Sunday Homily 8-16-09, 20th Ordinary Time

Readings: Proverbs 9, 1-6; Psalm 34, Taste & See the Goodness of the Lord; Ephesians 5, 15-20; John 6, 51-58

Proverbs:

What are they: a collection of moral & religious teachings in the form of pithy sayings.  For example: "Better to eat a dry crust of bread with peace of mind than to have a banquet in a house full of trouble" (17, 1); "Being cheerful always keeps you healthy" (17, 22).

Some a bit tough: "Don't hesitate to discipline a child.  A good beating won't kill him" (23, 12).

Some amusing: "A nagging wife is like water going drip-drip-drip" (27, 15); "Better to live on the roof than to share the house with a nagging wife" (25, 24). 

 

Mass 8-16-09 

Author: Maybe Solomon is behind chapters 1-29.  Most likely a compilation.  Judging by the examples can it be more obvious whether a male or female was the author and at whom the writers were talking.

Date: Ca. 300 BCE is considered a possibility with material coming from as far back as 900, during the time of Solomon.

Our Selection: Wisdom is personified and she is preparing a feast or banquet to which the simple people are invited.

Sources: Religious Information Service & Wikipedia

Chloe & Deni 8-16-09

The Joy of a First Class Feast

Rather than take responsibility for my ideas today, I am going to blame my Jesuit training and my Jesuit buddies over the years. 

When I came back from my years in East Africa, I took up back packing and camping with a group of Jesuits who had been doing this for some years.  Every year six or eight guys from actually all over the country would choose a destination, gather, and set out for usually two one week back pack trips.  These guys were pretty good and I learned a lot just by tagging along.

However, in the beginning I had one reservation.  The custom was that every year we brought along enough of a certain brew, Jack Daniels, in fact, so that each person might enjoy a shot every evening before dinner.  I remember thinking to myself, 'In my limited experience in camping we never brought this extra weight.'  So why now? 

Well, I learned, I who can be somewhat obsessive about being hard on myself.  In the Jesuit life I had come to understand that while we all are expected to live simply and work hard, occasionally on, say, religious feasts, like the Assumption (which was just celebrated yesterday and which marks the anniversary of my entry into the Jesuits in 1958), I came to appreciate a custom called a first class feast. 

Normally we ate well.  In fact, I can claim that one factor in keeping me a Jesuit for the first years was the cuisine.  We lived in a house with over a hundred Jesuits.  We lived in southwest Louisiana, Grand Coteau, LA, in fact, and we had local guys who cooked cajun.  First time in my life I had 3 prepared hot meals per day.   Because of the rigorous life style I could eat with reckless abandon.  I remember no overweight classmates. 

So this was the norm.  But on special holidays we had first class feasts.  This meant at least that we could talk at meals and probably had ice cream, home made from milk from the large dairy herd on the campus.  We did not have alcohol, but we had tremendous meals. 

My camping trips with these guys carried on the first class feast tradition, even at the cost of lugging in a few extra ingredients.   The custom was that we had a Mass all together about 5:00, then a drink with a hunk of cheese, then soup, a main course, and a desert, like chocolate pudding.  It was terrific.  We had delightful evenings.

Guess what.  The trip we ten just took to Yosemite, my annual pilgrimage, followed the same recipe.  Instead of having Mass before the evening's first class feast, we had a Mass afterward around the campfire on the two occasions we laid over in one beautiful campsite for two nights. 

But at 5:00 the cantina opened and Rob graciously played the role of bartender.  Beth handled the cheese.  Then we had casseroles like chicken or salmon tetrazinni, plus deserts like blueberry cheese cake or apple cobbler.  All the meals had been prepared, dehydrated, and vacuum packed by Rose.  Ray was our main cook.  Mike handled the campfires.

I talk about these feasts because the gospel and the reading from Proverbs both talk about a feast.  Even Ephesians talks about drinking, but negatively, cautioning against drunkenness.  Three observations.

