Sunday Homily for December 29, 2019, Holy Family

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Trouble on the back bench!

 

Readings:

Sirach 3, 2-6, 12-14,   My son, take care of your father when he is old

Psalm 128,  Blessed are those who fear the Lord and walk in his ways  (fear the Lord?)

Colossians 3, 12-21, Put on compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness , and patience.

Matthew 1, 18-24,  This how the birth of Jesus Christ came about.

 

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Meeting of the board.  

 

A second Christmas Homily

This morning I have another Christmas story.

For many years I have had a really good friend who is an Ursuline nun.   Just thinking about Sr. Mary gives me fond memories of celebrating the early morning community Mass in the sisters' quiet chapel in the residence.

 

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Ben & David with David's daughter, Darbi Anna.

 

It also reminds me that I have a rare special relationship with the Ursulines.  I went to Christ the King grade school when the Ursulines staffed it.   I am educated by the Ursulines. 

Today there are no sisters living in the old convent with the beautiful little chapel.  Sr. Mary says she now lives along with 5 or 6 other Ursuline sisters at a retirement home that was popularly known at Tremont.  It is located on Harvest Hill Drive just across the Dallas Tollway from Jesuit and St. Rita's' Catholic Church.

 

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The Girls' candle lighting team with Zoe, Tori, and big sister, Georgie.

 

I know it well because my mom lived there and died there.  She passed through all the 3 levels, individual apartment, partial care, and full care.  

There is sister who still works at Ursuline Academy, you guessed it, Sr. Mary.  Every morning she gets up, spends the day at her school office.  Then drives back to Tremont. 

 

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Buddy reading the Blessing of the candles.  He has  not memorized the blessing on this the first day.

 

 

Last summer she decided it was time for her to give up driving and sell her little car.  A difficult decision.  She would use Huber.  

One morning around Labor Day she could not get Huber. So she decided to use the app. Lyft.   A guy came, picked her up at Tremont and took her to Ursuline.  During the trip she probably explained to the driver what she did at the school.  

 

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The Whole Team.

 

She exits his car, asks how much, and is told "No Charge."  She explains that she will still need a ride home in the afternoon.  Plus, she will make the trip every weekday.  

"How much?"   "No Charge!"  

 

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The offertory team with Bill, Tom, & Denni

 

The man, a Nigerian, has come every work day, September, through December, No Charge. 

Who is the Sr. Mary in your life? 

 

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Communion Helpers, Lynda, Tom and Claire.

 

 

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    Wisdom 11, 22-12, 2,   Before the Lord the whole universe is as a grain from a balance.

     Psalm 145,  I will praise your name forever, my king and my God.

    2 Thessalonians 1, 11-2, 2,  We always pray for you.

     Luke 19, 1-10,   Zacchaeus the tax collector in the tree.

     

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    Sez You Know Who, "Hi, Everybody, Thanks for coming to my party this morning."  
     

     

    Wisdom (of Solomon) observations:

    Author: Not Solomon, but a compilation by numerous people.

    Date:  around 200 years before Christ.

     

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    Olivia, too, says, "Thanks for coming to my party."  The Old Geezer is really jealous of your beautiful hair, Olivia.  

     

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              "Righteous people are protected by God and will never suffer torment." 3, 1

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    Zacchaeus, the tax collector

    Couple of questions.  

    For us today, listening to this delightful story, what does Jesus represent?

    What does Zacchaeus represent?

    I would propose that Jesus represents the person fully alive. 

     

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    Who is this Candle Lighter of The Week??

     

    Zachaeus represents the person who wants to be fully alive and who is willing to do anything to get there, even to looking like a clown in the eyes of his neighbors. 

    Zachaeus represents Everyman, or every person, all of us. 

    This room, our community is full of Zachaeus persons.   John is a Zachaeus person.  Carol, Tom, Frank, Dee, all Zachaeus persons, all trying to live fully.

     

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    Welcome, Mary, to your lovely Granddaughter, Monique, and her boyfriend, Zach.

