Sunday Homily, June 24, 2007, Nativity of John the Baptist
Readings: Isaiah 49, 1-6; Psalm 139 (good); Acts of the Apostles 13 22-26; Luke 1, 57-66.
Isaiah: One of the 3 great Old Testament prophets, he lived about 700 years before Christ. Actually the book itself has about 3 authors. The section we read this morning emphasizes the call Isaiah received from Yahweh to be a prophet. It ties in with John the Baptist, today’s feast.
How to Get There
Last week when we confirmed Erica & Susie we talked about six qualities of the person who is becoming more mature and more whole. The qualities were curiosity, hope, gratitude, love, zest, and humor.
This morning I would like to focus on the road to these qualities. How do I get there? I have five suggestions plus one. The first five I picked up somewhere, liked them, and wrote them down.
The five plus one suggestions are: no hatred, no worry, give more, expect less, live simply, and accept.
With hatred I would distinguish between the feeling of hating a person and the state of being a person of hatred. It is normal to hate. It is a feeling. To deny it if I feel it is more dangerous. Because of guilt I may try to stuff the feeling. Then watch it become a state. If I hate, process it and then for me it has helped to forget. Note that underneath hatred is probably anger & hurt. That was where I was when I got kicked out of East Africa. After talking about it with trustworthy people, I had to just forget. And it worked.
Worry often involves the game of "What if?" What if my child gets hurt? What if I fall down? The opposite can be used as the antidote: "What if not?" Worry does not mean that I do not care or take care. Worry involves fret over a future I have at most limited control over.
What is the hardest thing for me to give more of? Money, things, time, my attention? That is where the path to greater peace lies. It may even involve giving care to myself, what I call self nurturing. I occasionally see people fearful of nurturing themselves because they consider it selfishness.
Expecting less can really get tough when I focus on people. When my expectation of a person’s behavior is up here and they behave down there, I get mad & hurt. My dad always used to get upset on Saturday nights when he & my mom were going out. Mom was always late & dad’s expectation of being on time was up there where mom did not go.
Living simply takes work these days. When I lived in Tanzania, it was pretty easy to live a simple life style. In Dallas there is so much stuff. Wardrobes can go out of sight. Cars, houses, things. They weigh us down.
Finally, I add acceptance. Acceptance involves not only things & events, it involves me, accepting myself. It comes up constantly in daily life.
Using these six little rules for happiness, we can become more peaceful and more whole people. One may be more challenging than the others.
Which challenges you more?