Sunday Homily, July 2, 2017, 13th Ordinary Time, cycle A

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"Welcome in, Everybody," say Alison.  She will take your order for communion.

 

Readings:

2 Kings 4, 8-11, 14-16,   This time next year you will have a baby son.

 Psalm 89,   Forever I will sing the goodness of the Lord.

Romans 6,  3-4, 8-11,  You, too must think of yourselves as living for God.

Matthew 10, 37-42, Whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.

 

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Rocco, too, says, "Hi, Everybody."

 

July 4, 1776, Declaration of Independence signed.

50th anniversary, July 4, 1826: two signers of the Declaration died, the only 2 to serve as presidents,  and mutual friends, Thomas Jefferson & John Adams (excellent source, David McCullough’s John Adams).

 

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She's back, Folks, and better than ever.  Welcome home, Wendy!

 

 

Happy July 4

It is July 4 time and I would like to talk this morning about why I am happy to be an American.  I was sharing my ideas with Rosemary, an advantage to being a married priest (or maybe not), and she said, “Can’t you find reasons a little more dramatic, a little more universal?”  So, my reasons are just my own homey variety. 

I do claim a certain unique perspective because of living in East Africa for 10 years.  I admit there were a few occasions when I was grateful I had the American embassy as a refuge in case I got into some trouble.  I can certainly remember looking at the American flag flying over the embassy in Nairobi, Kenya and being grateful and thinking, ‘Yes, that’s my country.”

 

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Wow, I forget how good and beautiful you are, Wendy.  

 

So, here are 3 reasons why I am delighted to be an American this summer.   Natural beauty and people beauty with two parts.

First, the natural beauty.  There certainly are beautiful places in East Africa, for instance.  Like Kilimanjaro, which I climbed 5 times & the Serengeti game park.  Likewise, in Italy, the Amalfi Coast, Cinque Terre, even Rome. 

 

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Welcome, Tim, so good to have you with us.

 

In the States we have the Rockies of CO, Grand Canyon, the beaches, like Hilton Head.  For me, there is nothing better than Yosemite.   But, you say, I live in Dallas.  Beware there is natural beauty here, too.  Try White Rock Lake, try the White Rock Creek trail.  Rosemary & I  ride this trail weekly and I wonder lately, ‘Am I truly in Dallas,’ it is so wild and wooded.   It has been especially beautiful the past couple of months because of the frequent rain.

 

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I do believe trouble is brewing in that corner again.  Just look at her face.

 

 

In Plano what about the Oak Point Park.  Is this really Dallas?  I just discovered Oak Point last year when the Collin Classic bike tour began there.  

I love the natural beauty we have in America.

 

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Healing and life for Sandra.

 

Then there is the people beauty.   Don’t laugh.  I propose the trustworthiness of people. 

Want to see an amazing phenomenon?   Park yourself on a corner of one of the small towns we will pass through in three weeks on the bike rally through Iowa.  You will see maybe more than a thousand bikes hitched to parking cables and lying on the ground, not one with a lock. 

I park in front of a grocery store, put my helmet on the handle bar, walk in, get what I want, maybe an all you can eat meal for $10 (like lasagna), and return to my unlocked bike. 

I love our ride through Iowa every July.  Only about 12 – 15 thousand riders.  Of all sorts.

 

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Welcome home healing and life for Grace.

 

Want to see another phenomenon?  The hospitality of people.  Join me to ride the Hotter ‘n Hell Hundred the end of August.   There are 10 rest stops, like every 10 miles.  Each stop is loaded with bushels of volunteers overflowing with hospitality. 

I have my two favorites, 30 and 75.  At the 30 mile there is a group of elderly ladies (maybe many younger than I) who personally bake dozens of 6 varieties of cookies.  They positively blow me away and every year I tell them they are my favorite stop of all. 

 

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Would someone please go and sit with Sir Charlie.  

 

 

I will meet new rest stops this August because last year after the 100 miles when I was dead tired, Rosemary got me to agree to ride the 50 miles with her and have a dinner together on the way home.  This spring I tried to renegotiate this deal with Rosemary, and she said, "Too bad, Cowboy, you agreed and you are stuck."

 

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Offertory with Mike & Jean & Judy & John.

 

What are you proud about this year?

Happy July 4.

