28th Sunday in Ordinary Time, October 10, 2021

Wisdom 7, I pleaded and the spirit of wisdom was given to me.

Psalm 90, Fill us with your love, O Lord and we will sing for joy

Hebrew 6, The word of God is living and effective. 

Mark 10, We have given up everything and followed you.

 

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Ben, the Magic Man, sharing life.

 

Thanks……

Music,    Ben 

Readers,    Patricia & Fred, & Buddy, our candle blesser 

Gospel,     John Cade

Homily,   John Stack

Eucharistic Prayer A & B,  John Stack & John Cade

The Magic Zoom makers,      Hue & Mike & Richard

Final Blessing, Rosemary

 

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Patricia reading from Wisdom.

 

Readings: 

 

Homily by John Stack,  

Download John Stack homily 10-10-2021

 

 

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Fred reading from Hebrews.

 

Remember these special people:

For Becky & Tom's son, Austin, who took his life this past week;  For John & Karen Anderlick's grandson, Cooper John who lived only a few hours with his parents;   For Rosemary's great niece, Rylie;  For Richard's grand daughter, Madeleine;   For Esparza's new great grandson  & Frank;  For all the medical personnel struggling to treat the tsunami of sick people, in particular, locally, Cindy's staff at Presby, Dallas, and at Frisco Presby, the mother of Harper and Betsy, Kendle, working in labor & delivery, and for Hue & Linda's daughter, Doctor Rosemary Beavers;   For Mary & Dave Hall's g-daughter Allison Keller working at St. Lukes, The Woodlands,   For Sir Charlie & Jan;  Shonda's mom & Cody &  Leo & all of Shonda's dear family; For Ursuline Sr. Mary Troy,

 

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Rosemary's sister Clare, and her husband, Joe Mazzei.

 

Jackie's mom, sister, & friend, Lynn;  For Rick Turner searching for a kidney donor, Type O neg.; For Meredith, cancer free & John Schanot;    For John O'Donnell & Jean;   For Jean & Cliff Wright;  For Dee, and for her daughters, Lisa & Lauren  ;  For Anthony & Sabrina;    For a young man who is suffering from depression;  John Cade's mother in law, Kalliopi Piskiouli and Lambrini, plus John's daughter, Joey, with cancer; from Barbara, a little baby boy named Ford recuperating from an operation & a nephew; for David McKeon's brother, Hugh; For Beth's friends & brother;   for the medical staffs, teachers, and coaches in our public & private schools.

 

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Welcome in, Jan & Sir Charlie

 

Birthdays:  Richard  

Anniversaries:  

 

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Peace. Everybody!

 

Community Finances,   October 10, 2021

Expenses: $

Outreach: $

Thanks again, Folks, for doing what you can.

 

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May you have a safe & peaceful relocation to Alabama, Patricia & Fred.

 

 

Rosemary's Blessing: 

Blessing 101021 28th Ordinary

Given to me by Lynda Fleming, Author Unknown

 

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Welcome Back home, Paul & Carrie.

 

Notice, Everybody: The blog will not be published the next three Sundays.  The Editors will be on a Viking cruise on the Mediterranean.  Next edition will be published November 7.

 

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    Can you spot my favorite line?  Someone
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    Saints?  Ever met One? 
    Never met One?

    I would like to talk today about saints. 
    Ever met one?  Never, you
    say.  I would say, on the contrary, I
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    First I would suggest the saint is fully alive or trying to be fully
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    Secondly, I think this person shows me that Our God is what the Psalm writer
    says.  Namely, using my translation, Our
    God is gracious and merciful, never gets angry and is abounding in love.


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    Zacchaeus exemplifies these two qualities.  He shows me this portrait of God and he is so
    alive that he climbs a tree to compensate for his shortness.  A terrific model.

     

    I have another.  This person came
    into my life around fifth grade at Christ the King.  He was a young guy in his twenties, out of
    the navy where he had been wounded. 
    He was our all sports coach, scout master, teacher, and mentor.  


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    The first time it happened started after I had entered the Boy Scouts
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    and scared that some of the big guys, the eighth grade boys, who were going to
    initiate me, it being my first time out.

