Sunday Homily, October 28, 2012, 30th Ordinary Time B

Readings:    

Jeremiah  31, 7-9,   Shout with joy.

Psalm 126,   The Lord has done great things for us, we are filled with joy.

Hebrews 5, 1-6,   Every high priest is taken from among men and made their representative before God.

Mark 10, 46-52,  Bartimaeus, a blind man, sat by the road begging. 

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Emma

 

Jeremiah observations:

Who:  one of the Big 3 Prophets, 52 chapters, the “broken hearted prophet,” because he hated being so unpopular and having to condemn so much. 

Baruch, Jeremiah’s scribe seems to be who put down the prophet’s message.   Jeremiah probably died in Egypt.

When: put together before & during the B.C., Babylonian Captivity, say 575 before Christ  (reminder, Babylon is near present day Bagdad, Iraq).

Remember, too,  that time before Christ is counting downward or backwards.

Leo coming 10-28-12

Welcome, Leo

Interesting Side Note: (another reminder) can you guess when the Genesis story of creation in 7 days was composed?  Biblical research reveals that the creation story was put together during the Captivity, this same time, i.e. ca. 575.

Why?  The priests & prophets (e.g., Ezekiel) of the Jews in captivity determined that the people would not be assimilated into the local gene pool as their cousins in the northern kingdom had done when made to live with the Assyrians.  They decided they would establish customs & religious practices that would make the Jews so different they would not intermarry.  Three special laws were established: 1.  male circumcision; 2. dietary laws and laws about not touching menstruating women; and 3. the Sabbath.

The priests put together the 7 day creation story to suggest that Yahweh approved of their Sabbath law.  They had Yahweh rest on the 7th day to bolster their demand that all Jews take a day off every 7 days.  Before the Babylonian Captivity there was no legislated Sabbath and no myth of Yahweh creating the world in 7 days with the 7th being a day of rest.  So, now you know when the story was created & by whom, the priests, and why, to keep the Jews united vs the Babylonians.  It worked, even down to today.

Offertory 10-28-12

Offertory, Mike and Judy, Mary and Bill

Subject: the usual prophet message—condemn, pay, peace.

Today: Beautiful message of peace and consolation.  It is coming.

Sources: Bishop John Shelby Spong, The sins of Scripture; Wikipedia

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Leo and Cole

 She Danced through Life

Rosemary & I had the privilege and the honor Thursday to attend the funeral of another noble woman & friend, like Joan, Colleen Romero. 

I calculate that Rosemary & I have known Colleen and her husband for ten years.  We certainly knew them for a couple of years before we got married in 05/05/05.   You will never guess how we met them.  Dancing.

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Zoe receiving her birthday cupcake of the week, 4 years old today, Sunday

 Somewhere along the line, a group of us noticed that Plano Parks provided a whole variety of adult classes, among them dancing.  So Rosemary & I, Gilberto & Bernadette, Beth & Rob , and some others, we all decided, “Let’s go learn to dance.”  And so we met Colleen and Fred.

Sonia 10-28-12

Sophia

They were our teachers.  They were elegant, charming, and fun.  I danced with Colleen a number of times.  I would ask Fred how I was learning some special dance.  He would laugh.  Then Colleen would guide me to a point where I got it.

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Delgado corner with Buddy, Leo, and Torri

 This is the first thing I see when I remember Colleen.  She danced through life, charming, elegant, smiling, and having fun.  She and Fred were even running dance classes at St. Gabriel parish for adults who had Parkinson’s or coordination problems. 

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Nikki and Cameron with Sophia with their birthday cupcakes of the week, 12 years old.

A  second aspect to Colleen I saw recently.  It was a few weeks back when I got a notice that Colleen was not doing well and was in the hospital.   We had not seen her and Fred for months, maybe a year.  She had been struggling with various joint problems for some time, but this was supposed to be serious.

Jessica 10-28-12

Jessica home from Boston

So, I called her straight up.  She answered.  She sounded groggy and stressed.  In fact, she was experiencing nausea.  So I made it quick, saying I loved her and sent her all my support.  She said this may be her time and that she was okay about it.

A few more days go by and I get another note saying that the word is this really is it.  This time we get in the car and go visit her at Medical City Plano. 

