Sunday Homily, October 7, 2007, 27th in Ordinary Time

Readings: Habakkuk,1, 2-3 & 2, 2-4;Psalm 95; 2 Timothy 1, 6-14; Luke 17 5-10.

Habakkuk: the words of this prophet come from the end of the 7th century, B.C. at a time when the Babylonians were in power.  He was deeply disturbed by their violence and asked Yahweh why he was silent. Yahweh’s response was that he will rescue the people in his own time.  But meanwhile, the good will live on because they are faithful to Yahweh.

In our selection we have a bit of both: Habakkuk’s complaint & Yahweh’s response.  This connects with Luke’s gospel which touches on faith and the servant who simply is doing what he is supposed to do.

Faith? In What?

A short while ago Donna sent me a quiz on religion.  A handful of questions asks about what a person believes.  Like, do you believe, or not believe in God?  What do you think happens after you die?  And so on.

After you finish the quiz you are matched up with the religious group with which you have the closest fit.  My closest fit turned out to be Liberal Quaker.  Roman Catholic for me was in the twenties.  So why don’t I become a Quaker?  Because it does not feel like home, which Catholicism does.  I hope to work with the essentials of Catholicism.  Some say this is being a cafeteria Catholic.  I would prefer to call myself an a la carte Catholic.  The only intellectually healthy way.

I thought of all this because of Luke’s  comments about faith.  If I had faith I could uproot trees.  I would be happy to just get rid of the weeds in the lawn. Is this not exaggeration? Sadly some sects take it literally, as you know. Faith is the product of a process, often called faith formation.  And this is where it really gets tricky. Who determines what is taught to young people and members of a religious group? What I was taught as a child, wow. So much of it I don’t accept any more.

My Catholic education was anomalous.  I learned to critique literature, poetry, politics, government, psychology, but not religious instruction.  I memorized that. That religious instruction was supposed to be my faith. Doubts & questions were not encouraged. 

This leads me to make a distinction between religion and spirituality. I think both religion & spirituality produce my faith. My spirituality, likewise, is influenced by religious instruction. Some of these observations come from Vaillant’s Aging Well.

First, religion is usually exclusive, while spirituality is inclusive.  For example, If you don’t believe the pope is infallible, you are excluded from the membership.  If you don’t wear certain dress, you are expelled or criticized. 

Secondly, religion comes from outside, while spirituality comes from inside. True, my spirituality is not formed in a vacuum. It receives input from outside sources.  Spirituality, however, sifts and sorts before accepting it. 

Thirdly, religion is certain and proclaims creeds & dogma that have to be believed.  Spirituality searches. It involves feelings, experiences, and uncertainty.

My brother in law gave me a good book on how religions become corrupt and evil, eventually losing their original charism.  (When Religion Becomes Evil, Charles Kimball) Five characteristics:

  • Absolute truth. For example, infallibility. 
  • Absolute obedience. We Jesuits took vows of obedience.  Was God asking this? Or people? Like men who lived in Rome. We are all expected to be obedient to Rome.
  • End justifies the means. Inquisition. Firing of theologians like Charles Curran over at SMU to eliminate alternative ideas in areas like birth control.
  • Justification of the Holy War. Crusades, Jihad.
  • The Special Time. Peace will come when all people believe the same religion and there will be one law, like Sheria or Evangelical Christian.

I would suggest that each person’s faith is unique and we are not homogeneous. If we are spiritually healthy.

What are the three things you have the strongest faith in?

 

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    1 Kings  19, 9-13,  There was a tiny whispering sound.

     Psalm 85,   Lord, let us see your kindness, and grant us your salvation.

    Romans 9, 1-5,  My kindred according to the flesh

    Matthew  14, 22-33,  Lord, if it is you, command me to come to you on the water.

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    1 Kings 
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    What:

    There are really 2 books, 1 Kings & 2 Kings.  Or originally, it was all one work.

    Even though 1 Kings focuses mostly on King Solomon & his accomplishments, the latter half of the work shows how at Solomon's death the kingdom split into two hostile & petty states, Israel in the north & Judah in the south around Jerusalem.  2 Kings ends with the Babylonian Captivity.

    As I have pointed out concerning prophets, Elijah condemns the behavior, especially of the rulers, and promises punishment. 

    When & Who:  The two books were put together by numerous people and the latest putting together took place, you guessed it, around the Babylonian Captivity, around 555 before Christ.

