Sunday Homily 2-20-11, 7th Ordinary Time

Readings: Leviticus 19, 1-2, 17-18; Psalm 103, The Lord is Kind and Merciful (the best); 1 Corinthians 3, 16-23; Matthew 5, 38-48.

 

Homily

 “So be perfect, just as your heavenly Father is perfect.”  But we are not, and so the Sacrament of Penance, the fourth in the list as we learned it! 

 So far we have discussed the first three sacraments, Baptism, Confirmation and Eucharist, and come to the understanding that they are best identified as Sacraments of Initiation.  Moreover, in their original expression, they would all have been celebrated as one sacrament. 

As we received the sacraments as children, we almost received them in this order.  Except that Penance was dropped in before we made our First Communion, and so intruding in the sequence.

 

 

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Today I want to try to cover, briefly, the history of the sacrament of Penance.  The very early Christian community didn’t have the sacrament.  The thinking was quite simple, if one repented and believed in Jesus and was baptized, one would not sin again! 

 This early community was a very close community, and was also being persecuted for its faith, and so they knew each other very well and we have several references in Paul’s letters to the need to throw someone out if they sinned. 

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By the year 150 we do find that the communities recognize three sins, which required special handling; murder, adultery and heresy.  For this there began a practice of what we will call “Canonical Penance”.  It was not pleasant! 

 Since it seemed inconceivable that a baptized person would sin, then they were excluded from the community.  They had to perform all kinds of public penance, wear special clothes and fast; and maybe, after many years of this, they might be welcomed back into the community on Holy Thursday.  And by the way, you could only ask for forgiveness once in your lifetime!  And so began the practice of “death bed” forgiveness. 

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Baptism was generally recognized as the sacrament for having sins forgiven, and so it became common to delay receiving baptism until one was an adult and past the youthful years of indiscretions.  This almost ended the life of the sacrament of Penance. 

But then along came the Irish Monks!!  Sitting around in their monasteries, they began to talk with one another and there developed the practice finding a “Soul Friend” or Anam Cara to tell ones sins to.  This was the beginning of Confession as we know it, but there was still one missing ingredient.  Absolution. 

 This action did not get officially added until the Fourth Lateran Council in 1215.  But back to the Irish Monks.  They ended up bringing Christianity back to Europe since it had been all but wiped out there by invading barbarians. 

To help with this type of confession, they began to develop penances appropriate to the sin and thus developed books with prescribed penance.  And these penances were extremely harsh, no three Hail Marys for the Irish! 

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 Of course given man’s ingenuity, the next thing we find is that those with some money could hire others to do the penance for them! 

 It was Peter Lombard in the twelfth century who first listed Seven Sacraments, with penance being number four, and it was also in this century that we first meet the famous words “Ego te absolvo” which were quickly defended in the next century by St. Thomas Aquinas as the only way to have sins forgiven. 

 By the time the Reformation came some four centuries later, we find the Council of Trent only further declaring that this was the way penance always was and would always be celebrated!! 

 Now in our time, with the aid of better church history, the Second Vatican Council began to restore the communal aspect of the sacrament, and focused on Reconciliation rather than on penance and confession.  

That effort has tended to fall on barren ground as two things have happened.  One was that we all stopped going to confession altogether and, secondly, it seems that the current hierarchy are bound and determined to undo much of what Vatican II introduced.

 Why did we stop going to confession?  I believe there are a couple of reasons.  Traditionally people were not well educated and therefore took everything which the church said without question. 

In the last century, most of us have been educated at least to secondary level and a large number thru third level.  We are able to think for ourselves.  The push by Vatican II towards ‘personal responsibility’ in our relationship with God further aided this. 

 Right after Vatican II came the Encyclical Humane Vitae, on birth control, which most adult Catholics choose to ignore.  Follow that with the current pedophile crisis and who wants to confess to a priest!!

 But as I said at the very beginning, we do sin.  So now what can we do about it?  Well recall that penance is not the only sacrament in the business of forgiving sins.  Baptism does, so does the Sacrament of the Sick, (more about that sacrament on another Sunday) and so does the Eucharist. 

 Recall that there are numerous times in our celebration when we acknowledge our sinfulness and even hear the words “this is the Lamb of God, who takes away the sins of the world”.  So the church is possibly heading towards greater recognition of the need for reconciliation rather than confession. 

 I am going to suggest that during one of the Sundays in Lent, we have a celebration of Reconciliation with our Eucharist.  There are even two Eucharistic Prayers for Reconciliation in our missals, but more about this later.  There is no question, but that we sin.  There is also no question but that the whole message of Jesus was one of reconciliation: remember the Prodigal Son, the Lost Sheep.  God does love us, and definitely does not want us to stay away when we fail. 

 Just because Confession has vanished, sin has not.  And we can too easily become very casual about our relationship with God and our community.  There is a place for reflection and acknowledgement of our sins, we have it each time we celebrate mass at the beginning with the Penitential Rite, and maybe its time we found an Anam Cara, a Soul Friend.

