|

Sunday Homily, July 7, 2019, 14th Ordinary Time

IMG_7670

 

Says John, "Welcome in, Everybody."

 

Readings:

Isaiah 66, 10-14, As a mother comforts her child, so I will comfort you.  (Isaiah at his best)

Psalm 66,  Let all the earth cry out to God with joy

Galatians  6, 14-18,  Peace and mercy be to all.

Luke 10, 1-12, 17020,  Peace to this household.

 

 

IMG_3323

 

 

Marilyn lights our Summer Candles.

 

Isaiah  observations:  

The scene:  the people are now back in Jerusalem, a destroyed Jerusalem.  Isaiah is attempting to put a positive spin on everything.  After all that took place in the Babylonian captivity, Cyrus has defeated the Babylonians and released the Jewish people to return to Jerusalem.

This chapter 66 is the last of the whole book and the work of the third Isaiah.

The Psalm.  Can this be true?  The Psalm is also 66.  It is beautiful and positive.  Can religion be better?

 

 

IMG_3324

 

 

Ron reads our Blessing of the Summer Candles.

 

Why I am still proud to be an American

This morning in honor of July 4, I want to share why I am still proud to be an American.  I have 4 little vignettes.  

The first took place when I was in Tanzania giving a retreat or seminar to a small group of delightful Dutch religious sisters.  We were at a mission on the outskirts of a little town called Morogoro.  A thief got into my room, which was a fixed up shipping container on the edge of the compound, while I was having breakfast.  I lost my passport & a few small things. 

 

IMG_7715

 

Who let in that funny man with the hat?

 

So, I had to go to the American Embassy in Dar es Salaam, the capitol.  The staff did not hassle me, but treated me like a fellow traveler.  I remember feeling, first, a sense of security and, secondly, a sense of being proud to be connected with a country which was a dream country to so many Tanzanians.

 

IMG_7763

 

 

Happy 57th Anniversary, Marilyn & Ron.

 

Secondly, Iowa and the marvelous week long 500 mile bike ride the end of this month.  30k people riding from the MO River to the MS River.  The atmosphere is so friendly and fun. 

Amid all the camaraderie, the event that always touches me the most is the Amish concession.  Not just because I can buy a piece of pie (about 5 varieties) for 3-4 $$’s and a huge spoonful of vanilla ice cream being made right there under the tent for another 2-4 $$’s,  It is the fact that in America a group like the Amish can live and thrive. 

 

 

IMG_7766

 

 

My Dearest Carrie, I remember you as a sweet, pretty little girl from our days at St. Marks.  Now look at you, a pretty girl and a doctor.  I'm impressed and delighted for you.

 

 

I will miss seeing my buddy Henry, the pie vendor, a guy about 24 years old and very friendly.  I will miss renewing our friendship.  He even loaned me the money once when I forgot my money.

I ride Iowa’s Ragbrai, I am proud to be a crazy American like all the crazies around me.

 

 

IMG_7765

 

Aggie, this is fortification for the rework of your knee.  May it be successful and bring you peace. 

 

Thirdly, our neighborhood picnic and parade.  So many kids, so many families, so many dogs, so many families of color. Rosemary  is the refreshment czar and hosts the most popular concession on the campus of the Preston Hollow Elementary, where the disk jockey rides, where the fire truck begins the parade, and where face painting and animal petting all can be found.

Want to know how popular Rosemary is?   I was instructed to pick up 24 dozen donut holes to go with chocolate chip cookies from Costco and grapes in plastic cups.   How many donut holes left over?  Zip, zero, nada.

A dozen times during the morning I am touched to be there.  I am proud to be part of America and I am proud of Rosemary.

 

IMG_7764

 

 

Listen everyone.  Connie & John are going to visit Bill in Pagosa Springs.   Therefore, what a better way to show Bill our appreciation for his hospitality for Rosemary & me.  Enjoy it, Bill.

 

Finally, remember the Mays when Rosemary & I would join her delightful family to do the Ride New York?  While there we would take the marvelous Staten Island Ferry (still FREE!), and pass by the Statue of Liberty, a gift from the French.

 

On that statue is the following sonnet:

Give me your tired, your poor,

Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,

The wretched refuse of your teaming shore.

Send these, the homeless, tempest tossed to me.

I lift my lamp beside the Golden Door.

 

IMG_7761

 

It takes a team.  Especially because we are color coordinated.