     

    Last night Rosemary & I had the privilege and honor to celebrate a Zachaeus event.  John and Michelle Simari’s son, Scott  and Scott’s beautiful fiance’ publicly pronounced their vows to live and love together all the days of their lives.  They are fully alive as they are and they are reaching out to be even more fully alive. 

    In a note that Scott and Deanna sent to us to thank us, Scott said something that really touched me. 

     

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    The Beginning, Ron escorting his daughter, Deana, down the aisle to a New Life.

     

    When Scott was attending St. Marks with his family while I was there, he used to dream that someday he would have a fiance’ and get married.  He dreamed, moreover, that the old geezer would do the wedding. 

    Last night on the fairway just below the 18th green at the Las Colinas Country Club, Scott’s dream came true.

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    Perfect Couple, Perfect Evening, Perfect Setting, Las Colinas Country Club, 18th Fairway leading 18th Green.

     

     

    I have to  share one more Zachaeus story that came in late, like at the wedding last night.

    After many years of not seeing her, last evening I met Dana, a person I had known for years during my time at St. Marks.   Dana introduced Rosemary & me to Norm, her husband of a few years.

    Dana had been for years a flight attendant for Delta.  She worked for years the N.Y. to Rome flight.

     

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    Deana Howard vows to live forever with her love, Scott Simari. 

     

    One night she met this guy while she was working first class.  At the end of the flight, he says, "Will you marry me?"  "No," she says of course.  

    This guy was Norm and he was taking his mother back to the old country.  He says to Dana, "Meet us at the Piazza Navona tomorrow night."

     

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    Norm says he had been married 40 years before being widowed, and he never intended to marry again.  He is pretty pessimistic, but his mother says, "She will be there."  She was there, her first date since her divorce, as Dana says.  

    Zachaeus was a guy doing everything he could to be fully alive. 

    How are you like Zachaeus?

     

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    Welcome into your New Life, Deana and Scott.  You two are tremendous people.  

  • Sunday Homily 2-6-11, 5th Ordinary Time

    Readings: Isaiah 58, 7-10; Psalm 112, The Just Man is a Light in Darkness to the Upright; 1 Corinthians 2, 1-5; Matthew 5, 13-16.

    Intro to Readings

     Our gospel readings, beginning last Sunday and continuing for the next several Sundays are part of the great Sermon on the Mount in Matthew’s Gospel.  This section of Matthew’s Gospel is the first and most well known of five major discourses, which are in this gospel.  Matthew had situated Jesus on a mountain; recall one of the themes of this gospel is to show how Jesus fulfills the Old Testament. 

     

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    Moses was on a mountain when he received the Ten Commandments from God, Moses was acting as intermediary.  Jesus is portrayed very differently – phrases from next Sunday’s gospel – “you have heard it said…. but I say to you” Jesus is no intermediary! 

     Just before this Sermon, we are told that Jesus went about the whole of Galilee preaching the Good News of the Kingdom.  Now this sermon spells out what that means.  For instance Jesus tells the disciples about their new relationship with God in that he refers to God some 17 times as “your Father”. 

    The whole sermon, which covers three chapters in Matthew, can be divided into three sections, the first dealing with the Law, then a section on religious practice and the final section on material possessions and human relationships, ending with the famous golden rule.  In the middle section we find the instructions on prayer, with the teaching of the Our Father. 

     There is much to ponder on in these readings, and interestingly the contents give us a rare insight into what was probably very early Christian preaching as the Letter from James has much the same content and this is considered one of the earliest writings we have from the new community, written somewhere around the year 50!

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     I want to continue our discussion of the sacraments.  Today we will discuss very briefly the third of the three sacraments commonly referred to as the ‘Sacraments of Initiation’, the Eucharist.  This sacrament has many names, First Communion, Communion, the Eucharist and the Mass.  I think that the revised Rite of Christian Initiation has gone a long way towards helping clarify the confusion. 

     If you are familiar with the RCIA program, you will recall that in the period leading up to the Easter Vigil, when the candidates are admitted into the community fully, they are invited to attend just the first half of the Mass, the Liturgy of the Word, and then they process out of the church.  I think the reason the words “First Communion” came about was because just as with our discussion of Confirmation, when originally a new candidate joined, they received all three sacraments at the same time.  It was again due to circumstances and time that each event became separated and became individual sacraments.