I walk in and find her looking and sounding great.  However, she says this is truly her time, that she wants no special treatment, and that she is totally ready.  She was in that acceptance stage we talk about in stages of dying, the stage of peace.  

Cathy 10-28-12

Cathy just before receiving blessing for her foot operation

Colleen was not like Mark’s Bartimaeus today.  She was not blind.  She could see.  She danced her way through life and when her time approached, she accepted it. 

Like I asked with Joan, how have you been blessed by people like Colleen?

 

 

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  • Sunday Homily, April 26, 4th 2015, Easter, B

    Readings:

    Acts 4,  8-12,  In his name this man stands before you healed.

    Psalm 118,    The stone rejected by the builders has become the corner stone.

    1 John 3, 1-2,   See what love the Father has bestowed on us.

     John  10, 11-18,  I am the good shepherd.

     

    Genevieve

    Genevieve says, "Hi, Everybody, Welcome. Nice to see you for the first time."


     

    Acts reminders:

    Author: Luke, the same who wrote the gospel.  He was an educated, urbane Jew.

    Date: the years 75-80 

    Subject: This is a travel log, detailing the spread of Christianity from Jerusalem to Rome and the Mediterranean in between.

    Today: Peter is talking to the elders and leaders of the people, aiming to convince them about Jesus.

     

    Genevieve welcome

    Genevieve welcomes the Whole Community, and, in turn, the Whole Community welcomes Genevieve.

     

    The Good Shepherd

    I would like to talk this morning about the good shepherd.  Two proposals.  

    First, we have shepherds all around us.

    Secondly, the good shepherd has three characteristics.

    1. The shepherd gathers people.
    2. The people the shepherd gathers are richer and happier because of being called.
    3. The shepherd, likewise, is richer and happier because of inviting all these people. 

     

     

    More 2 weeks

    Vivian says, "In two more weeks I will get to say hi to everybody, too."  Hey,  is there something in the water around here?

     

    Four examples.

    I mentioned that this past weekend Rosemary & I attended both a Jesuit class reunion and an alumni reunion of 50 years at Spring Hill College in Mobile.  The shepherd who called us together and made all the arrangements was my classmate and good friend, Bill Dowie.  To me this was extraordinary because the last time we all met two years ago, over twenty of us, Bill was still mourning the love of his life, whom he had cared for the last years of her life.

    Not only did he gather those who could make it somewhat at the last moment, but he shared with us that he was introduced to someone with whom he sees a special relationship developing.  Rosemary & I were most touched, doubly so by the charming woman he brought.

    I left that reunion richer and happier.

     

    Picture1

    The Spring Hill Jesuit reunion group on the Fairhope pier, eastern shore, Mobile Bay.   Bill is third from left, Keqi is first on the left. Others, (l-r), Jim Raymond, Rosemary, an Old Geezer, Carl Castille, and Jack Podsiadlo. Joe Reardon taking the picture.

     

    The second shepherd is in our very midst.  This guy invites with open arms and open heart guys who have hit bottom.  We, too, have accepted his invitation to nurture these men by our help with Souls Harbor, of which he is the director, a 24/7 job. 

    Brent, Thanks for being a good shepherd for over 60 men and a shepherd for me and the community.

     

    Picture2

    Our class in '65 in front of Assumption Hall.

     

    The third shepherd, every Thursday at least, loads up 16 meals.  With her friend, Barbara, they deliver Meals on Wheels to homebound men and women, whites and a rainbow of races.

    Rosemary and Barbara gather their people by bringing meals to their door.  The people are richer and happier because of their visit, as I am by their example.

     

     

    Picture3

    Over 100 of us Jesuits lived in Assumption Hall, Spring Hill College, Mobile in the 60's. After expecting that the building would be finally designated as a historical monument, how deflating to find the building demolished and in its hallowed place two student residences. No appreciation for old age!

     

    Finally, there is a lady in our neighborhood named Patty Cody.  She is our neighborhood shepherd.  She organized the neighborhood association.  She has set up a security patrol for us, and a neighborhood communication network.  You can find your lost dog or cat and you can put on line a picture of a lost dog you find in your yard.  All this, plus other conveniences.  But her biggest bringing together takes place on July 4, when everyone is invited to a neighborhood parade, a picnic at the playground of a grade school, and a time when we see each other, maybe the first time since last July 4.