    So I pretended to be sick, cried a bit, and eventually got taken
    home.  I remember coming home.  It was mid-summer and hot.  We had no a/c, of course.  I think my parents were embarrassed.  That event was one of the most humiliating
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    The theme in each one of our readings today is the same “being lost and in need of God’s forgiveness, or being found”.  In our first reading from the Book of Exodus, recall that the people have been lead by Moses from slavery in Egypt and have wandered through the desert for many years.  Moses has gone up the mountain, Mount Sinai, to receive the 10 Commandments from God.  Meanwhile the people are tired of God and have built a golden calf to worship.  Needless to say, God is pretty upset.  They are about to get really lost, but Moses manages to talk God out of it!

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    And Genevieve, who has never met a stranger, says, "Wow, it is so nice to see everybody at my party."

     

     

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    Hi, Nora, You look very pretty this morning.

     

    While Luke has the touching Nativity narrative and the magnificent story of the Prodigal Son, and, even, the lost coin and lost sheep, look what else.  

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    Picture 1:  Our Father with T.J. & Occhipinti with jet lag
     
    Picture 2:  Tony preparing to give us his thoughts on Pentecost
     
    Picture 3:  Sam (ho hum after 2 weeks in our world) has made his dramatic debut to acclaim from our community
     
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    Good Morning, Tori, Good Morning, Zoe.  So nice to see you dear girls.

     

     

    Readings:

    Isaiah 5, 1-7,  The fruitless vineyard

    Psalm 80,  The vineyard of the Lord is the house of Israel.

    Phlippians 4, 6-9,  Have no anxiety at all

    Matthew 21, 33-43,  The vineyard owner & the unfaithful tenants. 

     

     

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    Good Morning to you, too, Riley, and welcome in from Atlanta.   It is so nice to meet you.  I knew your mom when she was your age.  And you are as pretty as she was.

     

    Reading 1; Isaiah 5:1-7

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    The vineyard in Isaiah is a sad story.  Why?  The fruit from the House of Israel should have been praise and thanksgiving to God.  But there was no thanksgiving given and no humility shown.  There was no lived praise or peace or justice.

     

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    Thanks, John and Buddy and Mike, for celebrating today.  I knew before we did Paul & Carrie's wedding this weekend, I would be jet lagged out after the wedding and an evening arrival from Grand Canyon and Phoenix.

     

    Reading 2; Paul’s Letter to the Philippians 4:6-9

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    Today’s reading from Philippians contains a teaching common to several of his letters, “Have no anxiety at all; rather you should give thanks in everything, for that is God’s will for us.

     

     

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    Thanks for the Homily, Mike.

     

    Reading from the Holy Gospel according to Matthew 21:33-43

    Introduction: The landowner in the parable is God, and his gift to Israel is the kingdom, the tenants are the Jewish chief priests and elders of the people, the servants were the prophets.

    The Father’s son is Jesus, who is the cornerstone, the fountain of living water [the good news], and the source of the Holy Spirit [the new wine].

    The Gentiles are to be the recipients of the kingdom.

     

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    It was a marvelous, beautiful wedding and I am so peaceful resting in the back row for this celebration.  Thanks again, John & Mike.

     

     

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    Our Liturgy of the Word always leads us to the Liturgy of the Eucharist. 

    Recall Paul’s teaching, ‘In everything give thanks for that is God’s will for us in Christ, Jesus.’

     

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    Paul & Carrie begin their wedding standing on the top of the South Rim of the Grand Canyon on a beautiful evening.

     

     

    In our soon to be celebrated Liturgy of Eucharist, we are presented with the perfect example of Jesus giving thanks to the Father.  Of course, he does so with no anxiety, but instead with thanksgiving. 

    Since the bread that we break and share with one another is a participation in our communion with Jesus Christ; we are invited to join with Jesus as a Thanksgiving to his Father.  We, too, as his sons and daughters, through the power of the Spirit, can give ourselves back to the Father.

     

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    In the background is the North Rim, to which Paul & Carrie, plus a few others, are hiking this very day.  These dear people are in shape.  More next Sunday.

     

     

    Judy and I have a friendship with a couple in Austin who, about 15 years ago adopted a baby boy.  After some months it became apparent that he was born with special needs.  In everything they gave thanks. The angels in heaven sought to find perfect parents for the boy; and they did. Today he is still has needs; but he is active, full of excitement, and appreciative.