 

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  • Sunday Homily, September 15, 2013, 24th Ordinary Time C

    Readings: 

     Exodus 32, 7-11, 13-14,   I see how stiff necked this people is.

    Psalm 51,  I will rise and go to my father.

    1 Timothy 1, 11-17, I am grateful to him who has strengthened me.

    Luke 15, 1-32, The Prodigal Son (The Best).

     

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    Kevin and his mom, Connie, arriving.

     

    Exodus observations :

    What : a story, a long parable.  It has 2 parts, the exodus or exit from Egypt
    and the years wandering in the desert.

    Who: the work is all about Moses, but he
    did not compose it.  Rather, it was put
    together by a committee during the Babylonian Captivity, 555 before Christ.

    Subject: it appears that the purpose of the
    work was to encourage the people during the Babylonian Captivity.  It is not history and borrows stories from
    other cultures.  For instance, the
    parting of the Red Sea comes from a Mesopotamian creation myth and the 10
    Commandments resemble the Code of Hammurabi.

    Our Subject: The people have been bad, God is
    mad at them, and Moses defends the people.

    Sources: Good News Bible,
    The New Interpreter’s Study Bible, Wikipedia

     

     

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    Emma arriving prepared.




     

    The Prodigal Son: A Work of Art

     This story is my favorite parable of the whole Bible.  Note one thing: this is story, not
    history.   The author carefully crafts
    his work of art to show how much God loves us unconditionally.  Let me give you three observations about the
    son, three about the father, and an extra three to show you how astounding this
    story is. 


    Torri 9-15-13

    The Beautiful Torri.

    First, the younger son:

     

            1.  He has no right to ask for inheritance.  None. 
    By asking he is saying he wishes the father and the older son dead.  A symbolic murder.  Father can kill him for this.

            2.  He works feeding pigs instead of asking for
    help from the temple.  This means he
    rejects the religious tradition and is considered a traitor not only to the
    family, but to the religion. 
     

        3.  So, as a horrible failure as a son of the
    family and a son of the religious tradition, he decides to return.  He makes up his little speech and heads
    home.  He is hungry to the point of
    dying.  Do this or die.  Many listening Jews would say, Die. 
     


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    Buddy is ready, too.

    The Father: he actually commits as many crimes and sins as
    the son.

     

        1.    
    He runs down the road to
    the son when he sees him coming.  A very
    undignified action.  Outrageous.  People who emphasize conditional love point
    out that the son at least came back. 
    Despite this point, all the other elements of the parable point to a
    father with unconditional love.

            2.  He embraced and kissed the son.  Huge violation of Jewish religious custom and
    law.  By doing this the father positions
    himself outside of the religious & cultural community.  He is a reject like the son. 

            3.  He cuts the son’s speech off before he can finish, eliminating the last sentence, “treat me as you would one of your
    hired workers.”  And to make it worse, he
    orders the servants to bring the finest robe, ring, and sandals. 


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    Zoe with her granddad, Gil.

     

    The robe, the ring, and the sandals:

            1.  The robe: restores the son’s dignity. 

            2.  The ring: gives authority to the son, even
    equal to the father and certainly more than before he left.

            3.  The sandals: gives the son freedom.  Slaves were not given sandals so they would
    not run away.  The father is doubling the
    message he gave when he cut the son’s speech off before he could say the third
    part about being treated as a servant. 
     


    Toy World 9-15-13

    Toy World open with Cowboy Cole, Emma, Zoe, and Torri.

     

    A word about the older son, because we so often identify
    with him.  Two additional and final
    points.

            1.  That he tells his father how he feels.  Great. 
    In those days, it meant the father can kill him.  Today: communication.
     

            2.  What is his challenge: acceptance of his
    brother, his father, and himself; focus on gratitude for all he has; move from
    trying to be a good boy to loving?  Any
    one of these?  Or all?  All. 
     

    I apologize for so much data.  There is even more.  The point is that the story is a carefully
    crafted literary work of art that attempts to describe how totally unconditionally
    loving our God is.

    How does this image of God reflect your image of God? 

     

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    Cupcake of the Week to Bethany on the 2nd week anniversary of her marriage.




