Sunday Homily for December 29, 2019, Holy Family

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Trouble on the back bench!

 

Readings:

Sirach 3, 2-6, 12-14,   My son, take care of your father when he is old

Psalm 128,  Blessed are those who fear the Lord and walk in his ways  (fear the Lord?)

Colossians 3, 12-21, Put on compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness , and patience.

Matthew 1, 18-24,  This how the birth of Jesus Christ came about.

 

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Meeting of the board.  

 

A second Christmas Homily

This morning I have another Christmas story.

For many years I have had a really good friend who is an Ursuline nun.   Just thinking about Sr. Mary gives me fond memories of celebrating the early morning community Mass in the sisters' quiet chapel in the residence.

 

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Ben & David with David's daughter, Darbi Anna.

 

It also reminds me that I have a rare special relationship with the Ursulines.  I went to Christ the King grade school when the Ursulines staffed it.   I am educated by the Ursulines. 

Today there are no sisters living in the old convent with the beautiful little chapel.  Sr. Mary says she now lives along with 5 or 6 other Ursuline sisters at a retirement home that was popularly known at Tremont.  It is located on Harvest Hill Drive just across the Dallas Tollway from Jesuit and St. Rita's' Catholic Church.

 

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The Girls' candle lighting team with Zoe, Tori, and big sister, Georgie.

 

I know it well because my mom lived there and died there.  She passed through all the 3 levels, individual apartment, partial care, and full care.  

There is sister who still works at Ursuline Academy, you guessed it, Sr. Mary.  Every morning she gets up, spends the day at her school office.  Then drives back to Tremont. 

 

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Buddy reading the Blessing of the candles.  He has  not memorized the blessing on this the first day.

 

 

Last summer she decided it was time for her to give up driving and sell her little car.  A difficult decision.  She would use Huber.  

One morning around Labor Day she could not get Huber. So she decided to use the app. Lyft.   A guy came, picked her up at Tremont and took her to Ursuline.  During the trip she probably explained to the driver what she did at the school.  

 

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The Whole Team.

 

She exits his car, asks how much, and is told "No Charge."  She explains that she will still need a ride home in the afternoon.  Plus, she will make the trip every weekday.  

"How much?"   "No Charge!"  

 

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The offertory team with Bill, Tom, & Denni

 

The man, a Nigerian, has come every work day, September, through December, No Charge. 

Who is the Sr. Mary in your life? 

 

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Communion Helpers, Lynda, Tom and Claire.

 

 

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    Readings:

    Sirach 35, 12-14, 16-18,   The Lord hears the cry of the oppressed.

     Psalm 34,  The Lord hears the cry of the poor.

    2 Timothy  4, 6-8, 16-18, I have finished the race.

     Luke 18, 9-14,   The Pharisee and the tax collector.

     

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    Says Liam, "Welcome in, Everybody.  Thanks for coming to my party."

     

     

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    What: Again we take up one of the books of the Apocrypha, the 12 books written in Greek and not originally considered part of the Bible.  This book is basically a collection of Jewish wisdom statements and teachings, like, "A father who loves his son will whip him often, so that he can be proud of him later." 30, 1

    Who:  Joshua, who was translated from Hebrew into Greek by his grandson.

    Date:  ca. 200 years before Christ.

    Our selection in chapter 35 talks about the nature of god and what happens to the person who serves god.  It sets up Luke's parable about the pharisee & the tax collector in the temple.

     

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    Casey’s Convenience Store

    In Iowa there is a chain of convenience stores.  Everywhere in the towns.  These little stores are like our 7-11’s, but they don’t sell gas.   They are called Casey's.

    It took me my first year riding RAGBRAI to discover how helpful these little places could be.  I found out, for instance, that for $1.10  I could get a large coffee in the morning.  Plus, they had all the typical foods that convenience stores carry.

    So, one morning on this past summer’s week long ride, I woke up right around dawn, put my wet tent in a plastic bag, rolled up my sleeping bag and thermarest air mattress, stuffed them in my foot locker, and placed the locker next to our bus. 

     

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    The other 25 members of our group were just getting up when I pulled away from the curb and headed to the nearby Casey’s for my coffee.  I pulled in and was surprised that only a few bikers were outside drinking their coffee.  Usually these little places are mobbed for coffee.  But our campsite was 4 miles from the center of this little town.  It was the third morning, I think.

    I walk in and, feeling terrific about the fun of the day ahead, I said “Good Morning” to the young girl at the cash register.  She barely looked up and perhaps only grunted a response. 

     

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    Welcome back, Diane & Norm.  So good to see you two.

