Sunday Homily, June 17, 2007, 11th in Ordinary Time

Readings: 2 Samuel 12; Psalm 32; Galatians 2, 16-21; Luke 7, 36-8, 3

Happy Father’s Day & Confirmation Day

2 Samuel.  What has taken place before the reading today is that King David, the Great, has taken another man’s wife and then had the man killed in battle to eliminate him. The wife is the famous Bathsheba and her son is to be the great Solomon. Nathan is the prophet who will condemn David.

We Confirm Excellence

This morning I would like to direct my remarks to Erica & Susie because it is their special day. 

Every year to maintain my pschological therapist license in TX I have to attend 20 hours of continuing education. Last week I attended an all day seminar for six hours.

In the afternoon the presenter was talking about achieving internal peace and wholeness.  He said he could probably come up with 20 qualities of a person who is peaceful and whole. However, he wanted to share his top five. Think you can figure out what the 5 are, maybe one or two? 

I’ll tell you what they are and I want to add one of my own. I’ll give them alphabetically.  His 5 are curiosity & hope, gratitude & love, & zest.  I add humor. 

Confirmation:

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Curiosity for you girls might come pretty easy right now in your lives. In fact, maybe your curiosity can get overwhelmed at times. You are in school. The day will come, however, when you will graduate. Then you can choose to read, to know different places by traveling there, to study different languages, to befriend people different from you. 

If you were not girls of hope you would not be here this morning. Your hope is that tomorrow will be an even better day than today, with more peace, fascinating people (which all are), and fun times.

You hear me talk always about focusing on my blessings. I do this to stimulte my gratitude to God, to People, to Rosemary.

When I focus on gratitude I find I can love more. Knowing you girls, you will love a lot of people and a lot of people will love you because of what neat people you are. Occasionally you will be challenged to love a person who makes your love a decision. I love the person despite the behavior.  Unconditional love: maybe does not exist except on rare occasions. It is, however, always a goal.

When you are grateful and loving, full of hope and curious, you will live your lives with zest.  You will love your lives and live to the fullest.  Life itself will be a gift.

Finally, I add humor.  Not only is it healthy to laugh.  It is esecially healthy to laugh at myself. How often do you girls laugh at events, people, yourselves?  Humor helps on those occasions when I fall flat on my face and make a fool of myself. 

You girls look around and you will see these qualities in your mom & dad, your friends, and lots of people here this morning. You girls have these qualities.  I know you & have seen them.  I confirm these qualities in you. The Community, the Catholic Church, and I, we are all proud of you.  Continue to be The Best.

Folks, back to you.  How are you going to confirm these girls in their excellence?

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    Readings: Acts 2, 1-11; Psalm 104; 1 Corinthians 12, 3-13, John 20,19-23, Pentecost.

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    Mothers’ Day Notes:

    • The idea originated, ca. 1870, with 3 women who had worked in hospitals during the Civil War. 
    • Julia Ward Howe (Battle Hymn), Anna Maria Reeves Jarvis, & her daughter, Anna Jarvis wanted a Mothers’ Day of Peace because of the horrors they had seen in the military hospitals.
    • Woodrow Wilson, 1914, established the national holiday.

    Pentecost Notes:

    • The word signifies 50, in this case, 50 days (or 7 weeks).
    • O.T.: the Hebrews celebrated the 50th day after the Passover (Egypt, first born sons killed by angel, Jewish sons spared, to threaten Pharaoh into letting the Hebrews depart Egypt).  The celebration eventually focused on agriculture & thanksgiving for the first fruits of the spring, and finally Thanksgiving for the Torah.
    • N.T.: Christians tied this occasion to the spiritual fruits of redemption, the Spirit, 50 days (or 7 Sundays/weeks) after the Resurrection.
    • Question: a 1 time only event or repeatable (e.g., Pentecostals)?

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    Mothers’ Day

    In Thursday’s USA Today there is an article by Paul Aronsohn about two women, his mother & his sister, Margot & Patti.

    When Patti was ca. 25 years old she was diagnosed with a rare disease that eventually would take her life, a disease that resembles M.S., but which does not seem to have a name or be very common.  This happened in ’89, almost 20 years ago.

    As the years have passed Patti slowly went down.  Originally active athletically & intellectually, she first had to walk with a cane.  Then she took up a walker, then moved into a wheel chair.  Finally, a few years ago, she became bed ridden.  To eat she has to use a feeding tube, into which something like Ensure is poured, yuk.