Similar Posts

  • Sunday Homily, April 30, 2017, 3rd Easter

    Readings:

    Acts of the Apostles 2, 14, 22-33.  You who are Jews, listen to my words.

    Psalm 16,  Lord, you will show us the path of life.  

    1 Peter 1, 17-21,   Conduct yourselves with reverence.

     Luke 24,  13-35,   Two men on the road to Emmaus.   

     

      Spider 2

     

    "Hi, Everybody, Welcome in," say Buddy, Tori, and Harper.

     
    • Homily by John Cade
       
      What a good writer the author of Luke-Acts is. The story of the two followers of Jesus on the road to Emmaus has the power to grab us and make us feel like we were there with them.  We know about those who experience closeness with their loved ones after the loved ones have passed on. We’ve heard about people who talk with and have conversations with loved ones who are gone, or who see them in their dreams or even see them just walk in the door.
       
       
       
      Spider
       
       
       
      Could there be anything more fun to play with than a spider on the floor?
       
       
      These stories are not about miracles; they are about how humans try to be connected with loved ones who are no longer  here, and how we process a significant loss.
       
      I can’t tell you how many people have shared with me their experiencing a loved one’s presence after they had passed on. Is that a miracle? Or is life and connection itself the miracle?
       
       
      Elevation
       
      The Minor Elevation with Sunday's team.
       
       
      You heard Mike a few weeks ago talk about the miracle stories in the Bible being a way of talking about people who are heroes, or who are thought of as grand or powerful or loving.
       
      The story that the two guys on the road to Emmaus experienced Jesus as joining them is not a stretch—this is a human story. The story of Jesus is the story of a man from Nazareth who, following John the Baptist, discovered that he too had a message, a message that we are not disconnected; nor are we cut off from God, ever; that we are living in God’s kingdom, if only we open our eyes and ears and follow the Good News he taught.
       
       
      Communion
       
       
      Communion for Bill & Barbara.
       
       
      A song by Peter Mayer called Holy Now says in one stanza,
      When I was in Sunday school we would learn about the time Moses split the sea in two, Jesus made the water wine; And I remember feeling sad, that miracles don’t happen still; But now I can’t keep track, ‘Cause everything’s a miracle.
       
      Kevin-Buddy
       
      A buddy helping a Buddy.
       
       
      Wine from water is not so small, But an even better magic trick, Is that anything is here at all.  So the challenging thing becomes, Not to look for miracles, But finding where there isn’t one.
       
      When do you see the miracles in your own life?
      In your relationships with others? 
      When do you know that you yourself are a miracle?
       
       
       
      FullSizeRender (5)

     And who let in these clowns?  John, Tom, Denni, & Jim.

  • Sunday Homily, October 8 2017, 27th Ordinary Time

      IMG_1836

     

    Good Morning, Tori, Good Morning, Zoe.  So nice to see you dear girls.

     

     

    Readings:

    Isaiah 5, 1-7,  The fruitless vineyard

    Psalm 80,  The vineyard of the Lord is the house of Israel.

    Phlippians 4, 6-9,  Have no anxiety at all

    Matthew 21, 33-43,  The vineyard owner & the unfaithful tenants. 

     

     

    IMG_1844

     

    Good Morning to you, too, Riley, and welcome in from Atlanta.   It is so nice to meet you.  I knew your mom when she was your age.  And you are as pretty as she was.

     

    Reading 1; Isaiah 5:1-7

    Introduction:

    The vineyard in Isaiah is a sad story.  Why?  The fruit from the House of Israel should have been praise and thanksgiving to God.  But there was no thanksgiving given and no humility shown.  There was no lived praise or peace or justice.

     

      IMG_2479

     

    Thanks, John and Buddy and Mike, for celebrating today.  I knew before we did Paul & Carrie's wedding this weekend, I would be jet lagged out after the wedding and an evening arrival from Grand Canyon and Phoenix.

     

    Reading 2; Paul’s Letter to the Philippians 4:6-9

    Introduction:

    Today’s reading from Philippians contains a teaching common to several of his letters, “Have no anxiety at all; rather you should give thanks in everything, for that is God’s will for us.

     

     

    IMG_2478

     

    Thanks for the Homily, Mike.

     

    Reading from the Holy Gospel according to Matthew 21:33-43

    Introduction: The landowner in the parable is God, and his gift to Israel is the kingdom, the tenants are the Jewish chief priests and elders of the people, the servants were the prophets.