First, these feasts are joys to our lives.  Our ancestors since they came down out of the trees have sat around campfires like we did and they enjoyed their meals.  Harvest celebrations became custom.  These celebrations bring us joy & deeper relationships, happiness and greater inner peace.

Secondly, the best feasts often involve a lot of people.  Look at the covered dish brunches we have here.  Everyone contributes and we have a blast.  I will never forget the covered dish reception Rosemary & I had at our wedding.  In Yosemite everyone seemed to have something to do from Rose who put the food together, to Ray cooking, Mike making the campfire, and Rob & Beth handling the hors d'oeuvres.  Daniel cleaned the pots. 

Thirdly, the first class feast is the paradigm of our celebrations and Masses here on Sunday.   What is unique about it is we intentionally emphasize a spiritual component of the meal, inviting God to be part of our celebration.  Certainly all sorts of people pitch in the make the event special.  Hopefully we too walk out of here with joy & richer relationships, happinesss and greater inner peace.

Anniversaries 8-16-09

This reminds me that we ought to have a back to school, beginning of fall Sunday brunch in September.

When was the last time you had this type of feast?  When the next?

Picture 1:  Mass with Stephen (birthday, 19), Kevin, & Sabrina

Picture 2:  Chloe & her granny, Denni

Picture 3:  Anniversary–Bernadette & Gil; Birthday–Marlene

 

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    Readings:

    Isaiah 25, 6-10, On this mountain the Lord will provide for all peoples a feast

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    Remember?  3 years ago, South Rim, Grand Canyon.

     

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    Who:  Any idea which Isaiah this is, 1, 2, or 3?   We had Isaiah 1 last week talking about the vineyard.  That was chapter 5.  Pretty easy to guess, Isaiah 1.  But, this is chapter 25.

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    Remembering…..

     

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    Homily:

    As a boy, Jesse was a chicken plucker.

    He stood on a line in a factory and spent his days

    pulling the feathers off dead chickens so the rest of us

    wouldn't have to.

    It wasn't much of a job, but at the time

    Jesse didn't think he was much of a person.

    His father was a brute of a man

    thought to be mentally ill,

    and treated Jesse roughly all his life.

    Jesse's older brother wasn't much better.

    He was always picking on Jesse and beating him up.

    Yes, Jesse grew up in a very rough home in

    West Virginia.  Life was anything but easy,

    and he thought life didn't hold much hope for him.

    That's why he was standing in this chicken line

    doing a job that few people wanted.

    Jesse was always sick.

    Sometimes it was real physical illness,

    but often it was all in his head.

    He was a small child, skinny and meek.

    That didn't help the situation.

     

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    Remembering….


    When he started to school he was the object of every

    bully on the playground.

    He was a hypochondriac of the first order.

    For Jesse, tomorrow was not always something he

    looked forward to.

     

     


    But he had a dream. He wanted to be a ventriloquist.

    He found books on ventriloquism. He practiced with

    sock puppets and saved his hard-earned dollars until

    he could get a real ventriloquist dummy.

    When he got old enough, he joined the military,

    and even though many of his hypochondriac symptoms

    persisted, the military recognized his talents and

    put him in the entertainment corps.

    That was when his world changed.

    He gained confidence.

     

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    He found that he had a talent for making people laugh,

    and laugh so hard they often had tears in their eyes.

    Yes, little Jesse had found himself.


    You know, the history books are full of people

    who overcame a handicap to go on and make a success

    of themselves, but Jesse is one of the few I know of

    who didn't overcome it. Instead he used his paranoia

    to make a million dollars and become one of

    the best-loved characters of all time doing it!

    That little paranoid hypochondriac, who transferred

    his nervousness into a successful career, still holds the

    record for the most Emmys given in a single category.

    The wonderful, talented, nervous comedian

    who brought us


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    was

    Jesse Don Knotts.

    (July 21, 1924 – February 24, 2006)

    There is a street named for him and his statue in

    Morgantown, West Virginia, his home town.

    At this stress filled time in our lives, how are you reaching out  to peace & beauty?

     

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    Remembering….