     Today’s selection: The prophet Elijah is running scared to get away from Jezebel.  She is out to kill him for his killing her fake priests.  We catch up with him in the desert.  

    I love this little story.  See if you can figure out why.

     

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    A Tiny Whispering Sound

    We are having a run on delightful scripture passages these days.  The passage I love today is the scene where Elijah stands outside a cave and he sees wind, earthquake, and fire.  No God visit.  Then he hears a tiny whispering sound.  The God visit.  I would suggest we have these god visits daily, and we are often deaf or blind to the visit. 

    To exemplify, our story of the week.

    It is Wednesday.  Guess where.  Yes, Iowa.  The 4th day of our ride from the Missouri River to the Mississippi.  We have only 40 miles to go from Forest City to Mason City, the city on which Meredith Wilson based his musical, Music Man.  We have only two pass through cities, Verona and Clear Lake.

     

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    So, I am thinking, ‘How can I extend this day.’  I want to savor the joys of the ride as long as possible.  Two or three miles out of Forest City I decide that at least I will stop at a coffee stand for a good cup of coffee.  Take my time, enjoy it, and watch the hundreds of people passing by.  This is the day after I was so moved by the man playing the National Anthem.

    I see a sign for coffee in a hundred yards, pass by the stand, and pull over to the shoulder of the road, careful to get out of the way. 

    The coffee shop is simply a four poster tent perched on the slope of the shoulder just a bit above the bottom of the irrigation ditch and dangerously close to the road for me. Very low tech.  A kid about 17 is serving coffee, muffins, bananas, watermelon, water, and who knows what else. 

     

     

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    He has a line of about a dozen people and is a bit frazzled trying to take money, cut watermelon, and prepare coffee, all of which is coming out of the back of his van which was perched sideways on the shoulder.  This is not Starbucks. 

    However,  as people order coffee, he asks them to form a line on the other side of the stand.  I even regretted later that I did not help him, but at the time I thought I would be there all day long.  As it is, we are all trying to keep to the very edge of the road to avoid getting hit by one of the hundreds of bikers swishing by.

     

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    Finally, the lady ahead of me gets to the kid, asks for what she wants, and discovers that she is $2 short.  I say, “Hey, I got $2,” and I give it to her despite her protests.  “Loan it to the next guy,” I say. 

    Later that morning, say about 11:00, I pull into this gorgeous green, tree shaded, people filled park in a town called Clear Lake, on the northern edge of a lake by the same name.  For an hour we had ridden along the shore of this lake until I see the park.

    I put my bike against a tree and settle on a park bench in the sun (it was so mild) in front of a band stand.  People are all over the place, hundreds, lounging in the sun, eating, chatting.  Between the park where I am and the lake the bikers are passing through.  I am facing the lake.

     

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    I hang out there probably an hour.  I watch a group of guys ride up, bring out their electric guitars using batteries, and play for us.  I even get interviewed by a young girl from the De Moines Register.  These are my wind and earthquake.  I can see God's presence in both.  

    And then it happens, the tiny whispering sound, a God visit.

    From behind me a lady comes around, hands me $2, says, “Thanks,” and then vanishes back into the crowd leaving me speechless except for a quick, “Sure.”  It was the same lady from the coffee stand.

     

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    I admit that the Iowa days were full of God moments for me.  This lady, however, was especially touching, a tiny whispering sound.   I never saw her again and she probably identified me in the crowd because of the Aviana beany baby on my helmet and the Mardi Gras beads I wear around my neck.  Moreover, Hammond says I look like a bum in my choice of attire.

    When was your last God moment, your tiny whispering sound?

     

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    Psalm 90, If today you hear his voice, harden not you hearts.  

    Colossians 3, 1-5, 9-11,  Think of what is above, not of what is on earth

    Luke 12, 13-21,  There was a rich man

     

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    The First reading from Ecclesiastes reminds us that when a person passes he or she can’t take any of their worldly things with them.

    Our Second reading from Paul’s Letter to the Colossians reminds us that greed is idolatry; for it is a love of wealth; rather than a love of God.

     

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    Homily on the Gospel reading:

     

    Here in Chapter 12 of Luke, a nondescript man comes to Jesus seeking a favorable decision regarding some inheritance that he is hoping to receive from his older brother. Jesus used this event to address the crowd with the wisdom to be on guard against all forms of greed.