    During the years her three sibling and friends have helped her.  But the person who has helped her the most was her mother who was herself about 50 when the diagnosis was given. 

    Today Patti is about 45, totally bed bound, fed through a tube, can talk a bit, is conscious, and is awaiting the end.  Her mother, Margot, is mid-70’s, takes care of Patti full time in Florida where they moved because of the milder weather than New Jersey.  During the day Margot has help, but at night she sleeps beside Patti’s bed in case Patti needs anything.

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    What kind of love is this!!  Remember Jackie Ritter’s story about landing in Holland instead of Italy?

    Whom do you love this much?

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  • Sunday Homily, October 13, 2013, 28th Ordinary Time C

    Readings: 

    2 Kings 5, 14-17,  Naaman went down and plunged into the Jordan seven times.

    Psalm 98,  The Lord has revealed to the nations his saving power.

    2 Timothy 2, 8-13,  The word of God is not chained.

     Luke 17, 11-19  Where are the other 9?

     

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    2 Kings observations:

    Time of the events: 900 B.C.

    Time when written: 550 B.C., during the Babylonian captivity.

    Subject of 1 Kings: This book continues the history of the kings
    taking up with the death of King David and continuing through the story of
    David & Bathsheba's son Solomon.  He builds the famous Temple of Solomon.  After his death the
    nation divides into the northern & southern states, Israel in the north, Judah
    in the south (including Jerusalem;
    remember by the "J's").

     

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    Subject of 2 Kings: This book continues the history of the decline
    of the two states until Nebuchadnezzar of Babylon defeats the people. 


    Subject of our chapter 5 (read it all, it is delightful): one of
    the leaders of the Syrian-Babylonian army goes to visit the prophet of the day,
    Elisha.  Naaman, the general, has leprosy.  Note the twist of the
    story at the end.  Thanks is a theme of this selection and it sets the
    stage for Luke's story about gratitude.  Three characters: Naaman, his little slave girl, and Elisha.

     


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    Gratitude

     

    This morning I would like to talk about the theme coming from Luke’s
    story and the neat little story about Naaman, the general with leprosy.  Specifically, gratitude. 

    To put together a story, I looked back over the week for special gifts,
    events I am grateful for.  I thought of
    our ROMEO lunch Friday, of my 2 French sessions, and the fact that my nice skin
    doctor, Sara Scott, gave me a pass. 



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    Despite how grateful I am for these events, two others really stood out.

     

    Friday night Rosemary and I were privileged to be part of a special
    celebration.  It was the marriage of
    Kristin Urbanczyk and her fiance’ Josh 
    Eddings.  You all know that I take
    delight in celebrating weddings and get to do quite a lot, especially now that
    I am not officially Catholic.


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    As precious as all of them are, it is a unique jewel of an event when I
    get to celebrate the wedding of a person whom I have known since
    childhood.   Kristin I have known for maybe 18-20
    years.  She used to throw water balloons at
    me when she was a supposedly nice little girl.

     

    Folks, it does not get better than last night for me. 


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    Thursday morning before this event took place, Rosemary and I went for one
    of our early morning bike rides down to and around The Lake, our beloved White
    Rock.  At one point we are riding south
    on the path at the edge of the lake and along East Lather Drive.  We have just passed in front of the
    Arboretum.

     

    As we approach the bridge just before Garland Road, the tarmac path curves
    left then right and is wet from earlier sprinklers.  I am about 30 years ahead of Rosemary.  I go up on the bridge and for some reason I
    look back.


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    What I see scares me to death. 
    Rosemary is sitting on the path, her bike down, and people are running
    to her side.  I turn around and race  back. 
    She has slid out on the wet tarmac. 
    She has hit the back of her head on the path but not broken her
    helmet.  She says she is okay and will
    walk on to the boat house over near the dam. 
    I race back to the car, return, and tell her I really would like for her
    to call our M.D. right there in the car.

    Later he checks her out and says nothing is wrong.  Just bruises and sore ribs. 

    Folks, I am so grateful and cannot give thanks enough.


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     A few observations.

     

    First.  The temptation is to think I am one of the
    nine who did not return to thank Jesus. Yes probably & No, also.   I would suggest
    again: we are both.  Lots of times we forget to thank.  Lots of times
    we thank. 