     

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    Birthdays: Bill Hammond, Celeste Colmanero, Rich Eschelbrenner

     

     

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    Hammond, you are so missed around here!

     

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    Outreach   $180.00    (often for Souls Harbor, Legacy, etc.)

    Thanks, Folks, for doing what you can.

    Rosemary's Blessing:

     

     

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    Readings:   (A couple of good readings today)

    Genesis  18,  1-10,  I will return next year and Sarah will have a son.  She laughs.

    Psalm 15,  He who does justice will live in the presence of the Lord.

    Colossians 1, 24-28,     I rejoice in my sufferings for your sake.

    Luke 10, 38-42,  The story of Martha & Mary.

     

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    This morning I would like to talk about who is better, Martha or Mary?  Before I even begin I must acknowledge that Rosemary has a strong opinion on this subject.  You can guess it.  She thinks that Martha is getting a bad deal. 

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    Want to see one happy kid today?  

     

    So, being a good husband and trying to lessen the load, I will tell you what I do.  This is also my way of finding meaning to this either/or story.  Maybe it is not either/or? 

    It happens on Tuesday evenings when the sun is going down and I am in the shade that I mow our lawn.  I not only mow, but I edge, trim the bushes, use the weed eater, and blow it all.  Just mowing the grass takes me 90 minutes.  I enjoy doing it.  It is like an art form.  I am imitating Rosemary, the artist.  Plus, it is good exercise.

     

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    The Wedding, Lisa Anderlick and Mark Cheek, Saturday evening, Suncreek United Methodist, Allen.

     

    When I am mowing I get into a pretty swift rhythm.   I can push the lawn mower faster than the mower ordinarily goes.  My little 88 year old neighbor lady who lives across the street, Joyce,  says I look like I am running behind the lawn mower. 

    One evening recently when I was zooming back & forth across our front yard, a neighbor couple, Barbra & Bud, and their white sort of poodle dog, all came walking by.   This happens occasionally in front of our house and in front of their house when we are walking Aviana.  The dogs have a relationship that consists of all of about a two minute mutual check out.  I love these people and they are the couple who introduced me to the “J,” the Jewish Community Center.

     

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    "I take you, Lisa, in Marriage.  I promise to be true to you in good times & bad, in sickness and in health.   I will love and cherish you all the days of my life."

     

     

    So I see Bud & Barbra & Patty.  I wave but do not lessen my rhythm.  I keep chasing that lawn mower.  And then….I feel guilty. 

    I have just again chosen Project over People, one of my most favorite activities.  I think to myself, ‘What if I just stopped and chatted for 5 minutes?’  ‘Would it make the slightest difference in when I finish?’

     

    Lisa & Mark 2

    I have known Lisa Anderlick since the time she was a little girl.  Now she has not only grown up beautifully, but she is an MD.  In fact, she and two of her brides maids all became MD's together.  

     

     

    5 minutes later here they come back the other way toward their house.  So, what do you think I did?  Yep, I kept right on chasing that lawn mower.  And they passed me by and went home.  I still cannot believe I did it.  I have yet to apologize to them.  As Rosemary is happy to observe, I get OCD about projects & work.  Obsessive, compulsive, that is. 

    Sound familiar?  You got a similar obsession?  Maybe you don’t.  If so you are blessed. 

     

    Lisa & Mark 1

    The first steps on the road to a New Life.

     

     

    Maybe in our Martha-Mary story Martha gets obsessive, compulsive and needs to be more like Mary?   At least I do.  Mary, who knows?  Maybe she needs to be more sensitive to the job to be done?

    For me, the story is a challenge to be both, focused on the work, and focused on the person.  In fact, I believe the person always takes priority despite my behavior.

    How do you balance the Martha-Mary dynamic in your life? 

     

    Karen & John 1

    Long time and dear friends, Lisa's parents, Karen & John Anderlick.

     

     

  • Sunday Homily, April 6, 2014, 5th Lent, Cycle A

    Readings:

    Ezekiel 37, 12-14,   I will open your graves and have you rise.

