Sunday Homily, November 2, 2014, All Saints

Readings:

Wisdom  3, 1-9,  The souls of the just are in the hand of God.

Psalm 23,   The Lord is my shepherd, there is nothing I shall want.

1 John 3, 1-3,  See what love the Father has bestowed on us.

John 6, 37-40,  I will not reject anyone.

 

Emma 2

Emma says, "Hi, Everybody, Welcome."


 

All Souls Day observations–

Let me give you a bit of history and the thinking behind this All Souls' Day.  Five observations: the theology, purgatory-limbo, a legend, pre-Christian practices, and today.

1.  The Theology.  All Souls' Day is part of a package with All Saints.  The idea is: on All Saints' Day we honor all those who are enjoying the beatific vision, that is, heaven, the saints.  On All Souls' Day we honor those who have died but have not reached heaven because they had penance to do. 

We are talking mortal & venial sin here.  If the person died with mortal sin, they are you know where. Those with venial sins have to go through purification and purging, which brings us to All Souls' Day and purgatory.

 

Georgie

And Georgie, too, "Come in, Everybody."

 

2.  Purgatory & limbo.  People ended up in purgatory to purify themselves with suffering, before being allowed into heaven.  Limbo was for whom?  It was for people, especially children who died without being baptized.  They remained there how long?  Forever.  Can you imagine a baby there or even in the old purgatory?

At least the Catholic Church recently acknowledged that the limbo idea was bogus.  The pope said it does not exist and never did.  Though many consider purgatory to be in the same class, it still exists.  Want to know how we know?  A previous pope was offering indulgences.  The indulgence is for the soul in purgatory.  It speeds up the process.  There are partial & total indulgences.  We can win them for these souls and get them out or we can win them for ourselves. 

For instance, on the last feast of Peter & Paul Rome offered an indulgence if you visited a church named after one or both of these two, and you recited a prescribed menu of prayers. 

 

Zoe

And Zoe says, "It's fun here."

 

3.  The legend.   It happened around 1000 A.D. that a monk, St. Idolo, from the French monastery of Cluny was shipwrecked on a desolate island as he returned from a pilgrimage to the Holy Land, i.e., Israel.  On the island he met a poor hermit.  The hermit told him that among the rocks was a crevice from which came the anguished voices of the many suffering in purgatory.  Likewise, listening carefully you could hear the devils cursing that living people were speeding up the sufferings of these souls by praying and doing penance for them. 

Some time after this, i.e., 1000 A.D., the Cluny Monastery established an All Souls' Day.  Ca. 1300 Rome followed suit.  

 

Buddy 2

Buddy asks, "Any cupcakes left over this morning?"

 

4.  Pre-Christian times.  There is evidence that at least in Mexico numerous tribes had a day or period when the departed ancestors were honored.  The purpose was to honor them, remember their example, and to communicate with them.  Today in Mexico & in Hispanic families the Day of the Dead is still celebrated.  This custom has been celebrated for 3,000 years.

5.  Today.  Limbo has been discarded by Rome and many scholars consider purgatory a dinosaur idea from antiquity.  Consequently, All Souls' Day celebrates Samantha, my mom & dad, Rosemary's mom & dad, and all our loved ones pictured on the stage.  All Saints' Day handles the canonized.   Hell is also considered today a mental concept, not real.

So we say, What special blessing did you receive from one of these people pictured or whom you remember in your heart?

 

Arianna 2

Arianna, another one of Our Saints.

 

Today's Saint

I would like to talk today about a saint for the day.  Every day has its saint. I want to talk about one.

Ever hear of a 67 year old black guy named Johnny Lindsay?  I read about him in the Dallas Morning News this summer.   Another of the army of exonerees. 

Johnny spent 26 years in prison for a rape he did not commit. He got out in 2008.  Can you believe that, 26 years!  Oh, but how he had grown.  

 

Richard F.

Richard Froebe painting The House.

 

He came out of prison without anger, bitterness, or desire for revenge.  In fact, he came out with a desire to do one thing positive for someone.  He had reached that acceptance state where peace lives.  

Ever since Johnny was 12 years old music had touched his spirit.  What kept his spirit alive those 26 years was music.  He sang in a choir the prisoners formed.  He said music was his saving grace and he dreamed all those years of finally being exonerated one day and doing one thing good for others.

 

Richard E.

Richard Eshelbrenner doing fence removal ai the yard of The House.

 

At his release he was given $2 million.  So his wife, Sherita, and he decided to actually take piano lessons.   He met Debbie Beach and she became an inspiration for him.  She taught them and shared her dream to have her own music school.  Johnny & Sherita bought her all the keyboards she needed to open her school. 