     

     

    I am sort of disappointed because I myself feel so great.  I am feeling, also, somewhat negative toward the girl.  To further turn me off of her was that I noticed she had tattoos on her arms.  Sorry, folks, this is a weakness of mine.  But, at that moment, I felt pretty critical.

    I get my coffee and approach the girl to check out. We are the only two in the store.  I decide to take one more shot, so I ask her, “How you doing?” 

    She starts crying!

     

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    Kevin & Georgie, you got to let Buddy know that he needs to look like he is at least fascinated by whatever nonsense that old guy is saying.

     

    Suddenly, I am no longer in my superior, critical mode.  I begin to listen.  Turns out her mother is home dying of cancer, she had a tough night, and the girl has to work to keep making money to live on.  She had even tried to get a substitute for a couple of hours.  No one was available. 

    Know that, after being so critical of that girl, I was ready to volunteer to work at that Casey’s for a couple of hours to let her go home, plus give her the hourly wage.  I probably would not have done it, but I mentioned it to her and she said I would have to be a registered employee.

     

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    So, after relating to the girl like that pharisee in the parable, I left quite humbled and disappointed in myself.  Next time, please don’t be so arrogant.

    With whom do you relate as did the Pharisee? 

     

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  • Sunday Homily, January 24, 2016, 3rd Ordinary Time, C

    Readings:

    Nehemiah  8, 2-10,   Do not be sad and do not weep.

    Psalm 19, Your words, Lord, are spirit and life.

     1 Corinthians 12, 12-30,  A body is one though it has many parts.

    Luke 1, 1-4; 4, 14-21,   He has sent me to proclaim liberty to captives.

     

     

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      Victoria says, "Hi, Everybody, Welcome in.  We got a brunch today."

     

    Introduction  

     

     Our first reading is from Nehemiah, Ezra, a scribe and priest, reads and teaches from the written Torah in Jerusalem, brought back by those returning from the Babylon Exile. The Torah, of course, begins with the Book of Genesis and the creation story. 

    Later the NT and then, Sufi Islam would make known that we are made in the image and likeness of God. A bond begins!  Our second reading from 1 Corinthians follows last Sunday’s teaching on the spiritual gifts.  Today’s reading describes how we are one in the Spirit as the body of Christ in the world.

     

     

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    Homily by Mike  

    Remember the story about the tax collector and the Pharisee who went to the temple to pray.  The Pharisee praised himself and ended his prayer by saying, ‘I am glad that I’m not like the tax collector standing over there.  The tax collector however was beating his breast saying, ‘Have mercy on me a sinner.’   The Pharisee was self-righteous instead of being humble. He chose to look down upon others as if they were morally inferior.  He committed the sin of pride, the first of the deadly sins and he, too, like the tax collector, should have been seeking forgiveness.

     

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    Hi, Cathy, Welcome in to you, too.  Thanks for bringing Harper.

     

    Don’t be surprised when Pope Francis formally asks the Jews to forgive us for being self-righteous toward them for so many centuries prior to World War II.  Unfortunately we had a part in the Holocaust for our prior teaching that the Jews could not be saved unless they became Christians. 

     

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    Francis has been calling us to recognize the bond that exists between Jews and Christians; it’s called the Spirit, blows were it wills, and is present within the inspired writings of both Jew and Christian.  Jesus was a Jew. Most of the NT was written by inspired Jews who believed that the Messiah had come.  Francis is encouraging us to visual this graphic relationship: within every Christian there is a Jew. 

     

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    Today’s gospel is about what happened when Jesus entered the Sabbath synagogue service.  The reading for that day, as you have heard, were the words spoken by the prophet Isaiah, ‘The Spirit of the Lord is upon me….’  The one who gave the reading would then give a teaching on why and to whom Isaiah had said these words.

     

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     For example, Isaiah could have been referring to the Jews to whom Ezra was reading and explaining the newly written Torah that had been brought back from Babylon after the exiles had been set free by Cyrus the Great.   Instead the inspired writers have Jesus fulfilling Isaiah’s words using them as an expectation for the coming of the Messiah.  In doing so, the structure of the Christian Liturgy of the Word would forever be identified: the words of Christ would fulfill the expectation of the reading from the Law and/or Prophets for the coming of the Messiah.  

     

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    What Jesus said, of course, was, ‘This day these words are fulfilled in your hearing.’   Those in the synagogue who were receiving the good news, then, were the poor in spirit, the captive being set free, and the blind being given the opportunity to see. 

     

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    So there is an intended spiritual harmony between OT and NT, between the Sabbath synagogue service and the Christian Liturgy of the Word, and between Jew and Christian.  Within every Christian there is a Jew.  Let us open our hearts to the words of our creed today that addresses all who seek to be led by the Spirit. 

     

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     Buddies, Michelle & Georgie.