    The Father’s son is Jesus, who is the cornerstone, the fountain of living water [the good news], and the source of the Holy Spirit [the new wine].

    The Gentiles are to be the recipients of the kingdom.

     

      IMG_1847

    It was a marvelous, beautiful wedding and I am so peaceful resting in the back row for this celebration.  Thanks again, John & Mike.

     

     

    Homily

    Our Liturgy of the Word always leads us to the Liturgy of the Eucharist. 

    Recall Paul’s teaching, ‘In everything give thanks for that is God’s will for us in Christ, Jesus.’

     

      IMG_0284

     

    Paul & Carrie begin their wedding standing on the top of the South Rim of the Grand Canyon on a beautiful evening.

     

     

    In our soon to be celebrated Liturgy of Eucharist, we are presented with the perfect example of Jesus giving thanks to the Father.  Of course, he does so with no anxiety, but instead with thanksgiving. 

    Since the bread that we break and share with one another is a participation in our communion with Jesus Christ; we are invited to join with Jesus as a Thanksgiving to his Father.  We, too, as his sons and daughters, through the power of the Spirit, can give ourselves back to the Father.

     

    IMG_0285

     

    In the background is the North Rim, to which Paul & Carrie, plus a few others, are hiking this very day.  These dear people are in shape.  More next Sunday.

     

     

    Judy and I have a friendship with a couple in Austin who, about 15 years ago adopted a baby boy.  After some months it became apparent that he was born with special needs.  In everything they gave thanks. The angels in heaven sought to find perfect parents for the boy; and they did. Today he is still has needs; but he is active, full of excitement, and appreciative.

    May each of us continue to seek to do God’s will for us in Christ, Jesus.

     

      Mcclurg 1

     

    The celebration of Greg & Erin continues on with the help of Cole and Diane.

     

  • Sunday Homily 4-22-12, 3rd Easter

     Readings:   Acts 3, 13-19, I know that you acted out of ignorance; Psalm 4, Lord, let your face shine on us; 1 John 2, 1-5, Whoever keeps his word, the love of God is truly perfected in him; Luke 24, 35-48, Peace be with you.

    Acts: A review–

    Author:  Luke, the author of both The Gospel and Acts.  Today we get Luke twice, in the first reading with Acts and in the last reading, today's Gospel. 

    While we are on the subject, Luke's gospel story today is a compliment to last week's gospel story by John.  Both John & Luke find the apostles in a locked room, Jesus appears, and he says, "Peace."  Both focus on the physical, last week on Thomas demanding to see the wounds, this week Jesus eating.  What does he eat?   Why so much focus on the physical? 

    Candle Lighting 4-22-12

    Candle Lighting, Georgie doing the honors

    Date:  written about 40-60 years after Jesus death, i.e., ca. 70-100 A.D.

    Subject: Two parts.  Part one covers chapters 1-8, which focus on the resurrection, ascension, and Pentecost, plus their effect on the community.  The rest of the book, i.e., chapters 9-28, the focus is on Paul, his conversion & travels.  

    Today's Selection:  

    The scene is this, just like last week.   Peter & John have just healed a lame man at the door of the temple.  The people come rushing to see.  Peter & John say, "Hey, we did not do it."  In fact, Jesus did it and he has been raised from the dead.  This caught the attention of the priests and authorities who had the two arrested and put before the council.  They are released the next day after a warning not to talk about this Jesus.  Then they return to the local community of believers. 

     Today we go back to the time just after the healing of the lame man.  The people have rushed to see the phenomenon and ask Peter & John to explain.  Today's reading is their explanation.

    Delgado Corner 4-22-12
     

    Where is The Lord Here?

    This morning I want to talk about something that has been tearing up my spirit.  Anybody heard of a little dog named Justice? 

    He was a street dog, a puppy.  He died mercifully a week ago Friday.  Justice was apparently a peaceful, affectionate little puppy running around the streets of Pleasant Grove. 

    One day he had the misfortune to be noticed by some teen boys who were loafing around looking for some amusement.  They decided to amuse themselves with little Justice.  So, as happens occasionally in a group of boys, they began to pester him. 

    Offertory 4-22-12

    Offertory with Marsha, Connie & John

    Things got bad.  One kid put a rope around Justice’s neck and tried to hang him from a fence.  When that did not satisfy them, another boy doused the puppy with charcoal lighter fluid and set him on fire.  He ran around frantically.