    Rosemary & I are the refreshment Czars and each year I come home richer and happier with what Patty has helped us celebrate.

     

     

    Tori

    Guess what, Victoria. You were once little, too, just like Genevieve.

     

    Let me add an extra and a special Good Shepherd, Genevieve.  Does she not call us all together?  Do we not feel richer and happier just be in her marvelous presence.  And from my vantage point, I think she, too, is richer and happier because we are all responding to her.

     

     

    Harper 2

    Harper is pretending to be sleeping through another masterpiece homily.

     

    Good shepherds are all around us.  

    Who is a good shepherd in your life and for whom are you a good shepherd?

     

    Boston

    Cupcake of The Week to Paul and Carrie for acing the Boston Marathon last week.

     

  • Sunday Homily, Sept 9, 2007, 23rd in Ordinary Time

    Readings: Wisdom 9, 13-18; Psalm 90; Philemon 9, 10-17; Luke 14, 25-33.

    Wisdom: This is another of the books called Apocrypha, because they are not part of the original Old Testament.  The work makes use of traditional Jewish material, as well as ideas borrowed from Greek philosophy, in order to teach that God rewards those who are faithful to him. 

    Our section this morning is simply saying, Who knows or who can guess God’s mind or intentions for us. This sets up the Gospel which is rather confounding at first reading.

    Hate my Mother, Father, & Wife?

    A few summers ago Rosemary & I made a three night back packing trip through Zion National Park in Utah. We entered the north west corner of the park by getting a farmer to drop us off, and we hiked back to the center of the park where the headquarters, lodges, and our car were.

    Somewhere in the middle of the hike after climbing some switchbacks, we came to a vista point and took a break. Suddenly from below comes a muscular college kid running up the switchbacks.  When he arrives at the top he stops for a break and some water. 

    Being very outgoing, he explains that he is from Notre Dame, is planning on entering the Olympics, and is in training.  He runs in one day the whole trip we used four days to cover. 

    Unfortunately, we never did notice whether he showed up at the Olympics or not.   Whether he did or not, he was motivated.

    Luke’s gospel today talks about motivation, but in exaggerated terms. This is hyperbole, hype, exaggeration to make a point.  It is coach talk.

    So what is the goal? "Being my disciple," Jesus says.  What is that? I would propose that it means being a whole person, a balanced, maturing person, a peaceful person. To achieve the goal takes self discipline and effort. These are the means to the goal. What is mentioned by Luke is the means, even though hyped.

    What are the signs of my progress?  The author I’ve been reading says there are three signs: more outgoing, more self confident, and more loving-caring.

    Teachers can watch the process with kids they teach.  Initially we are self focused, self absorbed.  As we grow we turn from our self to others. 

    This outgoing characteristic is strengthened as I become more self confident, which, in turn, grows because I am accepted and loved by others. With this foundation I can risk more. Success increases my self confidence.

    Then I, too, love and care for others. The self focused child becomes the caring parent, teacher, or volunteer.

    Our Notre Dame boy would probably think this passage about hating your mother, father, spouse, even your own life is silly.  Yet, he is doing what it recommends if you can see it as saying the ultimate goal is so good it is worth devoting everything to it with passion.  He is focused on an intermediate goal, the Olympics, but in that focus he is maturing and becoming a more whole & peaceful person.

    What are you passionate about?  

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  • Sunday Homily June 9, 2013, 10th Ordinary Time C

    Readings:

    1 Kings  17, 17-24,  The life breath returned to the body of the child.

    Psalm 30,  I will praise you, Lord, for you have rescued me.

    Galatians 1, 11-19,  The gospel preached by me is not of human origin.

    Luke 9, 11-17,  Young man, I tell you, arise.

     

    Emma 6-9-13

    Emma with her arm back in a sling. She was getting a bit sporting before the collar bone had completely healed.

     Observations on the readings: 

     

    1 Kings 17:17-24

    The young man’s mother recognizes that the word of the Lord
    truly comes from Elijah’s mouth.  He
    breaths forth life into her son in this parable.