     

     

  • Sunday Homily, November 19, 2017, 33rd Ordinary Time

     

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    Welcome Home, Alison & John.

     

     

    Readings:

    Proverbs 31, 10-13, 19-20, 30-31,   When one finds a worthy wife, her value is far beyond pearls.

    Psalm 128,  Blessed are those who fear the Lord.  (No!)

    1 Thessalonians 5, 1-6,  The Lord will come like a thief at night.  (No!)

    Matthew 25, 1-13,  The parable of the man going on a journey and leaving talents with his servants

     

     

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    Could there not be a better way to establish a relationship with the Lord than FEAR?  Like maybe LOVE?!

     

     

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    Nearly 50 years after Vietnam, a combat hero struggles to understand his war

     

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    Mike, a ''67 graduate of Jesuit , was awarded two Purple Hearts and a Silver Star for his heroic time as a conscientious objector and corpsman (medic).

     

     

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  • Christ the King Sunday, Nov. 22, 2020

    Readings:

    Ezekiel  34, 11-12, 15-17, I will look after and tend my sheep.

    Psalm 23, The Lord is my shepherd; there is nothing I shall want.  (a beautiful Psalm)

    1 Corinthians  15,  20-26. 28, Christ has been raised from the dead

    Matthew 25, 31-46, He will place the sheep on his right and the goats on his left.

     

     

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    Have a Blessed & Happy Thanksgiving.

     

    Thanks to the Team

    Music,  Ben & Shonda, Welcome Home!

    Readers,   Denni & Tom & Buddy, the candle blesser

    Gospel,  John Cade 

    Homily,   John Cade

    Eucharistic Prayer A & B, Stack & John Cade

    The Magic Zoom makers,   Hue & Mike

    Final Blessing, Rosemary

    For hosting us at Legacy, Becky

     

     

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    John Cade Homilizing on Thanksgiving

     

    Download Cade 2 Homily – 11-22-20 Thanksgiving – Blessings

     

    Please Remember these special people:

    For Paul & Carrie recuperating;  For Alan Stryker;  For Joe Sullivan;  For John Doherty recuperating;   For Rosemary's great niece, Rylie ;  For Richard's grand daughter, Madeleine; For David Dinsmore's bad shoulder from a biking accident;  For Esparza's new great grandson baby, son of Monique;  For all the medical personnel struggling to treat the tsunami of sick people, in particular, locally, Cindy's staff at Presby, Dallas, and at Frisco Presby, the mother of Harper and Betsy, Kendle, working in labor & delivery;   For Mary & Dave Hall's g-daughter Allison Keller working at St. Lukes, The Woodlands,   For Loretta's aunt Alicia;  For Sir Charlie & Jan;  Shonda's mom & Cody & Ben & Leo & all of Shonda's dear family;  

     

     

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    For Jackie's mom, sister, & friend, Lynn;  For both Jean & Cliff Wright;  For Rick Turner searching for a kidney donor, Type O neg; For Meredith, cancer free;    For John O'Donnell;   For Dee, and for her daughter, Lisa; For John Schanot's continued health;  For Anthony & Sabrina;    For a young man who is suffering from depression;  John Cade's mother in law, Kalliopi Piskiouli and Lambrini, plus John's daughter, Joey, with cancer,  For the students, teachers, and coaches in our public & private schools.

     

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    Thanksgiving  for Today's Brain Team, Mike & Hue

     

    Birthdays:  Ron Ackerman, David Grattifiori, 61, Joanie Beavers, 40, John Cade, 86, Rose's son, Fred

    Anniversaries:

    Cliff & Jean Wright, 25th

    Barb & Ron Senter, 49th

    John & Michelle Simari, 41st

    Frank & Mary Esparza, 57th

     

     

    Community Finances, November 22, 2020

    Expenses: $2980.00

    Outreach   $225.00  (often for Souls Harbor, Legacy, etc.)

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    And double thanks to all who jumped right in within 1 week to help the 50 families Becky adopted for special Thanksgiving help.  Our marvelous little community has been so generous that the same families already are covered for Christmas.  I feel humbled and privileged to be part of our most generous community.

     

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    Hooray, they are back, Shonda from Air Force duty, Ben from food poisoning, yuk.

     

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    Thanksgiving is here.

    As we celebrate this special day,

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  • Sunday Homily, April 17, 2016, 4th Easter

    Readings:

    Acts  13, 14, 43-52,  Paul and Barnabas continued on from Perga.

    Psalm 100,  We are his people, the sheep of his flock.

    Revelation  7, 9, 14-17, I, John, had a great vision.

    John 21, 19-31,  My sheep hear my voice, I know them, and they follow me.   

     

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    Genevieve welcomes all you folks and says, "Welcome in!"   Guess who is 1 year old.