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    So much could be said about the mass that it could be a topic each Sunday at least for a year.  Today I want to cover just a few highpoints.  My intent is to help us remember why we are here each Sunday.

     The Mass as we know it began its life at the Last Supper.  But even before that Passover Meal, there was a whole history connected with the Jewish history and THE most important event, their salvation from slavery in Egypt.  So that last meal the Jews ate before their escape to freedom and the Promised Land is the backdrop for our Mass.  The earliest mention we have of that last meal Jesus took with his apostles comes to us from Paul in his letter to the Corinthian community. 1Cor 11, 23ff.  And this letter dates to around the year 56 or 57 CE.  Meals were important in the gospel stories about Jesus.  And one of his first appearances was to the disciples on the road to Emmaus, when they recognized Jesus in the breaking of the bread.  As the years passed and the early community gathered to remember Jesus, that Last Supper began to be called the Lord’s Supper.  And it was quickly seen in conjunction with His death and resurrection.  Pretty soon its parallel to the Exodus Event with its resultant freedom for those who were baptized and received into this community was vivid.  The sacrificial aspect became uppermost. 

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    That Jesus’ death and resurrection won for us a whole new freedom in our relationship with the Father.  In typical human fashion, attempts have been made to explain the words, “this is my body, this is my blood” and like everything else connected with God, it is a mystery, so I prefer to leave it to the realm of faith and accept it rather than try to understand it.  Suffice it to say that the Jesus we receive in communion is there, not as a result just of those words by the priest, but as a result of the whole community, with the priest at its head, because of the entire action of the mass. 

     There has been much debate about whether the mass is a sacrifice or a meal, with one side or the other coming to the fore at different times.  The reality is: sacrifice includes meal, the two are not separate. 

     Our coming here each Sunday is to participate as a community in that sacrifice.  We listen to God’s Word, we offer our gifts of bread and wine and then we pray the Eucharistic Prayer, the word Eucharist means thanksgiving.  We then believe that by eating the bread and drinking the wine we are receiving the risen Jesus into our lives.  This communion, this meeting brings us closer in our relationship with God and hopefully the effect spills over into our lives where we live and work and pray.

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    Picture 2:   Mass Beginning

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    Picture 4:   The Keszler Klan, Jan & Sir Charlie, their son, Chuck, & Chuck's wife, Ellen, & their older son, Andrew. 

     

     

     

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    Readings:

    Acts of the Apostles 2, 14, 22-33.  You who are Jews, listen to my words.

    Psalm 16,  Lord, you will show us the path of life.  

    1 Peter 1, 17-21,   Conduct yourselves with reverence.

     Luke 24,  13-35,   Two men on the road to Emmaus.   

     

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    "Hi, Everybody, Welcome in," say Buddy, Tori, and Harper.

     
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      What a good writer the author of Luke-Acts is. The story of the two followers of Jesus on the road to Emmaus has the power to grab us and make us feel like we were there with them.  We know about those who experience closeness with their loved ones after the loved ones have passed on. We’ve heard about people who talk with and have conversations with loved ones who are gone, or who see them in their dreams or even see them just walk in the door.
       
       
       
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      Could there be anything more fun to play with than a spider on the floor?
       
       
      These stories are not about miracles; they are about how humans try to be connected with loved ones who are no longer  here, and how we process a significant loss.
       
      I can’t tell you how many people have shared with me their experiencing a loved one’s presence after they had passed on. Is that a miracle? Or is life and connection itself the miracle?
       
       
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      The Minor Elevation with Sunday's team.
       
       
      You heard Mike a few weeks ago talk about the miracle stories in the Bible being a way of talking about people who are heroes, or who are thought of as grand or powerful or loving.
       
      The story that the two guys on the road to Emmaus experienced Jesus as joining them is not a stretch—this is a human story. The story of Jesus is the story of a man from Nazareth who, following John the Baptist, discovered that he too had a message, a message that we are not disconnected; nor are we cut off from God, ever; that we are living in God’s kingdom, if only we open our eyes and ears and follow the Good News he taught.
       