Has Johnny come out of prison eager for revenge?  Does he hate?  Is he angry?   I think I would be.  However, he, like so many, many of these  exonerated men is at peace. 

 

Jackie

Jackie painting The House, her house with Rick.


Even this past Wedneswday, two men were exonerated and released after 14 years in prison.  They are not angry and not looking for revenge.   Johnny loves and accepts others.  He is at peace, with others and with himself. 

With whom are you not at peace?  What do you need to do to attain the peace Johnny has?

Reference:  Dallas Morning News, June 23, 2014. 

 

Malphurs

The Malphurs, Arianna with her parents, Ryan (an old friend) and Nicole.

 

 

 

 

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    Readings:  Ezekiel 34, 11-17; Psalm 23 (Good); 1 Corinthians 15, 20-28;  Matthew 25, 31-46 

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    Ezekiel:  I've mentioned how Ezekiel is one of the Big 3 Prophets, #3 after Isaiah & Jeremiah.  I also mentioned how he lived smack dab in the middle of one of the two or three biggest tragedies of the Jewish people, the Babylonian captivity, from say 600 to 550 BCE.  He was there.

    In American history we can look back and identify special presidential leaders, Washington, Lincoln, Roosevelt.  They came forward in crisis times. 

    Ezekiel was this type of leader in Jewish history.  He saw what had happened to other Jews of the the northern province of Israel (Jerusalem is in the southern province of Judah) after they had been carted off as slaves after a defeat by the Assyrians.  They intermarried and simply disappeared in the DNA of the middle east.

    Ezekiel is in Babylon and is determined that his community would not lose its identity.  He did three things to help maintain the spirit of the community: he emphasized  1. observance of the Sabbath, 2. kosher diet, and 3. circumcision.

    Eventually after ca. 50 years the community still was a cohesive unit and it returned to rebuild Jerusalem, at least most of them.  The Jews are one of the few peoples to be defeated and scattered, and still return to their original homeland.  They remained there until the Romans defeated them in 70 C.E., returning when?  1948, after the Holocaust.

    Today's reading comes to us from an Ezekiel captive in Babylon, and has Ezekiel promising the people a return, a brighter day after the captivity.

    Dillon 11-14

    Dillon's Dollar

    Last Sunday something special happened in our community.  We had been talking about the family we are planning to adopt for Christmas, the mother with the three little girls and a baby on the way.  Beth Robinson had described how we would buy gifts and supplies for the whole family. 

    The Mass ended and people were standing around talking and taking coffee & donuts.  At some point one of our special kids came up to Beth, said he would like to help the family with the little girls, said he had a dollar, took it out of his pocket, and gave it to her.  Guess who it was.  Dillon.

    I asked if I could share this story of Dillon's dollar, because it speaks to two themes I would like to pick up this week, the theme of the Matthew's gospel about giving food to the hungry & drink to the thirsty, and the theme of Thanksgiving. 

    First, with Thanksgiving coming this week it is appropriate and enriching to look back over the year to count our blessings.  What is your Blessing of the Year?  What are your three biggest blessings this year?  Write them down.  Ask the people you have Thanksgiving dinner with what is their biggest blessing of the year. 

    I can give you my three: namely, 1. the exhilaration I felt in riding in the Hotter 'N Hell 100, something I had dreamed of doing for some years; 2. the consolation & joy I take from our weekly community gatherings with our Dillons, which is another dream each week; 3. and my biggest, the marvelous relationship I have (I think!) with Rosemary, something I never even dreamed would be part of my future. 

    In connection with focusing on our blessings of the year, we want to present again this year our Blessing Tree.  We will arrange it a little different than last year.  We will have the tree.  We invite you to write your Blessing of the Year on a piece of paper and place it in a basket near the tree.  We will focus on this the next two Sundays, the Sunday just after Thanksgiving, when I expect a lot of folks will be away and the following Sunday, Dec. 7, when we will have the brunch, blood drive and food drive.   I will publish anonymously a couple  of blessings each week until Christmas Eve Mass.

    The second idea I would like to touch is the big separation of the goats and sheep, one on the left, the other on the right.  Goats and lefties like myself get a bad deal in this story.  Three short observations.

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    a.  Beware of either or spirituality here.  I'm either a sheep or a goat.  We are all goats!  (Some more than others!) 

    b.  Beware of letting fear enter your spirit and attempt to do it all, feed, give drink, clothe, visit the imprisoned. 

    c.  Let this story be a gentle reminder to help out those less blessed, to chip in your Dillon's Dollar.

    In summary, therefore, what is you blessing of the year and how are you chipping in your dollar?

    Picture 1: Wendy, Shonda, Ray, Celeste

    Picture 2: Dillon

    Picture 3:  Birthdays–Megan, Diane, John, & Ron

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