    Psalm 130,  With the Lord there is mercy and fullness of redemption.

    Romans  8, 8-11,  Those who are in the flesh cannot please God.

    John  11, 1-45,  The raising of Lazarus.

     

    Harper 2

    Harper says, "Hi, Everybody, fun to be back."

     

    Make Lazarus live.  Make life happen.

    Guess what, I have a story about France this morning.  I want to use it to exemplify the metaphor of giving life that is contained in the Lazarus story.  I would propose that Jesus metaphorically gave life to Lazarus, something all of us can do, give life.

    There is a tour company known as Fat Tire Bike Tours.  Founded a few years ago by, of all things, an Aggie who made good in life, the company has tours in a number of European cities, Paris included, naturally. 

     

    Zoe-candle

    Zoe lights the Lent candle, the 5th Sunday.

     

    Rosemary & I have used them a few times in Paris and we find them terrific.  A week ago we joined a group that was going to visit the home of Claude Monet, an hour train trip northwest out of Paris into the province of Normandy.  On these distant trips you take the train out to the location, like the palace of Versailles, for instance.   Then you pick up bikes and ride.

    Our tour was meeting at the St. Lazare train station in Paris and going to Giverny, the simple, but beautiful garden home of the impressionist artist, Claude Monet.  Twenty eight people met at 10 A.M. at gate 22, and we split into two with a guide for each.

     

    Emma

    Emma says, "What's going on here?"


     

    Our international group of Chinese, Australians, Irish, Americans, and a 28 year old New Zealander guide rode the train to Vernon, a neighboring town to Giverny.   We picked up bikes, went to buy picnic lunches at a farmers’ market, rode to the edge of the Seine River that ran through the town, and had a picnic.

    On the picnic the group came alive.  The guide had his French girl friend with her two French girl friends.  Another sparkling young couple from Australia revealed that they were just engaged the evening before.   Life came to the group as pairs or individuals revealed glimpses into themselves.

    Giverny market 1

    Village market near Giverny.  Where we bought our picnic lunches.

     

    As the day went on, (we traveled together from 10 to about 7 in the evening), Rosemary & I began to reveal ourselves and we also focused on hearing the stories of others.   We targeted particularly 3 groups.

    One, of course, was the Australian couple.  We invited them to tell the amusing story about how the engagement planned never took place, but still was dear.  I said I knew an old priest who would do their wedding cheap.

     

    Giverny market 2

    Same delightful, inexpensive market.

     

    Then we spent a lot of attention on the guide and his girl friend.  They were not engaged, but we, of course, almost had them married.  I suggested that same old geezer priest would  do their wedding. 

    Thirdly, we focused on a Chinese family from California, a mother, an 18 year old high school senior, and an 11 year old, shy daughter.   The 18 year old especially talked about his hopes and dreams, to go to Georgetown, to become a doctor, to work for Doctors without Borders. 

     

    Picnic near Giverny

    Our picnic sight on the Seine R. near Giverny.

     

    He said he wanted to work internationally like I had done.  I affirmed his dream while pointing out I did this in 74 years and he still had time at 18.

    The mother was extraordinary.  Leaving China, speaking Cantonese and another Chinese language, Erica, did not seem daunted by the prospect of financing Jacob’s educational dreams.

     

    Guess who.

    Guess who, Guess where. The same river with sight seeing boat sailing by.

     

    By the time we arrived again at gate 22 in the St. Lazare station about 7:00, an amazing closeness and life pervaded the group and everyone was hugging.  Jacob even asked to use us as the subject of a project he had to compose for his classes.  He took our picture.  I was flattered.

    By asking these people to tell their stories, I saw them come alive. Reciprocally, their stories enlivened me and Rosemary.  We were mutually giving new life.

    I repeat my idea, Jesus metaphorically gave life to Lazarus.  And we give life to each other.   That is what our community attempts to do.  That is what Mike’s ideas about a beans & rice brunch and a penitential rite do for us.

    To whom are you giving life?

     

    Harper - cupcake

    Harper caught an extra cupcake and is gone.