    Second reading: Galatians 1:11-19

    Our Gospel is the proclamation of good news, where good news, is a noun. Paul is preaching good news that came to him
    through a revelation of Jesus Christ, where preaching
    good news
    is a verb.  The Gospel
    hadn’t been written, yet.


    Leo 6-9-13

    Leo has found a new toy.

    Gospel:  Luke 7:11-17

     

    Paul uses the word ‘flesh’ at least 100 times in his
    letters, once in our short reading from Galatians. 

     I want
    you to understand a verse from John’s gospel. 
    ‘What is born of flesh is flesh; what is born of Spirit is spirit.  To be born only of flesh means that when a
    decision needs to be made that person relies only on his mind…and the mind
    seeks to have the flesh satisfied. 


    Celeste 6-9-13

    Celeste.

     

    Everything
    God created is good; the flesh is good. For example; if you work hard all
    morning your stomach lets your mind know that your body wants some food.  So, if you are home, you use your mind and go
    to the refrigerator to find something to eat. 
    Your mind will seek to satisfy the flesh when you open that door.  Anything is fair game. 


    Cupcakes of the Week 6-9-13

    Cupcakes of the Week, Mike, Diane, and John (really for Alison).

     

    But, what is born of Spirit is spirit, where
    the Spirit has a [capital S].  The Spirit
    enhances the flesh!  Instead of a desire
    to satisfy your flesh your desire is to put your spouse first, even if he or
    she is not there. What is born of Spirit is spirit. 

     

    Offertory 6-9-13

    Offertory, Jean, Doug, Cliff, and John.

     

    A great way to hone in on Spirit-living
    begins with, ‘in everything give thanks.’ 
    If you go to the refrigerator only to find it empty, give thanks. Your
    desire to satisfy just the flesh will begin to fade away.  Pick up the list of things on the counter
    that you and your spouse make to replenish the empty refrigerator.  Give thanks when the parking place is further
    away from the store than you had hoped. The exercise will be good. 


    Harper 6-9-13

    Harper.

     

    Someone left a cart in a good parking place.
    Give thanks that someone will find it a good place as soon as you push it
    toward the store doors. 

    Number 2. Affirm
    your spouse for the great things that he or she put on the grocery list.   Affirm the stocker who has just filled up
    the shelf, ‘looks great.’ 


    Delgados 6-9-13

    Delgado Corner with Bernadette and Gilberto sitting with Emma, who has come to see where all her playmates are today. They are on vacation.

     

    3, Be a good
    listener at home, and enjoy looking into your spouse’s eyes and touching his or
    her shoulder or hand. 

    Last of all always
    forgive your spouse; it is in giving that you receive.  Remember, forgiveness is the message of the
    good news of Jesus Christ.  Recall for a
    moment our communal services in Lent and Advent.  You listen, you look into each other’s eyes,
    you ask to be forgiven, you forgive others; you embrace; you affirm; you give
    thanks. 


    Little Axe 6-9-13

    Little Axe, OK, scene of the first of 3 tornadoes around & in OK City. Notice how the wind has bent the two steel I beams which had been the foundation for a large mobile home.

     

    In today’s gospel, a young man
    is seeking forgiveness. The assembly ritually carries him.  He’s not heavy; he’s their brother. The
    assembly mourns along with his mother for all of times that they have not shown
    love.  They are professing their faith with
    him.


    23 A, trash pile

    Little Axe, we made 3 piles on the edge of the road, metals, wood, and trash. This is mostly wood. A trailer truck with a set of large jaws was picking this up and placing it into trash trucks.  This pile has been pushed up to the road by a bulldozer.

     

    In this parable Jesus is there to grant forgiveness to this young
    man.  He will rise to be set free, unbound from whatever had enslaved him.  In faith, through the power of the Holy Spirit
    we can say those words to someone; and we have during Lent and Advent.             

    Is there someone you know who needs
    to be forgiven.   Give thanks that you
    have the time to heal yourself and them this week. 

     

    7 pick up 2

    Little Axe, upside down pickup with a trailer dumped on top. Chaos everywhere. More about the trip this coming Sunday.