    Second.  There could be symbolism in the nine and
    one.  Perhaps I am nine tenths ungrateful and one tenth grateful.  Is this a pretty normal proportion? A lot of times, however, I am not so much ungrateful
    as just insensitive, totally unaware.  Perhaps the lepers who did not
    return just figured they were lucky and went on their way.  The other guy
    realized he had been given a gift by that stranger and wanted to respond.

    Jesus tells him his faith has saved him.  I would
    suggest that his gratitude transformed him.


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    Third.  How is it possible to rearrange the
    percentages?  Practice.  Practice make perfect. Rosemary & I have a favorite little practice that we do
    every night.  I've mentioned it before. We ask each other what were the blessings
    of the day.  I recommend this. I even recommend it for sitting alone,
    while savoring the first coffee in the morning, driving or riding the DART to
    work & back, getting ready to go to school.  Simple question: what
    were my blessings today, yesterday, or this week?

     

    You may start now: what were your three biggest blessings
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  • Trinity Sunday, June 7, 2020,

    Rosemary's Blessing:

    O God, we thank you for the fact that you have inspired men and women in all nations and in all cultures. We call you different names: some call you Allah; some call you Elohim; some call you Jehovah; some call you Brahma; some call you the Unmoved Mover. But we know that these are all names for one and the same God. Grant that we will follow you and become so committed to your way and your kingdom that we will be able to establish in our lives and in this world a brother and sisterhood, that we will be able to establish here a kingdom of understanding, where men and women will live together as brothers and sisters and respect the dignity and worth of every human being. In the name and spirit of Jesus. Amen.

     

    Taken from The prayers of Martin Luther King Jr.  by John Dear appearing in the National Catholic Reporter, January 15, 2013

     

     

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    Readings:

    Exodus, 34, 4-6, 8-9, The Lord, gracious and merciful, rich in kindness & fidelity. 

    Daniel (Psalm) 3, Glory & Praise forever.

    2 Corinthians  13, 11-13, The Grace of the Lord Jesus and the love of God and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you.

    John 3, 16-18,  God so loved the world…

     

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    For Jim Esparza, the son of Frank & Mary, who just passed Saturday with sepsis;   For all the medical personnel struggling to treat the tsunami of sick people, in particular, locally, Cindy's staff at Presby, Dallas and at Frisco Presby, the mother of Harper and Betsy, Kendle, working in labor & delivery;   For Jim Esparza, the son of Frank & Mary;   For Joe Hogan with cancer;  For Loretta's aunt Alicia;   For Ryan, Rosemary's nephew, who had surgery; For Bill Hammond,    For Sydney;  & For Sir Charlie;  Shonda's mom;   for Michelle;  For a friend, a neighbor, & a doctor, Karen, with brain cancer; For Rick Turner searching for a kidney donor, Type O neg; For Meredith, cancer free.;    For Hue;  For John O'Donnell;    For Dee, and for her daughter, Lisa; For John Schanot's continued health;  For Anthony & Sabrina;    For a young man who is suffering from depression;  John Cade's mother in law, Kalliopi Piskiouli and Lambrini;  Virginia Mattingly

     

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    Birthdays:  Shonda (last Week), Deacon Mike ordained '78, Bill Ekes, Alison DeGenova 

    Anniversary:  The McClurgs, Diane & Kent, 48 years, & Diane's knee replacement this week.

     

     

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    Homily by John Stack

    Here it is, folks, that line again, the one that says The Lord is gracious and merciful, never gets angry and abounding in love.  That summarizes for me who our God is.

    I want to talk this morning about a black lady I knew when I was teaching at Jesuit '65-'68.  She was one of the first important black persons in my life who exemplified this description of God.  You ever heard of Juanita Craft?  A big lady with a big voice and a bigger heart.  She was elected to the Dallas City Council after I had departed Dallas.  She came to my '71 ordination in a police car at the old St. Rita.

    Juanita taught me at least 3 lessons.   First she taught me how to take charge and get things done with grace.  This came about because she invited me to join her and about 25 young members of the Dallas NAACP on a greyhound type bus trip to the annual NAACP convention in Atlantic City.  I must admit that I gulped a time or two, then accepted her invitation.  I was the only white guy on that bus.  Juanita charged each of those kids to be the best  & clean that bus every time we got off that bus.

    I was impressed as a fellow bus driver at Jesuit.  Never had I instructed my Jesuit kids on the bus to clean up.  I did that after.  Because of Juanita I realized I could organize a planting of 400 trees, put together a group of friends to visit Yosemite, and accept an invitation to work in East Africa.