     

    Source: The
    Liberating Stories of Jesus,
    Francis Vanderwall (Dallas’ Open Window will
    present Francis Saturday, September 28, for an all day seminar.  Welcome. 
    More info below.  Sunday he will
    be with us at Vines.  He is an ex-Jesuit
    and one of my best old Jesuit buddies.)  
    Download Fall 2013 Conference 9-20-13



    Flemings 9-15-13

    Cupcake of The Week to Lynda and Tom on 31 years,




     

     


     

     

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    29th Sunday in Ordinary Time, October 18, 2020

    Readings:

    Isaiah 45, 1, 4-6, I have called you by your name.

    Psalm 96, Give the Lord glory & honor

    Thessalonians  1, 1-5, We give thanks to God always for all of you.

    Matthew 22, 15-21, Then repay to Caesar what belongs to Caesar.


    Dogs make the world better

    Thanks to the Team

    Music,  Ben & Shonda's help 

    Readers,   Sandra & Patricia & Buddy, the candle blesser

    Gospel,  Deacon Mike 

    Homily,  Stack 

    Eucharistic Prayer A & B, Stack & John Cade

    The Magic Zoom makers, Mike, Ben, Richard, & Hue 

    Final Blessing, Rosemary

    For hosting us at Legacy, Becky

     

    Isaiah observations:

    Who : Can you guess which Isaiah this is in chapter 45?  1, 2, or 3?  A little more difficult than the last two Sundays.  This is Isaiah 2, going from chapter 40 to 55.

    Today’s selection:  this is not Isaiah 2 at his best.  I like the line, I have called you by your name.  Otherwise, the passage is mildly comforting to the people who are living in Babylonian slavery, around 555 before Christ.

     

    Cyrus: So, who is Cyrus?          

     Cyrus the Great of Persia, modern Iran, built the first great empire, which extended as far as Athens in Greece.   He was a benevolent emperor of his people and the people he conquered, for instance, the Israelites.

    Isaiah 2 is championing Cyrus because he hears of Cyrus coming and hopes Cyrus will defeat the Babylonians and set the Israelites free to return to Jerusalem.  This is exactly what Cyrus does.  Where is Babylon?  Try 50 miles south of Baghdad on the Euphrates River.  What is left?  Rubble. 

     

    Note: Watch out for the alleluia verse just before the gospel.  A good one.

    e.g.,  Shine like lights to the world, as you hold on to the word of life.

     

     

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    Please Remember these special people:

    For Alan Stryker;  For John Doherty with back pain;   For David Dismore's bad shoulder from a biking accident;  For all the medical personnel struggling to treat the tsunami of sick people, in particular, locally, Cindy's staff at Presby, Dallas, and at Frisco Presby, the mother of Harper and Betsy, Kendle, working in labor & delivery;   For Mary & Dave Hall's g-daughter Allison Keller working at St. Lukes, The Woodlands,   For Loretta's aunt Alicia;  For Sir Charlie & Jan;  Shonda's mom & Cody & Ben & Leo & all of Shonda's dear family;  

    For Jackie's mom, sister, & friend, Lynn;  For both Jean & Cliff Wright;  For Rick Turner searching for a kidney donor, Type O neg; For Meredith, cancer free;    For Hue;  For John O'Donnell;   For Dee, and for her daughter, Lisa; For John Schanot's continued health;  For Anthony & Sabrina;    For a young man who is suffering from depression;  John Cade's mother in law, Kalliopi Piskiouli and Lambrini, plus John's daughter, Joey, with cancer,  For the students, teachers, and coaches in our public & private schools.

     

     

    Homily for 10/20

    I bet you don’t know what special anniversary Rosemary & I are celebrating this Tuesday, October 20.  Yep, one year ago Tuesday we were visited by that massively destructive tornado. 

    Actually, I personally cannot tell you what the tornado was like.  It hit at 10:00 P.M. Saturday and Aviana & I had already been sound asleep in bed for an hour.   What woke us up was an enormous crash.  Rosemary came running in saying we needed to get into the hall closet.   We made it, but it was mostly over, leaving the front bay window on the south side of the house all blasted into the living room.  A lot of roofing was also blown away.

     

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    Tulip Lane house after the tornado.

     

     

    At that time Rosemary, still dressed, went out to check on some of our neighbors, especially two widows, one, Joyce, in her 90’s and Betty a little younger.  Joyce would have been killed in her bed if she had also gone to bed as usual at 9:00.    The roof was blown down on her bed.  Because her daughter was in town, they were up and they both got in a hall closet.  It took a neighbor’s chain saw to get them out.