    At this point some woman in a nearby apartment ran out with water & an old T shirt to aid Justice.  Someone else called the police and they found Justice shivering & hiding behind an air conditioning compressor. 

    They called an animal shelter who called DFW Rescue Me, because Justice needed intensive care.  A big rig truck driver from Denton got involved and actually shuttled Justice around from his daytime treatment to his nighttime treatment.   To the very end, even when his blood pressure was so low, Justice continued to wag in appreciation his little white tipped tail.

    What would you like to do to those boys?  There is a $5000 reward.

    Leo 4-22-12

    Leo arrives

    Luke’s message today describes how the Lord appeared among them two times and said, “Peace be with you.”  Is he present in this event?  I   would like to propose that yes, God is in this event, even as ugly as it is.  I see three possibilities. 

    First, I see God in the woman who had the courage to come out of her apartment and rescue Justice.  She did not know what would happen.  Those boys could have turned on her.  It happens.

    Secondly, I see God in the truck driver who shepherded Justice between his day & night treatment centers.  His name was Wenger.  He is from Denton.  This happened in Pleasant Grove, opposites in the Metroplex.  Wenger showed great kindness to the little street puppy. 

    Emma 4-22-12

    Emma, What happened to the Easter Eggs?

    Finally, the boys. Yes, God is in the boys.  They acted out of their shadow sides, but they are still works of God.  I have worked with kids and adults like this.  Two speculations coming from my experiences.

    First, I bet you when these boys were puppies they, too, were treated badly.  Maybe not set on fire, but hurt & hurt repeatedly to a point where they are responding to the world with anger.  Hurt breeds anger, anger breeds violence.  I want to hurt others because I hurt.

    Secondly, I bet that because of feedback that they are bad, they think they are bad.  And act it out.  The kid has nothing to lose.  He is already a loser.  I thought I was bad when I was a kid and I wasn’t. 

    So, where do you see The Lord in all this?

    Curtis & Buddies 4-22-12

    Curtis with Marlene, Meredith, & Brent

    Reference: Dallas Morning, News, Jacquielynn Floyd, Metro section, April 18, 2012

     Video:  Candle Lighting (2 Min.)

      

     

     

     

  • Sunday Homily, December 4, 2016, 2nd Advent, A

    IMG_2010

    Welcome to the beautiful colors of Advent & Fall in Dallas.

     

    Readings:

    Isaiah, 11, 1-10,  On that day the wolf shall be a guest of the lamb. (a beautiful reading)

     Psalm 72,  Justice shall flourish in his time, and fullness of peace forever.

     Romans 15, 4-9,  Welcome one another as Christ welcomed you.

     Matthew, 3, 1-12,   John the Baptist appeared preaching in the desert.

     

    CIMG6532

    Welcome, Everybody.

     

    Observations on the Isaiah and the Matthew selections.

    These two reading today have a sort of ying & yang quality to them.  Isaiah is looking for peace while Matthew talks about John the Baptist, who does not specialize in peace.  

    You will find the selection from Isaiah (this is Isaiah 1) to be a beautiful dream about peace.  He even looks at the animal kingdom for peace.  Watch how Isaiah enters into this theme when he talks about the wolf.

    And what was John's message?  You better behave and repent or you are going to get it.

    So how do you you reconcile the reading from Matthew with a
    God who loves unconditionally? 

     

    CIMG6550

    Happy Engagement, Carrie & Paul.

     

    In place of our usual homily today we have invited one of the men from Souls Harbor so share his journey of recovery.  

     

    CIMG6546

    Ha!  I caught you, Beth.  Swiping pastries before the kids and I can get there.  Sure, you think I believe that you brought those.

  • 26th Sunday in Ordinary Time, September 27, 2020

    Readings:

    Ezekiel, 18, 25-28, The Lord's way is not fair!

    Psalm 25, Remember your mercies, O Lord.

    Philippians  2, 1-11, Humbly regard others as more important than yourselves.

    Matthew 21, 28-32, Which of the two sons did his father's will?