       
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      A song by Peter Mayer called Holy Now says in one stanza,
      When I was in Sunday school we would learn about the time Moses split the sea in two, Jesus made the water wine; And I remember feeling sad, that miracles don’t happen still; But now I can’t keep track, ‘Cause everything’s a miracle.
       
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      Wine from water is not so small, But an even better magic trick, Is that anything is here at all.  So the challenging thing becomes, Not to look for miracles, But finding where there isn’t one.
       
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  • Sunday Homily 7-10-11, 15th Ordinary Time

    Readings:   Isaiah 55, 10-11; Psalm 65, The seed that falls on good ground will yield a fruitful harvest; Romans 8, 18-23; Matthew 13, 1-23. 

    Fifteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time – Intro to the Readings

     Our readings today are from very familiar sources, Isaiah, Paul to the Romans and Matthew, and since we will not be having a homily, due to the baptisms, I wanted to take this time to say a few words about the readings and how they apply to our lives, especially because we are going to celebrate the baptisms in this liturgy.

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    A common theme in both Isaiah and Matthew is the notion of God’s Word being like a seed.  Today, the three kids who will be baptized will have that Word, that seed, watered by the waters of Baptism.  Now if we continue with the notion of the seed as being God’s word in our lives, or as being our faith response to God’s Word, then like any seed we plant, it needs care and attention if it is to grow and thrive.  This care and attention we do by coming here each week and listening to God’s word and by our participation in the liturgy.  But as a community we are there to help each other.  Our relationship with God is one in community. 

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    God, for whatever reason, seems to want relationship with us thru community.  That is the clear message, which comes throughout the Old Testament: I will be your God and you will be my people. This idea continues with the Christian community as they celebrated their identity by coming together for the “breaking of the bread”.  So many folks feel that sitting at home just reading their bible and accepting Jesus as their personal Lord and Savior is what God wants.  There is nowhere in any of the scriptures this notion of a “personal God”.  God relates with us in community. 

    Leo 7-10-11 

    So today, as we welcome Tori, Buddy and Zoe into our community, reflect on what it means to be part of a community.  With all of the wonderful advances brought about by technology, there are also fearful risks of isolation with that same technology. 

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    Picture 1:   Mass begins

    Picture 2:   Some of the Delgados, Georgie, Hannah & David, Bernadette

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    Picture 4:   Dillon with his grandmother, Jo

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  • 25th Sunday, Ordinary time, 9-19-2021

    Wisdom 2, Let us beset the just one, because he is obnoxious

    Psalm 54, The Lord upholds my life.

    James 3,  Where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there is disorder.

    Mark 9,  If anyone wishes to be first, he shall be the last.

     

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    John Simari reads the first reading.

     

    Thanks……

    Music,    Ben & Shonda

    Readers, John & Brent & Buddy, our candle blesser 

    Gospel,     John Cade

    Homily,   John Cade

    Eucharistic Prayer A & B,  John Stack & John Cade

    The Magic Zoom makers,     Richard & Hue & Mike

    Final Blessing, Rosemary

    For hosting us at Legacy for all these years & will miss you enormously, Becky

     

     

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    Brent reads the second reading.

     

    Homily by John Cade,  

    Download Homily John Cade 09-19-21

     

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    Welcome home, Sir Charlie & Jan.  So good to see you.  It has been too long!

     

    Remember these special people:

    For John & Karen Anderlick's unborn grandson;   For Rosemary's great niece, Rylie;  For Richard's grand daughter, Madeleine;   For Esparza's new great grandson  & Frank;  For all the medical personnel struggling to treat the tsunami of sick people, in particular, locally, Cindy's staff at Presby, Dallas, and at Frisco Presby, the mother of Harper and Betsy, Kendle, working in labor & delivery, and for Hue & Linda's daughter, Doctor Rosemary Beavers;   For Mary & Dave Hall's g-daughter Allison Keller working at St. Lukes, The Woodlands,   For Sir Charlie & Jan;  Shonda's mom & Cody &  Leo & all of Shonda's dear family; For Ursuline Sr. Mary Troy,

      
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    John shares his interesting insights into today's readings.