    Betty was funny because she was getting ready for bed when the tornado hit and when she was pulled out of her collapsed house by neighbors, she said, “My pants are in there.  I have to go back in.”  She had no pants on.

     

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    To stay in this house for any time we had to fix the roof.  We stayed until Sept. 1

     

    Actually, on that corner of Tulip & Camellia 5 houses were totally ruined.  One of the five had been a quasi mansion owned by the Dallas hockey player, Tyler Sagan.  One couple moved into our den for the remainder of the night.  I ran around the house putting buckets in place to catch the leaks, about 20 all together.  TV broadcasts were taking place right in front of our house and police were everywhere.  The couple who spent the night in our den are still in an apartment waiting to get their house rebuilt.

    You have heard me talk already about how I was humbled and stunned at how many people from the neighborhood just showed up early in the morning.   They mainly pulled, dragged, and carried tree branches from around the face of the house to the curb for pick up.  The yard was a battle scene with limbs from our beautiful trees lying everywhere.   Doug LeBlanc showed up the first morning with plywood.  He & his buddies boarded up the bay window.  I was stunned, grateful, and humbled by how hard those people worked. 

     

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    House belonging to the Dallas hockey player, Tyler Sagan.

     

    And that was just the first day.  There were still loads of clearing to be done.  Kids from the neighborhood & St. Marks Boys School joined in and really worked.  A day or so later a bunch of our community members showed up and helped to load trucks with debris.  Loretta Garcia Williams fed us that day.

    Even Central Market on our south east corner of Preston Royal joined in.  They set up a mobile kitchen under a big tent and served breakfast, lunch, and dinner for four or five of days.

     

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    8 houses destroyed at the Tulip Lane & Camelia corner.

     

    These were real meals.  I can vouch for breakfast because some kids brought me a Central Market hot breakfast one morning. 

    We had known for years that our house on Tulip Lane was falling apart.  Built in 1950, the piers were deteriorating and the walls and ceilings had cracks.  You should have seen it after the tornado!   Which got us house hunting at full throttle.

    And look at what we have. We have been blessed.   It was worth waiting, though a number of days it all seemed to be going no where. 

     

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    You can even see into the St. Mark's Boys School parking lot.

     

    You know how Rosemary found this house? With the help our agent, a good friend, Rosemary mailed out 90 personal letters to home owners.  One of them was our present house, which is a story by itself.

    The one downer right now is our old house.  I thought it would be bulldozed during this month we have been gone.  I do not want to ride by and look at it.  But just riding by on Royal Lane I can see it.   It looks forlorn and I have abandoned it and all the improvements I put into the place.  All the trees that shaded and beautified that corner are gone.  Tuesday, Rosemary & I will celebrate and give thanks.  What has been your blessing?

    Late addendum to this homily.  Our old house has just been bulldozed.  How do I feel? Both sad and relieved.   Yes, blessed that it is finally done. 

     

    6107 Tulip

     

    6107 Tulip Lane this past Friday.

     

     

    Birthdays:  Donna Dinsmore, Chuck Pratt, 82

     

     

    Community Finances, October 18, 2020

    Expenses: $450.00 

    Outreach   $100.00    (often for Souls Harbor, Legacy, etc.)

    Thanks, Folks, for doing what you can.

     

    Rosemary's Blessing:

    Loving God, give us

    eyes that see the best in people;

    words that repair and reconnect rifts and divisions;

    courage to reshape the heart of the world; and

    wisdom to “see things the way they are, not the way we are.”

    We ask this in Jesus’ name who taught us the truth and the way. 

    Amen.

    Sister Jean Amore, CSJ, Principal, Sacred Heart Academy, Hempstead, N.Y.

     

     

    New House Address

    Just in case you missed our new address, 7017 Helsem Way  75230.   (notice the same Zip Code as Tulip Lane?)

  • Sunday Homily, January 3, 2016, Epiphany

     

    Readings:

    Isaiah  60, 1-6, Rise up in splendor, Jerusalem,  Your light has come.

    Psalm 72,  Lord, every nation on earth will adore you.

    Ephesians  3, 2-6, The Gentiles are coheirs.

    Matthew 2, 1-12, Magi from the east arrived.