     

     

    Worry and anxiety 1

     

    Thanks to the Team

    Music,  Ben & Shonda (on Air Force duty)

    Readers,   Connie & John Bresson & Buddy, the candle blesser

    Gospel,  Deacon Mike 

    Homily,  John Cade 

    Eucharistic Prayer A & B, Stack & John Cade

    The Magic Zoom makers, Mike, Ben & Hue, Richard 

    Final Blessing, Rosemary

    For hosting us at Legacy, Becky

     

     

    Download Readings Week 26

     

     

    IMG_1955

     

     

    John Cade's Homily  (above, Remembering…)

     

    Homily on Priesthood  First, a little bit of history of the Christian priesthood; and second, a little bit on blessings in my life.

    The Apostle Peter, In Chapter 2 of his first letter, vs 4, wrote, “Present yourselves as building stones for the construction of a sanctuary vibrant with life, in which you serve as priests offering Christ-approved lives up to God”.  And he continued in vs 9, “You are the ones chosen by God, chosen for the high calling of priestly work, God’s instruments to do his work and speak out for him.”  (As far as I know, among Christian churches today, it is the Morman church that asks all its members to exercise their priestly role.)

            Saint Jerome, around 380 CE, gave his view of the Christian priesthood, derived no doubt from the traditions and practices of the early church. He wrote, “The priestly dignity is the personal possession of the Christian; it does not belong to the Christian because of membership in a church which has a hierarchical priesthood.  Rather, the layman’s priesthood, as all priesthood, is a sharing in the priesthood of Christ.” 

    He continued, “It’s the reality of the Christian’s priesthood which distinguishes members of the ‘royal priesthood’ from the rest of humankind.  No distinction between one member of Christ’s priestly body and another, can be compared to the distinction between those baptized and confirmed and those not—there is a basic unity that underlies the threefold character of baptism, confirmation and priestly orders.”  It is clear that Saint Jerome placed the origin of priesthood in Christian baptism.  

    But jump about 800 years ahead and you are into Medieval Scholasticism, in universities all over Europe.  Scholasticism was a ‘philosophy of learning’ with emphasis on reasoning to extend knowledge.  You take a topic and dispute it in the form of a question, with counter proposals and opposing arguments.  It began as an attempt to harmonize Christian theology with philosophical antiquity such as with the Greek philosopher, Aristotle.  One thing scholasticism was not based on was early Christian tradition and practice. 

    Saint Thomas Aquinas became scholasticism’s most famous member.  One of the founders of scholasticism, Alexander of Hales (in England), obscured participation in the priesthood of Christ by the baptized/confirmed Christian.  For him priesthood no longer has its origin in Baptism, but in the separate sacrament of Orders.  His thinking and conclusion was approved in the Council of Trent, in 1550, and stands today.  

    In our time, most of us who lived as adults during the papacy of John XXIII and the Second Vatican Council, had high hopes for a more collegial understanding of how leadership could be structured and lived out in the church.  Many of us today support a return to greater opportunity for service by all baptized & confirmed Catholics.  Opportunities clearly were there in the early church.  Don’t tell me we can’t figure out how to make it happen now.  Isn’t it time already, for greater inclusion and equality of opportunity in the church?  I can hear RBG, that extraordinary Jewish woman and Supreme Court justice, giving us, her own – Amen.

    Secondly, a little bit on my personal history of blessings.  I experienced the call, in my mid-teens, to greater closeness with God—of course, to ‘save my soul from hell’. After two semesters in college, I entered the seminary, and eight years later was ordained a priest on Sept 30, 1961.  I felt then and feel now the blessing of that day.  I loved living and working as a priest, ‘saying’ Mass, doing homilies, being invited into others’ lives through counseling, visiting the sick, teaching in high school, and leading retreats.  

    Six or seven years later, when I was in the psychology program at Loyola Chicago, I began to experience a deep loneliness…and also disillusionment with the American hierarchy’s negative reaction to calls for reform by Pope John XXIII and the Vatican Council.  Some of you will remember the great number of priests who left in the late 60’s and early 70’s.  I was one of them.  Having a psychology degree was a blessing, as I could continue one of the things I loved as a priest—counseling with people having a difficult emotional time.  I married and helped raise four kids, including two as stepfather.  Some of the big blessings:  my relationship with a marriage partner (twice), being part of a family with kids (and now grandkids), relationships with friends, mentors and colleagues.  My marriage relationship with Lambrini is amazing; we are a couple now for 28 years and counting.  Also, even with diabetes and cardio-vascular disease, I am blessed with overall health. It’s a huge blessing to be able to enjoy the Autuum time of life. 