     

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    Genevieve in May 2015.

     

    Acts observations:

    More of the same, Paul's travels.

     

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    Kevin, too, says, "Come in, Everybody.  It is only rain out there.   Not even any hail.  Just a bit of flooding.  No need for an ark yet."

     

    We are a Team

    Boston Marathon is tomorrow.  Who is going from our community?  Tom & Lynda.  Paul & Carrie did it last year. 

    See the article in the Dallas Morning News yesterday?  About Carol Ann Taylor running for her husband Sterling Proctor.  Sterling is, or was, a CO hiker and a French horn player in the F.W. Symphony.  He also biked The Lake, White Rock. 

    He now has a worsening degenerative muscle condition that  has him relegated to an electric wheel chair.

     

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    Carol Ann, Sterling’s wife, is running The Boston to earn money for more research into Sterling’s condition.  It is her first.  She runs “for my heart, for my Sterling,” she said. 

    The reporter noted how they listened to each other, how they were in sync with each other.  When they said of themselves, “We are a team,” I thought they have The Karma.  They are a team.  Carol Ann runs tomorrow and Sterling will watch via satellite. 

    Rosemary & I know another couple who has had The Karma, Carl & Barbara Castille. 

     

     

    Offertory

     

    Offertory, John & Jim, Karen & John.  Thanks.
     

     

    Carl is one of my best Jesuit buddies.  Carl is a Cajun (like you, John), growing up near Opelousas, LA.  We entered the Jesuits together in 1958 (60 years this 2018), and we lived together in the same large houses for 7 years. 

    Carl was coming to our Spring Hill College reunion last weekend.  He & Barbara live in a suburb of Pittsburg.  He had come early to visit his family around Opelousas.  I knew Carl had attempted and failed to book into the same Fairfield Inn as I and my companion, Francis Vanderwall, the guy who spoke to us some years ago.  So I did not really notice Carl’s absence the first night. 

     

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    The Best, Mary & Bethany & Ray.

     

     

    Somewhere during Saturday we heard that Carl had returned to Pittsburg because Barbara had a stroke and was hospitalized.  The guys and I, we were all stunned.  I began to phone.  In fact, the first time I phoned I got Barbara’s phone with her voice message. 

    Day by day I called, mostly talking to Robbie, their son who was handling the phone.  And day by day Barbara got worse.  She had more strokes and Robbie said each day that she was losing ground.  At one point Robbie told me that Barbara was going into Hospice and that the family was telling her she did not have to fight to stay alive.  She could let loose.  Finally I was home and called again.  This time Carl answered and said Barbara had died. 

     

     

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     The A Team, including Buddy.

     

     

    I was in tears, Carl was in tears, and we could hardly speak.  Barbara and Carl had The Karma.  Rosemary & I could sense it when we stayed with them last year in Pittsburg.  They were a team like Carol Ann and Sterling.

    Carl is a Good Karma guy.  He has other teams he can rely on, like their 3 grown kids.  I hope to help out, even from a distance. 

     

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     Sisters, Victoria and Zoe.

     

    I would suggest that we all need to be part of a team.  Rosemary & I are a team.  I would also suggest that we have a team in this community.  I am humbled by this every time we come together and I am grateful. 

    And you.  Who makes up your Team?

     

    Butterlies

     The Butterlies, caught in the act of having too much fun at Mass,  Kara, Denise, and James.

     

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    Reminder for Sunday, July 22, 2012, 16th Ordinary Time B

    Welcome:  Coffee & juice & specials on the house.   

    Time: 9:30; Celebrate with the Community & John Cade.   Welcome. 

     

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    Readings:  

     Jeremiah, 23, 1-6, Woe to the shepherds who mislead and scatter the flock.

    Psalm 23, The Lord is my Shepherd, there is nothing I shall want.

    Ephesians 2, 13-18, He is our peace.

    Mark 6, 7-13, Come away by yourselves to a deserted place and rest a while.

     

    Kevin 7-20-12

    Kevin celebration ready

     

    Leo 7-20-12

    Leo choir ready

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    1.  Happy Summer

    Emma 7-20-12

    Emma ready

     

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    1.   Kennedy on the Vatican Leaks, National Catholic Reporter, July 13, (1100 words),  Download Vatican Leaks 7-20-12

    2Bishops lash out at American Nuns, National Catholic Reporter, July 17, (600 words),  Download Bishops lash out 7-20-12

     3.  Beautiful letter of support from Dominican priests to the Dominican sisters, July 19, (400 words),  Download Dominicans 7-20-12

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    J.S., 214-783-0443

         

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          Help create a Catholic Community that welcomes all God’s People, provides for & challenges spiritual & total growth 

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