     

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    Following Jesus’ advice the older brother has put their extended family in mind.  He will not allow himself or his younger brother to fail in their responsibility to put their extended family ahead of their desire for possessions.   The older brother had taken a course of action to enhance the harvest from their father’s land.

     

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  • Sunday Homily, October 14, 2012, 28th Ordinary Time B

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     Wisdom  7, 7-11,  I prayed, and prudence was given to me.

     Psalm 90,   Fill us with your love, O Lord, and we will sing for joy.

     Hebrews 4, 12-13,   The word of God is living and effective.

    Mark 10, 17-30,  Go, sell what you have, and give to the poor and you will have treasure in heaven; then come, follow me.

     

    Beginning 10-14-12

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    Wisdom:

    Date of Composition: 100-200 BCE, which is why it is considered significant.  It provides a glimpse into the cultural & social milieu which prevailed just before & during the time of Christ.   We had Wisdom for our first reading 3 weeks ago.

    Place of Composition: Alexandria, Egypt.

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    You probably won’t find these books in the Protestant Bibles.

    Communion B 10-14-12

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    Our Selection in Chapter 7: the book of Wisdom generally says that good guys get rewarded by God, bad guys don’t.  This selection personifies the virtue of wisdom, using the feminine pronoun she, and praises her as above all other values & pleasures.  I loved her even more than health or beauty, the composer declares.

     Sources: The Good News Bible, Got Bible Questions on line.

     

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    Sell what I have, give it to the poor, and follow Him?

    This morning I want to talk about two things:

    1.  Selling everything I have and giving it to the poor, then following the Lord;
    2.  It being easier for a camel to pass through a needle’s eye than for the rich to enter the kingdom.
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    I  in no way mean to boast, folks, but I have been there, done that.  Three times, in fact. 

    The first time was 1958, when I joined the Jesuits to become a priest.  I was all enrolled at Notre Dame.  I went instead to Grand Coteau, LA, the Jesuit novitiate.  I did this out of fear that if I did not, I was going straight to hell. 

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    The other two times I was not afraid.  Anxious, yes, but not afraid.  I went to East Africa in ’76 and Rosemary & I married  05.05.05.    Paradoxically one of the riches of that hundred fold that came to me was a lack of fear.   I was not afraid to leave the States and go to East Africa.  I was not not afraid to leave the Jesuit security and marry Rosemary.  This came about because of exposure to good thinking, good people, and rich experiences. 

    I gave it all up to go to East Africa and I gave it all up when Rosemary & I married, an unfortunate lack Rosemary had to accept in marrying me.   What I did not give up these two times was inner peace and inner freedom.   In fact, it has deepened with each choice.

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    3 observations on Mark’s message. 

    1.  Go sell what you have and give it to the poor is for real.  We are always challenged to do this.  This is also Mark’s infinite demand in plain view.  This is not an ‘and  follow the Lord.’  This is following him. 
    2. Why give it up?  Yes, to help others and to follow him.  But, moreover, this is a ticket of admission into the kingdom.  You know what I mean by kingdom, a here and now, present event of peace and freedom.   The peace & freedom of this kingdom is a result, a consequence of my detatchment.
    3. It is easier for a camel to go through a needle’s eye than for a rich person to enter the kingdom, the place of peace and freedom?   Hyperbole, Mark?  Yes. 

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    We are all rich, all of us.  Take our education alone.  In East Africa I could have given every material thing I had away, and I still would have been rich because of my education.

    However, don’t discount Mark’s message.  It is difficult to detatch myself from my money & things, so that I can follow the Lord, help others, and arrive today in the kingdom of peace and freedom.  Do you see freedom or peace in people obsessed with money or work? 

    Leo C 10-14-12

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     I have been truly blessed with my 3 give it all up events.  Yes, I have personally received the hundred fold promised.

    Where are you on the spectrum of giving it all up, following the Lord, and entering the kingdom of peace and freedom?

     

  • Sunday Homily June 16, 2013, 11th Ordinary Time C

     

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    2 Samuel  12, 1-14,  The verses of this reading are expanded because of the excellence of the story, King David and Bathsheba.

    Psalm 32,  Lord, forgive the wrong I have done.

    Galatians 2, 16-21,  If justification comes through the law, then Christ died for nothing.

    Luke 7, 36-8, 3,  She stood behind him at his feet weeping and began to bathe his feet with her tears.  Another beautiful reading.

     

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    14 seconds over Little Axe, OK, outside Norman, tore this car apart. Little Axe was hit the day before Moore, a middle class suburb of OK City.