     

    Emma 1

    Emma says, "Hi, Everybody, Welcome in."

     

    Isaiah, a review 

    Here is another of those passages which make me love Isaiah so much.  I have mentioned this before.  He is my favorite.  

    Today we have Isaiah III talking to the Jews who have returned to Jerusalem from the Babylonian Captivity, about 555 years before Christ.  It helps to picture the mood of these people. 

     

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    "Hi, Folks, Welcome in, they are going to win today," says Cole, our Cowboy fan.   Sorry, Cole.  It has been a tough year.

     

    Are you a Cowboy Fan?  How do you feel at about this year?  Multiply this by 10 and you have how the Jewish people felt after 50 years of slavery and  their town destroyed like New Orleans or parts of NY & NJ. 

    When he says Jerusalem or Zion, he is talking to these beaten down people.  Later centuries church leaders began to make these words have two meanings, the city and us Christians.  Jerusalem, then, applies to us.

    Sources: Good News Bible, The New Interpreter’s Bible

     

     

    Gen 5

    Does the Lord not shine on this little girl?

     

    Upon you the Lord shines, because of 3 Magi

    This morning I would like to propose that we have Magi in our lives and because of them the Lord shines on us, like it says in Isaiah.  

    I want to limit the selection to 3, like the guys in Matthew’s story.  This was a bit difficult, because I see lots of Magi in my life.  Magi for me are the wise ones, the good ones, the compassionate ones.  I could start right here with you people in the community.  I could easily mention Rosemary. 

     

    Gen 6

    Ugh Oh, She has learned how to motor, like crawl.  Beware, Everybody.

     

    However, I chose 3 guys who are not quite as present in my life, but are wise, good, and compassionate.  Here they are. 

    The first guy is Harold.  I don’t even know his last name.  I do know that he is going to be 90 shortly.  I see him most mornings, Monday through Friday.  He is in the shower change room when I come into the J (Jewish Community Center) ca. 5:30 to do spin class. 

     

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    So, the questions is, 'Where is she going?  To help with the singing (see podiums) or to help with the Mass?"  Tune in next week for the answer.

     

    He is quiet and understated.  Despite working out 5 days a week, he is pretty plump.  What he is, is friendly and congenial.  He knows Rosemary & I go dancing Monday nights.  He always asks if we are going and Tuesday he asks how dancing was. 

    The second person is my old coach & Scout Master from Christ the King, Frank Hart.  Frank is 90.  Notice how these 90 year olds are getting my attention.  Rosemary & I visit Frank every Sunday after we leave Sigler.  He lives in a house with about 8 other elderly people, all of them women except Frank.   The house is on Northhaven near Hillcrest.

     

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    Emma and Zoe solving our world problems.

     

    If I get to Frank before their lunch at 1:00, I usually find him in bed and asleep.  He has his clothes on.  He just sleeps a lot.  I wake him up and  despite his memory not being too good, he certainly remembers us and makes a big deal out of us coming by. 

    Frank was one of the more significant persons in my life as a grade school kid.  He helped me get over being home sick when I went to Boy Scout camp, a story I've told here more than once. 

     

    Buddy

     Hi, Buddy, are you a frog today?

     

    While Frank touched me when I was in grade school, the third guy touched me when he was in grade school and I was at Jesuit.  His mother came by one day with her son and basically said, “Help!”  This is Michael, about whom you have heard me talk before.

     

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    After doing a zillion Masses together at St. Marks in the cafetorium, an old friend, David has joined us in Sigler.  Welcome David!

     

    Last Saturday he came by to visit Rosemary & me.  He has his gorgeous wife, Lydia, and now two neat kids, Barrett and Abby.  Michael is in the Air Force and I think the last time we met was in Aviano, Italy, when Beth & Rob were with us.  He flies these little F-16 jets.  

     

     

    Gerwers

     

    Genevieve, See these cool kids.  Someday you will grow up to be as marvelous as they.  The Gerwers.

     

    Michael touches me because he overcame a number of blocks to, first, get into Jesuit, and then to have a great career at Tech after failing to get into A & M.  

     

    Vines

    Remember our old friendly venue, Vines?  With the Nativity drama and 300 folks, we will return to reminisce maybe twice a year.

     

    What are the gifts they give me?  Wisdom, goodness, and compassion.  