    Because Juanita was abounding in love, she taught me how to ask help from others.  Therefore I wrote to my Jesuit confreres at Georgetown and asked if they could shuttle two dozen black kids around D.C. for a day.  Not only did they supply about 5 cars and guides, they invited the whole bunch of us to dinner in the Jesuit dining room that evening.  The Jesuits were gracious and merciful

     

    You will never guess what I did when I returned to Dallas from Atlantic City.   I accepted Juanita's invitation to move into her little house in South Dallas and help her with the NAACP youth group that summer.  I knew then, Black Lives Do Matter.

     

    How do Black Lives matter to you?

     

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    Anniversaries:  McClurgs, 48 years & Diane has a knee replacement this week.

     

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  • Sunday Homily 2-7-10, 5th Ordinary Time

    Readings: Isaiah 6, 1-8; Psalm 138, In the Sight of the Angels I will Sing Your Praises, Lord; 1 Corinthians 15,1-11; Luke 5, 1-11. 

    Fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time – Reflections on the Readings

     

    A brief few words about our first reading from Chapter 6 of Isaiah.  This reading could in fact easily begin the book of Isaiah.  It gives us the call of Isaiah.  King Uzziah has died after reigning for over 40 years, 40 years of great security and prosperity. 

       

    We are told of a vision, which the prophet sees of God, and notice the threefold repeating of the word Holy.  Only God is holy, all holiness.  The prophet proclaims that he is doomed because mere humans cannot look at God. 

     

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    In our second reading, from Paul, he reminds us that he too saw the Risen Lord, and his response, like Peter’s in our gospel reading, it is the same, unworthiness.

      

     The readings all show up the same response from humans when faced with God.  And in each case God is able to reach thru the response and draw the person into a relationship of discipleship. 

     

     

     

     

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    What happens when we come face to face with God?  In each of our three readings today this is what we hear about.  For Isaiah it is a vision of God who is Holy, holy holy! And Isaiah’s reaction is similar to Peter’s and later to Paul’s, one of unworthiness in the face of God’s goodness.  But God is able to reach thru that tendency to turn away and invite all three into a relationship of discipleship.

     

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    Our presence here today also comes from some kind of encounter with God, maybe not as Isaiah’s vision of God surrounded with angels, or Peter’s encounter thru the miraculous catch of fish, or Paul’s vision of Light, but in some way God has reached into our lives, whether thru the action of our parents having us baptized, or thru an encounter with someone as an adult, which caused us to want to be here, we each got up this morning and among all of the options available to us, we chose to be here! 

       

    And as we celebrate our Liturgy together we too will acknowledge our own unworthiness, several times.  We start with our penitential rite, in the Our Father we ask God to forgive us, in the Lamb of God we sing “Have mercy on us” and before communion we say “I am not worthy”.  But God has managed to reach thru to us, which is why we are here. 

     

    But now the question we need to start answering is “what does it mean to be a disciple?”  God enters my life, so what? 

     

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    Let’s take a simple example.  When two people become friends, their lives are different as a result, and depending on the kind of friendship, so too the effect on their lives.  When Gayle and I met, I was single and living in an apartment in Carrollton, and she was single and living in her home in Highland Village.  When we decided to be married, we both left the comfort of our previous lives and set off for California.  This had a big impact not just on our lives but also on the lives of our kids!!  I am sure each one of you can tell stories of how your lives were changed as a result of different relationships you entered into. 

     

    So too with our relationship with God.  What is the change?  What does God want in a relationship?  For Isaiah, it was to be a prophet to the people of Judah, for Peter it was to become a “fisher of men” and for Paul, it was to tell the whole world, or as much of it as he could get to in those days, about God. 

     

    Our instructions are equally clear, Love God and love one another.  How am I doing in that area?

      

    In every relationship, one thing that has to happen is that we have to get to know each other.  Anna in the musical “The King and I” sings that lovely song “getting to know you”, and we too need to continue to ‘get to know God’.  We do so thru our presence here, by listening to his Word.  In any relationship, we will also go out for a meal.  And thru sharing food, we get to know each other better. 

      

    And so we are here today celebrating a Memorial Meal with God.  We are reminded during the Eucharistic Prayer to “Do this in Memory of me”.  It is another way of our staying in touch with God.  As a people, we have heard the Church Bell, and responded by coming together as a People, to Listen to God’s Word and to “remember Jesus’ Last Meal with His disciples. 