    An unexpected blessing came 15 years ago when you, this community, welcomed me back as a Catholic priest. Simply being part of this loving community, seeing the way you live your lives, is a blessing that keeps on giving.  Why?  Because every Sunday, and often between Sundays, you help me ‘see’ the blessings in my life, and you help me live with gratitude. 

    My question:  How do you see yourselves as a ‘royal priesthood’, sharing in the priesthood of Christ?  How do you live with acceptance and love for others, and also see your daily blessings?   

                                  

    IMG_1941

     

    The Zoom Wizards at work.

     

    Please Remember these special people:

    For Alan Stryker;  For John Doherty with back pain; For Becky's dad who has moved to the other side;  For Cindy recuperating at home;    For David Dismore's bad shoulder from a biking accident; For Esparzas, Frank & Mary,  For all the medical personnel struggling to treat the tsunami of sick people, in particular, locally, Cindy's staff at Presby, Dallas, and at Frisco Presby, the mother of Harper and Betsy, Kendle, working in labor & delivery;   For Mary & Dave Hall's g-daughter Allison Keller working at St. Lukes, Woodlands,  For Joe Hogan with cancer;  For Loretta's aunt Alicia;    For Sydney;  & For Sir Charlie & Jan;  Shonda's mom & Cody & Ben & all of Shonda's dear family;   for all the students and teachers and coaches returning to school, for Geri's sister with heart & circulation problems, David Dinsmore in a bike crash.


    IMG_1942
     

    Ben bringing his Vitality to our music, alone today because Shonda has Air Force duty.

     

    For Jackie's mom, sister, & friend, Lynn;  For a friend & a doctor, Karen, with brain cancer; For Rick Turner searching for a kidney donor, Type O neg; For Meredith, cancer free;    For Hue;  For John O'Donnell;   For Dee, and for her daughter, Lisa; For John Schanot's continued health;  For Anthony & Sabrina;    For a young man who is suffering from depression;  John Cade's mother in law, Kalliopi Piskiouli and Lambrini, plus John's daughter, Joey, with cancer,  For the students, teachers, and coaches in our public & private schools.

     

    IMG_1943

     

    Mike working on elevating our Zoom quality.

     

    Birthdays:  Judy Carrell (today), Leo (10), Tori & Buddy, (10) 

    Anniversaries: John Cade, 49 years ordained, Fred & Patricia,10th; Erin McClurg & Greg, 3rd; Claire Z & Andrew,9th, Ron & Nancy Kovatis, 48th.

     

     

                                                    

                     

    Community Finances, September 27, 2020

    Expenses: $450.00  

    Outreach   $100.00    (often for Souls Harbor, Legacy, etc.)

    Thanks, Folks, for doing what you can.

     

     

    Rosemary's Blessing:

    Rivers do not drink their own water;

    trees do not eat their own fruit;

    the sun does not shine on itself

    and flowers do not spread their fragrance for themselves.

    Living for others is a rule of nature.

    We are born to help each other.

    No matter how difficult it is.

    Life is good when you are happy

    but much better when others are happy because of you.

    Let us remember that pain is a sign that we are alive,

    problems are a sign that we are strong and

    prayer is a sign that we are not alone.

    If we can acknowledge these truths and

    condition our hearts and minds, our lives will be more meaningful,

    different and

    worthwhile.

     

    Pope Francis

     

     

    New House Address

    Just in case you missed our new address, 7017 Helsem Way  75230.   (notice the same Zip Code as Tulip Lane?)

     

  • Sunday Homily, March 8, 2015, 3rd Lent, B

    Readings:

    Exodus  20, 1-17,  God delivered all these commandments.   Special reading for Rita's memorial,    Song of Songs, 2, 8-14

    Psalm 19,    Lord, you have the words of everlasting life.

    1 Corinthians  1, 22-25,   The foolishness of God is wiser than human wisdom.

     John  2,  13-25,   He made a whip out of cords and drove them all out.

     

    Georgie

    Our Beautiful Georgie says, "Welcome in Everybody, it's fun."

     

    Song of Songs, observation :  Special reading in honor of Rita

    What :  A dialogue between a man and a woman who love and long for each other.   No reference to God or the law. 

    When:  probably after the Babylonian Captivity, 555 before Christ. 

    Our Subject: The girl is speaking to her lover.

     

     

    Leo-Cole

    Buddies Leo and Cole say, "Hi, Folks."