    Who are the 3 magi in your life & what gifts do they give you?

  • Sunday Homily, July 24, 2016, 17th Sunday Ordinary Time

    Readings:

    Genesis  18,  20-32,  The story of Sodom & Gomorrah.

    Psalm 138,  Lord, on the day I called for help, you answered me.

    Colossians 2, 12-14,     He has forgiven us all our transgressions.

    Luke 11, 1-13,  Ask and you will receive.

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    Kevin, John, and Buddy


                                               

    Book of Genesis, Ch 18 

    — Probably written during the Babylonian captivity (6th century BCE) to help solidify Jewish people in their identity as the people of God. 

     

    Letter of Paul to church in Colossae: Ch 2 

    — Colossae was a small community in Asia Minor, east of Ephesus.  This letter is written during Paul’s first imprisonment in Rome. 

     

    Gospel of Luke: Ch 11

    It’s in the letter to the Colossians that we learn Luke was a physician, the only mention of that fact.  Luke was probably Greek and the only non-Jewish writer in the New Testament, and accounts for almost a third of the New Testament (with Gospel and then Acts). This Gospel probably written between 80-100 AD, 3 or more generations after Jesus.  It was still being edited after 100 AD.   

         

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    Mike and Carol

     


                                                                            

    Homily on 17th Sunday in Ordinary Time – July 24, 2016

    Each week of the year the Church selects readings from Scripture to teach us about God, to feed us with words that give life and comfort and challenge, and that remind us that we are one with God and one with each other. 

    Today we learn again about God as merciful, as generous, as giving of the Spirit. 

    These teachings about God’s goodness and mercy and generosity were tested for my family a couple of weeks ago when our friend Alex Folz died suddenly in his sleep at age 48.  Alex’ wife Leslie, her grown children Sarah, Mary, Liz and Peter, Alex’ parents Libby and Gene, his 3 sisters, Ali, Amy and Annie, Lambrini and her Mom, Kalliopi, and myself, and so many friends, work mates and acquaintances have been in shock and grief over his passing so suddenly from our lives. 

                                                                                                                                     

     

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    Celeste back from Albania for a couple of weeks

     

    Lambrini met Alex as a co-worker at the Louisiana Department of Revenue 19 years ago.  Lambrini and Alex hit it off and became ‘best buddies’.  Before long Lambrini and me and Kalliopi were treating Alex as part of our family.  For years, several days a week, he would join us for meals.  He helped Kalliopi with her garden, plowing and digging.  He worked at learning enough Greek to be able to communicate with Kalliopi, which she loved about him.  Alex watched over our house and cared for our dog, Coco, whenever we were away.  Coco loved Alex and ran to greet him whenever she saw his car drive up.  We shared tools and vehicles and did all the things good friends and family do with each other.  Alex was a big OU Sooners fan.  He and I watched football games together and he and Mama and I would go eat meat together.

    A few years ago he travelled with us on one of our trips to Greece.  Lambrini has always missed her 2 brothers, George in Greece, and John in Massachusetts who died over 10 years ago.  And Alex became her ‘best buddy’.  It was a rare day they didn’t speak, in person or by phone. 

                                          

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    Zoe, Tori and Grandpa, Gilberto

     

    Alex was very close to his parents and sisters.  He spoke with his parents every day and to his sisters frequently.  He loved his nephews and nieces and talked about them all the time.  Alex had friendships he maintained from his college years at OU in Norman, especially his good friend Shawn.  He had tennis buddies who met weekly to play together.  He joined a singles’ group, and that’s where he met Leslie.  In talking about their families, Alex and Leslie discovered that when they were little, their families had lived close to each other in the same area of Indiana, and some even knew each other.  Leslie’s grown kids showed had real caring for Alex, and were so happy that their mom had found love in her life again.  Alex and Leslie married last July at the Catholic Cathedral downtown.  What a happy day that was. 

    Alex and Leslie were on a trip for Alex’ annual visit with his family for the 4th of July weekend, and then they drove on to Chicago for a few days’ relaxation before Leslie’s daughter’s graduation from grad school that Saturday.  On Thursday Alex did not awaken and I got the call from Leslie.  Lambrini flew up to represent our family at his funeral in Indiana.  