Picture 1:   Mass beginning    

Picture 2:   The Nursery, Zoe, Michelle, Torri & Buddy, Randolph, Georgie, Leo & Bernadette

Picture 3:   Leo with Wendy

Picture 4:   Torri with her granddad, Gilberto

 

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    Readings:  Exodus 32, 7-14; Psalm 51, I will rise and go to My Father; 1 Timothy 1, 12-17; Luke 15, 1-32

     

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    The theme in each one of our readings today is the same “being lost and in need of God’s forgiveness, or being found”.  In our first reading from the Book of Exodus, recall that the people have been lead by Moses from slavery in Egypt and have wandered through the desert for many years.  Moses has gone up the mountain, Mount Sinai, to receive the 10 Commandments from God.  Meanwhile the people are tired of God and have built a golden calf to worship.  Needless to say, God is pretty upset.  They are about to get really lost, but Moses manages to talk God out of it!

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    In Paul’s letter to Timothy, Paul is telling him his own story as a way of encouraging Timothy and to all who feel lost.

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  • Sunday Homily, January 27, 2019, 3rd Ordinary Time

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  • Sunday Homily, July 3, 2016, 14th Sunday Ordinary Time

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    Isaiah   66,  10-14,  Rejoice with Jerusalem and be glad.  

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    Galatians 6, 14-18,     Peace and mercy be all who follow.

    Luke 10, 1-12, 17-20,  The kingdom of God is at hand.

     

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    I do claim a certain unique perspective because of living in East Africa for about 10 years.  I admit there were a few occasions when I was grateful I had the American embassy as a refuge in case I got into some trouble.  I can certainly remember looking at the American flag flying over the embassy in Nairobi, Kenya and being grateful and thinking, ‘Yes, that’s my country.”

     

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  • Sunday Homily, February 16, 2014, 6th Ordinary Time, Cycle A

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    Psalm 119: the longest of all the psalms.  A focus on observance of the laws, decrees, and statutes.

     

    Matthew 5:  a continuation of the Sermon on the Mount. Note the figures of speech called “antitheses,” namely, “You have heard it said, but, I say to you.”  4 even 5 times.  Matthew is trying to establish the authority & authenticity of Jesus.

    Sources: Good New Bible; New Interpreter's Bible., Wikipedia; Reginal Fuller, S.J., David Westberg, S.J., & Larry Gillick, S.J., St. Louis U. Liturgies, on line.

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     When I was studying theology in Toronto years ago, an article came out in the local newspaper.  Some guy had read the passage saying that if your eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away.  He did it, folks. 

     In this passage from Matthew there are five pieces of advice to the early Christians which taken literally can get a person all messed up.  Is there a positive as well as a negative to each? 

     

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     Matthew’s five pieces of advice are 1. breaking the least commandment,  2. getting angry,  3. looking at a woman, 4. divorce, and  5. swearing.  Here goes.

     

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    1.  Matthew says that if you break the smallest commandment you will be the least in the kingdom.  Moreover, unless you are better than the Pharisees, you will not even get into the kingdom.  The positive here is that the bar is set high.  The negative is that all, all of us sinners will be kept out. It creates scruples and obsessive compulsive behavior.  

     2.  Secondly, if you get mad at me and call me a fool, you are going to Gehenna.  I love it.  The positive here is the call to anger management.  I am challenged to know that all feelings are okay and need to be controlled.  The negative is that it gives me the idea that anger is not allowed, so stuff it.  Trouble is, it does not stuff well.  Not like a sleeping bag or tent.  It pops up in unexpected places.

     

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    3.  Looking at a woman with lust.  The positive here is teaching respect for all people.  This advice, written by men for men, was attempting to gain some respect for women who were looked upon as property.  I found this in Tanzania & Kenya.  Rosemary read me an article about some Muslim who cut off his wife’s ears and nose for reporting him for abuse.   The negative is that it teaches us that feelings are sinful.  In the old days, we thought we looked at a girl and we were going to hell.  This is doubly sad because I don’t think there is a hell anyway.

     4.  Divorce is adultery.  The positive is that it reinforces the unity of marriage.  The negative is that people stay in abusive or addictive marriages long after it may even be safe.  Divorce is failure and we all fail sometimes even in tragic ways.  In order to escape using the word divorce the Catholic Church comes up with the more convoluted word Annulment.

     

    Beginning

    The Team begins the 6th Sunday of Ordinary Time.

     

     5.  Swearing.  The positive is that it involves politeness and respect for others.  Even if I am okay with my anger I do not swear at someone.  The negative is that it tightens us up.  We forget the therapeutic value of cussing, maybe a healthy & fun way of releasing anger.  The healthy Jesuits I lived with certainly partook of this therapy. 

     The overall danger in these pieces of advice is that we really get messed up, forgetting two things.  First they are presenting infinite demand.  Secondly, they make no mention of infinite acceptance.

