Sunday Homily, May 5, 2019, 3rd Easter
"Welcome in, Everybody," sez Beth & Emma.
Readings:
Acts of the Apostles, 5, 27-32, 40-41 We gave you strict orders to stop teaching in that name.
Psalm 30, I will praise you, Lord, for you have rescued me.
Revelation 11-14, I, John, heard the voices of many angels.
John 21, 1-19, Jesus appears to the apostles at the Sea of Tiberias.
Watch out, Bill, you are a marked man.
I will praise you, Lord, for you have rescued me.
I would like to talk this morning about how the Lord has rescued me. Like from my fears.
There was this happy hour. About 6 to 10 of us first year Jesuit theology students put it together our first semester in Toronto. Probably all of us had spent the last 3 years teaching in various Jesuit high schools from Seattle to NY, through Chicago, and Dallas where I taught at Jesuit.
It was great fun squeezing into each others’ small bedrooms for a drink and chatter about 5:30. Lots of laughter & camaraderie.
Sophia & Georgie, you make a great candle lighting team.
As the second semester began a number of us began to be a bit concerned that we were drinking a bit much. Like one drink on week nights, 2 or three on weekends and holidays.
So we decided to replace the happy hour to bundle up (Toronto gets lots of cold & snow in January) and run our half mile driveway to the entrance gate & back. I even stopped drinking at this time for about 6-8 years, until I went to East Africa.
And John, Hue, Connie, and Patricia, what an offertory team you make.
Our property was a beautiful east west park like campus. On the north side was the back yards of a row of, say 10 nice middle class houses. Our drive passed along the row of houses.
Though I loved my Jesuit buddies and even enjoyed running through the snow in the dark under occasional street lamps, I was sad that I would not have a warm house, kids, and a wife, like lived in those houses. I even got close to a local Catholic family who had 6 kids.
A bikers' consultation.
Looking back now, the Lord was rescuing me, whispering in my spirit, You do not have to give up this life to be okay and to make a difference.
The next time I got the message was when I went to East Africa and saw how lots of good priests, bishops, and even a cardinal had common law wives. The people cheered them for being normal.
Charlie, are you looking in somebody's pocket? I caught you!
Getting kicked out of East Africa sent me back to the States different, open to a relationship, but certainly not knowing anyone . I got into dancing and guess who came along, Rosemary.
And now a little story about our relationship which some of you have maybe heard piecemeal.
Would you trust your cupcake with these two?
I asked Rosemary if she would marry me in 1990. There was one enormous condition: that we wait to formally marry until 2005, when I would be 65. Why? Because once I left the Jesuits I would have no insurance. I had seen some of my guys leave, have a disease or accident, and cripple that marriage. Guess what. She agreed and this morning, Cinco de Mayo, we celebrate our 14th.
How has the Lord rescued you from your fears?
What a handsome group of Romeos. Eat your hearts out, Juliets.