                                                                                                                                           

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    Genevieve, John, and Leo

     

    We are taught and know that God is merciful, and generous and gives us the Spirit of life.  And we are tested when bad things happen to good people.  As the shock of Alex’ passing has gradually become a little softer, we have begun to see who Alex was to us; how he too was merciful and generous and giving of the Spirit to those around him; how his life made our lives better and more full; and much more fun—we laughed loud a lot with Alex.  As we grieve over this loss, we have realized that Alex was a presence of God in our lives.  Remember John Stack’s question to the parents and Godparents whenever he performs a Baptism: when is the last time you saw God?  Alex showed God’s Spirit over and over in a way that stays with me and gives me joy.  It has also been amazing to see his parents, in their grief, show such concern and caring for all of us feeling the loss of Alex.  And Leslie, dealing with her lost dreams and their lost plans for the future; and yet reaching out to give care and love for others who share the pain of loss.  It really helps that we are all in this together and that Alex’ life has left a lasting mark on all who were connected with him. 

                                               

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    The Offertory. John, Karen, Judy, and Dick


                                                                      

     

    We know from the Book of Job that there is no perfect answer for such losses.  For Lambrini and her mom and me it’s been other people who care and just connect with us that has made a difference.  So many family and friends have reached out to us just to be connected at this time.  I want you to know that I have definitely experienced and appreciated your support.  You listened; you didn’t try to define my grief or give it a meaning or take it away; you have showed me you are present to me and you are with me.  You are a part of the mercy and generosity and Spirit of God in my life.  Thank you for that.

    My question today is:  How do you find comfort and the Spirit when you are tested?  And how are you part of that comfort and Spirit for others?

                                                                         

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    The Candle Lighting. Brandon and John

     

  • Sunday Homily, November 9, 2014, Lateran Basilica

    Readings:

    Ezekiel  47, 1-2, 8-9, 12, I saw water flowing out from beneath the threshold of the temple.

    Psalm 46,   The waters of the river gladden the city of God, the holy dwelling of the Most High.

    1 Corinthians 3, 9-11, 16-17,  You are God’s building

    John 2, 13-22,  He made a whip out of cords and drove them all out of the temple.

     

    Viki

    Viki says, "Hi, Everybody, Welcome in."

     

    Introduction and homily by Mike

    Introduction:  The first reading is a prophesy from Ezekiel to the Jews in exile that they would return to Jerusalem, rebuild the temple, and when it was finished living water would pour forth from it.  Jesus Christ fulfills the yearning for his coming given by Ezekiel.  His living waters, his life giving words, pour forth the Holy Spirit to abide in living temples, the hearts of those who welcome and live the good news.

     

    Emma

    Emma, also, says, "Come in, Folks, and meet my friends."

     

    Homily: The inspired writers of the Scriptures were quite clear in telling us that God has no favorites.   In the Church, Greek and Jew, male and female, free or slave, all have been called to be together as one royal priesthood, the people of God, the Body of Christ in the world. 

    The Vatican II documents of the Roman Catholic Church began the process of tearing down barriers between Catholics, other Christian denominations and other religions as well, teaching that all who seek God have been called to oneness in Christ.  As Vatican II began to wind down, Pope Paul VI asked for the formation of an advisory council to assist him; it would be called the Synod of Bishops. 

     

    Mike

    Mike says, "Hi, Folks, got some ideas for you to ponder. What do you think?"

    It became a permanent council that currently numbers 191 bishops; and they all met last month for two weeks at Francis’ request to address, as honestly as possible, the positions that each of them held on questions relating to marriage and divorce, ordination of women and married men, birth control and homosexuality.  

    According to the news reports these bishops could not come to a consensus in their reply to Francis, for they failed to meet in a spirit of collegiality and collaboration.  The irony of course is that the synod addresses the family, and none of them are married or are women.  Needless to say, Francis was not impressed with the initial results.  

     

    Harper

    Harper, "Any extra cupcakes lying around?"

     

    He has asked these bishops, again, to enter into a welcoming and listening position, a dialog, with one another and with the people they have been appointed to serve, together they comprise the Royal Priesthood.  Francis has asked his bishops to listen with hearts filled with goodness and justice, tenderness and compassion.  He has asked them to follow the commandment that Christ taught, ‘love one another as I have loved you.’   