     

     

  • Sunday Homily 12-5-10, 2nd Advent

    Readings: Isaiah 11, 1-10 (a beauty); Psalm 72, Justice shall Flourish in His Time, and Fulness of Peace Forever; Romans 15, 4-9; Matthew 3, 1-12. 

    Isaiah 11 observations:

    Author: Isaiah 1.  Remember, 3 primary authors are responsible for the 66 chapters.  Isaiah 1 covers chapters 1-39.  This book is one of the Big 3 O.T. prophets, along with Jeremiah and Ezekiel.  This is because the works are the longest.  There are 12 minor prophets.

    Time: ca. 700, before the Assyrians annihilate the northern Jewish kingdom, called Israel, vs the southern kingdom called Judah, where Jerusalem is.  10 tribes were lost in this destruction, the 10 Lost Tribes of Israel. 

    Remember there were 12 tribes.  Why?  Because of the 12 sons of Jacob, who was one of the 3 great patriarchs or founders of the tribe, Abraham, Isaac, & Jacob, who was also called Israel. 

    Hunter 12-5-10 

    Message of Isaiah 1: condemnation of the corruption of the ruling class & oppression of the poor.  Because of this, destruction is coming.  He foresaw the coming of the Assyrians, not a difficult thing to do.  The profile of the prophet was usually 1. criticism, 2. prediction of dire payment, 3. consolation.

    Today’s message: consolation.  Two parts.  In part one, a special person will come. And because of him, part two, watch what will happen.  A dream most touching.

    Beginning 12-5-10 
     

    Advent Wreaths: This little liturgical practice came to the Catholic liturgy, believe it or not, from the German Lutherans in the 1500's, the time of Martin Luther.  It was more than just decoration.  The circle symbolized eternity.  The greens Christian life in a dead time of the year.  The candles represent each of the 4 weeks of Advent, each candle symbolizing the greater light brought by Christ.  Their color purple symbolized penance and purification for the Coming.  The Rose candle says, 'We are almost there!'

     

    Beautiful Dreams Can Happen

     The Isaiah reading this morning has special meaning for me in two ways. 

     First of all, the beauty of the writer’s dream touches me.  He dreams that the world will have such peace and harmony that even the animals will live without fear of each other.  Wow. 

    Esparza 12-5-10 
     

    Secondly, I have a story connected with the dream.  It happened in Toronto the Advent at the end of the year I was ordained, 1971.

     The Jesuits have a theology college in Toronto and I spent four years there, ’68-’72.  The fall of my second year a class of about 35 guys entered from all over.  Among them was a Jesuit brother. 

     Brothers were Jesuits, members of the fraternity, but they focused on living religious life in a community with its 3 vows of poverty, chastity, & obedience.  They did not feel a call to be priests.  They worked in all sorts of occupations, treasurer, house administrator, grounds keepers, you name it.

     The Jesuit brother who entered that fall had been a brother for a half a dozen years & now wanted to become a priest.  Trouble was he was blind.  His name was Larry. 

     Larry had not come to this idea solely on his own.  Many people had encouraged him.  For some years he had worked & taught at a Wisconsin Jesuit boarding high school called Prairie du Chien, now closed unfortunately. Here the idea really grew.

     He went to the Wisconsin Jesuit provincial and he agreed to see what could be done.  The provincial went to Rome to get permission for a blind person to be ordained.  Rome said, “No, and don’t bother to ask again.” 

     So the provincial sent Larry to Toronto to do the normal theology studies leading up to priesthood.  Just to see how he would make out. 

     He made out splendidly.  In fact, we all pitched in to help him.  We recorded classes, we read to him, we recorded assigned readings, and we studied with him.  I, in fact, lived next door to him on the third floor. 

     The end of the first year came and the provincial returned to Rome to ask again.  Rome said, “No, and don’t ask again.”

     The end of Larry’s third year the provincial asked again.  This time Rome said, “He may be ordained a deacon.”  Folks, the excitement and gratitude in our house was tactile.  You could feel it, touch it.  We knew that once a deacon, he could easily move to priesthood.

    Cici 12-5-10 
     

    Larry was now in his 3rd year and it was in Advent of the 3rd year when the men were ordained deacons, the priesthood coming in the following spring. 

