for recommending the article on Lent.

     

    1. Take up note writing to people with whom you don’t communicate that often, but who are friends.  She says she buys 40 cards, envelopes, and stamps.  Each morning she sends one out to a friend, just saying that she likes the person.
    2. Take up the phone and call someone every day or once a week and tell them you are calling just to tell them thanks for being a good friend.  
    3. Take up a simple gift for a friend or family member.  Like bring flowers to someone, bring a Starbucks, offer to wash the dishes, or clean or dust the house, mow the grass (welcome to Tulip Lane).  Invite someone to lunch.  This is a once a week or occasional take up.

     

     

    Alison & John

    23 years for Alison and John.

     

    1. Take up a simple gift for a stranger.  Like the recycle men, the garbage men, the checkers at the grocery.  Compliment the checker on her finger nails, give $10 to each of the garbage men (watch out for their over the top gratitude). 
    2. Take up visiting someone in retirement or in a hospital.  (This is my addition, not Karen’s)  We got lots of people you may choose from, starting with Rita. 

     

     

    Brent-Meredith

    Brent and Meredith keeping warm.

     

    As you can see, some of these suggestions are occasional or once a week ideas.  Plus, what we have here are only seeds.  Even while you were listening to the five I put forward, you may be been thinking about other possibilities.

    How can you have a happy Lent?

    Source: Karen Ehman, on line.

     

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    Life for Cowboy Cole and Emma.