     

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    and the geography of the tornadoes, gratitude, and the three teams.

    You might not know it, but three tornadoes hit the area.  The third and second were E5’s, the kind with
    winds over 250 miles per hour.  The third
    was also the tornado with the diameter of about 2 & a half miles.  20 people were killed, including the 3
    professional tornado watchers, but it mostly roamed the countryside, not living
    areas. 


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    The middle tornado was the Moore tornado, Moore being a suburb of OK
    City.  You drive north on I-35.  On the right you see devastation—of houses
    like in Plano or Richardson.  On the left
    you see devastation–of a large strip shopping complex like Collin Creek
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    Where is the little boy who practiced hoops on this basket? Little Axe, where the first of the 3 big tornadoes hit, is rural and comparatively poor with unpaved, dirt roads. This debris has been bulldozed to the edge of the road, where it will be picked up.

     

    The first tornado, a day or two before Moore, hit Little Axe, a small
    village of maybe 50 houses.  35 were
    destroyed.  I would conjecture the
    majority of the residences were portables, trailer homes.  This tornado spent 14 seconds on the ground
    and you will see the result. 


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    Many of the 50 or so homes in Little Axe were trailer homes which were mounted on these I beams. The wind twisted the beams like spaghetti. These were long trailer homes with beautiful scenery around them.

     

    We were sent to Little Axe because it had been neglected and forgotten
    after Moore.  Moore was urban and middle
    class.  Little Axe was rural and
    relatively poor.  The roads were not paved,
    just gravel and dirt.  Moore sucked up
    all the press coverage and attention.  We
    were sent to redress this neglect.


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    Debris piles being removed. 35 houses were swept away.

     

    Secondly, the gratitude.  The
    first thing I noticed, after the shock of seeing Moore from I-35 as I drove
    north, was the gratitude of people.  We
    wore our Bona Responds brown T shirts as we visited stores like Home
    Depot.  Customers and staff all thanked
    us for coming to help out.  At the Stihl
    outlet where we went to buy chain saw parts, the staff comes out with Stihl T
    shirts for all of us.  Jim gave them Bona
    Responds T shirts.   It was humbling.   See the two types of T shirts.


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    Bona Responds team. Besides Jim and Jerry, two professors from St. Bonaventure, an OU chemistry professor and graduate of St. B. joined us with his daughter, Rose.

    Thirdly, the teams.  Obviously, we
    were the team from St. Bonaventure, the Catholic university.  Besides Jim, who is a finance professor,
    there was Jerry, a chemistry professor. 

     

    The second team was Israeli.  The
    first morning I’m standing outside our barracks style quarters at this generic
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    I don’t recognize.  I look more closely
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    shirts.  I ask them who they are and what
    are they doing.  They say they have come
    from Israel to help.  I am stunned.


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    Less than half of the Israeli team. These kids actually flew in to work relief in OK. They were living with us in the same complex of barracks. I heard them speaking a language I did not know one morning and asked, "Who are you guys?" The shirts have the Israeli flag.

     

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    The Israeli trailer of equipment. It says "Jewish Response to Disaster." Our kids had worked with the Israeli kids in NY after Sandy. They were old friends.

     

    Both the Muslim and the Israeli groups obviously have organizations behind them on the ground in the U.S. 
    They both had more equipment than we. 
    Like, the Muslims had a generator with which they ran a saw that cut I
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    In fact, during the afternoon I worked a lot with the Muslims.  They were cutting up I beams and I and some
    others were carrying 6-9 foot sections up out of a valley to the edge of the
    road where we had 3 piles, metal, wood, and trash.


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    While the Israelis were a delightful surprise for me, the biggest surprise came with the 3rd team, "Muslims for Humanity," as it says on the truck door. Meet Dwight, with whom I worked sawing the I beams into 9 foot sections so they could be taken over to the metals pile on the edge of the road. Humbling to work with these kids.

     

    At one point I trip over some debris on the ground and fall.  Fortunately for sports in my early years I
    learned how to fall.  Not hurt at all,
    just rolling into ground.  Guess who the
    first person to reach out to me was: not one of those Catholic kids, not even
    an Israeli, a Muslim.   The others were not near anyway.  They did not even know I fell. Check the pictures of
    the teams and equipment.


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    This open area once was a home. In the background is a tornado shelter. 13 people and a dog saved their lives a second or two before the tornado swept down on them by jumping into this shelter. Imagine opening the door of the shelter and looking where your house once stood.