     

    Rita Dore

    I would like to tell you a few stories about Rita, just to give you an idea of how neat and fun a person she was.

    I don’t remember when or how I met Rita.  Toward the end of Msgr. Claude Smyth’s life she was just there as the house keeper.  More than anybody else, Rita took good care of Smyth, tending to him day and even night, helping him to move to the other side.

    During this time, Matt Bagert was acting pastor and when Msgr. Smyth died Matt opened up the rectory a bit.  He even threw a birthday party once, to which I was invited, along with another young Jesuit, Gene Sessa.  Things went along smoothly this way for some months until…The Big Event happened.  Fr. Duffy Gardner arrived. 

     

     

    Harper

    Harper says, "Cupcake time yet?"

     

    Three little vignettes.

    First, when Duffy settled into the rectory, the place went from being totally closed up to being wide open.  He was platinum level hospitality.  With Duffy welcoming everyone was the house keeper in the kitchen, Rita.  They made a marvelous one-two team. 

    After doing the 9:00 Mass in the church and the 10:30 Mass in the cafetorium, I started going over to the rectory.  I was usually worn out.  I would go upstairs, take a 20 minute nap in an empty bedroom, then come down and join Duffy at the dining room table where he held forth.

     

     

    Cupcakes

    Cupcakes of The Week to Grace and Dee.

     

    Meanwhile, Rita had been cooking.  In particular she made chocolate chip cookies the size of dinner plates and homemade vanilla ice cream.  Guess what I ate for lunch.  Wow, did I love Rita.

    At the same time that she worked as housekeeper, Rita took on the training of the little kids for first communion.  Two or three times a year I joined Duffy and a handful of other priests to do her kids' first confessions.  My penance to each kid, 2 Hershey kisses.  Think my line was long?

     

     

    Tom & Lynda

    Tom & Lynda, first time grandparents Monday, the 9th.

     

    Two years in a row at this time Duffy hosted the whole gang of kids for first communion on a Saturday.  Both years, Duffy at the homily would ask the kids questions and he would give out a dollar or two for correct answers.  The big final question both years worth $5 was, ‘Who is the holiest priest in St. Marks?’  Hands would go up.  Both years Duffy called on a timid little girl whom I happened to know.   Both years the little girls said, “Fr. Stack.” 

    Well, as you can imagine, this brought down the house.  Duffy would put on a display of incredulity.  I don’t know if the first little girl got the $5 or not, but the second year I was there and I jumped up from the stage, ran down, and gave the girl $5 of my own.

     

     

    Vivian

    Vivian, speaking into the mike, says, "Patience please, I'm coming." With her mommy, Bethany.

     

    Rita loved all this, the penances, which some parents did not think was so good, and the questions from Duffy.

    At the same time, Rita volunteered one day to help me with all the weddings, acting as wedding coordinator.  She had made wedding dresses in Birmingham or somewhere in her earlier, married life.  Consequently, we had great fun meeting with the kids, usually over dinner at Jason’s or El Fenix, and celebrating the weddings.

     

     

    Buddy-Zoe

    Buddy and Zoe wondering, 'Where is this Vivian?"

     

    One wedding among all of them really stands out.  Two musicians, evening wedding, the big church, big crowd.  After exchanging vows, we had the couple light the unity candle, standing behind the candle and facing the people. 

    Just before they lighted the candle, the mothers lit their candles, and then walked up the main aisle lighting a taper at each aisle before returning their candles to the unity candle.  Meanwhile the tapers in the hands of all the people were getting lighted.  Then we turned off the lights in the church. At the same time the couple had two singers, a guy and a girl, sing The Prayer that Bocelli and Celine Dion made famous.  It was stupendous.  Even remembering sends chills down my back. 

     

     

    Tori 2

    Tori, "Have you seen Vivian?"

     

    An amusing footnote to the wedding took place.  A woman, who wanted to hire out as a wedding coordinator, asked if she could sit in.  “Sure, of course,” we said.  After the wedding a staff member asked the lady what she thought of the wedding.   “I just saw a wedding from hell,” she responded. 

    As a result of that, every time Rita and I would depart the rectory to perform a wedding in the church, Duffy would ask if we were doing another wedding from hell.  It became our handle and provided lots of laughs. 

    Thanks, Rita, you have been a fun and tremendous friend.  Rest well.  

     

    Zoe 2

    Our Beautiful Zoe says, "Have a good week, Everybody."