    May each of us continue to seek to do God’s will for us in Christ, Jesus.

     

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  • Sunday Homily, May 31, 2015, Trinity, B

    Readings:

    Deuteronomy 4,  32-34, 39-40  Moses said to the people.

    Psalm 33,    Blessed the people the Lord has chosen to be his own.

    Romans 8, 14-17,   Those who are led by the Spirit of God are people of God.

     Matthew  28, 16-20, The disciples went to the mountain.

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    Says Harper, "Hi, Everybody, Welcome in."

     

    Deuteronomy observations:

    What:  This work is the 5th and last book of the Pentateuch/Torah.  The first 4 books are Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, & Numbers.  Deuteronomy has basically 3 speeches delivered by Moses before the people enter the promised land.  He reviews all they have endured the past 40 years and how Yahweh has shown his care and power to save them.

    Author: Moses may have spoken some of the ideas in the speeches, but others have put the work together.  In fact, in chapter 34 the death of Moses is described.  Someone other than Moses probably covered this episode.

    Date: 700 years before Christ.

    Our Selection: the end of the first speech.  Moses is reminding the people of how Yahweh cared for them and why they must honor him for this as their one and only god.

     

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    The ideas this morning come from a study of 268 male Harvard students starting in 1937, a 7 decade longitudinal study that is almost unique in its breadth.  The identities of the students are secret unless the student identifies himself.  Ben Bradlee, the editor of the Washington Post did so, and it was deduced after he died that President Kennedy was one of the students.    This write up comes from a June Atlantic magazine.

     

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    The question was not how much trouble or how little they encountered in life, but how and to what effect they responded.  How they adapted and became happy -healthy or sad-sick people.  Psychiatrist George Vaillant has spent the last 40 years organizing the data coming from the study.

    He has come up with the following suggestions taken from the lives of these 268 men.  Here are 7 factors that contribute to happy-healthy people:

     

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                               Cupcake of The Week to Mabel at 83.

     

        1.  Education.  For you kids who just finished a long school year, it may feel so good to be out.  However, your education is a big factor in you being a happy-healthy person, in the future and even now.  I would include ongoing education.  We never cease to learn new things, even how to dance, yoga, languages, history, geography, and so on.  In Plano, look up S.A.I.L., Senior Active in Learning, an excellent program

        2.  Healthy & mature adaptability.  Vailant identifies 4 ways of adapting, from psychotic, immature, and neurotic, to healthy, like humor, altruism, forgiveness.  See the link to get his complete explanation. Try 3 things, laugh, forgive, and accept.  And try it on yourself to start with.

     

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                        Cupcakes of The Week to Ray and Brent

     

        3.  No smoking.  Never too late to stop if you already have started.  You kids, you will end up looking uglier than me if you start the habit.  Beware of copping out on the electric cigarette.

        4.  Moderate use of alcohol & no abuse.  College kids and even high school kids get caught up here so easily.  The culture of drinking excessively.  However, a new phenomenon is emerging as our population ages, geriatric alcoholism.  A bench mark?  2 glasses of wine or two beers a day.  More than that and look for two results: alcoholism and denial.

     

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    Cupcake of The Week to Renee for coming home with her degree after 5 years at Kansas State.

     

        5.  Exercise.  Want some exercise next week?   Come with me to the J tomorrow morning, 6:30 spin class.  Make it fun, make it daily.  At least a few times a week, like take a walk.  

        6.  Weight control.  My visit to McDonald's.  Kids loading up on layers of fat, salt, and sugar.  A very seductive place.  

     

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                   Cupcake of The Week also to Zaile, a week late. 

     

        7.   Relationships: loving and long term.  Vaillant suggests that this is the factor.  Loving is life-filling, it is motivational.  Because I love another, I exercise, I study, I approach life with moderation and spirit.  After all the data he has evaluated, Vaillant states that a relationship of love is the only thing that really matters in life. 

    How are you doing with these 7?

    Who is the person you love most in the whole world?  

     Source, Atlantic,   http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200906/

         

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    Not a cupcake to Kevin, but, from The Community, a $550 gift and a standing ovation for not only his high school graduation, but even more for his years of faithful, reliable help each week.             The Best to you, Kevin, because you are The Best.