    I told you all how proud I am to be part of you, of this little community
    which is so generous and makes such a positive difference.   You
    people not only helped the people of Little Axe, but you helped these kids from
    St. Bonaventure have a marvelous ecumenical and international experience.

     

    Thanks.

     

     

     

     

  • Sunday Homily 7-5-09, 13th Ordinary Time

    Readings Ezekiel 2, 2-5; Psalm 123, Our eyes are fixed on the Lord, pleading for his Mercy; 2 Corinthians 12, 7-10; Mark 6, 1-6. 

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    Ezekiel 2:2-5; the prophet wrote at a very traumatic time for the Jews.  In 595BCE the Babylonians had destroyed Jerusalem and the Temple!  The people were carried off into exile.  Their whole understanding of this event was punishment for their behavior.  The style of the book is what is described as Apocalyptic. Other books in this style are Daniel and Revelations in the New Testament.  Characteristic of this style is strange visions and prophesies about the future.  Ezekiel himself has been described as a strange one!

    2 Corinthians 12:7-10 Paul’s Second Letter to the community in Corinth.  In fact scholarship today is pretty much in agreement that what we have in first and second Corinthians are parts from four letters.  In the section today we have Paul what I would call ‘ranting’ about himself.

    Mark 6:1-6:  Today’s gospel reading is early in Mark.  You will recall that last Sunday we had several miracles attributed to Jesus.  This Sunday we find Jesus showing up at home in Nazareth, and the people are unable to see him as anything but a carpenter.

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    How is your Eyesight!!

    Today’s gospel strongly suggests that we take a moment to examine our eyesight!  In the gospel we find a whole town with poor eyesight.  They can only see Jesus as one of their own, a carpenter, and not as Mark has been presenting him, the Son of God. 

    It becomes too easy for us to fall into traps about how we see people in our daily lives, and of course depending on how we see them affects how we treat them.

    My mother used to have a saying about people, and I think she sometimes applied it to me.  “I was a house devil and a street angel”.  It can happen too easily.  We treat those closest to us perhaps not as well as we should, we take them for granted.  We go deaf to the things they say to us, and eventually the relationship becomes stale or worse, dead.  I guess another way of saying it is that “familiarity breeds contempt”.

     

    Tony 2, 7-5-09 

     

    Audio: Sorry, on vacation this week.

     

    Picture 1  Mass with Tony concelebrating and T.J. helping

     

    Picture 2:  Altar Servers

     

    Picture 3: Tony celebrating after 33 years

     

    Picture 4:  Tony receiving the community's blessing read by Rosemary with support from Reilly, Richard, Maureen, Ryan (hidden), and Ginny

       Tony Bleesed 7-5-09

  • Sunday Homily, October 13, 2019, 28th Ordinary Time

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    Readings:

    2 kings 5,  14-17, Naaman went down and plunged into the Jordan 7 times.

    Psalm 98,  The Lord has revealed to the nations his saving power

    2 Timothy 2, 8-13,  If we have died with him, we shall also live with him

    Luke 17, 11-19,  10 were cleansed, were they not?

     

     

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    Welcome, Katy and Enza.

     

     

    Homily

    Because of a mix up on who was handling the homily today, we ended up with no one prepared.

     

    Consequently, in the spirit of giving thanks, which is one of my favorite topics to share experiences, and which was the theme of some pretty good Scripture choices, I talked about my mom's advice when I got ordained in 1971, St. Rita's on Inwood Road, across the drive from Jesuit, in the old church.

     

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    I had received numerous gifts from people I actually did not know well, if at all.   They were my mom's friends.  And she had a  lot!  What to respond to the people who sent the gifts?  I was all for simply accepting the gifts and moving on

     

    Not my mom.  She told me I needed to do the better thing, which was to send a note to every single person who gave me a gift.  Ugh!   This was pre-computers.  I had to write a note, address an envelope, put a stamp on the envelope, and send it off.  It took me forever!

     

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    Have you freely  and without reservation come here to give yourselves in marriage?

     

    Because of my mom's advice (not really, her demand), I have continued to try to thank every person who touches me or the community with a gift, and that includes God on a daily basis.

     

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    If the only prayer you say in your entire life is Thank You, that would suffice.

     Meister Eckhart

     

     

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    A perfect setting & evening for a large & gracious wedding.

     

     

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    Welcome into a new and delightful life, Katy & Enza.