     It was the second Sunday of Advent, cycle A like this year, in the college chapel full, about 35 guys getting ordained deacons preliminary to being ordained priests 6 month later.  The reading was Isaiah 11.  In Braille Larry read Isaiah’s dream.  There was not a dry eye, not a sound but Larry’s voice. 

     Today Larry Gillick is ordained and works as part of a team working out of St. Louis U. 

     Beautiful dreams can happen.  We can influence their happening.  How? 

    Picture 1:   Hunter lighting the candles

    Picture 2:   Mass begins

    Picture 3:   Mary & Frank with the offertory

    Picture 4:   C C at the donut shoppe

     

     

  • Sunday Homily, Octrober 7, 2012, 27th Ordinary Time B

    Readings:    

    Genesis  2, 18-24,  It is not good for the man to be alone.

     Psalm 128,   May the Lord bless us all the days of our lives.

     Hebrews 2, 9-17,   He is not ashamed to call them brothers.

    Mark 10, 2-16,  Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery.

     

    Sabrina 10-7-12

    Sabrina at 17 with her parents, John and Alison

    Genesis:

    Date of Compilation: Most likely during the Babylonian Captivity, i.e., around 600-550 BCE.  But the material for the sources was coming together over 200 years.

    Authors:  4 major sources–

    The J or Y source (for Yahweh), coming from Judah, the southern half of the divided Jewish state after Solomon's death.

    The E source (for Elohim), coming from Israel, the northern half of the Jewish state which was destroyed by the Assyrians ca. 700 BCE.

    The D source (from Deuteronomy), coming from the revisions of the prophet Jeremiah & his companions.

    The P source (from the priests), which or who during the Babylonian time took the material from the first 3 sources, wove them together, and edited them. 

    How do you know: by text analysis, noting different styles of writing, place references (e.g. mention of the Tigris & Euphrates in chapter 2, which says "Babylon."), event references, people references, and agendas behind the stories (e.g. Sabbath & Creation Story #1).

    Blakely 10-7-12

    Blakely Dean coming for baptism

    Subject Matter: A panorama stretching from the two stories of creation, through The Fall, Cain & Abel, Noah & the flood, the Tower of Babylon, the Patriarchs Abraham, Isaac, & Jacob, Joseph and his jealous brothers, Joseph as governor of Egypt & his brothers' visit & eventual migration to Egypt. 

    Our Selection: we will read the whole of creation story #2, chapter 2.  The story comes from the Y or J source, but note the mention of the Tigris & Euphrates, which a person in Babylon would appreciate  ( A clue that a priestly source has inserted a geographic reference.  Why would a Jewish high priest be familiar with Babylonian rivers?  Babylonian Captivity. ).

    Kelly 10-7-12

    Blakely with her mom, Kelly

    Hebrews: We will read from Hebrews for the next 6 weeks (excluding All Saints), right up to the feast of Christ the King, which marks the end of the liturgical year.  Then we begin Advent and a new liturgical year.

    Author: unknown, but he wrote excellent Greek.  Not Paul.

    When Written: 85-95 CE, i.e., 50 plus years after Jesus' death

    Subject: superiority of Christ.  Rather convoluted.

    Baptism 10-7-12

    Blekely's Baptism, she liked it and wanted to play in the water

     

    Then He Embraced Them

    This morning I want to talk about the last paragraph of Mark, the one about accepting the little kids and how He embraced them.

    This past week Rosemary & I went to Lindsay, Ontario, a small town north east of Toronto.   When I spent 4 years studying in Toronto I came to know a number of people.  The Reddick family I have especially loved and kept in touch with since I left there in the early 70’s.

    Daniel 10-7-12

    Blakely with her dad and mom, Daniel and Kelly

    The mother of the family lives in Lindsay, and for some years we visit her to celebrate Canadian Thanksgiving, which is tomorrow.   This year we went to celebrate a memorial for one of her children, Robin.  All of the spread out family was coming.

    Robin was a special child when she was born in 1958.  She had Down’s Syndrome.  Robin never spoke and spent all of her life in excellent residences provided by the Ontario Provincial government.