    Jackie's mom, sister, & friend, Lynn;  For Rick Turner searching for a kidney donor, Type O neg.; For Meredith, cancer free & John Schanot;    For John O'Donnell & Jean;   For Jean & Cliff Wright;  For Dee, and for her daughters, Lisa & Lauren  ;  For Anthony & Sabrina;    For a young man who is suffering from depression;  John Cade's mother in law, Kalliopi Piskiouli and Lambrini, plus John's daughter, Joey, with cancer; from Barbara, a little 12 month old baby boy named Ford recuperating from an operation; for David McKeon's brother, Hugh; For Beth's friends & brother;   for the medical staffs, teachers, and coaches in our public & private schools.

     

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    Welcome Home, Patricia & Fred!

     

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    Tom & Lynda Fleming

    Rob & Beth

     

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    Peace, Everybody!

     

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    Rosemary's Blessing:

    How we see ourselves has everything to do with how we see God and how we see others. Let us make sure our God is the kindest, most loving and forgiving person we know. We become our image of God.

     

    Taken from We Become Our Image of God by Sr. Jean Amore, CSJ, Principal Sacred Heart Academy, Hempstead, New York

     

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    Happy Anniversary, Beth & Rob, and welcome home.

     

    JSM Mission-Faith Statement  

          Help create a Catholic Community that welcomes all God’s People, provides for & challenges spiritual & total growth.  

          Reaches out to help people who are disadvantaged & make the world we live in a better place to live.

     
    John Stack Ministries, 7017 Helsem Way, Dallas, Texas 75230
     
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  • Sunday Homily for December 23, 2018, 4th Advent, C cycle

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    Welcome to the scene of our 4th Advent and Christmas Eve celebrations, to the most colorful school dining room I have ever seen, and to a marvelous venue for special inspiration.  Legacy Charter School.

     

    Readings: 

    Micah 5, 1-4, From you shall come one who is to be ruler in Israel

    Psalm 80,  Lord, make us turn to you, let us see your face and we shall be saved.   

    Hebrews 10, 5-10, Sacrifices and offering you did not  desire  

    Luke 1,  39-45,  Mary visits Elizabeth.

     

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    Buddy, you are becoming such a gifted reader.  Thanks to you and thanks to you, Georgie, for shepherding Buddy.

     

     

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    The summer of 2015 I was a volunteer referee, of course, unbiased, principled, and open to all gifts.  Chocolate was my favorite.  I was a referee for the Maccabe summer games at the Jewish Community Center, a place that has become something of a second or third home for me.

     

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    Thanks for lighting our 4 Advent candles today, Zoe.  Your hair is gorgeous.

     

    The Maccabe Games take place every summer in Jewish Community Centers all over the country and perhaps Canada.  Thousands of kids came to Dallas, and the spirit in the air was terrific.  They were sheltered all over Dallas in JCC family homes.  We had a dozen or so on our block of Tulip Lane.  All together it must be like that at the Olympics.

    During the time there were numerous general meetings.  At one of the meetings of no less than 2500 a special event took place.

     

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    Welcome Home from Beirut, Celeste.  It is so good to see you back.  I am jealous of those kids in Beirut who have you as their music teacher.

     

    There was a young girl of about 15, Hallie Bernard, who addressed the whole assembly one day.  Hallie had a rare disease.   To recover she needed a bone marrow transplant.  She made an appeal to the parents and kids to get registered and maybe she would find a donor who would save her life.

    Hallie immediately had 2500 volunteers.  As word got out to others at the event and beyond, over 6,000 volunteers registered.

     

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    Congratulations, Rick, on losing 30 pounds.  I am proud to know you.

     

    As a result, 53 matches were found all over the place, even beyond Dallas & Texas. 

    Hallie found a match.  

    Guess why the people at the Jewish Community Center and beyond so touch my heart.  

    Are people just not good!

     

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    Welcome home from college, Kevin, so good to see you.

     

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    Our Advent Reconciliation with Mary Jane & Becky (the head of Legacy Charter).