    Francis has given them 12 months to provide for him a group consensus to each of his questions.  Here’ are some of the consensus replies that I hope will be coming from Francis at the end of the Synod:

     

    Cupcakes

    Cupcakes of The Week, John & Connie, Rob, Karen and John. Sorry, Harper.

     

    1) Since women in the Church have discerned that the Holy Spirit is leading them to seek ordination, they will be allowed to enter the formal discernment process for the diaconate.

    2) Men and women who are divorced and have remarried have been seeking permission from the Church to receive the Eucharist.  The Church will invite the divorced and remarried to marriage enrichment; the completion of the workshop will include a celebration of forgiveness with the reception of the Eucharist.

     

    Zoe

    The Girl with the pretty hair band, Our Zoe.

    3) Married men who have a calling to the ordained priesthood can begin the formal process of discernment to the priesthood.

    4) If the personal conscience of a married couple is to use birth control during the marriage act, it must be for a serious reason associated with the well being of either party.  Both parties must first be well informed on the teachings of the Church on the sacredness of life; new life that they have conceived must never be aborted; their mutual love must always trump a desire for material wealth.

     

    Cathy

    Who is this lady in red? Why, that is our Cathy.

    5) Homosexuals should have an opportunity to seek the sacraments and welcomed to share their gifts and talents within the Christian community.

    6) Francis could eliminate the misnomer, ‘the laity,’ for all who welcome and live the good news are together the Royal Priesthood!  The Mass is the Prayer of the People of God.  Francis should invite us to pray the Eucharistic Prayer together, led by those we have ordained.  Together, in oneness, we ask that the Holy Spirit come upon the Bread blessed and broken for us to be the Body of Christ in the world.

     

     

    Leo

    Leo says, "See you next week, Folks."


     

     

     

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    Sunday Homily, June 9, 2019, Pentecost–Delayed

    A Note from Ye old Editor of our beloved Community Newsletter and Blog: 

    Sorry for the delay this week.  I was all ready to join the community for Pentecost, then came down with a beauty of a cold after arriving Thursday night from our cruise through Alaska, which is even more beautiful than I expected.  Hope to see everybody this Sunday, Trinity.

     

     

    Readings: 

    Genesis 11, 1-9, The whole world spoke the same language.  (from the vigil Mass)

    Psalm 104,  Lord, Send out your spirit, and renew the face of the earth. (Vigil)  

    Exodus 19, 3-8,   Moses went up the mountain to God.  (Vigil)

    John 14, 15-16, 23-26,   If you love me, you will keep my commandments.

     

     

    Homily:

    Alaska Dreaming

    Despite the fact that Rosemary & I would love to invite all of you to join us on the Alaska cruise, we know it is impossible.  In place of that, however, I would like to high light 4 specials that touched us.

    Of all the many specials that we experienced, l would say that the profound natural beauty that surrounded us was overwhelming, whether in the south of Ketchikan and Sitka to the north of Valdez and Seward.  It struck me as Yosemite on steroids.  Necklaces of glaciers and snow capped mountains.  We saw a lot because the sun rose about 3:00 A.M. and set about 11:00. 

    A small phenomenon that hit me was Juneau, the State capitol, chosen by the people in 1906.  You cannot get there by car.  No roads in or out.  A few cars wander the  town roads because they are shipped in by boat.  Instead, snowy peaks and glaciers.

    Another place that struck me was a little island called IcyStraight Point, an island occupied by the Tlingit tribe.

    This tribe has gone all in on tourism, providing 6-8 daily excursions around the island to see bears, go fishing, and wander the trails.  They also built the longest zip line in the world, so they told me, one mile long with six cables running simultaneously.  It takes about an hour bus ride to get to the top of this peak.  We all get buckled in, they double check everybody, then, “Away we Went.”  And it was beautiful.  If only I could have gone again I would appreciate it even more.

    Another thing that struck me and really touched me was the number of people using wheel chairs, walkers, and canes.  I remember seeing four women in wheel chairs.  I told the lady with a walker that I would give her $25 to use her walker on the shore excursion we were taking.  She said, “Make it $50 and I’ll think about it.

    At the gym where I worked out in the mornings two guys came in most mornings, put down their canes by their machines or bikes, and off they went.  This meant a lot to me because in future years I can see myself boarding with a cane.

    I feel doubly blessed that Rosemary & I could witness such natural beauty and such beauty in our fellow travelers.  Your blessing this week?