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    Robin with her mother, Kay

    Kay, Robin’s mother, spent all the time she could carve out from taking care of her 5 other children with Robin.  Robin lived 53 years and died about a month ago.   The memorial was delayed until Rosemary & I could be there.

    3 lessons I take from my relationship with Robin. 

    First, gratitude for what I have, for example, my ability to ride 60 miles yesterday in the Make a Wish bike rally.  Plus so many other gifts.

    Secondly, I have loved that precious girl and she taught me how to expand my love to include special people.

    Thirdly, she invited me to look at and stand in awe of the mystery of life.  What is it?  What gifts get handed out to whom and why?

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    Robin Reddick, Lindsay, Ontario, 1958-2012

    I learned at least one lesson from Kay.  Namely, how to love a special person even when it is impossible to keep the person at my side.

     There was a touching side story in all this.  Some woman told Kay that she had specialized in care for specialized people because as a teen she had worked with Kay.  At a big Catholic Church in Toronto Kay had run like a religious ed class for a large group of special kids.  Even though Robin could not be in it.

    So, we had the memorial Wednesday at the United Church in Lindsay.  The following is Kay’s message to her dearest Robin.

     

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    Robin's ashes at her Memorial in Cambridge United, Lindsay, Ontario

    Roberta Mary Reddick, my Special Robin,

    You and I have had quite a journey together since May, 1958, and during that time I have felt blessed and proud to be your mother. 

    I remember the Sunday morning you were born and as the nurse lay you in my arms, she said “I think these 2 need to get acquainted.”  I have thought often of these words as I suspect she guessed what I did not yet know that ours would not be the usual mother/daughter relationship.

    However, my little one,  you showed me a different part of life and changed my world without saying a word. 

    Some memories:

    You hated shopping and standing around.  So if I was debating too long on a purchase, you uttered those bored noises which I took to mean, “I may just throw up if we don’t leave soon.”

    Also, your impatience in a restaurant as you never took you eyes off the waitress until your meal arrived. 

    Your love of lego and flipping through magazines endlessly. 

    Your nurturing side came out when living at Christian Horizon Group Home and you would bring Tom his slippers and made sure he was okay.

    Of course, while living at Christian Horizon you became one of the family and were loved and cared for every day. 

    At this time I than k all the people who helped you through your days and nights.  The last 4 years of your life at Case Manor the caregivers were your hands, feet, eyes, ears, and voice without complaint.  I can truly say they must be angels.  Thanks you.

    But most of all, Robin, I hope you always know how much you were loved and now as your beautiful spirit is free and you have your wings, remember  that in my heart you will forever live. 

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    Last Wednesday, the day of Robin's Memorial, Lindsay in fall color, the leaves turning.

     In Mark, Jesus says, "Let the children come to me, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these."  

    First of all, I want to thank all of you in this community for being so child friendly.  You are marvelous.

    Secondly, in your life, whom do you love like this?

  • Sunday Homily, May 25, 2014, 6th Easter, Cycle A

    Readings:

    Acts 1, 12-14,   All these devoted themselves to prayer, together with some women.

    Psalm 27,  I believe that I shall see the good things of the Lord in the land of the living.  (good verse for homily)

    1 Peter  4, 13-16,  If you are insulted for the name of Christ, blessed are you.

    John  17, 1-11,  I pray for them.

     

    Cole

    Cole says, "Welcome in Everybody."

     

    Reminders on Acts:

    What : The second half of Luke’s work, the first part being his gospel.  Acts starts after the Resurrection.  We will read Acts all through May and read the last selection June 1, then June 7, Pentecost.  The work focuses on the spread of the early church with special attention given to Peter and Paul and their conflicts over who was to be a Christian, and Jewish laws, like circumcision.  The conversion of Paul is described.  

    Who: Luke, an educated and civilized Jew who wrote in Greek.

    Date:  around the year 65, or about 30 years after Jesus’ death.

    Our Selection: Activities in the community after the Ascension.

    Watch for two words in Psalm 27, gaze and contemplate, see the response above.

     

    Sienna-Brooklyn

    Sienna and one-eye Brooklyn say," Come in, Everybody, it's fun here."

     

     Gaze and Contemplate

    I want to talk about two words that come from Psalm 27, gaze and contemplate.