      

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    What does all this mean for us today  We are called to be a people of Hope, of Love and Forgiveness, a kind of light of Joy to the World. 

     

    In the words of St Francis:

    Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.
    Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
    where there is injury, pardon;
    where there is doubt, faith;
    where there is despair, hope;
    where there is darkness, light;
    and where there is sadness, joy.

    O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek
    to be consoled as to console;
    to be understood as to understand;
    to be loved as to love.
    For it is in giving that we receive;
    it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
    and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life. Amen

     

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  • Sunday Homily, April 19, 3rd 2015, Easter, B

    Readings:

    Acts 3,  13-15, 17-19,  God raised him from the dead.

    Psalm 4,    Lord, let you face shine on us.

    1 John 2, 1-5,   He is expiation for our sins.

     Luke  24, 35-48,  Peace be with you.

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    The Readings:  Stack has introduced you to the author of Luke and Acts being the same person or compiler. They were probably written between 70 and 85 AD so a couple of generations after Jesus.  We don’t know the author of John’s Gospel and letters, but they were written at least another generation later. 

     

    Homily 3rd Sunday of Easter 04/19/15, John Cade

    I’ve been looking for a chance to share with you an editorial in the Dallas Morning News from New Year’s Eve.  The topic is gratitude. So that’s where I’m at, and that’s what I want to share with you.

    In Stack’s blog this Thursday he quotes from Winnie the Pooh. Pooh asks, “What day is it?”  “It’s today,” answers Piglet.  And Pooh responds, “My favorite day.”

     

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    The New Year’s Eve editorial refers to a multi-year research project at the University of California, titled “Expanding the Science and Practice of Gratitude.” This research turned up many benefits that grow out of gratitude, such as: a stronger immune system; fewer illnesses and aches and pains; better sleep; greater resilience; reduced anxiety and depression; and more joy, optimism and happiness.  The editorial also speaks to how we develop gratitude.  I made copies; there should be enough for each family unit to take one and there may be extras.

    The last two weeks Stack talked about Easter events in our lives, events that give new life, fuller life, and joy of spirit.  Gratitude naturally flows from Easter events and from all the blessings we can count every day.  I do not believe there is anyone on this planet who has not experienced an Easter event.   We know that noticing an Easter event, and accepting its offer of new life and joy, can be difficult. I’ve caught myself not noticing such events or not being fully grateful for these blessings and gifts.  

    Recently my daughter Joey came by with my grandson, Leo (age 6).  A couple of years ago Joey took a part time job and had been experiencing a desire to go beyond what it offered her in income, and especially in satisfaction.  Without making a formal job search, she was contacted by a company in Austin wanting her to head up a planned expansion to Dallas.

      They eventually offered her a percentage of the company if she took the job.  Another company in Richardson also found her and offered her a position.  When she approached her current employer and told him she had offers and was planning to take one of them, he begged her to stay and go full time. 

     

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    Joey’s Easter event, her experience of new life, was the realization that her fears about job security were unfounded and she could choose from among the three positions.  This meant more security as a mom and more confidence and satisfaction as an employee. 

    Leo, while still in the developmental stage that includes magical thinking, is developing his sense of competence.  He loves playing all kinds of games and he makes them competitive.  In the short time they were at our house, Leo initiated several games with me: first, racing cars on the floor, then Black Jack which helps him learn to count, then Shoots and Ladders, then Parcheesi. 

    It was a delight to see his face light up over his competence at these games.  He clearly was experiencing new life and joy in experiencing his competence, and his gratitude and joy showed all over his face. 

    One of my Easter events was in 2008 when I was in hospital for heart surgery.  Lambrini and I had hired a construction team to convert an area of our home into an office for my therapy practice.  At one point the guys were not doing the work properly.

                                                                                                                 

     

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    Entry to St. Charles College, Grand Coteau, LA


    An architect friend, hearing about this problem and knowing I was in hospital, simply went over to our home and took charge of the project, telling them what to do over.  When Lambrini told me what he had done, I was so moved by this I was crying with her. 

    A nurse must have seen me crying, since they started an anti-depressant and I had the most horrible nightmares I had ever had.  I asked them to please stop this treatment, that I was not depressed, I was emotional and crying because of my immense gratitude. 

    Something we now know is that we can train our brains in the habit of noticing and accepting Easter events and in having gratitude.

    Pooh said “today …is… my favorite day.” 

    My question is how are you practicing the habit of noticing Easter events and the joy of gratitude?