     The poor guy in Toronto who blinded himself is an example of how we can mess ourselves up with goofy religion. 

     What do you think about these ideas?

     

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    Rosemary does her blessing.

     

     

     

     

     

  • Sunday Homily, September 15, 2013, 24th Ordinary Time C

    Readings: 

     Exodus 32, 7-11, 13-14,   I see how stiff necked this people is.

    Psalm 51,  I will rise and go to my father.

    1 Timothy 1, 11-17, I am grateful to him who has strengthened me.

    Luke 15, 1-32, The Prodigal Son (The Best).

     

    Connie-Kevin 9-15-13

    Kevin and his mom, Connie, arriving.

     

    Exodus observations :

    What : a story, a long parable.  It has 2 parts, the exodus or exit from Egypt
    and the years wandering in the desert.

    Who: the work is all about Moses, but he
    did not compose it.  Rather, it was put
    together by a committee during the Babylonian Captivity, 555 before Christ.

    Subject: it appears that the purpose of the
    work was to encourage the people during the Babylonian Captivity.  It is not history and borrows stories from
    other cultures.  For instance, the
    parting of the Red Sea comes from a Mesopotamian creation myth and the 10
    Commandments resemble the Code of Hammurabi.

    Our Subject: The people have been bad, God is
    mad at them, and Moses defends the people.

    Sources: Good News Bible,
    The New Interpreter’s Study Bible, Wikipedia

     

     

    Emma 9-15-13

    Emma arriving prepared.




     

    The Prodigal Son: A Work of Art

     This story is my favorite parable of the whole Bible.  Note one thing: this is story, not
    history.   The author carefully crafts
    his work of art to show how much God loves us unconditionally.  Let me give you three observations about the
    son, three about the father, and an extra three to show you how astounding this
    story is. 


    Torri 9-15-13

    The Beautiful Torri.

    First, the younger son:

     

            1.  He has no right to ask for inheritance.  None. 
    By asking he is saying he wishes the father and the older son dead.  A symbolic murder.  Father can kill him for this.

            2.  He works feeding pigs instead of asking for
    help from the temple.  This means he
    rejects the religious tradition and is considered a traitor not only to the
    family, but to the religion. 
     

        3.  So, as a horrible failure as a son of the
    family and a son of the religious tradition, he decides to return.  He makes up his little speech and heads
    home.  He is hungry to the point of
    dying.  Do this or die.  Many listening Jews would say, Die. 
     


    Buddy 9-15-13

    Buddy is ready, too.

    The Father: he actually commits as many crimes and sins as
    the son.

     

        1.    
    He runs down the road to
    the son when he sees him coming.  A very
    undignified action.  Outrageous.  People who emphasize conditional love point
    out that the son at least came back. 
    Despite this point, all the other elements of the parable point to a
    father with unconditional love.

            2.  He embraced and kissed the son.  Huge violation of Jewish religious custom and
    law.  By doing this the father positions
    himself outside of the religious & cultural community.  He is a reject like the son. 

            3.  He cuts the son’s speech off before he can finish, eliminating the last sentence, “treat me as you would one of your
    hired workers.”  And to make it worse, he
    orders the servants to bring the finest robe, ring, and sandals. 


    Zoe 9-15-13

    Zoe with her granddad, Gil.

     

    The robe, the ring, and the sandals:

            1.  The robe: restores the son’s dignity. 

            2.  The ring: gives authority to the son, even
    equal to the father and certainly more than before he left.

            3.  The sandals: gives the son freedom.  Slaves were not given sandals so they would
    not run away.  The father is doubling the
    message he gave when he cut the son’s speech off before he could say the third
    part about being treated as a servant. 
     


    Toy World 9-15-13

    Toy World open with Cowboy Cole, Emma, Zoe, and Torri.

     

    A word about the older son, because we so often identify
    with him.  Two additional and final
    points.

            1.  That he tells his father how he feels.  Great. 
    In those days, it meant the father can kill him.  Today: communication.
     

            2.  What is his challenge: acceptance of his
    brother, his father, and himself; focus on gratitude for all he has; move from
    trying to be a good boy to loving?  Any
    one of these?  Or all?  All. 
     

    I apologize for so much data.  There is even more.  The point is that the story is a carefully
    crafted literary work of art that attempts to describe how totally unconditionally
    loving our God is.

    How does this image of God reflect your image of God? 

     

    BEthany 9-15-13

    Cupcake of the Week to Bethany on the 2nd week anniversary of her marriage.




     

    Source: The
    Liberating Stories of Jesus,
    Francis Vanderwall (Dallas’ Open Window will
    present Francis Saturday, September 28, for an all day seminar.  Welcome. 
    More info below.  Sunday he will
    be with us at Vines.  He is an ex-Jesuit
    and one of my best old Jesuit buddies.)  
    Download Fall 2013 Conference 9-20-13



    Flemings 9-15-13

    Cupcake of The Week to Lynda and Tom on 31 years,