    This past week a great black lady died at 86, Maya Angelou  I wish I had known her better.  I memorized one of her poems once, but did not look her up. 

    One aspect of her life stuns me.  She went silent for 5 years, from the age 7 to 12, more or less.  Why?  She had been abused by her mother’s boy friend, she told her brother, and a day or so later the boy friend was discovered beaten to death.  Maya was sure her words had caused his death and she was mortified into silence.

     

    Celeste

    Celeste also says, "Hi, Folks, come in."


     
    It was her mother telling her that she was a special person that eventually convinced Maya to begin talking again.  Yes, I wish I had known her.

    I was fortunate, however, to know my own Maya, a black lady named Juanita Craft, who lived in south Dallas, near Fair Park, and was a leader in the NAACP in the ‘50’s & ‘60s.  I got to know her really well because of three events.

     

    Harper

    Harper says, "Any extra cupcakes today?"

     

    One, the summer of ’66 or ’67 I was looking for something special to do.  I was in the middle of a three year delightful internship teaching at Jesuit as part of my 13 year formation program to be a priest, a Jesuit priest. 

    Somehow, I got to meet Juanita and next thing I know I am the only whitey on a Greyhound bus to the National NAACP annual convention in Atlantic City with stopovers in D.C. 

     

    Cole & Candle 2

    Cowboy Cole, the Candle Man, at work.

     

    I was probably too dumb to know I was in some danger on the trip.  We had a large number of teenaged kids.  If the bus was headed toward Birmingham or Selma in those days, I may have taken a pass. 

    One of the highlights of the trip was how the Jesuit community of Georgetown went all out in their hospitality to our group, even having us all into the community dining room for dinner and providing a bunch of cars and drivers to tour everyone around the city.

     

    Sienna-Zoe

    Sienna and Zoe solving World Problems.

     

    Secondly, when I returned from the trip, I moved into Juanita’s little two bedroom, white frame house in South Dallas, and stayed for the rest of the summer.  I worked with her at her NAACP meetings, understudied her ways, and helped with kids in the neighborhood.  She called me her “white boy.”  I was ca. 26.

    My poor mom was mortified by all this.  One evening when they had invited a number of their friends in for dinner, and I was asked to help out, she asked me if I would not tell people what I was doing and where I was living.  A few days later she asked me to forgive her.   I had to laugh.  My dad did not seem to be bothered.

     

    Emma

    Emma waiting to check out any extra cupcakes.

     

    Thirdly, I learned how a simple person can make a difference.  As head of the Dallas NAACP, she helped integrate UNT, UT Law School, the State Fair, as well as other places like restaurants, theaters, and public buses.  I saw how she got the city to focus on the roads in her neighborhood and how she loved the kids.  She had none of her own and, in fact, I don’t think she ever married.  Juanita was elected to two terms on the Dallas City Council in the ‘80’s.   There is a Dallas park and a rec center named for her. She came to my ordination in '71 at St. Rita's in a squad car.  Impressed all the neighborhood kids.

    How she affected me? 

    She got me to gaze around and contemplate the neighborhood, see what needed to be done, and do it.  This eventually led me to the tree project.  The interest in tree planting came from Boy Scouts; the mental foundation came from Juanita.

    Secondly, Juanita’s jovial personality got me to gaze at and contemplate the beauty and the loveliness of the Lord in people and nature, as Psalm 27 says it. 

     

    Here they come

    Here they come, Emma, Tori, Buddy, and Zoe.

     

    I learned how to pray in public from Juanita and those people.  I was usually in clerics and they called on me often for a prayer, something I was not used to.  I think I wore clerics then and on that bus to avoid being killed.  Likewise in East Africa, especially when crossing the borders, like between Tanzania and Uganda.  Otherwise, no clerics.

    Today we are called to gaze and contemplate the beauty around us, White Rock Lake, Tom Woodward Park (which I have yet to see), our kids here, our community, Romeos (Maybe not!), and our families.  Jesuit spirituality got me started on this.  Juanita Craft helped me put it into action.

    Who is the Juanita Craft in your life who helps you to gaze and contemplate? 

    For whom are you the Juanita Craft?

     

    Communioon

    Communion helpers.